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Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by grandstar(m): 12:17am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: Oga, I did not read about your daughters. This complicates issues. The same thing happened to a friend of mine and he dumped his lady. Its you daughters I'm worried about. They'll be left shorchanged no matter what happens. They'll be pissed with their mum eventually for ruining the home. Their lives will be in limbo. You'll remarry and your wife may not treat them well. Your wife may remarry and their stepfather may be hostile to them, even sleep with the them. You may request they stay with your parents in the village. It won't be easy. They may never get the quality of care any child deserves 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MYDEBBY(m): 12:19am On Sep 25, 2019 |
teesquad007: Advise heeded,thanks boss. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Blinkers: 12:19am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: God, this one is blue-pilled drunk forever. Look at the way, a small manipulator and her family has rendered a hard working man, weak. As a man, this humiliation is painful Ubunja Harddon 7 Likes
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Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by AreaFada2: 12:24am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Dude, the lady has already moved on. Sending your wife away to school can cause such. She sees these girls at school flexing and realises the youth she missed. She then wants to do some catching up. Worse if the hubby at home is not that educated. I have seen it happen with married ladies with several kids before going to university. Thank God no court marriage yet. Let her move on as painful as it might be at first. Just provide for your child. Do not let her parents sweet talk you into staying with her. You are not marrying her parents. Let her explain why she doesn't want you anymore. And then learn from it and move on. Another lady will come along. Hopefully one who loves you genuinely. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Blinkers: 12:26am On Sep 25, 2019 |
okokkk: Most didn't see this. The OP is obviously love-struck or love-drunk. The lady as seen this and playing him to her advantage. He is so love-struck that he may not see that he is trying to force a hoe into marriage and I believed the girl must be sleeping with other men sef. Her parents also need him to complete their daughter's education as the cheap slut he has made himself before them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Blinkers: 12:41am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Truckpusher: Aswear! No wonder women worldwide are complaining that there are no "marriageable" men. Men have dumped their "duties" as men and started acting as sissies. It's either the men are childish or annoyingly weak just like the OP. Women see through this bullshit. It's crazy that men are the ones littering the romance section with complaints about love and sex. Tell them to get red-pilled and see through the manipulations of women, dem no go gree. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MYDEBBY(m): 12:42am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Fashdeejay: Amen!!!!!,I hear you sir. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by koolaid87: 12:43am On Sep 25, 2019 |
You need a DNA test of that your child ASAP If she's not ready to settle down, hommie enjoy life dey go. If that child is truly yours, find a peaceful way to co parent with her Don't force her to go ahead with the wedding, doing that, you're just postponing your heartache You na mean 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 12:44am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY:You are very very lucky that your phone number is not in your profile. I for call you this night talk better sense into that your head. Better read the mature comments and take your next step in your life because this life is too short to be groveling ever someone who has shown you that she doesn't obviously want you anymore. You should even give thanksgiving in church this Sunday thanking God for opening your eyes to all these nonsense attitudes before your white wedding, others weren't so lucky and have regrets till today. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Steviealohan(m): 12:46am On Sep 25, 2019 |
My brother let her go..It very dangerous to be in such a relationship cos you will never know peace which will eventually be your end.It will take time but you will surely heal and bounce back better..Make sure you look for every possible means to get your daughter from her or her family. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 12:51am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY:Baba see stop paying your daughter's school fees through your wife, collect the account number from your daughter's school and pay her school fees into it. With this attitude of hers that you opened this thread what if she's chopping your daughter's school fees? And take your daughter to your mum before all this behaviour of hers will start rubbing off on your daughter. You are still a very young man to be buying High BP drugs over one woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by frankike1: 1:01am On Sep 25, 2019 |
The way Op sounds u will know he’s going back to the girl. I don’t waste time giving advice to such stupid Op 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by chinchum(m): 1:32am On Sep 25, 2019 |
