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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 07, 2019
purples25:


Last last na your choice. For me, this is unfair and my heart goes out to the young girls whose lives had to be stopped or continued with an older man, well especially the very little girls ( though guys on nl are talking of 19, above and below ) .
Ahh.. 19 ke? Noo who wants to be with a child... from 23 upwards is perfect. 19 too small oo
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by richiewrites(m): 9:06pm On Oct 07, 2019
lilwetdick:
i dont believe in that

for men it is better to marry someone you can mode and tame to the woman you want

believe me, you dont want a wild horse in your house

My age mate are untamable so i better go for someone fresh and young.



Little dick, little brain
See him saying tame like women are animals and mode like they are sculptures.
The only thing that needs moding is your self-esteem and what needs taming is your dimwittedness.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Xclusiveme: 9:09pm On Oct 07, 2019
Magnoliaa:


Make your own findings.

I didn't say 'supercede,' btw.

You are bitter

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 07, 2019
Magnoliaa:
more than you're worth.

comprehend my post before quoting me.



Do you know my worth? I can see your mental ego oozing forth from your anus....

Lemme forgive you tonight .... Don't write this kin craps to me again o!
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:11pm On Oct 07, 2019
Magnoliaa:



Asin?? What do you mean?
finding an intellectual match.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by fcdgrand(m): 9:14pm On Oct 07, 2019
purples25:


are you a virgin? You are not a virgin but you want virgin abi?
yes, i want to marry virgin that is my prayer point, men from bible marry virgin, even virgin mary give birth to our lord Jesus Christ, i want pure blood children!

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Xclusiveme: 9:14pm On Oct 07, 2019
This is absolutely nonsense. This is Africa, we are not entitled to becoming sustainable till after 27 0r 30 unless for the privileged ones. It takes time for a middle class man to accomplish his goals. That's why we marry late and u expect us to marry our age mate at that time? Who will take care of who

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:16pm On Oct 07, 2019
purples25:


Why will women run around when men are confidently sitting around till whenever they like, growing pot bellies with high self esteem, to marry the youngest girl? That sense of entitlement stinks to me.

We are equal. Older women should be accepted by the equally old men. Let men marry their mates.


Dem dey run carry pot belly go meet those helpless small girls....mstcheww
Tell that to Ned and Buhari!!!

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


Lol if your wife is 15 then you are 11...women's brains are fully developed by age 21 while men's is age 25
the man has to be older ,not the other way around

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


Yes, exactly. It's interesting right

And another fact: in times of famine or hardship, birth of males is suppressed to increase likelihood of survival because males are more likely to die without living long enough to procreate than females
Nice theories cool

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:18pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


It's not a school of thought, it's biology. You can go and check it

It's also not a given that women look like grandmas at age 35 or after childbirth,so why do people keep saying it?

Does people saying it make it right? A fallacy doesn't become a fact because people are saying it.

Biology is not the entire constitution of humans. We are also psychological, social, to mention two. So when you talk about maturity, you do not limit it to biological alone. And even biologically, your position is not always the case. Except of course you are talking about prepubescence.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:19pm On Oct 07, 2019
purples25:


are you a virgin? You are not a virgin but you want virgin abi?
Bride price loading..
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:21pm On Oct 07, 2019
fabiano09:

the man has to be older ,not the other way around

I know, i meant in terms of mentality, like you are 4 years behind
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:


Cant believe what Im reading...Who and what are you taming? Is she a hyena
What he meant is a woman who will be loyal, understanding and submissive. Not the one who will be challenging everything a man does or says like most of u are.. Imagine a girl fvcking a guy just to get at me because she believed i fvcked someone els too. How u want me to survive with that

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:23pm On Oct 07, 2019
midnighter:

I know, i meant in terms of mentality, like you are 4 years behind
haha that's not true,no offence but why do people say women have fish brains ??
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by bukatyne(f): 9:24pm On Oct 07, 2019
Acidosis:


Ignorance.

The older, the easier it is to tame.

Eziokwu!
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:24pm On Oct 07, 2019
LongThickPenis:
A wise man once said the best age ratio for husband to wife is that a man should marry a woman half his age +7 years. If a man is 35, marry a girl that is 17.5+ 7=24.5 or 25. A forty years old man should need a woman of 27.

Rubbish. When does matter of the heart become mathematics? When love comes, Oga you and the wise man go forget this formula.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by bukatyne(f): 9:26pm On Oct 07, 2019
dairykidd:

Well most... E dey wound preek, that fresh oiled ogbonor hardly comes out during knacking and its mostly dry.. Hardly juicy

Maybe it's just me idunno ooh embarassed

What happens when the wife you married at 16yrs becomes 35yrs?

