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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 5:51pm On Oct 06, 2019

Its like a polygamous FAM she has a step mom while her mom wasn't living with em divorced her dad doesn't give her that attention cos he believe she'll carry belle at the end of the day according to her.but I believe if he knows he'll take drastic actions.

Alexaonfleek:
isn't she close to her dad

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Cutehector(m): 5:52pm On Oct 06, 2019

Bhami:
Bruh she refused due to some prophecy we've been dating for like 10months but we start to have sex just last week I came to realize how complicated her health issue was yesterday

ok..since you know her predicament, please cease the sex, and focus on pressurizing her to go for surgery.

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by OKOATA(m): 7:02pm On Oct 06, 2019

Bhami:
That's what I've been doing since the start of this relationship bruh had to bring her to my level tbh she had a rough past I'll try my best and continue persuading.I can only get to her mom we've met ounce like that coincidently the last time I asked for her mom number she only curb me and talk it off.

Bro I feel your pain, Google search and show her proofs of people who did the surgery and survived, also show her proofs of people who didn't do it and later died. Let her know that if she doesn't do it she will die. The surgery is just 15mins because my dad had his removed too so why she scared, better still you can take her to a hospital and make sure the doctors knocks it in her head..

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by XploreLife(m): 7:36pm On Oct 06, 2019

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:26pm On Oct 06, 2019

Dax why I don't do extremely young age. They can hardly handle or withstand a situation. Take her to a good hospital, have her diagnosed, whatever d ailment, fix it. If u love her as claimed, then stop pampering her. HIM WHO HAVE EAR, LET HIM HEAR

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Lexusgs430: 4:36pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Ever heard of appendix rupture + consequences?.... huh

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Kapilta(m): 4:38pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

ogbeni go to idanre and get her local herbs from those locals(women). Na appendix issue you come dey raise like this. Mtcheeew.

Local herb do cure it.

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by BlueRayDick: 4:40pm On Oct 07, 2019

carzola:
My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...

After the break up he proposed to her,
Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept,
She came back begging I refused her back.

Na man u be cheesy

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Davico(m): 4:41pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Let her go for deliverance in MFM Prayer city and after go for her surgery. We live in a spiritual world...

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:44pm On Oct 07, 2019

cerpvad:
Did you ask her if she has committed abortions before? This is part of the reason a lady could be suffering from stomach pains perpetually.

She has been diagnosed with appendixxxxxx.
Why do you like reading only headline?

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by BlueRayDick: 4:44pm On Oct 07, 2019

Have a qualified medical doctor talk her out of her fears. If she still insist, please delete her number, block her on all platforms, change the key to your house and don't have anything to do with her again.

If she wants to die, let her not have u emotionally wrecked.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by HARYOMIDE1994: 4:45pm On Oct 07, 2019

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

Lmao............... E be like say dis one prick deh fly jet, no be "rapture", na puncture... lolz

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2019

Davico:
Let her go for deliverance in MFM Prayer city and after go for her surgery. We live in a spiritual world...

The deliverance should remove the sickness na. Why go for surgery

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by skyhighweb(m): 4:47pm On Oct 07, 2019

ur gf na villager, simple n straight

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by EkaRohi: 4:49pm On Oct 07, 2019

A lot of people have lost their lives because of this revelation thing. If she doesn't go for surgery, the appendix will rupture and she will still die. Why do people go to church if they don't have faith in God? The prophet or whoever that told you not to go for surgery is he God? Is it not God that gave doctors the wisdom to save us in times like this? Encourage her to go to the hospital and believe that she will come out of the theater alive. Read your scriptures and declare the word of the Lord over your live, most of all go with a positive mind. My sister was once told in her church not to accept surgery during pregnancy if not she won't come out alive, and that was how she kept losing her pregnancy till the fifth one I couldn't take it any longer when she was expecting the sixth time, had to go and have a very bitter quarrel with the husband and threatened to involve the law if he doesn't release my Sister for me. I brought her to stay with mum through out the pregnancy and kept feeding her positively. CS was booked and she came out with her baby, she has three children today and still alive.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by AleksAndria: 4:50pm On Oct 07, 2019

Spirituality should not rob anyone of common sense please.
@Bhami.....In summary: Appendicitis -medical emergency- requires prompt surgery. Read up.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:50pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Don’t be paranoid man.... her folks are just the over relegious type that see operation as evil....that’s not a reason to leave a girl....don’t let superstitious nairalanders mess up ur mind...

