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bros prayer no fit solve diz one oo just divorce her and take ur children else she might kill u o

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Your report is about provoking me

You endured all this stupid act of her for what reason

If she kills you, that's the end

It's not easy to pull out of marriage but when threat of life is involved, it becomes easier

You don't even need to report her to her parents, just leave that home for her and pack the things you think you will need and relocate else where and start living there

Be there, just let the landlord know that you are no longer living there and not responsible for the rent

If her family ask you how come you didn't inform them, tell them you have endured enough and you are fed up and you are not interested in her and the marriage again

If she wants to go with the child or children let her go with them, just pay their school fees to the school directly

She is not contributing anything to the family and she is not supportive

Who stays with a wolf at home

Nooo, this is insult upon injury, I don't care to know your own fault but then she is not working yet she is behaving like a tyrant, just because you want to be a gentleman

Law of survival is you first

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

My brother, i don't mean to give you bad advice, but i was a victim of same thing, mine sef should be worst than yours.. But all i did was leave the house and everything in the house, including my clothes and relocated to lagos from abuja, thou it was tough at the beginning, but your peace and hope it worth more than a violent relationship.. you better wake up and be wise, those children will understand later.

Note: i had to sell my house to relocate, so you can imagine!

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Your financial condition should be worked on.

STARGREEN:
There's an adage that says "he who's only tool is a hammer sees all problem as a NAIL" admittedly he seems to be in an unfortunate pool yet, rather than separating let him try other options by putting himself in her shoe at least to understand her, see things from her own perspective, feel how she think etc, perhaps he will get better scope to tream her to his soul. The fact is that there are people that have passed more than he's encountering and still overcome. @op, you will overcome. Assume that all women are them same and that you got not option [b]b [/b]you will find a way to make it work. Remember time and patience work wonders, watch and see.

You just gave me headache I swear.

Before getting a divorce though , try and get evidence of her violent nature towards you, set up a video and audio recording prior to a fight , then act the way you normally do before a fight starts, and allow it capture everything as she uses instruments of death on you.. you’ll need this as evidence to get full custody of your children’s and proof..

risos:
It's aggressive love, when she carry weapon you to should carry weapon, you will then go outside and be raking (aggressively shouting but don't attack, just b forming anger). Later you will see she what she tell you & give later.
You no talk say she bust your head or stab you before

Obviously, u never see woman way no they tire for whala... If the woman is d type, this ur suggestion no fit work

Bible said he that find a wife ( God's hand is off it) God expects us as humans to find a wife and He will bless the marriage since man blamed Him for finding him a wife.

If your pastor keep giving you advice to stay in a marriage that u see is about to end your life better stay away from such a pastor.

For good 8yrs u experiencing a woman who uses knife on you and u expect change? Na wa o

I hate to hear this I'm doing it for the kids rubbish Until she kills you, divorce the witch now before there are no kids to look after because you'll be dead.

Secretly do papers for yourself and your children, travel out and leave her here. Let her go out as usual, but coming back to see the house empty. From anywhere you are, send your people to her people, let them do the separation for you. Oga, if you die now, your children go suffer oooo.

Damn Bro! What you are suffering from is as a result of the G-CODE you broke when dating her which is "NEVER WIFE A HOE".
Real Niggarzz don't wife hoes. They only LOGIN and then LOGOUT.

Sirseedorf:
But oga what is the cause of are aggressiveness and what do you guys argue about.

You said she is a violent person, didn't you see the signs and trait before engaging her in marriage.



If. you've tried your possible best and it still didn't work out, you guys should go your separate ways, marriage is not do or die.

Op hmmm all this years.her sex must be great.i had this girl in calabar then.wounds me but couldnt resist her as sex after fight was great.the scars on my body was much.she derives pleasure in wounding me.one day i just packed my properties and left the house.d scars on my body till now can't even tell my wife the truth.

Guy u still with her d sex z good.but better stay alive than dead cos u have lost ur respect in d house and sure the kids are urs

She doesn't deserve you and you do t deserve premature death

Packout and rent another apartment for yourself let her continue to fight herself

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

You are you own problem and evil.
Is your brain and heart in her custody?

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Who wears the financial trousers in your marriage? Do you provide for your family? Do you have a job/business?

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Since it has gotten to the point of you thinking of killing yourself, then insist on separation. This is after consulting with her family members. A consensus should be reached as to who takes care of the kids

Wife ?

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

. Leaving your wife or killing yourself isn't the solution. Just carry your shirt and leave the house for a quiet place or your friend's house whenever she nags. By the time you come back, she would have calmed down. Naturally, women nag. You can imagine me, setting my wife up in business in which she's doing well today, putting my children in one of the best schools in the country and playing my role as a good husband...yet, anytime we have quarrell which she initiates 99% of the time, she would say...mention just one thing you have done for me over 13 years of our marriage...just one thing . I'd travel and buy her expensive accessories and clothing, even assist her in business with money. As successful as she is( all thanks to God and me) I don't care how much she makes and I dont share same with her. Yes, she's always nagging. I've reported her to all her siblings, parents and even friends thinking she'd change, alas! I tried dating a girl just to make myself happy. Believe me, she was acting same way at some point when she had not even entered, she started behaving as my wife. I had to jump into a conclusion that, na so all of them be because what I hear my friends say about their wives too are quite similar. We just have to manage them ni. My inlaw once said...maybe its because of their hair they dont wash or apply water on everytime that makes women of nowadays behave this way . He said jokingly during my visit to him sometime ago. They are necessary evil.

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Please permit to say YOU are a fool and a disgrace to MEN

All these men Abeg make we hear word, what is it sef? I’m now beginning to think you people are just making these stories up.


Your wife just dey attack you with hammer and nail and chisel, just like that, Abeg make we hear something.

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

Pack her load out & Send her back to her family...

ngwababe:
Secretly do papers for your yourself and your children, travel out and leave her here. Let her go out as usual, but coming back to see the house empty. From anywhere you are, send your people to her people, let them do the separation for you. Oga, if you die now, your children go suffer oooo.

Do paper u ask dude how much he z earning.Dude first kid second third and still d woman no kill u.guy ur just housing anoda mans kongo.
She comes bk nytime u open d doors for u.in calabar it is called u have eaten KOPINOMI.u will rant but can never do anything

nonjebose:
Since it has gotten to the point of you thinking of killing yourself, then insist on separation. This is after consulting with her family members. A consensus should be reached as to who takes care of the kids

My broda. They are all the same . The solution is simple...management

Thielngr:
My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...

Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why

She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.

What should I do? I need urgent advice

disadvantages of arranged marriage

Go nd marry anoda woman, you too go dey go sleep for ur new wife place as sh dey do wit her lover, abi u no kw baa?

You are a walking corpse if you don't act fast. Run for your dear life

miqos02:
Please permit to say YOU are a fool and a disgrace to MEN

Disgrace and fool to men.

One u are not marred
Two you dont have a girlfriend nor in a relationship
Three you are a kid

Have u ever heard the word divorce before?

And you are waiting for her to kill you so that nairalanders would make a feast of discussing whether it was buhari's bad leadership, poor quality education, laziness of the youth of this generation, tribal inclination, deceitful religious doctrines, heaven or hell etc that made an adult wait for the wife/husband to waist his/her life. Okay, life and death are largely by choice.

See as mumu love dey destroyed you life.. divorce her or one your children would cry over your dead body..

Walk out in one piece.