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Op Take it to God and make sure you fast and pray too. May God touch her heart. Please keep your marriage you know God doesn't like divorce. �

Smart people won't give any advice until they hear her own side of the story

LilMissFavvy:
It's crazy how couples who claim to love themselves would use weapons to fight each other. So scary, I've never had such experience, and I pray never to.

They make marriage look so scary. To think that there wads a time when they proclaimed undying love to each other. Only God knows what happened. Sometimes i think wedding should be a lowkey event while celebrating the marriage's golden anniversary should be the main PARRTTYYY!

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Be patient man. At least she has not yet pointed a gun at you. Don't you know he who finds a wife finds a good thing. Besides you married her for better for worse and that's the joy of marriage.

Grown man listening to pastor rather than trusting his instincts.

as my boss would say " if not for procreation nothing like marriage for him. so use your head and do the needfull.

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

You married a street girl planning to turn her to indoor wife.


That's most guyz mistake, changing your wife attitude after marriage my brother it won't work, have seen more than 10 cases like this, just forget that marriage if you die today that your children you're talking about will enjoying them self.

These type of stories de vex me ehn...

How have men fallen to make women dominate them in this modern world? Lord knows I can't be suppressed by any woman.

My HOD always tells us that the man is designed to be on top and in control and it even reflects in missionary style (lol).

I seriously hate soft men. A woman needs iron hands otherwise she turns you into the wife. Even some women know this, some men's ignorance of it has subjected them to a stubborn wife.

There are many ways to handle a stubborn woman to bend her. Shouts to the real men out there who assert their manhood.

kaziblake:
I am not blaming you o but you men come here to paint yourself as saint.. Check yourself sir you might be doing something wrong and if you aren't doing something wrong then divorce her for your sanity

So if they have a problem togetger, she has to chase him with bottles?

This man wants us in nairaland to type RIP for him very soon.
Some women are easily possessed by evil since the days of Lilith and Eve.
When mine started threatening my life and job earlier this year,I had to part ways with her.
They say Christians are not supposed to divorce,I don't care.

Powersurge:
This looks like a made-up story to me. It goes without saying that I have typed some insults before, but I had to consider the feeling of the person that is at the other end of the phone.


How can you allow stupidity to linger for 8 years in your home?

Typical nairaland story format.

koyyes:
Let's hear the other side of the story first.


A female can not just be carrying knife and bottle for no reason.

What really happened ?

No matter what, as it is now, the relationship has become seriously toxic.

No need for further investigation. It is best to end the relationship.

This is not overlooking whatever contribution he might have made into turning his wife into a beast. However, we cannot overlook the blatant display of violence in question.

I don't like reading this kind of stories from weak men. How can you be handicapped in marriage with a woman you paid her bride price.

Oga you dey jobless and your life depends on that woman that's why the only option you can think about to end a married u willingly entered is to vomit suicide.

Even God go build new hell fire for u cos u not worthy of being a man he made you.

You and your likes are disgrace to manhood.

What lead you to a stage you can't make decisions in your home? What stupid weakly love did u enter?

Man up fool and take charge of your home... Even if u can't break your marriage can't you leave the house for her and relocate and start a new life?

Iti mpataka!

What about the for better for worse vow na?

Next time leave the house or beta still rent a house outside. Then involve the parent to avoid story dat touch.

Honestly u have to divorce her let so she can vividly see wat happenin around the world.,,my uncle ever got himself a mad dog too....damn,my uncle need to divorce her before her eyes could got peeled and brain reverse to default,now her ass is cul like ice begging like her life depends my uncle.
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Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Let her kill you or you kill yourself so that she can enjoy her life to the fullest. Don't act like a fool when you know what to do. Your children can't give you a befitting burial now. If you know that your children have got no father except you. Then, avoid trouble and stay alive!

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

lol....If u die she will change naaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....The biggest scam is expecting a bad woman to change to good..Never possible.

I suspect this story is not REAL

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

I hate it when men talk like this. you leave your future and life in the hands of what your wife's pastor told you for 8years and no change. why don't you decide what you want. a woman is using hammer, knife and stones to fight you and you are comfortably sleeping with her for 10years what if if she had attacked you while you sleep. abeg think and reason on this is a marriage worth your life? please I have a wife and with 3 kids but the first thing I think of under whatever condition is if I die stupidly from what a woman does when I get to baba God will I tell Him I lived a purposeful life by dying like that. guy think of your life first other things will follow

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Divorce is still open and legal. You can’t kill yourself because of a lady or because you want to satisfy your children. Divorce her immediately before she kills you. Your children will understand later in life.

I can't just imargine it, using a dangerous weapon to harm a partner, I can't forgive anyone who would do such to me, over my dead body. That's why I avoid toxic people, thanks heaven am lucky! Scary.

FrLukas:
They make marriage look so scary. To think that there wads a time when they proclaimed undying love to each other. Only God knows what happened. Sometimes i think wedding should be a lowkey event while celebrating the marriage's golden anniversary should be the main PARRTTYYY!

Lordwheez:
Really Remember the children you're staying in the marriage for are also human as you are, it won't be fair to them if those children become orphans due to your "love" for them. File a divorce already, make dem no come carry your dead body Comot for the house one day...

Absolutely correct

freethesheeple:
lol....If u die she will change naaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....The biggest scam is expecting a bad woman to change to good..Never possible.

Imagine! That guy is not a man honestly.. Who told him a bad woman change? A bad woman is like the heart of devil nothing change.

franchasng:
Hmmmm


I heard women don't change on their own, that sometimes after marriage, some evil spirit do possess some women....maybe their spirit husband that was enjoying them alone when they were single who got jealous that they finally got married, so it gets them enchanted spiritually to do abnormal things, sometimes that spirit may push them to kill their husband.....though psychologists can call it mental illness

Truth is, evil spirits access women more than men.

Knife, bottle and hammer you said.....since 10 years okwaya? Thats means you last kid should be above 10 and they are all there seeing those act. Wait a minute, she fights u with knife and bottle since 10years and you are still alive now. She never kill you? You don't know what to do abi. 8years ago u were told she will change and you stayed till now before crying out. Oook hang on inu. By now ur first kid should be nearing 20s so hang on. Jack bauer is coming to rescue you.

You better get out of that marriage but they post your obituary, no violent relationship is worth staying in.

[quote author=Solsix post=83468033][/quote]Forget divorce, thank you for your advice it is only God that can change her. My first question is that does your father or father in law had multiple wives.if yes another woman is already outside to give you everything you need,but that one will make you to divorce her and you will become adulterer it is only PRAYER

Run for your dear life. Early grave dey romance you be that.

Get a divorce

Complaining is silly, very silly..
Take action, that is the most important thing to do.. No one is gonna come save you from your marriage dude ..
Really wonder how y'all put up with stupid spouses though.. Marriage isn't a do or die affair bro, no pastor or person should tell you otherwise..

Lord knows i do not have the level of patience y'all exhibit in most of the stupid stories I read on here.. I'd have booted you out long ago.. I cherish my peace of mind and you should too..

You shouldn't respond to reason when reason is threatening to take away your sanity....
Stupid spouses belong in the trash..