Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Since you love her
marry her and go for Operation fast or else her believe won't let her do so

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

Have you made efforts to find out from the doctor that advised her not to go for surgery and why ❓

Have you asked her parents why she hasn't been operated ❗

Have you cared to take her to another hospital to find out what her medical Condition is ❓

Try and do all the above findings and the out come will determine your decision on her

The most important thing is that you love her and she is your spec

As for the tummy pain, I have same problem and I've been battling with it for almost seven years, we've done several tests and it all showed nothing was wrong with me, not appendix nor ulcer but doctors couldn't just fathom what's going on... I still go thru such pain and some elders say maybe when I start having sex it'll go...you know all these stupid bliv... I'm turning 20 soon and I take that as my predicament...if it's until I start having sex that the pain will subside then I'd rather endure for seven to 8 yrs before doing such.... What I'm trying to say is that make sure she gets that surgery done or use the risk of breaking up with her against her... Tell her it's her health and u Iove her that's why u are advising her to go for it. I wish I could go for surgery cos the pain is too much but I can't since I wasn't diagnosed with any form of ailment before an operation could be done

God knows I can't marry a lady that is spirikoko.
You an I must be of this world

dave4rella:

Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery
If she refuses, dump her sorry ass
You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer.
Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong.

Gbam. If you truly love her, do the right thing. If she still refuses to go for proper medical treatment, then be wise. Offload her before you get into big trouble with a lover with ruptured appendix.

Wetin we no go hear for this world ?

carzola:
My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...

After the break up he proposed to her,
Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept,
She came back begging I refused her back.

Surulereman:

Gbam. If you truly love her, do the right thing. If she still refuses to go for proper medical treatment, then be wise. Offload her before you get into big trouble with a lover with ruptured appendix.

Oil dey your head

Well so sorry bout that [ quote author=taiwozainab post=82928085]As for the tummy pain, I have same problem and I've been battling with it for almost seven years, we've done several tests and it all showed nothing was wrong with me, not appendix nor ulcer but doctors couldn't just fathom what's going on... I still go thru such pain and some elders say maybe when I start having sex it'll go...you know all these stupid bliv... I'm turning 20 soon and I take that as my predicament...if it's until I start having sex that the pain will subside then I'd rather endure for seven to 8 yrs before doing such.... What I'm trying to say is that make sure she gets that surgery done or use the risk of breaking up with her against her... Tell her it's her health and u Iove her that's why u are advising her to go for it. I wish I could go for surgery cos the pain is too much but I can't since I wasn't diagnosed with any form of ailment before an operation could be done[/quote]

Lexusgs430:



Ever heard of appendix rupture + consequences?....

I was about saying the same. My favourite uncle had this same problem but didn't take it seriously being the workaholic that he was. He kept taking pain relief for the stomach ache until he passed out at work one day. He was rushed him to Randle General hospital where he was diagnosed with a ruptured appendix. Uncle died 4days after his surgery on the 10th day of October 2013, a month after I lost my mom. I wanted to go mad.

1. She should go for surgery... who revelation epp?
2. Her papa should pay for the surgery.

If either of those two things are not fulfilled, then break up. It's not after you marry babe you want to hear stories during pregnancy.

dave4rella:

Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery
If she refuses, dump her sorry ass
You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer.
Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong.

Ok what if I mean what if bad thing come happen to her for d hospital Shey u go tell police say na u advice this guy to take her to d hospital

I called her this morning to take those following steps.she agreed we go tomorrow.I believe she's scared of going under knife or something cos as at yday she denied ever telling me about the prophecy

frozen70g:


Have you made efforts to find out from the doctor that advised her not to ho for surgery ❓

Have you asked her parents why she hasn't been operated ❗

Have you cared to take her to the hospital to find out what her medical Condition is ❓

Try and do all the above findings and the out come will determine your decision on her

The most important thing is that you love her and she is your spec

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

Ore mi!!!!!!!! You couldn't have said it better.

KIRI KIRI PRISON IS WAITING FOR U.

If you really love her, you will stand by her side to ensure she's completely free from what is disturbing her, but if you feel you can't cope with her condition, just tell in a manner you won't break her heart and not to make her take snipper o.

LordReed:
She is an accident looking for where to happen.

Serious Ticking Bomb waiting to explode. The only thing he can do is tell her get her parents involved and let them take their daughter to the hospital themself.

Lol ....revelation ontop swollen appendix that could burst any moment....na real end of Bible story be that

Take her to the hospital if you have the money...she might be lying about it, dont see why somebody would play with their life like that

I havent read through all the replies but it sounds like she needs an abdominal ultrasound, first of all

Bhami:
The problem here is I don't think the father knows about her health condition her parent got separated when she was younger both they both live in osogbo her mom turn to Christian those white garment cos of some spiritual problem.after the break up or so. I believe they keep it away from her dad.the old man would have taken steps if he should knowvhe would have taken steps both her mom and her both believes in those wield stufffs so much

please if you can, tell her dad and end it with her, save that life.. white garment are the worse and really stubborn..

taiwozainab:
As for the tummy pain, I have same problem and I've been battling with it for almost seven years, we've done several tests and it all showed nothing was wrong with me

I used to have that..went for tests..nothing...now its completely gone...didnt even know when it left me sef

I think sometimes we just have to leave ourselves alone...maybe your own will be like mine...

