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Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by bukatyne(f): 5:09pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
NwaNimo1:So he will be left with one abi? Over sense will not kee you |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
You cannot be confused about such a life-changing decision - one that you ought to make for yourself. You know these two women well and should know who your heart beats for, who you're more compatible with, etc. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by toksdap: 5:11pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Break up, disappointment,.... is part of life, so move on n enjoy life n love....... Maybe u should listen to those marriage audios.. it may help in your decision making... |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by galantjoe(m): 5:19pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Marry the both of them. Polygamy is for African and Africa is for polygamy. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by midnighter(f): 5:20pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
InvertedHammer: Lol dont mind him! we have a lot of extreme variables that skew the data in Nigeria...you have to take into account socio-economic status before calculating anything I would really love to see the person behind that handle.... how can one person's head contain the madness of the entire population for goodness' sake 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by bikefab(m): 5:21pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Just close your eyes and flip a coin, label them tails or heads accordingly. What you see is what you get. 2 Likes |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by legba1(m): 5:26pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bro....why limit your wife expectations to those two alone....bikonu..broaden your horizon pls...theres more to it than all you just mentioned....and am serious 2 Likes |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by healthserve(m): 5:29pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
legba1: Legab One E Ku lakai. I agree with this comment 100% 1 Like |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by deltateam: 5:30pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
idom101: What is your vision in life? Do you see yourself contesting for a public position or politics or are you a social personality? Then the extrovert is for you. But if NO, then you need someone to support you financially so that you don't overwork and break down. For me, I choose the latter. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
u're not serious! You want to marry someone who is not your girlfriend? |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by deltateam: 5:33pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
[i][/i] MrBrownJay1: If you can't offer any solution to the issue then I am sorry you have no business commenting. Now crawl back to your hole. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by dave4rella(m): 5:33pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Marry the goal gutter, if you are ready to endure, because she will put you in situations that will make you think she's cheating. Or even jump on other dicks... Because for women to achieve allot in a messed up country like nigeria... They will likely step on dicks. The good thing is that you will struggle less. Then the loyal One will always be there for you, but you will work more. In all go for the one that is good in bed and tight down there! Remember the slogan... Fvck hoes and marry virgins 1 Like |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Wealthoptulent(m): 5:44pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
idom101: Well my bro, 1st seek Gods advise n choice. Marriage is diff from friendship, i married my best friend of 9yrs bt since we married over a year ago its bn up n down we temporarily separated fr a month now due to life threatening . Its by God grace they really change after i do activities ooo. Wedding party sweets pass the marriage nowadays oo . If u want more can chat request fr chat up and give u experience n knowledge abt whole thing, u older than me in age bt with my experience i can say am matured to take u on this. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by adeyemi91(m): 5:48pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
ednut1:How sure are u they were born again?? How did u know they took it to God before marrying their wives?? Did u read where I stated "that he trusts n believes"?. The likes of Adeboye, Oyedepo, Kumuyi n other men of God are there to be used as references. Based on all I've seen in marriages, I stand on my word, LET GOD CHOOSE FOR YOU. Thank you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Cblessing(m): 5:54pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Hmmmmmm! Marriage!! This is my advice for you: 1. If you are a very STRONG man, one who can take control and be in charge of situations, marry the goal- oriented lady. 2. If you are a WEAK man, one who can easily be CONTROLLED by a woman/wife, please do not marry anyone of the ladies or any woman at all. Just have a child or 2 with a baby mama, face your life and take care of your child/children from a distance. Marriage is not for WEAK men! |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Asour: 5:57pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
adeyemi91: I don't know them too. No one does. But you are opting for the easy way— Predicting based on hindsight. Hindsight is always easy. So God forbid, if any of the above you see as successful (whom by the way I respect) experience marital hitches, do they become Not born again too. No matter how saintly one is, if your partner abruptly changes, your marriage is doomed. No successful marriage is the making of ONE person. By the Way I believe in prayers. But the attitude that if a Marriage fails then God Automatically wasn't involved is untrue. WHY? Because people change. God grants freewill too for these changes. Man at best is a Man oh! God help us. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
healthserve:I'm good |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by healthserve(m): 6:05pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by adeyemi91(m): 6:16pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Asour:Bros, I didn't say if marriage fails God wasn't involved. I just stood against d false statement that d other bros made. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 6:17pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
So you think your significant private issues will be solved on a public forum ? Interesting. 2 Likes |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Abcruz(m): 6:20pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Ladylite: A certain young man married a young woman because he felt his partner will change her character after the union unfortunately she didn't and the man regretted his decision. A woman married hoping that her husband will not change but she was surprised to have met a good pretender after their union. Look before you leap because marriage is a lifetime institution. 1 Like |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by healthserve(m): 6:21pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Abcruz: Marriage is no longer a lifetime contract. The moment a partner pretends to get married to and changes during the contract, right there the contract terminates. Mi o ra ye oshi |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:33pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
midnighter: Seriously. 1 Like |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Wai1: 6:44pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
I will suggest you take your time study both of them carefully. For the fact that they good friends doesn't make them good wife's. There are some basic test you must carry out on them,pls not sexuall test ooo. If u are really serious about it u can talk to me . i'll give u my little advice. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Funkybabee(f): 6:52pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Just don't marry a woman that cannot be contented with what you have. My two cent, I wish you best bro 2 Likes |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Abcruz(m): 6:57pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
healthserve: From the beginning it was never intended to be so and should not be slogan in this generation. |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by healthserve(m): 6:59pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Abcruz: Too many evil people in this generation. I can't come and kill myself o |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
healthserve:Nooooo |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Coolgent(m): 7:02pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
idom101:I was once in your shoes when i was 28yrs but i end of marrying 2nd Gal, we are blessed with 2 little guys now after 6 years of 90% happy marriage. NB: in Islam there is ISTIHARA (seeking Allah's choice/guidance over any matter). In my case i opted to be praying for God guidance over the matter. 1 Like |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by maak400: 8:19pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: Lol at life expectancy is 53 years. Chai this guy have kolo finish |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by Danielphatboy(m): 8:39pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
idom101: |
Re: Marital Happiness Or Success? by hify9935(f): 9:03pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
idom101:People change. At the end of the day, these things you mentioned about the two ladies will not really matter. Love alone isn't enough and in your own case, I don't see love in the picture. Be careful when choosing a life partner. I repeat, be extra careful. |
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