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Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Awesome05(op): 3:41pm On Oct 21, 2019
In many African cultures the bride price remains essential traditional obligation towards the contract of marriage.
Some people have however come against bride price. Some say it is like trading off the bride. Nigerian foremost feminist writer Chimamanda Adichie recently reiterated that she was not a fan of it .

What do you think? Do you believe the bride price is still relevant in the contemporary world?



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Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by BBBmall25: 3:48pm On Oct 21, 2019
What I Think, Is Yes. But It Shud Be Affordable To All Persons Conscern
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Janet96(f): 9:30pm On Oct 21, 2019
Awesome05:
In many African cultures the bride price remains essential traditional obligation towards the contract of marriage.
Some people have however come against bride price. Some say it is like trading off the bride. Nigerian foremost feminist writer Chimamanda Adichie recently reiterated that she was not a fan of it .

What do you think? Do you believe the bride price is still relevant in the contemporary world?



You can read interesting romance e-books:

ABOVE THE SHADOWS

https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/above_the_shadows/29529


The Love Grotto

https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/the_love_grotto/28460
It should not be relevant
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Janet96(f): 9:30pm On Oct 21, 2019
Awesome05:
In many African cultures the bride price remains essential traditional obligation towards the contract of marriage.
Some people have however come against bride price. Some say it is like trading off the bride. Nigerian foremost feminist writer Chimamanda Adichie recently reiterated that she was not a fan of it .

What do you think? Do you believe the bride price is still relevant in the contemporary world?



You can read interesting romance e-books:

ABOVE THE SHADOWS

https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/above_the_shadows/29529


The Love Grotto

https://publish.okadabooks.com/book/about/the_love_grotto/28460
It should not be relevant
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MPESA(m): 10:43pm On Oct 21, 2019
Janet96:
It should not be relevant
Why should it not be relevant while you people are encouraging white wedding.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Powersurge: 2:11am On Oct 22, 2019
I feel it's very relevant. But it shouldn't be an extortion as seen some palance. it should be more symbolic than a means to gather some cash. I could collect a painting as bride price.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Janet96(f): 8:03am On Oct 22, 2019
MPESA:
Why should it not be relevant while you people are encouraging white wedding.
It is outdated.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MPESA(m): 8:12am On Oct 22, 2019
Janet96:
It is outdated.
Your traditions and culture has an expiring date but you keep on promoting Western cultures....
We are all hypocrites in Africa.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by FairCritic(m): 11:44am On Oct 22, 2019
It is relevant.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by ImaIma1(f): 1:52pm On Oct 22, 2019
When you are set to marry, ask your intending inlaws. They should be able to give you an answer.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Janet96(f): 12:42pm On Oct 27, 2019
MPESA:
Why should it not be relevant while you people are encouraging white wedding.
Culture is dynamic, not static. That aspect should be scrapped.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Oct 27, 2019
Go ask Anambra or Mbano In-laws that question..
grin
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Awesome05(op): 3:17pm On Oct 27, 2019
Bonatheripper:
Go ask Anambra or Mbano In-laws that question..
grin
I understand.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Alexaonfleek: 3:24pm On Oct 27, 2019
I personally feel it's not relevant.the essence of brideprice in the first place was so that the family of the bride can be sure that the groom can take good care of the bride,but now most women can take care of themselves comfortably.

But when I told my mum the same thing I just typed up,let's just say she wasn't too happy with me for sometime grin grin grin.asking me why am I cursing myself lipsrsealed
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Awesome05(op): 5:20pm On Oct 27, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
I personally feel it's not relevant.the essence of brideprice in the first place was so that the family of the bride can be sure that the groom can take good care of the bride,but now most women can take care of themselves comfortably.