Bhami:
Its like a polygamous FAM she has a step mom while her mom wasn't living with em divorced her dad doesn't give her that attention cos he believe she'll carry belle at the end of the day according to her.but I believe if he knows he'll take drastic actions.

trick her in anyway you can and involve the dad please, anyhow she chooses to take it is her business. You have done your best in saving a life

Bhami:
I called her this morning to take those following steps.she agreed we go tomorrow.I believe she's scared of going under knife or something cos as at yday she denied ever telling me about the prophecy

OK naw, update us

Surgery shouldn't scare anyone because it can come up and its done to save one from medical trauma

cybriz82:



Ok what if I mean what if bad thing come happen to her for d hospital Shey u go tell police say na u advice this guy to take her to d hospital

I stated it there that her parents should sign the consent form! Read to understand

Bhami:
Lmao I dey try getting her off my mind I had to inform my mom about it which she persuade her to go for test I'm afraid if there's more to it if not how can someone toy with her health just because of some pastors

ask who and who told her of revelation after that take her to the hospital and get medical advice.....

AryaSand:


Serious Ticking Bomb waiting to explode. The only thing he can do is tell her get her parents involved and let them take their daughter to the hospital themself.

Hopefully, they are not the ones pushing the prophecy narrative cos if that is the case she will have to go against their wishes..

Which kain appendicitis go teh 4 person body for 5 years? If na appendicitis that lady for dun kpeme. It may be an Endometriosis, a medical condition in which tissue similar to the tissue that forms the lining of your uterus grows outside of your uterine cavity. The lining of your uterus is called the endometrium.
Endometriosis occurs when endometrial tissue grows on your ovaries, bowel, and tissues lining your pelvis. It’s unusual for endometrial tissue to spread beyond your pelvic region, but it’s not impossible. Endometrial tissue growing outside of your uterus is known as an endometrial implant. If not diagnose and treated one can suffer it for as long as 20 years.
Find out from her if her symptoms is consistence with the following: Pelvic pain is the most common symptom of endometriosis. You may also have the following symptoms:

painful periods
pain in the lower abdomen before and during menstruation
cramps one or two weeks around menstruation
heavy menstrual bleeding or bleeding between periods
infertility
pain following sexual intercourse
discomfort with bowel movements
lower back pain that may occur at any time during your menstrual cycle

Bhami:
Good day great people of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. Almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.

I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21, also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to

my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery.

Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to.

No quit may be na you go help her live.

Lazy youths. And where did the O.P mention a pastor in his article now. people don't have sense, thats' why they easily fail NECO EXAMS.

Buh! my brother let that gurl go, she attends another church while u attends another church by mere looking at it.
leave her please.!

Which kind revelation b that...... Women can't do without revelation of a thing

AryaSand:


I was about saying the same. My favourite uncle had this same problem but didn't take it seriously being the workaholic that he was. He kept taking pain relief for the stomach ache until he passed out at work one day. He was rushed him to Randle General hospital where he was diagnosed with a ruptured appendix. Uncle died 4days after his surgery on the 10th day of October 2013, a month after I lost my mom. I wanted to go mad.

This thread they make me laf. Anyway 10th October fear that date, with GOD all things are possible.

Oya, ifa .... Your son is asking question from you o!!! What should he do?
Shld he quit or continue?

My bloda, ifa is booting and it will take 60k for ifa to finish boot ... But what I can hear from Ifa is that ; this is an interesting questions....
So, do the needful and get your answers in a jiffy....
Ifa is still booting...... Waiting for your response

EkaRohi:
A lot of people have lost their lives because of this revelation thing. If she doesn't go for surgery, the appendix will rupture and she will still die. Why do people go to church if they don't have faith in God? The prophet or whoever that told you not to go for surgery is he God? Is it not God that gave doctors the wisdom to save us in times like this? Encourage her to go to the hospital and believe that she will come out of the theater alive. Read your scriptures and declare the word of the Lord over your live, most of all go with a positive mind. My sister was once told in her church not to accept surgery during pregnancy if not she won't come out alive, and that was how she kept losing her pregnancy till the fifth one I couldn't take it any longer when she was expecting the sixth time, had to go and have a very bitter quarrel with the husband and threatened to involve the law if he doesn't release my Sister for me. I brought her to stay with mum through out the pregnancy and kept feeding her positively. CS was booked and she came out with her baby, she has three children today and still alive.

Una get patience for una family ó.

I would've had the husband whisked to the barracks on the 3rd pregnancy and he would've been the one to freely sanction the CS sef.

What nonsense! Imagine losing 5 pregnancy. The emotional trauma sef all in d name of a revelation

ednut1:
avoid such people if you want to live long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u sleep with her now and the appendix ruptures and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex

true talk bro