Could it be that you did not turn her on properly?

Or she has some hormonal issues?

Or she is naturally dry?
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by purples25(f): 9:27pm On Oct 07, 2019
fcdgrand:
yes, i want to marry virgin that is my prayer point, men from bible marry virgin, even virgin mary give birth to our lord Jesus Christ, i want pure blood children!

ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:28pm On Oct 07, 2019
papyskinsy:


bro uve got it really right.. i once dated lady 2 years older.. i regretted it ever. shes rude ..no manners nothing.. meanwhile shes 30 years. de relationship didnt work out so i wen for someone 7 years younger dan my age.. and i was amazed by her maturity. such s life.

It doesn't really have anything to do with the age difference. You dated someone rude earlier, now you are dating someone relatively polite, that's it. Forget the age, who go respect you, go respect you.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:29pm On Oct 07, 2019
TsaTrinity:

He will avoid the news like used menstrual pad. Well bottom line is marry who loves, supports and understand you regardless the age


Thank you. It's a simple stuff.
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:30pm On Oct 07, 2019
djoe21:


Does people saying it make it right? A fallacy doesn't become a fact because people are saying it.

Biology is not the entire constitution of humans. We are also psychological, social, to mention two. So when you talk about maturity, you do not limit it to biological alone. And even biologically, your position is not always the case. Except of course you are talking about prepubescence.

Just because you dont like it, doesnt make it a fallacy. you havent checked it, so you dont know if its false

Women stop being able to give birth after around age 50. Its very sad and nobody likes it, but its true. Does that make it a fallacy?

Psychology is a branch of biology that arises from both biological and social effects

In terms of sociology, female children are conditioned to be more mature than their male counterparts. You can observe it when girls are told to stay with their moms in the kitchen, have to be more particular about neatness and are scolded for rowdy or even licentious behaviour "because you are a girl"..while boys are allowed to get away with a lot more

It creates a hyper-responsibility in girls that still affects them into adulthood

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 07, 2019
bukatyne:


What happens when the wife you married at 16yrs becomes 35yrs?
I take God beg u.. i can't marry any girl under 23. Ahh.. am i a mallam
I'm not advocating for underage marriage oooh biko

If it gets to that we go apply lube
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:31pm On Oct 07, 2019
fabiano09:

haha that's not true,no offence but why do people say women have fish brains ??

Lol i dont know, but if youre one of them please stop it oh
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:31pm On Oct 07, 2019
eni4real:
Nice theories cool

wink
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:32pm On Oct 07, 2019
micxwell:

Lol.... grin

lol youre laughing. Hope youre not taming anybody in your place...ontop this bad economic condition
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 07, 2019
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:35pm On Oct 07, 2019
olumide4christ:


It doesn't always work out that way.

I & my wife are almost age mates, she is 2 years Older than I am; have been married for 8 years and our marriage is going ever stronger. As God would have it, we both married as virgins. I am glad that I married her & not some other lady.

But do you know that some men have married a woman 10, 15, 20 years younger than them but these wives have given the men tough time, high blood pressure, even cheated on their husbands and as a result, the men have grown older quickly & are living a life of regret?

BTW, a few weeks ago, I attended the wedding of the daughter of a Redeemed Christian Church of God Pastor. I have known this man, his wife & even his children for decades. Guess what - The wife is older than the husband but they have been happily married for about 25-30 yrs.

Age is just a number....though it has led many men (and women) to make choices that they have regretted.

As God said in the book of Proverbs - wisdom is the principal thing, so get it...and with it, get understanding!

Bless you Sir. You have commented well.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by bukatyne(f): 9:38pm On Oct 07, 2019
purples25:


Why will women run around when men are confidently sitting around till whenever they like, growing pot bellies with high self esteem, to marry the youngest girl? That sense of entitlement stinks to me.

We are equal. Older women should be accepted by the equally old men. Let men marry their mates.


Dem dey run carry pot belly go meet those helpless small girls....mstcheww

@bold

Funny.

I hope you know that you can't legislate people's choices as long as their partners are legal.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by bukatyne(f): 9:39pm On Oct 07, 2019
oshaosha2014:
That’s like, worn out and ran through already.


Are you describing your wife when she is 35?

Even if you met her at 10, she will be 35 one day.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by purples25(f): 9:39pm On Oct 07, 2019
eni4real:
Tell that to Ned and Buhari!!!
anytime i remember those ones....i just dey sad.

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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Jman06(m): 9:39pm On Oct 07, 2019
You failed this one Mr Adeshina!

Any lady up to the age of 18 is very due for marriage and can be married by any adult male of any age provided the both of them are in agreement.

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