₦airaland Forum

Omoboy:
Bro this is a woman talking they understand each other better than men.Sister i support your motion jare

kingjrofficial:
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Lies lies lies

Awon babalowo
Save this crap 4ya unborn children

richie240:
If what u wrote is not fiction, then u r d real MVP!
#No_time!

SmellingAnus:
I will be straightforward with you... You have lost your self worth... You have made your life to revolve around a very selfish manipulator in the name of wife... The best you can do for yourself is to look for ways to make yourself happy without your fvcking wife... Stop these excessive care that is not being appreciated... Stop being a pussy for once and avoid talking to her except you guys are talking about your daughter... Move on or pretend as if you have moved on... She will run back to you when whatever she thinks she has, has failed her... Trust me you will end up in heartbreak if you don't adjust your heart now... Oh least I forget... You are also too insecure but I don't blame you much on that because she had given you reasons to be insecure but come out of it and move on with your fucking life... Let this meeting be the last you will attend... Stop this shit... I am just pissed as if I am the one in your shoes...

kingjrofficial:
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RUBBISH

kingjrofficial:
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God is my witness, single sense u no get
Brain fall on you

elektra:
If he is unable to be an active participant in the child’s life then he should leave her with her mum. I said what I said because he is clearly not present, yet he is trying to yank the child from her mother and dump her with a relative. He clearly thinks his only responsibility as parent is providing, but you are both wrong in believing that. If he is going to take the kid from her mother, he should be ready to fill her shoes.
By the way, there are many parents (both mums and dads) that provide and parent at the same time, both of which is their responsibility.

kingjrofficial:
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RUBBISH

MYDEBBY:
Didn't you read my facts why will she be intensely bored when I have paid her dowry as my wife.I have sat her one on one even at midnight to let her adjust her ways since the traditional rites this year and waiting for the white.I did said that I noticed her with bad influence including male and female.so why do you think she is not cheating on me,must I leave my work and be with her in school 24hrs before I will know she is not cheating on me? I think that all that happened is the handiwork of God.

kingjrofficial:
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God is my witness, single sense u no get
Brain fall on you

seanjy4konji:
U WEH GET sENSE...which bustop has it dropped you in life

To be disrespected by the person you send money to train to school?has kid for you and walk out on you with a man...they will knack your wife on your grave....now crawl back..how old r u self...if u quote me again na sango go kill you.

baby124:
Hmmm.... how old is she? I would be highly irritated too if someone was policing my life, reporting every move to my parents and generally more obnoxious than usual just after the traditional marriage.

Don’t forget, you are both married traditionally now. It’s you who decided to go for someone who was young for relationship and marriage, I am sure you must have also thought to figure out how to deal with any surprising behavior. You also need to be careful about this jealousy you hold in your heart. What if that guy is a school friend? Yes, she obviously confides in him because you have shown that you have an unstable character. It may just be a simple friendship. Because she went outside to talk to him, you have concluded that they are sleeping together. If she talked to him in your presence, you would have also taken offense.

Well I think you need to give this relationship time before concluding the court wedding. I think you need to step back and reassess your reason for marrying a lady who you cannot trust or refuse to trust. Try to examine why you have trust issues and control issues. You also need to grow up and stop reporting all over the place. Just as she’s trying to forgive you and reconcile, you go on a reporting spree. Whew!

Smithwilliams826:
Like say u get one for head. Just carry yourself dey read comment. Dey fine comment wey you go dey reply. U way u no fit post your own suggestions. RUBBISHHH!!!!!!

kingjrofficial:
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Lies lies lies

Awon babalowo
Save this crap 4ya unborn children

healthserve:
Na. Even walking away hurts. Hurts badly

ornicus:
And what makes you think the same mistakes will not be made again?

If the op is bent on freshly pressed the whole cycle may repeat.

kingjrofficial:
sense fall on you

Smithwilliams826:
Chaooo.. Come here, let me check if you have one.

seanjy4konji:
The way women are misbehaving now a days due to sleeping around and joining bag gang...one finger cant fit their anus again...

Men...shadow well oo...watch properly and stand fit...the only mistake you can do after all this suffering we are going through again is marry a wrong Nigerian lady ooo...Darwin's law of evolution just came through on your head.the stupid will go while the wise still stay gallant.

I will go back and read the post but i know sayBenz and hotel flexing don join and expensive gift die to wakawaka from external forces...she wants to ride the high horse...horse that will stilll fall her down yakata...

Shine your eyes ooo...beer parlor is always open...hustle no get bus top..your true wife might be in Australia now with millions of dollars looking for you instead of give your self high blood pressure because of some with iq lower than that of Cynthia who came from village with yellow skin to Ikoyi as maid,manage to join bag gang and now banging bosses and forget her root.

Majority of those lagos and abuja girls are from village,,started from one room ashewo room,they join church and start blending with better people.well brought up people..

you can take them away from village..you cant take village away from them...

Be guided.

PS.A Yoruba adage says...won kin so eran meran ki ikan kan kan paa..Dem no deh tie 2 ram together make one headbutt wan die...collect your pikin and divorce anything that would make you die untimely...se fini.

