No he never asked of any of my nudes Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now Infact he told me girls that send him nude are whores nd used hoes We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa He has really helped me alot both financially nd mentally Bt because he is white people think his intentions are not pure.
Young lady, I won't join people here fallaciously projecting your life and how it will turn out.
But I will tell you three things.
1. Humans are not perfect, do not think some nationality or race is perfect than others.
2. Therefore always be ready for the unexpected.
3. Everything may go well till the end of your life but in case anything bad happens, take it as a lesson and move on.
The same line of reasoning can be applied to handsome guys too. Why would a handsome, tall, Caucasian guy, go for a not so attractive female negro? It sounds fishy. I just hope it's not what I'm thinking.
this man u have been making me laugh on this thread....
We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa He is also helping me me in every possible way Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully. Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!
And which “mentality” you dey show us say you get for this your story?. Jamaican mentality?Smh....
[ author=Pettyprincess post=82992900]There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.
After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.
So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.
So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.
Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.
So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.
So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.
I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.
So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.
Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.
Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.
I only need mature advice!!![/quote]
1. When you were collecting his money, you didnt say anything about Nigerian mentality. 2. When you finally met a white guy, you suddenly disliked Nigerian mentality! Because of green card! And you said your people would not like him, mtchewwwwwwww!!!!! 3. You don't know anything, you heart has never been broken! Because your first boyfriend cheated on you, you dislike Nigerian mentality? You are a baby and you are being tossed up and down! It's a pity! 4. You don't know what love is and what it means to love!!!!! 5. Infact you don't know what you want, you are only seeking for yur own advantage. 6. The only reason you don't want to tell or hurt Mr nice guy is because you keep him as another option in case things doesnt work out between you and your caucasian dog or what do you call him!!! Do you know what love is? Love never fails Love is not jealous Love is patient It does not brag It does not get puffed up It hopes all things, bears all things, endures all things It does not LOOK FOR ITS OWN INTERESTS It does not get provoked It does not rejoice over bad! It does not keep account of the injury. You are only focused on the outward appearance of the white guy that's why you are looking for tall guys!!! This is not love it's INFATUATION! You have known this white man for just a year in fact you don't know anything about him because he visits occassionally. So how sure are you that youd be able to cope with him when you see his dark side or do you not know that everyone has a dark side? You don't know much about someone and you want to settle down after a year of seldom visits
I guess you never understood my submission. I'll rather you went back to re-read what I post.
You're saying she should ignore criticism. What's the big deal in understanding your post?
I'm saying the critics pointing out she's drunken in love and going into the a potential ditch with her eyes closed are right.
But you're not happy about how they are so raw with the criticism. I say it's a guy thing to be that way and it's a woman thing to be subtle/beat around the bush.
However, there's a lot of truth in what they are telling her. She's really not doing enough thinking with her acclaimed foreign lover, painting him as one who can do no wrong.
It's surprising how she can speak for "white guys", like she has dealt with them all her life. Surprisingly, she's even yet to leave the shores of the country yet, for any firsthand experience.
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Pettyprincess: There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.
After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.
So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.
So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.
Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.
So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.
So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.
I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.
So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.
Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.
Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.
If you had spend more time minding your business or at least learnt to input when and how necessary you would have saved some of your senses and retained intensive memory. You made my referred post about you the moment you typed : "I wouldn't have looked at you twice on the street" at op. Or would you deny typing such too? Forgetful being.
Go treat your dyslexia, beings like you have no business condemning anyone here!
Looks like you just heard "selective comprehension" from somewhere and started using it without taking it through a proper mental processing. No wonder you display absurd mental deficiency in the way you comment.
What a dolt! Too much use of weavons and relaxer is making you act dumb.
You're saying she should ignore criticism. What's the big deal in understanding your post?
I'm saying the critics pointing out she's drunken in love and going into the a potential ditch with her eyes closed are right.
But you're not happy about how they are so raw with the criticism. I say it's a guy thing to be that way and it's a woman thing to be subtle/beat around the bush.
However, there's a lot of truth in what they are telling her. She's really not doing enough thinking with her acclaimed foreign lover, painting him as one who can do no wrong.
It's surprising how she can speak for "white guys", like she has dealt with them all her life. Surprisingly, she's even yet to leave the shores of the country yet, for any firsthand experience.
Phew. Really? I never asked her to ignore the criticisms. I told her to read, assimilate and not reply every posts here. It's just a waste of time.
If you have the opportunity to go to university abroad, don't go to Poland. Polish men are African men in white skin. He likes your submission and you really need to be careful. Don't be a sad story. Polish people leave Poland for university. They speak a different language and I am telling you the society is racist. Black men suffer in Poland, you think you will what?
Poland is the equivalent of Nigeria, its not the UK or America. They have different values, you better not jump out the pot and into the fire.
The fact he didn't ask for sex and nudes isn't important. He may want more than your pussy. These guys pick up women in clubs and surgically remove their organs and sell them on the black market.
Girl... Slow down.
Pettyprincess, this seems like good advice. Please be careful.
Pettyprincess: There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.
After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.
So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.
So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.
Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.
So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.
So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.
I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.
So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.
Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.
Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.
Pettyprincess: There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.
After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.
So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.
So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.
Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.
So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.
So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.
I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.
So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.
Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.
Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.
I only need mature advice!!!
I hope they won't sell your spare parts in Poland hospital Las Las �
Thanks i know!!! Most girls that are victims of sex trafficking are usually deceived by Nigerians promising to get them job in Europe If i dont trust him nd he doesn't t trust me our relationship would never exist!! He knows my mum dad nd sister,he is even friends on facebook with my sister nd do talk about Nigerian culture with my sister nd why i dnt wear Yoruba native wear He even plans on visiting here soon! So he's not a human trafficker or whatsoever.
LMAO!! you still sound like a teen even tho you are not one, do you think knowing your parents will stop him from trafficking you if he wants to?? students visa ke?? be very very carefull please
Watch these movies, maybe it will bring you back to your senses
Pettyprincess: There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.
After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.
So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.
So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.
Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.
So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.
So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.
I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.
So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.
Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.
Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.
I only need mature advice!!!
To start with you are not pretty and at the same time you are too young to be focusing and talking about relationships right now...your major priority now should be your education i thinking of how to get admitted into any of the higher institutions and concentrate on how to come out with a good grade...damn! na kids really full nairaland.
What kind of fuckery is this? Look at this baby-who**. I'm seriously angered ��. You said you don't want to date any Nigerian guy and you're here seeking for relationship advice from same Nigerian guys you want to avoid? Are you trying to have your cake and eat it at same time? That your non-Nigerian guy will probably fvck your amateurish coochie and dumb you heart-broken.
PS This guy you're trying to dump is your true lover and someone who really deserves you. Imagine someone who thinks it's inappropriate to approach a minor girl about love relationship until she's legally 18. Do you really want an honest advice? MARRY HIM ASAP!
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
Lol poverty mentality has killed you my dear. Poverty alleviation project. Men can be dumb sha
Post me pictures a average Caucasian lady!! That's the problem with Nigerian guys What you find not attractive,other race really prefer them more Check this picture for example This girl even not pretty as i am bt still gat a attractive white bf that loves her alot!!nd she is from kenya
lol... This shows you're desperate to be with an oyinbo man. You even went as far as getting pictures from the internet to prove your point. You wanted help on how to cut off a guy who's disturbing you, instead you're here hyping one oyinbo man like that. And who told you you're prettier than that girl? Not to sound rude but tbh, you are no where close to that lady in terms of facial look and physique. You just look normal, even with the make up sef... you are not as fine as you think you are. That's the truth.
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.
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