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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Newguyhere: 9:44am On Oct 10, 2019
that girl never see anything grin them go chook prick for where them no suppose chook am cheesy
Sex traffickers are very heartless.
Bro I get guys for Italy, Poland, Slovakia etc.
;if you know wetin naija girls they go through for those country ehnn shocked.
The world is evil I swear
Kaeboy:

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by mrdharkchild(m): 9:48am On Oct 10, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:


lipsrsealed
Its cool right?
It won't harm any of us.
0-8-1-4-0-5-0-7-8-1-1
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 9:48am On Oct 10, 2019
Newguyhere:


Yes there is a program called manycam used for that grin
Any advanced gee boy has it on his system
So how do they run it.. grin

abeg make una open my understanding o
grin

grin
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Agbodu2(m): 9:49am On Oct 10, 2019
all this village girls self..... i don't blame you, i blame that guy who have all the time a confuse you girl like you
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 9:49am On Oct 10, 2019
Kaeboy:
it has been in existence for long years but people don't know. Some of us still know how to detect the fake if we see
lol grin

so how do you detect it
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by OdenKelechi(m): 9:49am On Oct 10, 2019
robo01:

So this is now our mentality abi??
Na so we see am o my G
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 9:50am On Oct 10, 2019
mrdharkchild:
Its cool right? It won't harm any of us. 0-8-1-4-0-5-0-7-8-1-1
err'body just dey shoot hin shot
I hope say bullet no go finish like this grin

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Newguyhere: 9:51am On Oct 10, 2019
mrdharkchild:

I like u already, we should get to know each other, don't you think?

Person wey get one nairaland guy wey she one marry outside the country grin
Bro forget am, that girl isn't available.
Just be on the lookout Sha.
There is always a better girl around the corner.
No go loose your sanity just because of one girl.
Girls are always replaceable no matter how beautiful you may find them
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by OdenKelechi(m): 9:52am On Oct 10, 2019
Tallesty1:
You don't want Nigeria guys but you want us to advise you? Thunder fire you
grin grin na we be chief advisers na. Like the ppl wey dey advise bubu
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by mrdharkchild(m): 9:53am On Oct 10, 2019
Newguyhere:


Person wey get one nairaland guy wey she one marry outside the country grin
Bro forget am, that girl isn't available.
Just be on the lookout Sha.
There is always a better girl around the corner.
No go loose your sanity just because of one girl.
Girls are always replaceable no matter how beautiful you may find them

I don't lose sanity over girls, though. Thanks.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Anndrew(m): 9:55am On Oct 10, 2019
Ademoore07:
Hehehehe. Kids everywhere. So, 2go still dey? By the way, what is chochie?
chochie=pucy=Toto=vagina
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Kazeemakeem(m): 9:56am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!




Marry the nigeria guy, simple
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by zyzxx(m): 10:02am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:


I only need mature advice!!!
please, pray, pray very well, not all that glitters are Gold...
pray for God wisdom to make the right choice
Shalom

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Funmmyastic: 10:02am On Oct 10, 2019
Lol Nl guys are pained,see bashing lol.Babe enjoy your life but be very careful.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by yenereal(m): 10:03am On Oct 10, 2019
All I can say is that you are mad if this story of yours is true. You had no feelings for the Nigerian guy but you made him spend on you. Hence, why you said 'he is caring'. What have you seen yet in life?
Girls keep making things complicating for themselves. More than half of Nairalanders are against you. One day you will remember this thread.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by nicepoker101(m): 10:10am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!
But you are dwelling with the mentality of a Nigerian lady.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Tonyspecial(m): 10:11am On Oct 10, 2019
is he a Gambian?
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by explosiveskull(m): 10:14am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie grin i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable grin
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!
I hate hearing shit story like yours, you don't want to hurt him cos you still need his money? The guy is a fool also to still be disturbing you. I have nothing to contribute only if I can get the guys number to tell him exactly how he is fooling himself I swear he will never disturb you again, I've done it for so many guys I've liberated from star fishes like you. Just send me his number and you'd be free.
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:17am On Oct 10, 2019
fowlyansh181:
guys Dey try. After going through your dp


What about the dp?
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:18am On Oct 10, 2019
[quote author=LadyHal1 post=83002160][/quote]


Okay thank you.. I'd look into your advice
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:19am On Oct 10, 2019
Anfieldboss:


My dear....take it from me....especially for a woman, it's best your man loves you more, if not you'll suffer a lot emotionally. Even God knows this, that is why he instructed men to love their wives...it's difficult to find a man that will truly love you....maybe once in a lifetime sef


Hmmm.. I'd look at it from your perspective too.. Thank you.. I really appreciate you...

