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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bigwig071(m): 8:12am On Oct 10, 2019

She was an average Japanese teenager who lived a good life, until one day the four most vile, horrendous and disgusting humans in all of history snatched that life away from her.
Now, this next part will elaborate on the truly despicable and sickening things the four boys did, and why they deserve a special layer of Hell reserved for them.
Seriously, don’t scroll down if you don’t think you can handle it. Mental scarring and trauma may occur.
On November 25, 1988 Junko Furuta was kidnapped by 4 teenage boys – one of them being Hiroshi Miyano, who had been rejected by her when he asked her out. The boys took Junko Furuta to the house owned by the parents of one of the kidnappers in the Ayase district of Adachi, Tokyo.
While in captivity, the kidnapers forced Junko Furuta to call her parents and tell them that she’d run away and is going to stay with a friend, but insist that she’s not in danger. Not able to realize what was coming and too scared to remain non-compliant, Junko did exactly as she was told, ultimately forestalling a manhunt which would have otherwise followed her disappearance.
Parents of Nobuharu Minato in whose house Junko Furuta was kept paid their son a visit on a few occasions but under a threat of increased violence against her, Junko was requested to pretend that she was a girlfriend of one of the boys. However even when it became apparent that she was a captive in the house, the parents did nothing for fear of retaliation from Hiroshi Miyano who was known to have the Yakuza connections.
During the course of 44 days following her kidnapping, Junko Furuta was forced to withstand unspeakable suffering. What she went through before murder included:
-Was humiliated by being kept Unclad most of the time
-Was raped every day in both vagina and anus. More than 100 men are believed to have raped her – the captor with Yakuza connections is said to have invited other Yakuza members to have a go at a 16 year old. She’s estimated to have gone through about 500 rapes. At one point she was raped by 12 different men in one day
-Endured physical beatings included hits with golf clubs and bashing of face against cement floor
-The 100 men who are believed to have raped her had also reportedly enjoyed urinating on the girl
-Frequently, in order to turn her rapists on, she was forced to masturbate in front of them and/or their guests
-Had various objects forced into her vagina and anus, including a bottle, an iron bar, scissors, roasting needles, grilled chicken skewers, etc.
-Was provided with only limited supply of food or water
-Was forced to eat live cockroaches and drink her own urine
-Had fireworks forced up her ass and set them off, causing serious burns
-Had her left nipple ripped off with pliers
-Had dumbbells dropped on her stomach while laid on the floor with hands and feet tied up – this resulted in loss of bowel control
-Was hanged from the ceiling and used as boxing bag
-Was kept in a freezer for several hours
-Had eye lids burned with hot wax and lighters
-Had breasts pierced with sewing needles
-Had her vagina and clitoris burnt with cigarettes and lighters
-Had hot, lit on bulb inserted into her vagina and rubbed until it exploded inside
While she was only one quarter through her ordeal, owing to ongoing beatings, Junko Furuta was unable to breathe through her nose due to accumulation of blood in her cavities. Her traumatized internal organs refused to accept food and water so when she tried to drink, she instantly vomited, which not only kept her more dehydrated, it also agitated the perpetrators who punished her with more beating for soiling the carpet.
At one point, when the attackers were resting after drinking, she tried to call the police but was caught and punished by having her feet set on fire with burning lighter fluid. Large bottle the perpetrators forced up her anus caused internal injuries and ugly bleeding.
Severe leg burns and badly bruised muscles left her unable to walk after 20 days of her ordeal. She wasn’t able to handle anything with her hands anymore because her bones were smashed with weights and her fingernails cracked. Since it was winter, she was also forced to sleep on a balcony, exposed to cold temperatures.
After 30 days, Junko Furuta was unable to urinate properly due to damage to internal organs and to vulva from insertion of foreign object and burns from cigarettes and lighters. Her hands and feet were damaged so badly, it took her over an hour to crawl downstairs to the bathroom. Her eardrums were also damaged and brain size was reduced.
During the course of 44 days when she was repeatedly tortured, beaten and raped, Junko Furuta begged her captors several times to just kill her and be done with it. They didn’t grant her that favor. Instead, on January 4, 1989, they challenged her to a game of Mahjong solitaire. She won and that pissed the boys off so they treated her to a beating with an iron barbell and fire by setting her legs, arms, face and stomach alight after pouring lighter fluid on them. Being already badly beaten, dehydrated and malnutritioned, Junko Furuta fell into a shock and died the following day.
The murderers stuffed the dead girl’s body in a 55-gallon drum filled with concrete and disposed of it in Koto, Tokyo.
The names of four main captors who kidnapped, tortured, raped and murdered Junko Furuta were withheld by the Japanese court because they were juveniles, however the journalists from the Shūkan Bunshun magazine dug them out and publish them stating that after what they did to Junko Furuta, they don’t deserve anyone to uphold their human rights:
Hiroshi Miyano – 18 year old at the time of the crime. Changed his name to Hiroshi Yokoyama
Jō Ogura – 18 year old at the time of the crime. Changed his name to Jō Kamisaku (神作譲)
Shinji Minato (– 16 year old at the time of the crime, some sources refer to him as Nobuharu Minato
Yasushi Watanabe – 17 year old at the time of the crime
All four perpetrators were caught and tried. However because they were all under-aged when the crime was committed, they were to be tried as juveniles, but eventually faced sentences of adults, except that the court withheld their identities. Still, given the severity of their crimes, the sentences they were handed out were rather low. By now, each of them is already out of jail. Three of the boys served less than 8 years, the leader was originally sentenced to 17 years in prison, but after his appeal, instead of lowering his sentence, judge Ryūji Yanase bumped his sentence to 20 years. The same judge also increased the sentenced for two more boys who appealed. One didn’t so his sentence stayed as was. Either way, they’re all in their late 30′s and all out of jail.
This, I feel, is the worst part. Do these vicious, brutal, barbarians not deserve the death trial? Being juveniles is no excuse for the unspeakable acts of horror they committed.
We can only hope something like this never happens again.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Revolva(m): 8:14am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.

