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Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:40pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
goldman777: An older man that barely meets his responsibilities as a husband/father and a younger man of her age that meets his adequately, who do you think she would gladly look up to? Biko, I think I have typed too much tonight already. 2 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by fcdgrand(m): 9:41pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
purples25:chai! see question! man virgin is his heart intact while woman virgin is her pussy intact, fvck non-virgin & marry virgin, in other word, give diick but don't give heart, the heart is for virgin 3 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:42pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Jman06: So why is our age of consent 11 years old? Is it not an national and international disgrace? 3 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
bukatyne: Maybe oo.. but not one or two sef and i can easily turn on a younger, fresher juicy version of her. So how can i tirn on something that doesn't turn me on Try to grab brezz and that shiid be looking like grandma's, i force my self to suck it and it feels weird, i look awkward fumbling with it. Everything looks ancient.. i can't even go down on her its not enticing and then i try to maintain my rock hard pipe before losing interest totally.. Then i wake up traumatized.... I can't cope with that shiid, i won't 3 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Halo22: 9:45pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Marriage is not really a matter of age or experience. It's all about choice and decision. For me, young and fresh kpekus makes sense. 1 Like |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by LocalNietzsche: 9:46pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter:There is a twist. An interesting one. Female are more socialised than men or earlier socialize than men. But the immaturity of most men means in some cases they are more stupidier but in rare cases more intelligent than most men and women (I think is associated with something called latent inhibition and sexual selection theory). So the distribution goes: average woman is smarter than the average man. But when it comes to genius; men far exceed women in nearly all endeavor. 2 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by purples25(f): 9:46pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
bukatyne: yeah i know. I simply dislike how society, and mostly these men, have this entitled view of how things should be. They also insult, run down and even go out of their way in some cases to make life hard for the older woman . the main thing here is about the underage girls, i admit i might have run off the main point. 1 Like |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
purples25:It happens everywhere in Nigeria, everyday.. Just that Ned's own is popular.. |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Magnoliaa(f): 9:48pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Yigiyaga: You'll find it if you really want. No matter how long it takes, what it takes. 2 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by micxwell(m): 9:49pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ndiuel:Spot on... 1 Like |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by purples25(f): 9:49pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
fcdgrand: see the person that was going hoo haa like a holy man, about having pure blood kids. |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 9:51pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
LocalNietzsche: Interesting. You mean like a bell curve? |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 9:56pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: Madam, there's nothing you can explain or quote. It is fallacy to state categorically like you did that women mature faster than men. You have no study to prove that. In fact, I have seen a study that proves that men age faster and yet it wasn't as conclusive as your statements. You even said a 23year old female and male are not same wrt maturity; implying that the female is always more mature. Firstly, what is your understanding of maturity? I can now see you are clearly limiting the meaning the word. Secondly, you have not seen all male and female 23year-olds to draw such a conclusion. Like I said earlier, you cannot categorically state your position. That is an unfounded generalisation. |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by micxwell(m): 9:57pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter:The scenario sounds like going out to buy a wife you wanna rear like an animal. Many youths lack the understanding of the institution called MARRIAGE. That's the issue/problem here not the age. No wonder people rush in and rush out. The bigger problem is youths aren't ready to spend their resources on getting the wisdom and knowledge required to pull things through. When people have problems in their relationships (even the married folks o) the first place they can think of is the social media. More like the case of a blind person leading another blind person. It's well. 3 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Amanda4life: 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
5 or 6 years gap is it too small? |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
djoe21: Lol, you are not serious. You didnt ask me for a study, did you? https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=175876 https://www.mic.com/articles/111226/science-explains-why-women-are-faster-to-mature-than-men https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/12/131219131153.htm You mentioned sociology and psychology, thats why i talked about those I dont know if youre being deliberately obtuse or what... of course its a generalisation..! Theyre traipsing all over the thread suggesting that all 30+ women who give birth look like grandmas, i dont see you castigating any of them for making generalisations. A generalisation is not necessarily false, depending on how you apply it If i am making a short comment to answer the rubbish thats happening on the thread, of course i will imply things, it doesnt mean you should apply it to every single 23 year old man on the planet You are just being purposely glib, for no real reason other than simple biology seeming to irk you |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by ogianyo(m): 10:15pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:Abeg which one be mental age mate again |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:18pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: I am done going through the thread, I am only replying your mentions. About those that say such about 30+ ladies, I hardly take them serious. Good that you agreed to implying things. |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 10:22pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
djoe21: cool |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Jman06(m): 10:25pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter:11years old is a minor and I don't support marrying a minor. But the message said "marry your age mate" and that is not realistically correct. 2 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:27pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: I am done going through the thread, I am only replying your mentions. And it was just a comment you made in the first page of the thread that caught my interest. Anyways, it's good that you have clarified that some of the things you typed were implied because from the way your sentences were structured in that comment, it didn't seem so. About those that say such stuff about 30+ ladies, I hardly take them serious, so no point replying them. About being irked, not at all. Why should I be angry with someone I am trying to convince to love club football on behalf of her boyfriend? |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by jerryunit48: 10:30pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Keepem:you try |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Nobody: 10:31pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter:what lol am not,just saying what i hear all the time ,although I don't believe it myself . But seriously I think women are naive when they are young ,easily deceived my predators |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 10:32pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
djoe21: hahaha do you know i kept thinking about that comment, but every time i go back to look for it I get distracted Dont mind me, I will explain that you convinced me to give the premier league another try! |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by lereinter(m): 10:33pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Yoghurt abi |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 10:34pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Jman06: Yeah..somebody said he should have said "marry an adult" i think thats maybe what he meant 1 Like |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by khia: 10:34pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ikorodureporta: The point is to marry women and let the little girls grow into women. If you are 40 there is nothing wrong with you marrying someone between 30 and 40. A woman can still procreate during those years. 1 Like |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by djoe21(m): 10:40pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
midnighter: And you will not regret it. |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by anonymuz(m): 10:43pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ikorodureporta:why not? |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by midnighter(f): 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
djoe21: |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by fcdgrand(m): 10:50pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
purples25:marry non-virgin is a risk! may end up giving men baskard child(ren), virgin is a sure bet for pure blood child(ren) 3 Likes |
Re: Akinwunmi Adesina: Stop Marrying Small Girls; Marry Your Age Mates by Raalsalghul: 10:51pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
cococandy: 3 Likes |
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