Samolaogun:
That is how her father died before his time, I cannot allow that to be my case. When you are too understanding or calm with women, they take advantage and misbehave. I cannot have a woman parading as an ashewo in my house making a mockery of me. I’ve reached my boiling point.

Ponder this :- Once they start, they never stop.

Once your wife starts disrespecting you, she will never stop and the same woman who cleans your shoe today will attack you tomorrow

OP,
You are almost 10yrs older than your wife. At the age she is now, you were just getting married. You married someone that had not gotten all her youthful exuberance out of her system. This is what you now have to deal with.

This is why some women marry in their 30’s because they really need to live that life. It’s not about a certificate, job and car. It’s about life’s experiences, good and bad. It also seems like you are the very reserved type and mostly stuck on how much more mature or older you are.

The thing with men married to women who they are much older than, is that they have to act younger. Dress and look as young as their wives. Go clubbing with them and be able to relate to vain things . To catch a monkey you have to act like a monkey. When a woman is looking for attention all over the place, it means she is not getting attention from the husband. Are you the type that works too much or thinks some of her interests are beneath you? Please adjust.

Though for everyone, we all feel nice when we are wanted. Even unsolicited advances sometimes give an ego boost . As you say, you are older, all of 43. Use wisdom to manage your home. Try to get her to plan some time for you both to spend together. Slowly you would start spending time together and more frequently.

No matter how stupid her requests to spend time with you is, just do it. It may be club, your children’s activities, owambe, or even baby shower. Just go and make those memories. I don’t think she’s cheating or she’s a bad person. Women who wear hijab also cheat on their husbands. So, it’s not by dressing. You can also go shopping for her and pick out dresses you like or think look nice on her.

Take it easy and please do not cheat or divorce your wife. Simple communication and compromise is needed here. You married a woman that is your type. This one is annoying you now, when you divorce her you will subconsciously seek out her type again. You are quiet so you married someone more outgoing than you! With a quiet person like you, Na dead zone and such relationships will not last for you. Don’t threaten anyone with divorce as you may just find out that you are not an angel either.

LordKO:
@OP

It's obvious that you married another man's wife/the wrong woman. A true wife's invaluableness (to her husband, a sane husband of course) lies in the attributes of selflessness, meekness and sweetness - unfortunately she possesses only sweetness which isn't enough to guarantee you peace of mind. And a virtuous woman knows the difference between dressing classy and dressing slutty. So, I support your decision.

Ignore anyone who'll tell you that insecurity is worrying you.

God bless you... Some of them running their mouth like rain water here would have collapsed due to HBP if they're in the shoes of the poster

Consult with her family members to talk to her.

mysticgal:


yeye Dey worey you

i thought you supported someone who accused OP of insecurity... So why abuse someone who wants to confirm what OP has said

baby124:
OP,
You are almost 10yrs older than your wife. At the age she is now, you were just getting married. You married someone that had not gotten all her youthful exuberance out of her system. This is what you now have to deal with.

This is why some women marry in their 30’s because they really need to live that life. It’s not about a certificate, job and car. It’s about life’s experiences, good and bad. It also seems like you are the very reserved type and mostly stuck on how much more mature or older you are.

The thing with men married to women who they are much older than, is that they have to act younger. Dress and look as young as their wives. Go clubbing with them and be able to relate to vain things . To catch a monkey you have to act like a monkey. When a woman is looking for attention all over the place, it means she is not getting attention from the husband. Are you the type that works too much or thinks some of her interests are beneath you? Please adjust.

Though for everyone, we all feel nice when we are wanted. Even unsolicited advances sometimes give an ego boost . As you say, you are older, all of 43. Use wisdom to manage your home. Try to get her to plan some time for you both to spend together. Slowly you would start spending time together and more frequently.

No matter how stupid her requests to spend time with you is, just do it. It may be club, your children’s activities, owambe, or even baby shower. Just go and make those memories. I don’t think she’s cheating or she’s a bad person. Women who wear hijab also cheat on their husbands. So, it’s not by dressing. You can also go shopping for her and pick out dresses you like or think look nice on her.

