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I'm going through pains at the moment. on the outside, it will appear that I'm recalcitrant, non challant and a problem child. but I believe there is a little good in me that can be utilised.

passing through a lot of addictions at the moment which is killing my God-given talent. I can't plan for the future despite being sound and having a dove heart.


financial burden and health challenges weighing me down. Mum and dad have tried and tried to change me before retirement but I didn't listen on time before they retired. country looking bad and there is little or no space for second chance for people like me.

how I wish some one can be my mentor and set me up....

I wanted to comment, i saw your monikar, names affects !!!

luiscarter:
I wanted to comment, i saw your monikar, names affects !!!

LMAO
Very true

What exactly is the problem?

Okay, so I just checked this guy's profile
He needs help people
Really

luiscarter:
I wanted to comment, i saw your monikar, names affects !!!

it's just a name

No one can adopt you... It is deliverance you need or therapy session...

ChildOfDoom:
it's just a name

It's not a good name... It would you rip you of something good... That name would scare people away... Jeeez....

melodynk01:
What exactly is the problem?

Okay, so I just checked this guy's profile
He needs help people
Really

loud it. i really need a new good-paying legit business to change my focus

Lamanii22:
No one can adopt you... It is deliverance you need or therapy session...

mainly mentorship and Providence

ChildOfDoom:
mainly mentorship and Providence

U really hv a long way to go.

Everytime from one problem/trouble to another one...hmmm

wahala frm parents, bet9ja, masturbation n many more...if all u hv been saying are real, guy l jus dey fear d worst scenario fr u mehnn

Bubu can adopt you

Can u wash plate and mop house?
if yes send PM

Bonatheripper:
Can u wash plate and mop house?
if yes send PM

i don't want to suffer. Not strong for that. I need petting and constructive criticism

ChildOfDoom:
loud it. i really need a new good-paying legit business to change my focus

Some people started with a none good paying job and today they are great. First thing is to define what you need from life. Second is to start with what you have. Do any legitimate job right now even if the pay is low even if it is car wash and gradually work towards your goal. Have a balance spiritual life do not neglect your God. Work hard towards your goal and if you do, you will surely make it.

I have slept under trailer before no future. Did labourer work with building contractors, carried yam on wilbaro, later factory work and on and on. Ended up a graduate and a chartered Accountant!

Don't wait for manner from heaven. Mentor, yes you can get that but Nobody will come from the sky and load you money and set you up. Use what you currently have, it may be your energy, a land, a wilbaro, anything or any job. Trust me you will make it if you are determined to break the shackles of poverty

You’re gonna be fine dear

I checked his profile too. Not that I would have adopted him even if he were a saint, but it seems like he just doesn't learn! He watched the harm and destruction his father's habit caused his mum and those around him and took on the same habit, so what's to say he wouldn't inflict the same harm and destruction on his adoptee if he couldn't resist inflicting it on his own dear mum?

Your solution is not adoption op. You just keep watching where your father ends up and ask yourself if that's where you are going too. If you like it, knock yourself out enjoying the trip to destruction. But if you don't then perhaps choose a different destination.

Your life is in your own hands, or feet, should I say, since we're talking journeys here. Just remember you might one day read a thread on here by ChildOfChildOfDoom and titled "My Grandfather And My Father And I Are Criminals And I'm A Wasted Sperm!"

Good luck now!

ChildOfDoom:
i don't want to suffer. Not strong for that. I need petting and constructive criticism

you 're still enjoying life that why you're not willing to bend down to do something.God will not come down to help you,you need to help yourself by doing any good job no matter how small the income may be

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