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Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by urchcoded(m): 8:42am On Oct 26, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
Hammer, knife and bottles? Pls call for a separation. I believe the period of separation will be enough for her to clear her head. If she changes better, if not run for your life. The above are deadly weapons and your life is at risk.
Yea hammer really is a deadly weapon. Could knock you straight out lol
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by InansBobo(m): 8:59am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why, she is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.,.what should I do...I need urgent advice
kill yourself when there's a word called divorce?
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:02am On Oct 26, 2019
It's crazy how couples who claim to love themselves would use weapons to fight each other. So scary, I've never had such experience, and I pray never to.
urchcoded:
Yea hammer really is a deadly weapon. Could knock you straight out lol
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:03am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr, don't wait until you are stabbed in the neck. Run for your life. I remember the Ibadan husband killer. She stabbed him in the neck and he ran to their neighbors who helped him bandage it and then he went back home to sleep only that the murderous wife decided to finish the job.

Last I heard of the case, the woman was granted state pardon by the Ajimobi government because her dad is influential and she's been flown overseas where she's probably living a new life.

He who is dead is dead.

Don't wait until you become an obituary message.
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Pat081: 9:05am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why, she is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.,.what should I do...I need urgent advice
You re not a member of the same churchhuhhuh The problem we are having in this country is that we can not think for our self but our pastors do the thinking for us ooo and is better for you to run now b4 it is too late
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by CaptainMitch: 9:06am On Oct 26, 2019
Marry a 2nd wife
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by NaijaOlosho(f): 9:06am On Oct 26, 2019
Go and make money.

As simple as that.

Money stops nonsense
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by gulfer: 9:06am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice
Why the boldedhuh huh IMHO, her pastor should be your pastor.......You have a divided house if your wife attends a church other than yours angry angry angry angry
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Teejay13(m): 9:06am On Oct 26, 2019
As you said; " for more than eight years she have refused to amend in her character." For me i suggest you file for a divorce before you die out of frustration. Life is One!
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by udemzyudex(m): 9:07am On Oct 26, 2019
Because of your children,what happened to child support? If she kill you there won't even be any child support.
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Rcash: 9:07am On Oct 26, 2019
and you're still there huh End that death trap of a marriage and move on with your life
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Badgers14: 9:07am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice
What you should do? You want us to tell you to run for your dear lifehuh

Now you have heard it... run for your life because of your kids.. they need their daddy.

Send her to her parents house maybe she will calm down and move on with your life ...

Remember, your kids need their daddy...
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:07am On Oct 26, 2019
Did u just say she usually try to fight u with bottle?. grin 21st century wife...
Why not sit her down and ask her in a respectable manner why she is doing what she is doing and if there is something you have done wrong or doing wrong.
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Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by adeyemi91(m): 9:08am On Oct 26, 2019
STARGREEN:
There's an adage that says "he who's only tool is a hammer sees all problem as a NAIL" admittedly he seems to be in an unfortunate pool yet, rather than separating let him try other options by putting himself in her shoe at least to understand her, see things from her own perspective, feel how she think etc, perhaps he will get better scope to tream her to his soul. The fact is that there are people that have passed more than he's encountering and still overcome. @op, you will overcome. Assume that all women are them same and that you got not option [b]b [/b]you will find a way to make it work. Remember time and patience work wonders, watch and see.
Bros, its obvious he already did that na.. 10years
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:08am On Oct 26, 2019
Let's hear the other side of the story first.

A female can not just be carrying knife and bottle for no reason.
What really happened huh?
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by sophy17(m): 9:08am On Oct 26, 2019
If with what you have said, you still don't know what to do at this point. Then I won't bother myself telling you what to do because I am certain you won't do it.
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:08am On Oct 26, 2019
Na wetin i see for my own make me run
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by janejive(f): 9:08am On Oct 26, 2019
The devil will soon use her, run my nairaland brother run...
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Hassan05(m): 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
God will restore the first love between the two both of you. Amen!

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Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by ednut1(m): 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
Till you die before you will know what to do
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by geesilver(m): 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
run for ur life
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Spatta: 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
The vivid picture of 85% of today's women. the generation of good women who knows the value of a Home has gradually dissipated, the same goes for about 55% of men who were not properly domesticated. the rate of divorce is alarming.
women of this present age deceive men for sperm, when they get the baby their bad character begin to show and men begin to sing a mournful diddly like this one
all i can say is God "hep" us
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by NicemanJosh(m): 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
There are two sides to every story, we just heard yours but u didn't tell us what you did or have been doing that always trigger her actions.
If we will go by your own side of the story, just seek for a divorce cos it's better Your children have separated parent than be fatherless.

One of the reasons why I insist that marriage is over rated.
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:09am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice
Nairaland and fake stories. You feel like killing yourself because of your wife. Nonsense.
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Kay25(m): 9:10am On Oct 26, 2019
You should by now where she belongs to...just take her to mc oluomo make u enrol her as one of the garage managers ...lobatan.
seriously that's dangerous for u and your children u need take a fast action either to curb her or to separate from her for a while and see if she will change
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by kenchizzy(m): 9:10am On Oct 26, 2019
Just go and obtain otumokpo for both knife and bottle


And whenever she trouble you with the above
Beat the hell out of her because me I can't come and be looking like a weakling in my marriage[color=#000099][/color]
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Abfinest007(m): 9:11am On Oct 26, 2019
was she aggressive during your courtship period if yes u made a mistake in marring her if you were not able to change her during that time what makes you think you can change her now
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by kaziblake(f): 9:11am On Oct 26, 2019
I am not blaming you o but you men come here to paint yourself as saint.. Check yourself sir you might be doing something wrong and if you aren't doing something wrong then divorce her for your sanity
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by AKWAPROPHET(m): 9:12am On Oct 26, 2019
Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 26, 2019
Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice
If na me, to avoid beating her to death, I go just leave that house for her and go live elsewhere, live peaceful and enjoy my life.

Nobody can spoil my joy
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