As long as u have collected from.him

It's gonna be there and karma will follow you
You can't escape it o

Again your body de sweet you cos of the other guy is based abroad hahaha

This no be new tin na go ask them other babe wat they have seen in relationship with guys based abroad

Gal get ready for more frame with the guy you collected money from

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:15am On Oct 10, 2019

Duggedised12:
In Nigeria we have ritualist posing as lovers too, some years back a certain Cynthia was gangraped by a guy and his friends she met online,another story on crime watch of a girl who was paid by two guys to lure another lady online and they gang raped her, many other terrible stories like that and some dont even make it to the news ,so my dear the possibility of you meeting monsters online in Nigeria is even higher, don't mind anyone trying to put fear in you.

Do you and be careful ,that is all i will advise as a sister,shine your eye and be safe. And as for the people talking about your looks ,you will be shocke to see the gorrillas behind those monikers lol, so take it with a pinch of salt .Goodluck .

I know really thanks
They just frustrated ugly being hiding behind anonymous account.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Hoephase: 8:15am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
He has also
All the money he has spent on me is more than 300k, without adding visa processing nd traveling cost
Nd i never asked him for a dime,he did it himself
Bt if i start explaining everything you won't still understand
That guy is genuine!!! People are just mad because he is white!!!
Bt one day i hope to share my story here weather it turns out good or not!!

That is a bit worrisome to me (I might be wrong he might be genuine). My sister I have lived here for close to a decade and have a very close pal whose wife is Polish. They have kids she visit SE every Christmas. From my interaction with most Europeans (I have dated them both long term and short term relationships) is that they don't spend on their girl friend or boy friend.

The reason is so that they don't ulter the power balance in the relationship. That is why I am a bit worried.

My sister, there may be rule of law out here but the dark world out here is a dog eat dog Place.

There have been cases of girls groomed over a long period of time, buying them gift and evening sending them on cruise holiday only for them to wind up as a drug mule.

My point is do your thing but ask the necessary questions and don't take anything for granted.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:15am On Oct 10, 2019

Kemibabi:
Hope you have not sent that white guy your nudes ooo
White guys are sex addicts.
Porn has destroyed their life.
And I would advise you not to put all your hope in that white guy.
The way you describe him certainly sounds too good to be true.
I guessing he is just deceiving you..... who knows.

I guess someone is speaking from experience

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by anonymous1759(m): 8:15am On Oct 10, 2019

donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.

Sense kill you. Naija girls fall for cheap thrills I'm living witness I know of someone who did such and the girl fell like flat breast.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by donogaga(m): 8:15am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.