But when I told my mum the same thing I just typed up,let's just say she wasn't too happy with me for sometime grin grin grin.asking me why am I cursing myself lipsrsealed
I must say you are a rare breed. Personally, I think we should put an end to it.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by SGANIVA(m): 5:46pm On Oct 27, 2019
relevant or not , I will do all the traditions before taking the girl home, abi my own Will not be different na
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Alexaonfleek: 9:10pm On Oct 27, 2019
Awesome05:
I must say you are a rare breed. Personally, I think we should put an end to it.
yeah,but we'd have to wait for our parents generation to die out first tho.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MrCork: 9:33pm On Oct 27, 2019
Janet96:
It should not be relevant
angry
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MrCork: 9:34pm On Oct 27, 2019
Janet96:
It should not be relevant
...ok so u saying u worth more than £30?...how? angry
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by letusbepieces: 10:56pm On Oct 27, 2019
Janet96:
It should not be relevant
Janet96:
It is outdated.
Alexaonfleek:
I personally feel it's not relevant.the essence of brideprice in the first place was so that the family of the bride can be sure that the groom can take good care of the bride,but now most women can take care of themselves comfortably.

But when I told my mum the same thing I just typed up,let's just say she wasn't too happy with me for sometime grin grin grin.asking me why am I cursing myself lipsrsealed
Y bother to get married at all.

I mean, white wedding, reception and co.

Y not just get pregnant and move in with the man, if he want to share accomodation with u?


Then again, your both Yoruba women, in your culture the bride shoulder the marriage expenses. That is y u say that.

In other culture, it is the Groom, that shoulder the cost of his marriage.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Alexaonfleek: 12:50am On Oct 28, 2019
letusbepieces:
Y bother to get married at all.

I mean, white wedding, reception and co.

Y not just get pregnant and move in with the man, if he want to share accomodation with u?


Then again, your both Yoruba women, in your culture the bride shoulder the marriage expenses. That is y u say that.

In other culture, it is the Groom, that shoulder the cost of his marriage.
I didn't know they pay bride price in white wedding oooo.pls enlighten me.

Btw,I'm delta
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by letusbepieces: 7:43am On Oct 29, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
I didn't know they pay bride price in white wedding oooo.pls enlighten me.

Btw,I'm delta
Weddings are expensive, let us cut it out and just move in together and start having kids.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Janet96(f): 10:14am On Oct 29, 2019
letusbepieces:
Weddings are expensive, let us cut it out and just move in together and start having kids.
There is need for holy matrimony.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Zamar: 5:08pm On Oct 29, 2019
Janet96:
There is need for holy matrimony.
Which one is unholy matrimony?
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Zamar: 5:08pm On Oct 29, 2019
Janet96:
There is need for holy matrimony.
Which one is unholy matrimony?
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by FairCritic(m): 7:50pm On Oct 29, 2019
Holy matrimony is wedding properly conducted in the sanctuary of God.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MPESA(m): 8:13pm On Oct 29, 2019
Janet96:
There is need for holy matrimony.
You are not making sense at all , which one is holy and which one unholy? ..... Nonsense..
God and study your Bible and stop all this rubbish....
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MPESA(m): 8:15pm On Oct 29, 2019
FairCritic:
Holy matrimony is wedding properly conducted in the sanctuary of God.
So your grand parents marriages are not properly conducted and blessed by Almighty and they stayed long in marriage more than your sanctuary wedding.
Make una stop all this nonsense in name of religion madness, na only una sabi God?
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by FairCritic(m): 9:14pm On Oct 29, 2019
MPESA:
So your grand parents marriages are not properly conducted and blessed by Almighty and they stayed long in marriage more than your sanctuary wedding.
Make una stop all this nonsense in name of religion madness, na only una sabi God?
Your vitriol is uncalled for. Mind your language.
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by Modernist: 9:23pm On Oct 29, 2019
Chimamamda, did her husband not pay bride price?
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by MPESA(m): 9:27pm On Oct 29, 2019
FairCritic:
Your vitriol is uncalled for. Mind your language.
I'm sorry , my bad.....
Re: Is Bride Price Still Relevant? by futurerex: 11:08pm On Oct 29, 2019
Where I came from, they don't collect bride price because they're not selling their daughter out to you.
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