In Naija, is where one single mother is doing yanga to her Baby daddy. She most likely will lose out so badly. You shouldn't be going to report her to the parents. Reporting your spouse or girlfriend to the parents is like the very very last resort, like when breakup or divorce is almost imminent. If you can not resolve your issues between yourself, there is no point marrying. In my opinion sef, she needs the relationship/marriage more than you do. If she thinks one sharp dude wants to keep a single mother, she is certainly in dream land, and it wont be long she will see reality. Having a child tends to make woman mature faster, but it appears in her case it had no effect. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by FarahAideed: 1:38am On Sep 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: Damn |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by CaptainFM1: 1:49am On Sep 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: Nice one. You hit the nail on the head. Don't marry or go out with a lady that doesn't invest in the relationship. Often, whatisnit is a collateral. That lady obviously don't feel she has anything to lose. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Emaprince: 1:49am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Tehila07:Pro-feminist in Nairaand bro In real life, these women are cold and do the exact opposite of what they depict themselves as here. There is always a man spinning and controlling them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MYDEBBY(m): 2:08am On Sep 25, 2019 |
frankike1: Frankike, Never again!!! I mean it. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Zombiekiller010: 2:12am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY:, go and sleep, stop having sleepless night because of a lady, she needs you more than you need her ,that is if you're responsible |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Nobody: 2:26am On Sep 25, 2019 |
She has sampled some serious freak, she'll never be the same again..go and sin no more |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by JoseRaji(m): 2:46am On Sep 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: I was sincerely looking forward to this |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by faithscharms(f): 2:48am On Sep 25, 2019 |
You are a weak man..ignore her and find someone else more deserving cos she doesn't love u anymore Check my signature you just might find what you have been looking for |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by JoseRaji(m): 2:50am On Sep 25, 2019 |
islandmoon: Bros. They have a child. Read the write-up. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by northvietnam(m): 2:55am On Sep 25, 2019 |
nigga just impregnate her and, make sure it's twins then u can dump her silly Ass and enrol her on child support, na she go suffer taya.... haba use ur head and wicked that girl small na 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by OyinO: 3:21am On Sep 25, 2019 |
White Wedding is the TRADITIONAL WEDDING of the EUROPEANS. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 3:28am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Yeecar: People loyal to me who saw the events unfold came around with the information. Three different contacts. She's not just aware, even the sisters and mum cause one way or the other, within the same city,they run into me discussing with people who matter ( in business settings ), and how they saw people honoured me, both elderly and very established people. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by edunaragold(f): 3:29am On Sep 25, 2019 |
Baba all na your fault, who dose that this days u dey train your wife for sch, instead of pregnanting her with 5 kids,lol u are funny o,she has seen your weakness,until the day u start doing the opp she will come back,for a woman to have change means another man has had sex with her.thank God i did not marry my x after she got admission ,90% of woman always change while in sch..alot of men are still love blinded.u too do mumu too much,if i were u start bulshitting her now and have a side chic if not u will regret it,padi she is tired of u,and u are now old fashion ,all woman want something new ,i mean they want to exploit ,so if i had marry merit and send her to sch,by now she would have dump me.lalala thank my chi i moved on time,trust me your wife will still give u more wahala and unapreciation,and even tell u she just pity and have baby for u,or she is loving u pityfully,trust me i have seen n b there before.woman can be so so ungreatfull once they get to the top.they say u are oldy they want new experience and your marriage is boring,leave her now and thank me later.if not u guys will never settle ,she will be doing any how and even cheating under your noise.leave her now and move on,imaging a man begging a man to stay together in one roof.that means the man has become the woman. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 3:29am On Sep 25, 2019 |
malele: Well. Success is the best revenge 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 3:29am On Sep 25, 2019 |
silento: Its easy to write. But it hurts, especially when she was the one who began our whole thing together, and others I dropped aside for her during the period 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by OyinO: 3:33am On Sep 25, 2019 |
ornicus: It's not Missionary style, it's Mama and Papa style. |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by healthserve(m): 3:35am On Sep 25, 2019 |
richie240: Well. We were both close at the onset. Beg a cheat, haba. How would I sustain the relationship. We men need to take charge. A year or two ago, I would have overlooked, but now, No. No more tolerating bad behavior. Once the red flags are there, I'm gone. Very pretty, decent looking, homely, intelligent lady. My heart still aches 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by OyinO: 3:35am On Sep 25, 2019 |
pocohantas: Then later come and blame village people |
Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by Edu3Again: 3:37am On Sep 25, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: Oh boy family spirits no want make u marry! No normal Nija babe would give up the Dad of her child if the man is still interested. |
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