Take it easy and please do not cheat or divorce your wife. Simple communication and compromise is needed here. You married a woman that is your type. This one is annoying you now, when you divorce her you will subconsciously seek out her type again. You are quiet so you married someone more outgoing than you! With a quiet person like you, Na dead zone and such relationships will not last for you. Don’t threaten anyone with divorce as you may just find out that you are not an angel either.

im pleased that nairaland still has mature female folks here... The way some girls reacted to what OP state was so annoying

daddytime:
If it smells like shiit bro, trust me it can't be burger, its a 100% shiit

Been there seen all...

Never under-estimate your gut instincts. Thats how nature and God speaks to you.

Was blessed with a slut for a wife once upon a time, i simply took it in my stride and pretended God was probably dealing with me for my past deeds by omission and commission. God was so merciful not to have allowed any kids between us, that would have been my undoing.

In hindsight, i actually saw the handwritings but my senses were blocked to teach me a lesson. Woman wey her mama born 6 children all for different men. Na oyibo i dey talk about o. Man don see things...

But when i do her shege...till date I know she will never recover from how I served her back. Na TV and newspapers she from dey see me now... Praise the Lord...

These days i use every bit of my life lessons to teach and educate people with zero inhibitions.

If you want, i can give you a recipe for a good dosage on her with no physical harm whatsoever. Na just the kids wey dey between una go be the only stress.

Fish wey don dry no dey let bend again.
Rubbish...

Samolaogun

What transpired between you and your ex wife and how did you handle it.

sinaj:
Lwkmd

Isnt this what some men are praying for? To get a wife that will remain sexy and goodlooking after child birth.
If it was the opposite you would have still opened a thread too.
One man meat is another's poison sha

Oga work on your insecurities jore or better still wait till you catch her redhanded before you give yourself hbp.

it is not about insecurity... Some women go beyond the limit forgetting they are married

baby124:
OP,
You are almost 10yrs older than your wife. At the age she is now, you were just getting married. You married someone that had not gotten all her youthful exuberance out of her system. This is what you now have to deal with.

This is why some women marry in their 30’s because they really need to live that life. It’s not about a certificate, job and car. It’s about life’s experiences, good and bad. It also seems like you are the very reserved type and mostly stuck on how much more mature or older you are.

The thing with men married to women who they are much older than, is that they have to act younger. Dress and look as young as their wives. Go clubbing with them and be able to relate to vain things . To catch a monkey you have to act like a monkey. When a woman is looking for attention all over the place, it means she is not getting attention from the husband. Are you the type that works too much or thinks some of her interests are beneath you? Please adjust.

Though for everyone, we all feel nice when we are wanted. Even unsolicited advances sometimes give an ego boost . As you say, you are older, all of 43. Use wisdom to manage your home. Try to get her to plan some time for you both to spend together. Slowly you would start spending time together and more frequently.

No matter how stupid her requests to spend time with you is, just do it. It may be club, your children’s activities, owambe, or even baby shower. Just go and make those memories. I don’t think she’s cheating or she’s a bad person. Women who wear hijab also cheat on their husbands. So, it’s not by dressing. You can also go shopping for her and pick out dresses you like or think look nice on her.

Take it easy and please do not cheat or divorce your wife. Simple communication and compromise is needed here. You married a woman that is your type. This one is annoying you now, when you divorce her you will subconsciously seek out her type again. You are quiet so you married someone more outgoing than you! With a quiet person like you, Na dead zone and such relationships will not last for you. Don’t threaten anyone with divorce as you may just find out that you are not an angel either.

Compare your statement to the above.



sinaj:
Lwkmd grin

Isnt this what some men are praying for? To get a wife that will remain sexy and goodlooking after child birth.
If it was the opposite you would have still opened a thread too.
One man meat is another's poison sha grin

Oga work on your insecurities jore or better still wait till you catch her redhanded before you give yourself hbp.

truthsayer009:
OP, if i get married and have what you have right now I would totally be happy.

10 years of marriage and your wife still looks really good to 100% is rare. You need to ask God for forgiveness because you dont deserve what you have.

Even if your wife wants to play around or go back in shape, it should motivate you to join her in the Gym, get yourself in shape too. Go out with her to events, look like a power couple.

You guys always admire Beyonce when you see her. You think it was by Juju she maintained her figure after 2 kids, imagine if she was with Men like you?

What makes you think she doesnt want to take care of your children.

why don't you join her in looking good?

This is the type of woman he wants "quiet and reserved "



Oga my problem is not her looking good as you can see I praised her for it.

