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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:31am On Oct 10, 2019
macklef:

How old are u, a total income of 500k may not still make u a middle class in the nigeria of today.
Depends majorly on the location they end up settling

That is why he used CAN not WILL.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:32am On Oct 10, 2019
macklef:

She is being realistic, as a guy, is ur goal to get married under a 50k salary?

Not the point.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:34am On Oct 10, 2019
lloyds:


Nop, my cousin in Lagos got married in Lagos when he was earning 3Ok, and his wife earned nothing until after 3 months she got a nursing job.

I stayed in that house without a job, and got a banking job from there.

Understanding matters and love. The willingness to commit to the sacrifice required.

No one wants poverty, but life issues are wide and complex. A woman at 35 and man at 40 cannot be saying what she is saying. .

May more sense fall on you.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Ryocaj(m): 10:35am On Oct 10, 2019
100k self.. u av no business being married especially if u r still living in a rented apartment.. Those men telling u they r earning less n married r not telling u d hell they r facing.. they r feeding from hand 2 mouth.. u r telling me u pay rent, School fees, feed ur family, Work expenses.. all in dat peanut.. Awon olobe..

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 10:36am On Oct 10, 2019
Amarabae:
what do you mean by how old am I?
Be polite pls

Is that an insult? Can't someone ask your age in peace? cheesy
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by XaintJoel20: 10:42am On Oct 10, 2019
decrownprince:
You are very correct. I remember when living at Gombe State behind Gombe State University from 2013 - 2016, my salary then was 42k before it was increased to 46k. I was comfortable and even saving 25k every month to buy my first bike. My rent was 45k a year (a nice room and palour). Cost of living was low.

That's a fact
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:46am On Oct 10, 2019
ecolime:
What of those earning N50,001?

Asuweh to buhari you're sooooo funny. 50,001























Foolish gal
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Segeshow: 10:55am On Oct 10, 2019
YorubaNinja:
Nigerian women and their nonsense sha.. What's a guy's "current income" got to do with marriage?

In developed worlds, all that matters is the "Earning Capacity" of the partners NOT "Current Income"

Foolish, Ugly, smelly-wig, dulux painted faces, heavy makeup ones are the ones that demand the most. angry











You sir,are a sage.

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by don89(m): 10:55am On Oct 10, 2019
Ok ,am presently earning 125k but I don't want to get married yet and so?
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by ferdybillion(m): 10:57am On Oct 10, 2019
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franchasng:
In as much as we will all try to attack and condemn the lady for saying such, there is lot of truth in what she wrote, and I will explain:

Back in the days of our fathers, there was no GSM, no internet, no cable TV, so it was never necessary for a man or woman to own a mobile phone, buy internet data, buy airtime, pay for cable TV like DsTV or GoTV or Star Times, etc. In fact there was no need to have a fridge/freezer before you get married because there were electricity only in few parts of Nigeria, mostly the cities, and only less than 20% of Nigerians then lived in the cities, and maybe less than 5% of those city dwellers owned a TV set, a fridge/freezer.

There was no need to own a washing machine, only the elites did....there was no need for electric or gas cooker, no need to talk about owning a car to think of maintaining and fueling the car, only few elites owned cars.

Back then, all schools were government owned, private schools were seen as useless schools for dull people, and most government schools then were free, the ones that needed to be paid for were peanuts...so you don't need to stress to send your children to school, all they needed was school uniform and books.

Back then, there were very few private hospitals, all existing reputable hospitals were all government owned and well equipped and competent, today is different....to take care of your wife's delivery and children health, you must pay through your nose if they must get adequate healthcare.

All the reputable schools now are owned by private individuals, and their tuition is on the high side that, someone earning that amount she mentioned can never be able to send his children to any good school, sadly that's the reality not what we wished was the reality cry


Before you can get married today and have a relatively happy home, you may need to rent a 1 bedroom flat at least, you will pay for electricity bill monthly, buy gas for cooking, pay for refuse collectors, pay estate or community security which was free in our father's time, you may need TV, GoTV which also requires monthly subscription, you must own a mobile phone, including your wife, and who will be buying the airtime, the internet data, maybe Buhari

Honestly, to live a decent life in Nigeria or run a decent, modest home in Nigeria now as a married man, you will need around 200,000naira monthly income, which is why every Nigerian lady now should make it a priority to have a job or a business or a trade or something earning her legal money of at least 50,000naira monthly before she accepts to marry any man.


Gone are the days ladies bring only their body to marriage, ladies your body is no longer enough, you must bring some money too....a monthly income!!! angry


That guy that replied her and saying he is earning 57,000 and he is married with 2 kids, he should also tell people about other ways he earns money to augment his 50k monthly salary; or he thinks we don't know how corrupt majority of Nigerian civil servants are, collecting kickbacks, bribes, and engaging in all forms of office corruption to makeup their low pay

He should also tell us if he doesn't get one or two financial help from one of his big brothers or uncles living somewhere else either abroad or in another city, so let him STFU that income is not enough to run a family in today Nigeria!!

If you are not earning enough income to raise a decent home, pls stay single, its not a crime to remain single, it is a crime to give birth to kids u can't train or give decent life, they will grow up to become societal problem and easy tools for crime/violence which is why Northern Nigeria and in fact Nigeria is so messed right now!


