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fairfora:
Well, I wouldn't know if this was a sexual advance or not. While serving my fatherland in those days in edo state, I used to visit the mission house where I always met a rev'd sister . The father was such a nice man and welcomed corps members in his place. At times, myself and a fellow corps member would have a dinner in his place on his invitation. There was this rev'd sister who had a special interest in me. She was always smiling whenever she saw me. At times, would folds her hands around my neck and be gisting. One day she invited only me to her apartment outside the church premises where she stayed. The way she was hovering around me on the first visit discouraged me from visiting her subsequently. I think she also noticed it. A few months into our POP, she was transferred to delta state. End of story

chikitobabe:
Yes and that single atitude killed my Christian life..imagine where a pastor you look upto ,u so much belive in his ministry and respect alot and was even close to his family..I was soo committed in the things of the lord .I was zealous to Serve God ..then boom the pastor wants a piece of me...was loosing control at the sight of me even when on the alter ..had to call me to give him chance, asked m to go book a hotel..I resisted him but since then I lost faith in these men of God and I stopped going to church for 3 yrs now...I pray in my house .

okokkk:


I will speak for myself and sister. We were both almost sexually assaulted by a bisexual Iman in Lagos. Fear those Imans. It was in 2005. We were barely 18. So young that we innocently walked into the mosque to pose and pray as muslims do. I will not go into the details of the attempt as my elder sister was involved. But I can reiterate my reaction.

That day, I made sure I burnt his kettle and flipped his Koran into the heavens for vetting. It was legendary. Two days afterwards, the Iman slept and never woke. For the whole month, I was hailed by the entire igbo neighbourhood in Isolo as a dike who worships the true god.

And in my mind, I felt like a man whose god is truly alive.

RyanD147:
Growing up, my uncle, a catholic priest usually comes visiting with this beautiful rev sister. She loved me and my parents saw no qualms in it. I was still a kid.
Fwd 2017, I went 2 visit my uncle, I ran into this same rev sister. Been like 10 years I saw my uncle last same with this rev sister.
Lots of water has passed through the bridge, we exchanged numbers, I started having sexual affair with her till late last year she travelled 2 Germany.
No regrets though, our sexual escapades continues when she comes back.

Offpoint:
Thread for the females....

If I was a lady and a pastor sexually harassed me or make an attempt, I won't quit his church. I will go there everyday and sat on the front row, look for a seat that faces him straight. I will sit there every Sunday and do nothing but stare at him..... I swear he'll be going off keys and on keys.

that's his punishment, I'll torment him...
There are sundays I'll take the mic and I will be like "There's something I want to say about the man of God, something I've been shouldering all these while. something someone of you may know and some may not... many will doubt it but it's the truth.... I want to let the whole congregation know OUR PASTOR IS A GOOD MAN OF GOD"

yeah, imagine what he would have gone through for that few seconds

NwaAmaikpe:




An Imam once made a sexual advance at me.
We were reading the karatu when he snuck up from behind and grabbed my gbola.
I don't know what I recited in the karatu that made my gbola become a green snake.

He ran away and to this day he still calls me Amuagwo.


God!
Guy how does it happen.
I mean how does your brain work?
Chai! Ndi mmadu

SenecaTheYonger:
He can't dare push negative things about islam to front page na. They will find him and separate his head, unlike Christians, our doctrine is different.

Offpoint:
Thread for the females....

If I was a lady and a pastor sexually harassed me or make an attempt, I won't quit his church. I will go there everyday and sat on the front row, look for a seat that faces him straight. I will sit there every Sunday and do nothing but stare at him..... I swear he'll be going off keys and on keys.

that's his punishment, I'll torment him...
There are sundays I'll take the mic and I will be like "There's something I want to say about the man of God, something I've been shouldering all these while. something someone of you may know and some may not... many will doubt it but it's the truth.... I want to let the whole congregation know OUR PASTOR IS A GOOD MAN OF GOD"

yeah, imagine what he would have gone through for that few seconds

healthserve:
You've spoken well. from tribal fights to anti-Christian views.. To high handedness of mods, its just way too gkwring. that Christianity is under attack by Nairaland and our continous stay here encourages it. Check every Sunday, its negative views about Christianity. But conpare with fridays about islam, the quality of the threads can not be compared. October,im exiting the forum permanently although i had before now.Found solace in Quora.Going back there.

StarOnEarth:
Oga she is married now, go find your sugar mummy for front.

Offpoint:
Thread for the females....

If I was a lady and a pastor sexually harassed me or make an attempt, I won't quit his church. I will go there everyday and sat on the front row, look for a seat that faces him straight. I will sit there every Sunday and do nothing but stare at him..... I swear he'll be going off keys and on keys.

that's his punishment, I'll torment him...
There are sundays I'll take the mic and I will be like "There's something I want to say about the man of God, something I've been shouldering all these while. something someone of you may know and some may not... many will doubt it but it's the truth.... I want to let the whole congregation know OUR PASTOR IS A GOOD MAN OF GOD"

yeah, imagine what he would have gone through for that few seconds

Fucklove:
And they had bring this useless topic on frontpage with full access to all manner of persons to ridicule the church and men of God while restricting other non muslims from accessing any islamic thread without swearing to a useless oath. Seun, your hypocrisy stinks to the high heavens, both you,the OP and the moderator that pushed this to the frontpage will never go unpunished.

xcelentattitude:
As genuine as your excuses are, I'm sorry but they aren't tenable before God.