My problem is her scandalous behaviour, partying every minute, too friendly behaviour and extreme seductive dressing. No man will be comfortable with such behaviour. As it is, I just want her out of the house. Do not envy what is shallow, as you see me so I’m dreaming of a quiet decent woman who will give me peace of mind over this scandalous show off wife that I have at the moment. Be careful what you wish for.

Braaa can you let me be, go to the fridge and get the chilled pill

stormborn28:
i thought you supported someone who accused OP of insecurity... So why abuse someone who wants to confirm what OP has said

mysticgal:
Braaa can you let me be, go to the fridge and get the chilled pill

mediocracy

Okay bye

stormborn28:
mediocracy

emmaodet:
Bros, i will advice you to divorce her for your health and peace of mind.

HE WHO MARRY AND DIVORCE, LIVES TO MARRY ANOTHER DAY

So divorce Don become bread and butter.

Breaststroke:
OP,

I perfectly understand you and I don't think you're being insecure, my cousin and a childhood friend are the same way as your wife and it bothers me.

My childhood pal has always been a high flying, slay queen long before the term 'slay queen' hit us. Even her mother once said calm down, you want to walk before you crawl.

She's married now but there are rumours of her dating one of her organization's top clients.

Sorry I don't have any real advice other than to say, you're not insecure or crazy for wanting more and better from your spouse.

you are objective to the matter... I believe it is because you had personal experience about it... As a female, the first thing majority of you always say is "insecurity ".. I have argued this out here on several occasions.. That one can as well say God has insecurity issues too since He said have no other god except Him..

To be sincere people have failed in reasoning

i owe you an outing for this comment. Rare to find ladies who would point out the stark truth even when it stares them right in the faceespecially for matters concerning them.

pocohantas:
Did the people calling OP insecure go through the opening post at all?

If all he stated there is the truth, then his concerns are valid. People should stop accusing their partners of insecurity, as a way of getting off with bad behaviour.

lilbest4:
log in her Instagram and Facebook on your phone it is very easy, I can teach you if you want and if you have iPhone, login her WhatsApp on your safari browser

can you help with your knowledge

seunmohmoh:
Her friends are probably telling her that she is young and she should slay, the kind of friends you mention confirms that.

In her friend's circle, is she the only married person? Probably yes.

Sit her down and ask her if she wants divorce as you are tired of her attitude not her.

10 years isn't a joke o.

im also suspecting her

TempleHouse:
The disadvantage of marrying younger and inexperienced is that your wife had not fully experience the youthful side of her when she married you.
The teenage experience of self conscious around the other opposite sex has just began to increase and her testosterone is high seeing younger woman around guys.
You have to prepare to upped your job in the room to satisfy her libido for now.
She will soon 'get-tired' if 'well-fired" !

You have spoken my mind.

That's what you get when you only aspire for ladies that can socialize not knowing they are not good as a wife.

Bros you are a weakling from the get go. This have nothing to do with age or time. A man that can't curtel his woman excess is not worth to be called a man. You said she was showing these signs and you over looked it for the good, which I presume the sex ws good and her good looks abi? Nothing disgusts me than weak ass men. You are not rooted spiritually, physically and mentally to be that woman's husband. She was chipping it in bit by bit and you kept on swallowing every poo until she has grown strong enough wings to fly about. now you want to hold her down.
This is why bad guys gets the best and most loyal women while the weaklings get retired oloshos. Theu take charge and never tolerate nonsense.
Before you call yourself a husband you must have grown the balls and character to lead your home. Una dey irritate me I swear. From your post, it's obvious you can't even teach your wife anything, talk more lead ypur house. what or why and how in the world would a woman not give her kids proper aytention and still can walk and misbehave anyhow in my house? dem never for your father well. Guy like you have nothing to teach or lead your family to, but will be running to wife people's daughters. As for me you have to man up. I don't ascribe to beating her but sometimes it takes a fee very hot slaps to jerk a loose woman back to her senses. Akmetimes yoi have got to ahow a woman that yiou love yes i love you to death but hell no i wont tolerate nonsense. infact if you walk out to that party dint come back here. if that party is better torr imortant than our kids. please go and not comeback. or set boundaries. If she crosses them out comes the beast mode. and watch s she crave for that nice version of you. Imagine someone suggesting he should go clubbing? oga don't mess with fire o. if you must go that route make sure you can out dance, flirt and hotter than guys in that club. E be like sey ypu never see wherr man carry him babe come club got drunk fought cos one finer bobo dey eye and end up fighting and leavung with the fine bobo abi? You have to bring ya A game to the level even her friends will want to bed you. Bleep the hell outbof her everyday if neccessay, set your rules. or do it the old fashion way, give am belle every 1year until she loose guard, that's how she will realize she is throwing a gem for just rocks.
As per all Those am modern weaklings. here is some piece of native wisdom. Your forefathers didn't follow these rules for nothing.
1. Never marry a woman whose is raised by a mother thats not in her husbands or fathers house.
2. never mary a woman who doesn't have fear for her parents or elders. I mean a woman that has no one she fears. Cos when her mumu start who go call am to order?
3. Never force, buy or bribe a woman to marry you. marry someone that wants to be married. cos what you beg to get, you will beg to
keep.
4. Finally grow some balls. Stop being feminine you are a man, a man leads his home spiritually, financially , mentality and physically. You must have capacity to teach and lead your wife and children, you point to where your family should be headed not the other way around.
call me a cave man. but no babe of mine will cheat in my face. bad as e bad na to bleep all her friends. when a woman know say you love am well , but wherr her were end na their your own dey lay start, she go adjust. Her friends will be like let's go party, and she by her self will be yelling them ypu wan make My oga kee me? noo make una dey go.