At 18 you have already started collecting money from guys, that's a bad practice.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by alphaNomega: 8:17am On Oct 10, 2019

bigwig071:
She was an average Japanese teenager who lived a good life, until one day the four most vile, horrendous and disgusting humans in all of history snatched that life away from her.
Now, this next part will elaborate on the truly despicable and sickening things the four boys did, and why they deserve a special layer of Hell reserved for them.
Seriously, don’t scroll down if you don’t think you can handle it. Mental scarring and trauma may occur.
On November 25, 1988 Junko Furuta was kidnapped by 4 teenage boys – one of them being Hiroshi Miyano, who had been rejected by her when he asked her out. The boys took Junko Furuta to the house owned by the parents of one of the kidnappers in the Ayase district of Adachi, Tokyo.
While in captivity, the kidnapers forced Junko Furuta to call her parents and tell them that she’d run away and is going to stay with a friend, but insist that she’s not in danger. Not able to realize what was coming and too scared to remain non-compliant, Junko did exactly as she was told, ultimately forestalling a manhunt which would have otherwise followed her disappearance.
Parents of Nobuharu Minato in whose house Junko Furuta was kept paid their son a visit on a few occasions but under a threat of increased violence against her, Junko was requested to pretend that she was a girlfriend of one of the boys. However even when it became apparent that she was a captive in the house, the parents did nothing for fear of retaliation from Hiroshi Miyano who was known to have the Yakuza connections.
During the course of 44 days following her kidnapping, Junko Furuta was forced to withstand unspeakable suffering. What she went through before murder included:
-Was humiliated by being kept Unclad most of the time
-Was raped every day in both vagina and anus. More than 100 men are believed to have raped her – the captor with Yakuza connections is said to have invited other Yakuza members to have a go at a 16 year old. She’s estimated to have gone through about 500 rapes. At one point she was raped by 12 different men in one day
-Endured physical beatings included hits with golf clubs and bashing of face against cement floor
-The 100 men who are believed to have raped her had also reportedly enjoyed urinating on the girl
-Frequently, in order to turn her rapists on, she was forced to masturbate in front of them and/or their guests
-Had various objects forced into her vagina and anus, including a bottle, an iron bar, scissors, roasting needles, grilled chicken skewers, etc.
-Was provided with only limited supply of food or water
-Was forced to eat live cockroaches and drink her own urine
-Had fireworks forced up her ass and set them off, causing serious burns
-Had her left nipple ripped off with pliers
-Had dumbbells dropped on her stomach while laid on the floor with hands and feet tied up – this resulted in loss of bowel control
-Was hanged from the ceiling and used as boxing bag
-Was kept in a freezer for several hours
-Had eye lids burned with hot wax and lighters
-Had breasts pierced with sewing needles
-Had her vagina and clitoris burnt with cigarettes and lighters
-Had hot, lit on bulb inserted into her vagina and rubbed until it exploded inside
While she was only one quarter through her ordeal, owing to ongoing beatings, Junko Furuta was unable to breathe through her nose due to accumulation of blood in her cavities. Her traumatized internal organs refused to accept food and water so when she tried to drink, she instantly vomited, which not only kept her more dehydrated, it also agitated the perpetrators who punished her with more beating for soiling the carpet.
At one point, when the attackers were resting after drinking, she tried to call the police but was caught and punished by having her feet set on fire with burning lighter fluid. Large bottle the perpetrators forced up her anus caused internal injuries and ugly bleeding.
Severe leg burns and badly bruised muscles left her unable to walk after 20 days of her ordeal. She wasn’t able to handle anything with her hands anymore because her bones were smashed with weights and her fingernails cracked. Since it was winter, she was also forced to sleep on a balcony, exposed to cold temperatures.
After 30 days, Junko Furuta was unable to urinate properly due to damage to internal organs and to vulva from insertion of foreign object and burns from cigarettes and lighters. Her hands and feet were damaged so badly, it took her over an hour to crawl downstairs to the bathroom. Her eardrums were also damaged and brain size was reduced.
During the course of 44 days when she was repeatedly tortured, beaten and raped, Junko Furuta begged her captors several times to just kill her and be done with it. They didn’t grant her that favor. Instead, on January 4, 1989, they challenged her to a game of Mahjong solitaire. She won and that pissed the boys off so they treated her to a beating with an iron barbell and fire by setting her legs, arms, face and stomach alight after pouring lighter fluid on them. Being already badly beaten, dehydrated and malnutritioned, Junko Furuta fell into a shock and died the following day.
The murderers stuffed the dead girl’s body in a 55-gallon drum filled with concrete and disposed of it in Koto, Tokyo.
The names of four main captors who kidnapped, tortured, raped and murdered Junko Furuta were withheld by the Japanese court because they were juveniles, however the journalists from the Shūkan Bunshun magazine dug them out and publish them stating that after what they did to Junko Furuta, they don’t deserve anyone to uphold their human rights:
Hiroshi Miyano – 18 year old at the time of the crime. Changed his name to Hiroshi Yokoyama
Jō Ogura – 18 year old at the time of the crime. Changed his name to Jō Kamisaku (神作譲)
Shinji Minato (– 16 year old at the time of the crime, some sources refer to him as Nobuharu Minato
Yasushi Watanabe – 17 year old at the time of the crime
All four perpetrators were caught and tried. However because they were all under-aged when the crime was committed, they were to be tried as juveniles, but eventually faced sentences of adults, except that the court withheld their identities. Still, given the severity of their crimes, the sentences they were handed out were rather low. By now, each of them is already out of jail. Three of the boys served less than 8 years, the leader was originally sentenced to 17 years in prison, but after his appeal, instead of lowering his sentence, judge Ryūji Yanase bumped his sentence to 20 years. The same judge also increased the sentenced for two more boys who appealed. One didn’t so his sentence stayed as was. Either way, they’re all in their late 30′s and all out of jail.
This, I feel, is the worst part. Do these vicious, brutal, barbarians not deserve the death trial? Being juveniles is no excuse for the unspeakable acts of horror they committed.
We can only hope something like this never happens again.

