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Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by yeyeosoronga: 3:12am On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: Why do you see her as evil? Because things are not working out between you two? Relationships break down , most often due to lack of communication. Becasue yours has broken down doesn't mean you have to deprive a child of its mother. You haven't said anything negative about her parenting skills, so I'm wondering why you think your daughter will be raised better by her grandmother. Unless you want to use it as a means of control and punishment on the mother. That just shows the type of person you are if that's the motive. I hope you know you cannot forcefully take your child from her mother to dump at her grandmother. If anything at all, work out an arrangement that will work for both of you. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by elektra(f): 7:43am On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: If you follow through with this you will be the evil one. There is no reason why a child should be raised by a relative when both parents are alive and kicking. You are not even interested in raising you own child, yet you claim her mum, who is raising her, is evil. You need to take a good look at yourself and realize that you are a parent and it is your responsibility to raise your child! In your current arrangement, how actively involved are you in raising her? how often does she come to live with you at your place? Do you take her on weekends? How many weekends a month? How involved are you in your child’s life? If you are being a father to your child it will be difficult for someone to siphon money off you because you would already know what your child needs. Even the grandmother can still use your child to siphon money off you, the only way to avoid this is to be an active parent. 19 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 7:53am On Sep 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Not in marriage. Misused theology. Shift 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 8:52am On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY:Not a bad idea although the "evil woman" part got to me. But you didn't answer two of my questions: 1) Will your fiancee let go of your daughter without a fight? 2) How old is the little girl? |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Olufemiolaolu(m): 10:03am On Sep 24, 2019 |
Don't force her to marry you Biko. She is done with you. There are other fishes in the sea now |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by yeyeosoronga: 10:54am On Sep 24, 2019 |
healthserve:I understand you absolutely love the concept of marriage, but it is not the solution to your many problems. Start solving some of your problems by first working on your attitude. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Tumbulum: 11:06am On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY:bros you have an opportunity to marry a brand new girl and leave your girlfriend to whoever is interested in marrying second hand. You should be very happy for another opportunity to have you a new loyal girl. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MYDEBBY(m): 11:18am On Sep 24, 2019 |
Tumbulum: Thumbs up men. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 11:22am On Sep 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Of course my personal conscience. What a fool. Keep your theocracies out of my mentions please. Your existence is inconsequential to me. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by yeyeosoronga: 11:48am On Sep 24, 2019 |
healthserve: I understand you are from a lineage of imbeciles. You this waste of space, a useless mass of compressed flesh. Be gone with your stupidity. Dirty pig 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by pocohantas(f): 3:47pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Lol 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Tumbulum: And what makes you think the same mistakes will not be made again? If the op is bent on freshly pressed the whole cycle may repeat. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Ineedyouradvise: 4:45pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Life can be SO unfair, sometimes I just wish there's a way to see into the future before making that decision of getting married! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MYDEBBY(m): 6:00pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Ineedyouradvise: I assure you all who have contributed immensely in advising me to ball up as a man,that after the meeting with her parents I shall update you all. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by RexTramadol1: 10:12pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
U be pure water nylon? Wait first...... Now that I read it OP, Let her go....... If she comes back again, REPEAT! |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 10:16pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Shebi na you marry her? Shebi na you decide foot the bills? Communicate with her, something is missing. If she persist in an odd lifestyle, let her go. Unless you are ready to die. Next time, don't marry a student or to-be-student. Most of them don't have common sense. Marry a lady who wants to be a wife and a mother. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Icecream4U(m): 10:17pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
You might just need a new girl. Life goes on. That new guy is bursting her head that's the reason she is dumping you. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by bigpicture001: 10:18pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Dont marry kids....i repeat, guyz quit marrying kids |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Aidejay(m): 10:18pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Bros u need 3 things Viagra Tramadol and Chilled beer 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by netflicks(m): 10:19pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Ladies and material things are like 5&6... |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by whitering: 10:20pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Must you call her parents to report everything. Man you need to grow up.... Only babies report every little issues. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
You will soon find out that the daughter you're training is not even yours. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by greggng: 10:21pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: I don't know what you have done to her in the past. But from the look of things you are the one in love...don't try to convince a woman whose mind is in another man...you will be wasting your time. Go and dissolve the marriage , work out plan on how to takecare of your child ....move on. That lady will give you high bp and you will die before your time. Channel your love to your child pls forget her and start looking for a woman that truly love you. As soon as your child is 18 go for him or her...God will give you a true wife 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by iLegendd(m): 10:21pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Whatever behavior a woman exhibits towards you as a man, you're the cause. Read this: https://www.nairaland.com/5309552/men-stupid-women-ingrates-must 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Mutemenot(m): 10:21pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Bow down and leave oga. Never come back. Don't allow anyone institute this marriage again cos it must fail n then it maybe too late. Never you force a wife into your life, the ones that came in peace 're hard to retain e come be the one you wan force enter marriage ... in fact God has done the best thing for you bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Joystark(f): 10:22pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
islandmoon: lwkmh... You're mad |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by abbey621(m): 10:22pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
elektra: Sorry you made a few good points in the beginning but some of your other points are just plain wrong! Everyone knows that the parent with the most custody of the child has the most influence on the child. A father's primary responsibility is survival, making sure they have shelter, food and other basic ammenities. If in the path of providing these things he's forced to work 80 to 100 hours per week, he's forced to do some hustle on the side. Tell me how would he have time to be soap opera dad you clearly stated above? Before calling someone a bad parent, let's try to understand their circumstance, especially in Nigeria where the lack of money is more shameful than being an alcoholic. If attention without money equaled being a great parent then deadbeat dads would always have hope 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by mimilogs: 10:23pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
olabrinks:come and take a warm hug
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Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by nicepoker101(m): 10:23pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
You finally given up in life. The moment you think of getting married |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by wristbangle: 10:24pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Down the line, she will regret her actions today. Bad influence as a result of wayward friends and someone crewing her V would make her think she is the new Cardi B in town. Karma is a beautiful reward for heartless and wicked soul like hers. I feel your pain bro. To satisfy a woman is really difficult. This is why it's advisable working class men should marry ladies within their caucus and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by nofuckz(m): 10:24pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
I dont think you are okay! my opinion though. |
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