Bros you are a weakling from the get go. This have nothing to do with age or time. A man that can't curtel his woman excess is not worth to be called a man. You said she was showing these signs and you over looked it for the good, which I presume the sex ws good and her good looks abi? Nothing disgusts me than weak ass men. You are not rooted spiritually, physically and mentally to be that woman's husband. She was chipping it in bit by bit and you kept on swallowing every poo until she has grown strong enough wings to fly about. now you want to hold her down.
This is why bad guys gets the best and most loyal women while the weaklings get retired oloshos. Theu take charge and never tolerate nonsense.
Before you call yourself a husband you must have grown the balls and character to lead your home. Una dey irritate me I swear. From your post, it's obvious you can't even teach your wife anything, talk more lead ypur house. what or why and how in the world would a woman not give her kids proper aytention and still can walk and misbehave anyhow in my house? dem never for your father well. Guy like you have nothing to teach or lead your family to, but will be running to wife people's daughters. As for me you have to man up. I don't ascribe to beating her but sometimes it takes a fee very hot slaps to jerk a loose woman back to her senses. Akmetimes yoi have got to ahow a woman that yiou love yes i love you to death but hell no i wont tolerate nonsense. infact if you walk out to that party dint come back here. if that party is better torr imortant than our kids. please go and not comeback. or set boundaries. If she crosses them out comes the beast mode. and watch s she crave for that nice version of you. Imagine someone suggesting he should go clubbing? oga don't mess with fire o. if you must go that route make sure you can out dance, flirt and hotter than guys in that club. E be like sey ypu never see wherr man carry him babe come club got drunk fought cos one finer bobo dey eye and end up fighting and leavung with the fine bobo abi? You have to bring ya A game to the level even her friends will want to bed you. Bleep the hell outbof her everyday if neccessay, set your rules. or do it the old fashion way, give am belle every 1year until she loose guard, that's how she will realize she is throwing a gem for just rocks.
As per all Those am modern weaklings. here is some piece of native wisdom. Your forefathers didn't follow these rules for nothing.
1. Never marry a woman whose is raised by a mother thats not in her husbands or fathers house.
2. never mary a woman who doesn't have fear for her parents or elders. I mean a woman that has no one she fears. Cos when her mumu start who go call am to order?
3. Never force, buy or bribe a woman to marry you. marry someone that wants to be married. cos what you beg to get, you will beg to
keep.
4. Finally grow some balls. Stop being feminine you are a man, a man leads his home spiritually, financially , mentality and physically. You must have capacity to teach and lead your wife and children, you point to where your family should be headed not the other way around.
call me a cave man. but no babe of mine will cheat in my face. bad as e bad na to bleep all her friends.