Let her know it’s the 21st century, doctors don’t even knock people off anymore for walk-in the-Park surgeries like apendix removal.... it’s local surgery where the anaesthetic will be applied in just that area...she’ll be awake the whole time, feeling like super girl...maximum 20minuites.,

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Asapchris(m): 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Funny part its getting unbearable for her too even in cold weather my gf body temperature gets high also stomach pains. She told me she uses some drugs as pain killer. I can't force her to for surgery she believes in a pastors so much and nah those white garment ones. She's really a WIFEY material but with this I gats find my way also we both of same age.

You can't continue like that, tell her to do the surgery if she love you and her life else she should forget you. Because behind appendix there is statements hooo.

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by osuolale95(m): 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Whosoever said that really want to kill her... May God have mercy, it will be one stupid man of god telling her that.

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Davico(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2019

niaralandtopuser:
The deliverance should remove the sickness na. Why go for surgery

The deliverance is to take care of the spiritual part...u need to read his post again

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Dshocker(m): 4:53pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

The hand work of a Nigerian pastor,confusing people here and there....if she doesn't do the operation in future time,am afraid dead awaits her

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by omoiyamayor(m): 4:53pm On Oct 07, 2019

Revelation not to go for surgery in Nigeria, perhaps she can go out of the country.health is wealth

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by sholay2011(m): 4:54pm On Oct 07, 2019

So, this is why you want to break up with her?

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 07, 2019

carzola:
My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...

After the break up he proposed to her,
Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept,
She came back begging I refused her back.

That was how one pastor wanted to decieve my aunt into marrying a certain brother. Mr pastor said God has revealed to him that if she marry her boyfriend , she won't give birth to kids but today she is married with 3 kids to that same boyfriend

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by imanray37(m): 4:55pm On Oct 07, 2019

Bhami:
Bruh she refused due to some prophecy we've been dating for like 10months but we start to have sex just last week I came to realize how complicated her health issue was yesterday

so much hypocrisy tufiakwa! I hate prophecy, prophecy has died since old testament she bleeps and feel prophecy of anointing is still on her Head, OK Mr bhamiloko put your hand on your head and repeat after me,my Father! my father! may I never fall in the hands of sisters using men of God to truncate my dreams while at the same time having selfish worldly desires if you say that ,pls go in peace and end this relationship of darkness. AMEN!!!

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 07, 2019

Davico:
The deliverance is to take care of the spiritual part...u need to read his post again

Which spiritual part? It is ignorance

Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 07, 2019

No be hospital matter..forget hospital..lady Know wetin the sup..she kNow wan tell you now...
E fit no even be appendix... ..one thing is sure...the thing na spiritual..and mkpi you don mount already.. just go pray say...matter never cast for your side..
Most of people you see ain't human... Be spiritually guided ..hold onto whatever you. Believe tight..Jesus sure pass.

Try locate mountain of fire..deliver your self first.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by CORRECTMAN788: 5:00pm On Oct 07, 2019

J111333:
She hasn't said the whole truth about her health condition.

Can you imagine! The guy should dig deep into this o

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Wiifesnatcher(m): 5:01pm On Oct 07, 2019

even if you will break up with her, for the sake of love influence her to do the surgery. take some steps meet her pastor and her family members. she can be persuaded to do the surgery or tell you the secret behind the pains

breaking up with her with that situation might even take that life faster. I beg follow her and convince the dummy pastor, that's how they allow my friend's mom then to died of possible survival because of their dumbness

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by LordReed(m): 5:01pm On Oct 07, 2019

She is an accident looking for where to happen.

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Edyice: 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2019

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

You be bad guy grin

I done laugh tire

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Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by nauto6: 5:05pm On Oct 07, 2019

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