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Single motherhood is a social concept that is clouded with stigmatizing notions across the world.

Today, some single mothers in South Africa Twitter have shared their experience of pregnancy and the response they got from baby daddy.

Check out below.

Source: https://mandynews.com/baby-father-response-to-girlfriend-pregnancy-single-mom-shares-story/

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Lalasticlala

I tired for men and women matter

I hate it when people don't accept responsibility for their actions. No pregnancy is a mistake. Worst it can be is unplanned for. Abi you thought having sex/mating was created for fun abi
My own is take responsibility, forget what people might say or do. It may be tough.. yeah, but in the end there is joy in fathering/mothering a child. It's priceless. Secondly and most importantly always choose who you get down with. If you can't imagine "wifing her" use a condom if you must. Goat no go born lion. A child will not pick traits from the spirit world.. It takes after the parents

Wow!!! This is really emotional!!
To all single mothers out there,pls don't loose hope!! Continue taking care of your kids nd let them grow up to become a better person in future,Never allow them make the same mistake you did!! Single mothers are usually loved by their kids because they know what she went through as a single parent!!
God bless every single mothers in the world!! Nd to dead beat father that can't close their zip bt can go in raw nd can't accept responsibility just remember karma is a bitvch!!!

Na story be this, if a man tells you to abort and you decide to keep the baby, that is your problem

The ones are brave. Having unprotected sex. Na wa.

There's no amount of tears that you shed that will make u holy,your among the promiscuous ladies we have in our Country same as the Single Mothers all over Naija(excluding Widows and Divorcees).

Shame On You
Shame on All the Single Mothers All over Naija(except widows and Divorcees),whether u got raped,was ur first time,or was so sure. Its obvious that ur a hoe


TUFIAKWA!!!

Pettyprincess:
Wow!!! This is really emotional!!
To all single mothers out there,pls don't loose hope!! Continue taking care of your kids nd let them grow up to become a better person in future,Never allow them make the same mistake you did!! Single mothers are usually loved by their kids because they know what she went through as a single parent!!
God bless every single mothers in the world!! Nd to dead beat father that can't close their zip bt can go in raw nd can't accept responsibility just remember karma is a bitvch!!!

So because he doesn't want to take responsibility he is now a deadbeat father . Sometimes you women talk without thinking. Was he the only one that enjoyed it. Why are you been biased in ur comments??

AstroG:
So because he doesn't want to take responsibility he is now a deadbeat father . Sometimes you women talk without thinking. Was he the only one that enjoyed it. Why are you been biased in ur comments??
How am i biased?

The lady already accepted her responsibility by keeping the child while the dude is not ready to!! What do we call men that refuse to take responsibility for their actions? If not dead beat father then what are they?

AstroG:
There's no amount of tears that you shed that will make u holy,your among the promiscuous ladies we have in our Country same as the Single Mothers all over Naija(excluding Widows and Divorcees).

Shame On You
Shame on All the Single Mothers All over Naija(except widows and Divorcees),*whether u got raped*,was ur first time,or was so sure. Its obvious that ur a hoe


TUFIAKWA!!!

@the asterisked
Why would you call a rape victim a hoe?
Most times its not their fault their raped
A two year old getting raped by an old man is also a hoe?
As for being "promiscuous"
What exactly is your definition of "promiscuous"
After all she didn't cheat on him and the relationship was serious
It was *abortion* palava that broke their relationship
The man is not at fault, yeah that we know
But him trying to reach out now is very shameless and stupid of him
It was never his responsibility in the first place