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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Olodo24: 7:03pm On Oct 07, 2019
TOPCRUISE:
I won't do that. Marrying my age mate will make people mistake her for my mum. One will get tired correcting them that she is my wife not my mum.
are you getting married at 60?

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Acidosis(m): 7:06pm On Oct 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
i dont believe in that

for men it is better to marry someone you can mode and tame to the woman you want

believe me, you dont want a wild horse in your house

My age mate are untamable so i better go for someone fresh and young.



Ignorance.

The older, the easier it is to tame.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by dbalinga(m): 7:08pm On Oct 07, 2019
TOPCRUISE:
I won't do that. Marrying my age mate will make people mistake her for my mum. One will get tired correcting them that she is my wife not my mum.

Not even that alone, but the fact that her actions involuntarily or voluntarily will be that " atleast we are mates ". Women can be very complex to understand. Submission is usually an issue when you get married to your agemate

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by olumide4christ: 7:12pm On Oct 07, 2019
BTW, to those saying it is good to marry ladies aged 18-24 years....I have this to say to you.
By God's grace, in my church, I teach, counsel, mentor young guys and girls who fall into that age group for over 15 years now AND I can categorically say that many girls who are 25 years and below are not emotionally and mentally prepared for a serious endeavor like marriage. I am not just saying so, I know so. That's why many marriages involving 1 or more young people 25 yrs or younger have major challenges bordering on emotional & mental maturity.

Finally, I believe that only a mature man in all aspects - spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially, physically, etc can find an equally mature lady, irrespective of the age!

My 2 cents!

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Colb461: 7:17pm On Oct 07, 2019
Does that mean ur the woman who train u up to be a better man is what u called all women to be...or ur sis if u av any...
friendlyadvice:

Very funny so you don't know women are animals that men have to control

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Royalfurnitures: 7:17pm On Oct 07, 2019
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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 07, 2019
Magnoliaa:
Or rather marry your 'mental age mate.'
would have been good but this is another marathon.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by twosquare(m): 7:20pm On Oct 07, 2019
God bless you for this testimony. I'm just wondering the type of minds we have on this thread. People love vanity die.. Kai...
olumide4christ:


It doesn't always work out that way.

I & my wife are almost age mates, she is 2 years Older than I am; have been married for 8 years and our marriage is going ever stronger. As God would have it, we both married as virgins. I am glad that I married her & not some other lady.

But do you know that some men have married a woman 10, 15, 20 years younger than them but these wives have given the men tough time, high blood pressure, even cheated on their husbands and as a result, the men have grown older quickly & are living a life of regret?

BTW, a few weeks ago, I attended the wedding of the daughter of a Redeemed Christian Church of God Pastor. I have known this man, his wife & even his children for decades. Guess what - The wife is older than the husband but they have been happily married for about 25-30 yrs.

Age is just a number....though it has led many men (and women) to make choices that they have regretted.

As God said in the book of Proverbs - wisdom is the principal thing, so get it...and with it, get understanding!

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by emerged01(m): 7:25pm On Oct 07, 2019
ikorodureporta:
so someone who is close to 40 shl marry his age mate??
Bro,it is possible! I’m older than my wife with just three months. Though stature of one’s partner matters,you won’t know that we are of the same age.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:25pm On Oct 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
i dont believe in that

for men it is better to marry someone you can mode and tame to the woman you want

believe me, you dont want a wild horse in your house

My age mate are untamable so i better go for someone fresh and young.

They are untamable or you are incapable of taming them. The fact that she is a thousand years younger than you doesn't make her tamable a mad person is a mad person old or young

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:27pm On Oct 07, 2019
myfan:


So any pussy @35+ is no longer sweet?
Well most... E dey wound preek, that fresh oiled ogbonor hardly comes out during knacking and its mostly dry.. Hardly juicy

Maybe it's just me idunno ooh embarassed

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Funkybabee(f): 7:27pm On Oct 07, 2019
insecurity will not allow them

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by anyicosta: 7:27pm On Oct 07, 2019
women get old quick.they r just like flower.so i wont try marryin my age

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 07, 2019
Magnoliaa:



Like I said, varieties. And different things to consider.

You are not in the head of anyone neither are you directing their 'mental processes.'

If you feel/think menopause is an issue, then avoid older women.

It works for others.

A relationship (going into it) can be for so many other things than for child-bearing and other superficial things people expect and make it to be.
I support your last statement.