Samolaogun:
Like I said she has always been self centred. Always been about her looks. My wife is beautiful and when you marry beautiful girls I thought that was the package that came with it, nobody is perfect. It was manageable at first, but after the kids arrived it’s like she felt tied down and she wanted to just live her life. It’s not today this problem has started, it’s been happening for years. I’ve tried everything to tame her but you cannot tame a wild beast. Only thing left is to report her to her mother, but her mother is a replica of my wife. That is how her father died before his time, I cannot allow that to be my case. When you are too understanding or calm with women, they take advantage and misbehave. For my own peace of mind I have decided to let go, I no longer want to be involved. I cannot have a woman parading as an ashewo in my house making a mockery of me. I’ve reached my boiling point.

What exactly is your problem here? Is it that she's a slay Queen and vain, or that you think she's cheating on you? Because trust me even women what don't 'slay' also cheat. Would you rather she's fat and ugly and dresses like a nun

Do you know what it takes for a mother of two to always looks good and keep fit? So she puts in all the work and all gets is contempt from her own husband. No wonders she's seeking for validation from other men. Even if she gets enough attention from you, it doesn't hurt to get some from other men. It does wonders for our ego. And yes, moreso now that she's a mother and thinks she is fast becoming 'evening news'

You married a vain woman, much younger than yourself, I wonder what you were expecting in the first place.

Please don't transfer your insecurities to your wife biko, she is dealing with her own as it is already.

This is a phase, and will pass. But only if you support her and keep reassuring her that she means more to you than the way she looks. If you keeps treating her with disdain, she will seek for validation elsewhere.

And you are 43? Be the 'adult' here.

Samolaogun:
I’m reading all the comments thank you

I was thinking of reporting her to her mother, her father is late. But like mother like daughter, they are both the same so it will be pointless. At this point for my peace of mind, i think I most definitely need separation because I cannot stress myself too much, I have too many things bothering me. What I narrated is only a fraction of what I have been dealing with for 10 years. Im 43 years of age, still active and young looking I believe God will give me a woman[b] who will give me peace. [/b]

Bless to all.

Actually, God will only give you a woman, it's your duty to find peace with her.

Seperation is a very bad idea, you will just ruin your home for nothing.

Samolaogun:
So I got married to my wife 10 years ago. She was 24 at the time and now we are blessed with 2 kids. My wife has always been one of those self centred all about her looks type of person but I just ignored it and saw the good side of it. After two kids and at 34 my wife still looks very good, I guess that’s one of the perks of marrying young.

But one thing I noticed is that when she was pregnant with our first son all she ever talked about from day one was getting back in shape and losing weight, she was never excited about being a mother or bringing life into the world. Well She’s maintained her shape and when you look at her you will think she’s 25/26. I’m grateful for that however

Now the downside of this is that she gets a lot of Male attention which she entertains and I’m not comfortable with. On her instagram she’s following a lot of males which I’m not comfortable with.

I addressed it to her and she complains I’m being paranoid that they are school friends. When she goes out with her friends she’s always over dressing and looking seductive almost like a single lady looking for toasters.

She’s that over friendly type of woman, always on her phone, likes to do too much shakara and it’s just starting to irritate me. I checked her phone last week and theres one guy that keeps on addressing her as ‘love’. I’ve not addressed it to her yet because I’m waiting to catch her red handed so she will not be able to come up with any flimsy excuse.

One day when her and her friends came to my house to meet up for a birthday party, they all dressed like a bunch of ashewos. The following day we got into a huge argument because I warned her to never try that again.

She is still stubborn and she hasn’t changed. Im fed up of her attitude I’m thinking of separating from this woman before she gives me high blood pressure. She’s not a homely wife at all. All she wanna do is go out, to even attend to the kids effectively is now becoming a problem. I’m tired.

Brother you married a slay queen

Samolaogun:
Oga my problem is not her looking good as you can see I praised her for it.

My problem is her scandalous behaviour, partying every minute, too friendly behaviour and extreme seductive dressing. No man will be comfortable with such behaviour. As it is, I just want her out of the house. Do not envy what is shallow, as you see me so I’m dreaming of a quiet decent woman who will give me peace of mind over this scandalous show off wife that I have at the moment. Be careful what you wish for.

op try talking to her before sending her out,if possible involve a family member.

donstan18:
This is insecurity at its peak since you're yet to catch her.

Or maybe, just maybe, you have very good reason to think and feel the way you are feeling because there are some flirty activities that is expected of a married Nigerian to quit or reduce.