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:20am On Oct 10, 2019
A girl born in 2001 is treating a fully grown adult like this??

That is why I hate online dating!!!

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:23am On Oct 10, 2019
Pettyprincess:

I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.
hear yourself talk.....a guy that is asking you out?? don't you have male neighbors that ain't ur toasters?
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by kinzation(m): 10:24am On Oct 10, 2019
Lamanii22:


What about the dp?
Lamanii22 I wee bite you oh grin you no see my digits abi

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 10, 2019
Aliii:
lol she nor know weytin dey sup.. By the time he's through with her, she'd wish she never came into this world.. He might marry her but he we abuse her ��

My Kenyan friend had a child for a Polish guy... He was a lil criminal, selling coke and smoking his own supply. He would use her for a punching bag, even through her pregnancy. The lil girl they had is beautiful, but he was deported back to Poland and the lil girl was put in care because her mother became bipolar and a drug addict.

It was the dream when the relationship started and within 5 years it was hell, leaving destruction and pain....

I'm not linking this to the op... I'm just chatting. Polish and ass kicking be 5 and 6 grin

Even their women can fight, they're third world European grin

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Lamanii22(f): 10:33am On Oct 10, 2019
kinzation:
Lamanii22
I wee bite you oh grin
you no see my digits abi


Hehehehe... I'd keep on touch

In**
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Strech(m): 10:35am On Oct 10, 2019
dominique:
Pained guys everywhere with bruised egos. A person should have the rights to reject the advances of someone they're not attracted to without shamed. When a guy broke up with his girlfriend because of big brother Naija, you people were hailing him. Now a lady wants to turn down a guy she's not interested in, you're heaping curses on her. Bunch of hypocrites.

You go shaming ladies at every opportunity you get, open female bashing threads on a daily basis. Now the females you love to hate are finding love in other countries yet you're still pained. Shouldn't you be happy that they're leaving you alone for foreigners? Oh! I forgot. They're the only ones that can stomach your bullshits, them and the obese, one foot in the grave foreign women that show interest in you.
who come be this bag of shit and mess again? Why are you so much pained. Like say guys don dismantle did one punna leave am, na him dey make her rant like this. Sorry you hear.

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:40am On Oct 10, 2019
Op kindly send the Nigerian guy's number..

I want to help you once and for all...

He will stop disturbing you with immediate effect...

Trust me!!
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Aquariann: 10:48am On Oct 10, 2019
Rosella1:
Fascinating how Nairalanders are wasting their precious time. There's nothing you'll tell this child that she'll accept... Person wey don already dey anticipate the mixed breed she go produce after them mate.

The mod that moved this to FP just wants us to take note of the hole of foolishness she has decided to crawl into! undecided

Pettyprincess:
No he never asked of any of my nudes Most white guys i gave talked with they ask me of my nude the very beginning of our chat bt he never did nd we together for a year now We actually planning to be together fully next year by applying for student visa .

My brother, I don dey laugh since.. From this her comment, if you notice the part I highlighted you'll realise that this girl has always wanted to end up with a white man. Which means she has been contacting them probably on Social media or foreign dating sites for her to have met many white men who immediately demand for nudes.

In one of her response to someone, she posted pictures of a Social media biracial couple. Na that kind thing dey her mind since not all these grammar "haters" dey speak.

Although I really don't have anything against her desires, but I'm just praying she's not being groomed for an international sex trade with her desperation to be with a whitey..

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Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 10, 2019
marvelous000:

nawa oo! wetin i do dis time auntygrin


how you dey na!
Lol. I dey fine o
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by Nobody: 10:53am On Oct 10, 2019
arcdone:
Lies I see here... You not even ashamed of urself.. You had the gut of even expressing urself buoyantly in this room.. If what you saying is true.. After much extorting my 9ja brother.. You begin to snubbed after you met your new polish mugu...you made absurd comment by stating... After your first dater asking of going to ur London... You made a vow of not ever dating a Nigeria guy... This shows how premature you her..stop the denial of the Fact... Always be true to urself... Are you not black... You are born and brought of black.. Why are you not proud of ur made.....What I sense, at last the guy will use you and dumb you ...stop leaving fake life Ve sense please my sis

Are you the polish boyfriend because this your henglish, get as ee be cry
Re: How Can I Cut This Guy Off Without Hurting His Feelings? by sallazlee(m): 10:53am On Oct 10, 2019
donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.


you nail it

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