Stop giving birth to kids u can't train or hoping for your uncle or brother or sister or aunt or friend to train them for u, the world has changed, this is not 1980!! angry
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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by ferdybillion(m): 11:06am On Oct 10, 2019
Some people here are not even married and will come here to give useless advice. As long as you are hard working and have the will to grow go and get married let no body decieve you that without millions you can't raise a family. it all depends on you as a husband and wife to work together. I have seen so many cases of which a particular one where the couple could not afford rent and they had to split to live with friends and family but today thier story have changed. Many of these big men you see today if they tell you how they suffered but now they enjoy the fullest of life. My conclusion I'd that any man or woman that can't marry with a low income is a very very and very lazy person without thinking of how to improve his or her self. Na so one bros say money neva dey money neva dey born him first pikin for 65 years

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by ferdybillion(m): 11:07am On Oct 10, 2019
don89:
Ok ,am presently earning 125k but I don't want to get married yet and so?
bros is your bleeping business
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by johnad3(m): 11:10am On Oct 10, 2019
Ok oooo, how much should we con get before marry oooo, na wa oooo. what person go kon do now? ehen
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by nonix22(m): 11:18am On Oct 10, 2019
Las las, this one will end up with a jobless man.
we know una!
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by djoe21(m): 11:27am On Oct 10, 2019
pocohantas:


That is the same thing she would do. People take strategic decisions because they don't wanna leave things to "chance". You are not an exception. "What ifs" only come up in threads like this or situations one party wants to emotionally blackmail or guilt-trip the other into seeing things their way.

Okay.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by TemmyT002(m): 11:44am On Oct 10, 2019
With all due respect, Thunder Fire Her
Her future husband, if she ever gets married, is already in trouble. Na only money she go know

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by TemmyT002(m): 11:45am On Oct 10, 2019
ihedioramma:
What's her father and mother name? what's their business? And help me ask her why men always have sex with her? and no one wants to marry her?

Hahahaha
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Tundeobama(m): 11:49am On Oct 10, 2019
Wow
When I got married, both of us weren’t working, we just wanted to be 2geda...



It worked for us, she went into event, I started pp, and with our minds as one, we became financially independent in less than 2 months...



There are no rules to a good marriage, just follow your heart!

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by osuagwumike(m): 12:18pm On Oct 10, 2019
Talk is cheap but common sense isn't....

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by ChiefRocker(m): 12:27pm On Oct 10, 2019
Indomie generation ladies always blaming life hardships on men. Everyone either male or female has the duty to make the world a better for himself/herself and others not blaming all on men especially those that love them.

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Mariangeles(f): 12:33pm On Oct 10, 2019
sassysure:


I totally disagree with you.
It has been happening a lot.

Marriage is among the cheapest thing, infact, the cheapest thing to do in my place and neighbouring towns.

No dowry is more than 15k for graduates and half of the money will be given back to u.

U can skip ibu nkwù nwanyi and do morning mass wedding if u are member of the orthodox churches.
Pentecostal churches don't care, u will spend almost nothing.
U can do ibu nkwù nwanyi 20yrs after.

Really ? Wow!
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by DNSPro: 12:36pm On Oct 10, 2019
Tundeobama:
Wow
When I got married, both of us weren’t working, we just wanted to be 2geda...



It worked for us, she went into event, I started pp, and with our minds as one, we became financially independent in less than 2 months...



There are no rules to a good marriage, just follow your heart!
lol bros, these ones do not care o. Read my own story a few pages back or click on my handle to find it easily.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by axisaxis1983: 12:37pm On Oct 10, 2019
fool
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by henryligit: 12:42pm On Oct 10, 2019
na them
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Nobody: 12:48pm On Oct 10, 2019
felony101:
U just succeeded in saying Bullshit....


O ni kuure
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by elvfab4(m): 1:01pm On Oct 10, 2019
Lass Lass na Shiloh 2040 go settle her life
nd if u disagree with me here ure Shiloh will be extended to 2060

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by deltateam: 1:12pm On Oct 10, 2019
Imustreturn:
So this random Twitter lady said Any guy earning 50k should not have any business getting married -

She got a reply from another Twitter young man to counter her.

Nairalanders what do you guys think?

Lala what do you think?


https:///HqmKxzviUW

How much was her father earning when the mother said 'yes'? All these slay queens self.

How much is she earning? A wife's role is to support a hardworking man.

Some men are lazy sha.
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Emmaco(m): 1:14pm On Oct 10, 2019
Savagery epic. ��

ihedioramma:
What's her father and mother name? what's their business? And help me ask her why men always have sex with her? and no one wants to marry her?
Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by BanevsJoker(m): 1:31pm On Oct 10, 2019
MikeBetty:
That Is How She Will Las Las Beg Firewood Hewer For Marriage. Instead Of Looking For Bright Future.
She go marry Gibeonites?

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by deltateam: 1:53pm On Oct 10, 2019
Jmk9292:
And what's the average a girl should earn before contemplating marriage?

Some women have a wrong interpretation of marriage borne out of selfishness. They are not willing to contribute, only take take.

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Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Mosesvic(m): 1:56pm On Oct 10, 2019
As if money will eva b enuf for anybody.
Wait till u HV trillions in ur acct. Bfr u start a marriage business.��.


#My signature Biko. ���

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