But in my opinion bruv, I'll advice you to reduce the way you stalk her phone and life and focus on how to train your kids, before you die of HBP, because you never complained of her inability to contribute on the welfare of your kids, you are just uncomfortable with her Slaying life . Stop stalking her so that you don't find out what you've been longing to see. If possible; Start slaying too.

Not all women are ready to turn to an old mgbeke because of marriage, some like looking good and you should be happy you have one because they are few.

He said his wife o, not girlfriend.
Why did she marry then?
The kind of crap men like you are willing to put up with is amazing.

donstan18:
This is insecurity at its peak since you're yet to catch her.

Or maybe, just maybe, you have very good reason to think and feel the way you are feeling because there are some flirty activities that is expected of a married Nigerian to quit or reduce.


But in my opinion bruv, I'll advice you to reduce the way you stalk her phone and life and focus on how to train your kids, before you die of HBP, because you never complained of her inability to contribute on the welfare of your kids, you are just uncomfortable with her Slaying life . Stop stalking her so that you don't find out what you've been longing to see. If possible; Start slaying too.

Not all women are ready to turn to an old mgbeke because of marriage, some like looking good and you should be happy you have one because they are few.

This is not a matter of insecurity on the mans part or a matter of not wanting to look mgbekish on the woman's part. The mans suspicions are on point while the woman is seeking unecessary attention from other men outside. Imagine it is affecting her responsibility to look after the children but its not affecting her social media life as she keeps following and is being followed, for what exactly? Which tells you she has ulterior motives and her mind is no longer in that marriage.

The cause of this whole thing is that she married too early. @ poster did not let her finish her shakara before tying her down in marriage. Now I see why pastors will always tell at youth meetings to maximize our youth cos once you're married, you're married. The woman did not maximize her youth so shes trying to make up for it and it might not end well as she's doing it at the wrong time.

This is a warning to all the youth. Maximize your youth!

donstan18:
This is insecurity at its peak since you're yet to catch her.

Or maybe, just maybe, you have very good reason to think and feel the way you are feeling because there are some flirty activities that is expected of a married Nigerian to quit or reduce.


But in my opinion bruv, I'll advice you to reduce the way you stalk her phone and life and focus on how to train your kids, before you die of HBP, because you never complained of her inability to contribute on the welfare of your kids, you are just uncomfortable with her Slaying life . Stop stalking her so that you don't find out what you've been longing to see. If possible; Start slaying too.

Not all women are ready to turn to an old mgbeke because of marriage, some like looking good and you should be happy you have one because they are few.

You are a stupid guy, am sorry. No offence intended, that woman is 89% cheating on the man, either emotionally or physically.

Princedapace:


So u are happy to be married to a woman who flirts with different men online, party up and down wearing seductive wears?

May ur wishes be granted to u. I go like make u marry such woman and I go like f uck her while married to u.

Some of u take this 'woke' too serious. U think marriage na bf and gf type of thing. Oga said woman no even get time for his kids again and u are talking this one.

I pray make u marry one of these married women wey love flirting wey I Dey hammer every week now. Ur eyes go clear. She go even kill u sef. I have married lady like that and she is getting good bang from me steady and she wishes I fathered her kids.

You supposed to know from that mugu post say him na dunce.. There are women who look good but are very disciplined, they don't create room for nonsense or entertain bs that would eventually lead to what can be avoided.. That mugu guy probably still stays under his parents or has not yet woken up to reality. Let him be enjoy his lala land for now

donstan18:
This is insecurity at its peak since you're yet to catch her.

Or maybe, just maybe, you have very good reason to think and feel the way you are feeling because there are some flirty activities that is expected of a married Nigerian to quit or reduce.


But in my opinion bruv, I'll advice you to reduce the way you stalk her phone and life and focus on how to train your kids, before you die of HBP, because you never complained of her inability to contribute on the welfare of your kids, you are just uncomfortable with her Slaying life . Stop stalking her so that you don't find out what you've been longing to see. If possible; Start slaying too.

Not all women are ready to turn to an old mgbeke because of marriage, some like looking good and you should be happy you have one because they are few.

Keep hustling likes from NL hoes and slows... i hope ur fvcking these hoes liking ur sh1t cos if not ur just a f00l. Women looking good has nothing to do with women being loose and entertaining bs and take that Kendrick pics off ur dp.. ur disgraceful to the culture