Who can separate us from the love of Christ? Situations, bad people....sexual advances from men of God? NO!

Offences are bound to come but will you allow them rob you of your place in God's kingdom.

Men of God are first of all MEN, they feel what other men feel too, they only decided to allow the Holy Spirit help them exercise control over it. Some even fail and fall in the process and rise up again (make their way right with God).

Please do not sit around moping over spilled milk. Maybe God wants you to hear this, hence this threa

d, your own comment and my own quote.

emmanuelpopson:
lll check my email log in on Quora too.I do have account on there but its been long I check in..I'll be glad to be where knowledge is impacted and shared...

StarOnEarth:
While I was in school, I went for a rehearsal (vigil) in the church, after we were done, the choir mistress told me she wanted to see me, I actually thought she wanted to complain about me coming late to church and how I have been unserious with church activities so I was trying to dodge her, around 3am she ask me if we could talk now and I said yes, then she ask if we could go somewhere private, instantly I knew the talk was not just a talk. So we went upstairs, it was totally dark out there, she said she was shy to say it, In my mind I was like see this old woman o, cos she was way older than I am, so she said she like me bla bla bla, I told her we can't date because am not the relationship type, before I know it sha we started kissing and fingering, if not for the residual of holy spirit in me, we would have bleeped, but later I heard from a friend that she has a thing for young guys, since then I ran from the church.

valirex:
Seun am so disappointed in you, if it was an imam other an Alfa you would have deleted this thread. I am starting to believe this is a Muslim forum. And for the record you are an idiot and if you like block my account that's your fucking business.

healthserve:
I'm deactivating soon and won't be returning. God knows I've been looking at creating a from devoid of hate and where Christians can feel at peace. This is motivational to me. Pata pata 5 Million to launch. Even if its just 50,000 Members, but let Christina's not be under attack. We need our own safe haven. Its time to reset the button. The ethnic issue is another factor. Seun is postured and this is a biased forum. Purely toxic.

Offpoint:
Thread for the females....

If I was a lady and a pastor sexually harassed me or make an attempt, I won't quit his church. I will go there everyday and sat on the front row, look for a seat that faces him straight. I will sit there every Sunday and do nothing but stare at him..... I swear he'll be going off keys and on keys.

that's his punishment, I'll torment him...
There are sundays I'll take the mic and I will be like "There's something I want to say about the man of God, something I've been shouldering all these while. something someone of you may know and some may not... many will doubt it but it's the truth.... I want to let the whole congregation know OUR PASTOR IS A GOOD MAN OF GOD"

yeah, imagine what he would have gone through for that few seconds

Daviddson:
Keep calm, bro. As much as I think that the mod who pushed this to FP should have edited it to read "clergymen" and not just pastors, we Christians should be wary of victimization mentality. Biases exist everywhere, even on Facebook and Twitter where American conservatives have been accusing both tech giants of having antichristian agenda. If you were a Christian owning a big social media network such as any of these, won't you also be more sympathetic to Christian users?
Negative topics about Muslim clerics have been on the front page for countless times (and they fall under the Crime section where anyone is free to comment on), and there's no need to cry foul when those about Christians also hit FP
Nairaland is a secular business, and so it's immature for Christians to keep on claiming victimization where none exists.

NwaAmaikpe:




An Imam once made a sexual advance at me.
We were reading the karatu when he snuck up from behind and grabbed my gbola.
I don't know what I recited in the karatu that made my gbola become a green snake.

He ran away and to this day he still calls me Amuagwo.

subtlemee:
Had an encounter but each time I see him Matthew 8v16 will be repeating in my mind about curses placed on who causes another to sin and the man of God was not even rich so i would've gotten cursed for nothing, I found a way and he was cut off,I still see his sign post and posters and shake my head in disbelief

vybzkartel:
Of late, we hear so much about pastors trying to and succeeding to rape/sexx the opposite sexz.

I believe there are many of such experiences yet to be shared. If you have had such experiences, drop i t here.

Mind you, there are very good pastors in town. Please don't generalise.

Fucklove:
And they had bring this useless topic on frontpage with full access to all manner of persons to ridicule the church and men of God while restricting other non muslims from accessing any islamic thread without swearing to a useless oath. Seun, your hypocrisy stinks to the high heavens, both you,the OP and the moderator that pushed this to the frontpage will never go unpunished.

Pharaoh4rin:
This kain lie get tail and horn.
No Reverend sister stays in one parish for more than 5yrs, even if she's a medical practitioner, bcs it's only a medical sisters that stays up to 5/6 years max

Angelacruz:
A Rev sis?? Am flabbergasted

chikitobabe:
Not going to church doesnt make m a lesser Christian.
I still listen to gospel messages..the truth is I hv lost faith in the shepherds.