I told my friend that my getting married won't be because of children because I may decide to adopt one or two of which I will let the woman know before we tie the knot, my friend said I'm abnormal.
My take is that if she gives birth or not I won't have issues like it does some people to the point that it destroys their marriages.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 07, 2019
Funkybabee:
insecurity will not allow them
Will u be kind enough to explain Funky...
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Paulo3ree(m): 7:32pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:
Women get old fast, women blah blah...actually men take longer to mature...a 23 year old man and woman are not the same thing...they have different stages of brain development and maturation...so thats the reason to marry an older man, if you so choose.
So both sex of same age have different brain development, that's to say the female will have more developed brain?

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 07, 2019
Firstorderwizard:
If Aisha can make it with Buhari, you too can


meanwhile
A brother needs a 25 years old virgin for a very important prayer . He just need her to make some declarations (prayers) for him as requested by the prophet. He's willing to pay #20,000.
No physical contact needed. She just have to say the prayers in her location by mid night and that's all.
Pm me if you are interested.
FYI He's a Christian and very willing to provide all his details if you are in doubt.
When did this became a Christian practice?

Be careful of what you do all in the same of Christianity.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by rexandyke(m): 7:36pm On Oct 07, 2019
If you are not my agemate, avoid me cos it will not work......

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by AshawoHusband50(m): 7:37pm On Oct 07, 2019
Truer words have never been spoken
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 7:41pm On Oct 07, 2019
Paulo3ree:

So both sex of same age have different brain development, that's to say the female will have more developed brain?

Not that females have a more developed brain. But female brains develop faster. The brain cells of female children begin to make more meaningful connections at an earlier age. After a while males will catch up

So yes, during early life and young adulthood, females have more developed brains

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by LocalNietzsche: 7:41pm On Oct 07, 2019
Dave Chapelle cool
Charleys:
There's no such thing as a 35 year old sweet pus5y. kiss kiss

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by ukaface(f): 7:45pm On Oct 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
i dont believe in that

for men it is better to marry someone you can mode and tame to the woman you want

believe me, you dont want a wild horse in your house

My age mate are untamable so i better go for someone fresh and young.


hope you ain't the type that scolds,shout,beat,and embarrass his wife all in the name of ' taming' her?
Please don't have such mindset.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Paulo3ree(m): 7:50pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


Not that females have a more developed brain. But female brains develop faster. The brain cells of female children begin to make more meaningful connections at an earlier age. After a while males will catch up

So yes, during early life, females have more developed brains
I hope those are not just assumptions cause class performances says otherwise

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by nick50(m): 7:54pm On Oct 07, 2019
I can date but will never marry my age mate make person no come look like my grandma after child birth

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 7:54pm On Oct 07, 2019
Paulo3ree:

I hope those are not just assumptions cause class performances says otherwise

No its true, you can go and check it

are you talking about secondary school classes?
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by LocalNietzsche: 7:54pm On Oct 07, 2019
Young women are to men as rich and successful men are to women. Is so deep that it has neurological grounding in humans. But young women don't stay young forever and rich men have a wide variety of choices(rarely monogamous). What do you want? Your inert biological drive or a more refined and cultured choice?

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by tete7000(m): 7:57pm On Oct 07, 2019
Marry an adult would have been more appropriate
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Paulo3ree(m): 7:58pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


No its true, you can go and check it

are you talking about secondary school classes?
All levels inclusive
I will sure make a little study on it
Alright then
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by olumide4christ: 8:00pm On Oct 07, 2019
twosquare:
God bless you for this testimony. I'm just wondering the type of minds we have on this thread. People love vanity die.. Kai...

Amen sir!

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by titosantana(m): 8:00pm On Oct 07, 2019
Charleys:
There's no such thing as a 35 year old sweet pus5y.
Educate me pls
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 8:02pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:
Women get old fast, women blah blah...actually men take longer to mature...a 23 year old man and woman are not the same thing...they have different stages of brain development and maturation...so thats the reason to marry an older man, if you so choose.
true ,so my wife is probably like 15 now lol
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 8:04pm On Oct 07, 2019
Firstorderwizard:
If Aisha can make it with Buhari, you too can


meanwhile
A brother needs a 25 years old virgin for a very important prayer . He just need her to make some declarations (prayers) for him as requested by the prophet. He's willing to pay #20,000.
No physical contact needed. She just have to say the prayers in her location by mid night and that's all.
Pm me if you are interested.
FYI He's a Christian and very willing to provide all his details if you are in doubt.

I am a 25 years old virgin prayer warrior man, I am willing to make the declarations, please send the money thanks and God bless.

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