And always remember that forgiveness is a sin after you start buying condos in Abu Dhabi UAE and Pent house in Manhattan NY...Some people are not meant to grow with you in life.you just have to dump them in the gutter where they truly belong..HUSTLE HARD..

healthserve:
The sad tale is I was setting up a company as a proposal gift to her. Which was worth millions . These days the sisters and mum see me in church, shame covers them from top to toe.


Love is a very very tricky feeling. The ones you live don't appreciate, the ones you don't love chase you. It sucks.

kingjrofficial:
I can still order for ur entire family join

healthserve:
The sad tale is I was setting up a company as a proposal gift to her. Which was worth millions . These days the sisters and mum see me in church, shame covers them from top to toe.


Love is a very very tricky feeling. The ones you live don't appreciate, the ones you don't love chase you. It sucks.

MYDEBBY:
Dear Nairalanders, I greet you all.

Pls I need candid advice, I have dated my wife for over six years without an issue and now that we have done traditional rites and about to climax with white wedding she is giving flimsy excuses that she is no longer interested in me.

She is currently in final year and has drastically changed in her dressing and attitude towards due to influence of friends in school.

Often I do report incidences of her recent poor dressing to her parents after cautioning her she will channel the grievances to me.

The recent one made her so angry that she started recanting all my past mistakes which she and her family are aware of and have resolved since now using it as an excuse against me that she is no longer interested.

She kept mute for over two weeks due to anger yet I still transferred money twice to her but up till now she did not acknowledged it, only for her to send text that she need money for our daughters school fees. I then decide to visit them off campus where they stay yesterday with lots of provision yet she could not say a common thank you.

While I was still making peace with her asking her to forgive me for whatever wrong I have done to her by reporting her to her PARENTS, promising not to do so again, a guy knocked the door and she went out after the guy I asked a relation who was there who was the guy and he said he is my wife's friend, I quickly followed them on citing me the guy diverted after their discussion about me.

When we then entered the house I asked her who was the guy and she said that's not my business. I kept quiet.

After a while I called her parents to tell them the situation of things that their daughter said she is no longer interested they now asked us to come down to the village to see them this coming weekend.

I know things are not alright somewhere and as such I need straight forward advice on what to do.

Pls no insult just help out.

Thanks

Smithwilliams826:
haha. No P. We re in this together. Lol. Always ready.

Jombom:
It is baffling when I read comment on NL. At times I think lunatics are being released to come make foolish comments. So now because anyone decide to marry a young girl mean the girl is at liberty to be frolicking on campus with random Male friends ?

In a marriage if you can not be reported to your parent should your husband take your report to God or what kind of foolishness am I reading this night on NL ?!

So I should be married to a fool that will leaving me guessing what her relationship is btw any opposite sex ? Is that how your mother left your father guessing ?

What is wrong in having trust issue in relationships, is it not the responsibility of both lovers to allay such fear in relationships or you think relationship is any lunatic fucqing you without being concerned about your well being or uprightness ?!

Abeg use your brain n not skull when replying.

MYDEBBY:
Dear Nairalanders, I greet you all.

Pls I need candid advice, I have dated my wife for over six years without an issue and now that we have done traditional rites and about to climax with white wedding she is giving flimsy excuses that she is no longer interested in me.

She is currently in final year and has drastically changed in her dressing and attitude towards due to influence of friends in school.

Often I do report incidences of her recent poor dressing to her parents after cautioning her she will channel the grievances to me.

The recent one made her so angry that she started recanting all my past mistakes which she and her family are aware of and have resolved since now using it as an excuse against me that she is no longer interested.

She kept mute for over two weeks due to anger yet I still transferred money twice to her but up till now she did not acknowledged it, only for her to send text that she need money for our daughters school fees. I then decide to visit them off campus where they stay yesterday with lots of provision yet she could not say a common thank you.

While I was still making peace with her asking her to forgive me for whatever wrong I have done to her by reporting her to her PARENTS, promising not to do so again, a guy knocked the door and she went out after the guy I asked a relation who was there who was the guy and he said he is my wife's friend, I quickly followed them on citing me the guy diverted after their discussion about me.

When we then entered the house I asked her who was the guy and she said that's not my business. I kept quiet.

After a while I called her parents to tell them the situation of things that their daughter said she is no longer interested they now asked us to come down to the village to see them this coming weekend.

I know things are not alright somewhere and as such I need straight forward advice on what to do.

Pls no insult just help out.

Thanks

olabrinks:
She is not interested in the marriage, and if you marry her by force you will be entering a life time of misery and a constant battle to prove yourself to her. Better get out now before it’s too late. It’s that simple.

I don’t know why men are always fighting for women that don’t want them. They’re millions of single available women go and look for them and leave this small girl alone.

Finchmgh:
You guys will never learn your lesson about women until you all lose your heads. Leave ladies and marriage alone and be happy with yourself. To hell with ladies and marriage.

healthserve:
Which brings us to the point that if a lady can be influenced by external party, she's immature for marriage.


A guy did that to my princess this year and she assumed all she learnt was correct. Finally the guy starts having sex with her as intimacy grew out of their negative alliance. She has recently learnt that I wasn't broke but living coded while the guy influencing her was eating her money and sexing for free. She was influenced from the outside, like eve, like my princess.

I move on jejely without creating thread. Mi o ra ye oshi

bigpicture001:
Dont marry kids....i repeat, guyz quit marrying kids