smh...bloggers

Food is ready!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bigpicture001: 8:18am On Oct 10, 2019

I bet he will still marry u wen all those fantasy of " well built, tall, handsome, well spoken, very neat.etc..clears from ur eyes..then u would b 26... nd fall back to d guy dt really is crazy abt u.. .

Your not doing anything diffrerent from any gal at 18...u will later fall to place

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Duggedised12(f): 8:18am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
I know really thanks
They just frustrated ugly being hiding behind anonymous account.

Just filter the good comments,the risk of meeting a ritualists online in Nigeria is very high but that doesn't mean you should throw caution to the wind with the foreigner either, stay safe is all i will say, wishing you the best .

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 10, 2019

you didn't give your first bf coochie how dare you say he cheated?...you are very funny, and ur story is more funny, you have been collecting money from this guy for 4 years ... infact do as you please i have no advice for you.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Christmasdon(m): 8:24am On Oct 10, 2019

Why do you want to marry a foreigner? Girl Marry from your own people o. Leave that white guy, if anything goes sour, you are the one to lose everything. They won't allow you to come back with their polish baby. Until you fall into danger. Stay in Nigeria go to school ,and who say you can't do well. marry the love of your life and live happily after.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by loswhite(m): 8:26am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

why would he pressure you for sex when he is not in Africa? He is enjoying himself where ever he is and just using you to pass time...grow up

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by joeking2222: 8:26am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Says a lifeless kid no picture!!!
Stupid fool!!!
Post your gf pic na
Ode omo

.......you self get mouth o!!!! Abeg just liv all dis guys alone.......follow your heart, and pray to God for guidance. Wishing you THE VERY BEST IN ALL YOUR ENDEAVORS!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by ayomidepaul(m): 8:27am On Oct 10, 2019

My sister you have to be very careful in any decision you are taking, moreover this particular guy as been waiting for you for years, must they tell you everything in your life?

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lawrencestix(m): 8:28am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

y ask nigerians for advice?

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Newguyhere: 8:30am On Oct 10, 2019

Pettyprincess:
Whatever you wish me i wish your generation ten folds
I just check your profile nd i can see you have been commenting bad things about me
From calling me a prostitute to say all this
It shows you really obsessed with me
No wonder you can't find a intelligent girl because you so dumb stupid nd full of negativity
Idiot lifeless guy!!!

young lady, read this

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking_in_Poland

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:31am On Oct 10, 2019

mrdharkchild:
If I were smart, I guess my pick would b, [b]UyaiIncomparabl's.
She must be the one. There's a stench of naiivity in her comments though, she must be in her 20s, too.

Lol. Thanks, though. Whether I'm in my 20s or not doesn't matter.

Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by bigwig071(m): 8:31am On Oct 10, 2019

na dis thin thing

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