Jepee:
Natural method is the best, I have been on it for four years now. Just know your wife's safe period. I always do 9+10. That is, she is free to have sex from the day her menses started till the ninth day. Then, 10 days from the ninth day no sex or you do withdrawal method. Every other day after the 10th day is safe. You do this every month and you are safe from pregnancy.

I need to bookmark this for future reference.

webngnews:
Condom doesn’t fail . Don’t play yourself I have sexxz daily using condom and never get a girl pregnant

annford:



You both are married and young and you keep aborting your babies? It isn't like it is health-related. You asked for our advice and our advice you'd get; keep your. hands off of each other. Go celibate for ten years, get back together and then have another baby. I have an Uncle who's been married since 1998. He and his Wife have been working hard to get pregnant all to no avail and there you are with your WIFE not your girlfriend but WIFE, busy aborting pregnancies. Really, it is different strokes for different folks.

GREATESTPIANIST:
YOU AND UR WIFE ARE MURDERERS, HOW DARE U CALL AN INNOCENT LIFE A MESS......YOU ARE VERY WICKED, MAY
GOD FORGIVE U, HABA, HOW CAN PPL B DIS WICKED, AND U WANT TO KILL D ONE IN HER WOMB, MAY GOD ALMIGHTY DESTROY U BOTH IF U TRY THAT....

Nigerians and their hypocritical self righteous B.S. Thank God, God is not a Nigerian. You asked God to forgive and also "destroy" them all in one sentence. Haha.

sinaj:
You can as well undergo a vasectomy coz its the safest and most reliable.

Viking07:
I need to bookmark the for future reference.

nappy760:


I doubt this op would be willing to withdraw when it is time to ejaculate...He 'd rather die than withdraw

sinaj:
Truth is, its difficult to get a good contraceptive and it depends on her body too.

What works for another lady might not work for her. Even the IUCD is a silent killer, pills comes with its wahala too.

Op should just study his wife's cycle so he can tell when she is on her safe period or when she is ovulating so as to know when to use condom and when not to.

samuelson06:


How do you determine when it's safe period please?

Kylekent59:
All I noted is that you both ain't matured.

So a full grown adults who are married can't control their sexual urge.

From my view, you are the problem. Who knows, you could have been the one that insisted on raw sex. When you were releasing / ejaculating inside her, you didn't know you were about to form a baby.


The deed had been done, endure it so that next time you are about to release inside her, you would remember your past mistakes.


If you are waiting for Nairalanders to advise you to abort it, you are wasting your time.

Righteousness89:


@ Bolden..

You Conciously Commit Murder and u have a dead Conscience. You say it like it's Nothing...

I Pray For you, may GOD have Mercy on you and your wife ! Be the cry of those innocent kids you murder can make GOD to deal with you guys..

It's sooo unfortunate that Human Heart has been Seared to do Wickedness with no feelings..

May GOD Have Mercy on the Wicked inhabitants of this Wicked World!

Lastly ,let Me Warn you and Your wife..

I Speak as a man with the Spirit of GOD!

If you guys try to take off this baby again.... You guys will pay the Price.. if u doubt me, go ahead....


If you don't know what to do with babies then you use a Protection before having sex or you give the babies to those that need them..

nappy760:


I already copied it

Munzy14:

vasectomy?
when he said no kids till 10yrs lAter...

u want him to stay sterile?

Jgoldie:
Castrate you prick..must this woman go through this pain..love is indeed blind.she can use implants tho...it doesn't fail

TheDoc:
I AM A MEDICAL DOCTOR (though specialising in ortho-bones not Gynea).

You know where the problem is? Where you got the contraceptives. As far as I know (remember I am not a gynaecologist) there is no injectable contraceptive that last 6 months. Max is 3 months, so the conception is not surprising.

MY ADVICE
1. SEE A GYNAECOLOGIST, preferably in a teaching hospital or a federal medical centre.
2. DON'T ABORT THAT PREGNANCY, your wife is becoming a high risk patient by so doing. That's why gynaecologists routinely ask of number of pregnancies and miscarriages. Minding you in medicine accidental and induced abortions are same i.e all carry risk.
3. NEVER BE SELFISH. in 10 years time your may have attended or close to attending menopause, so what about her?
4. NO CONTRACEPTIVE IS 100%, though some are as effective as 99%
REMEMBER, I be bone doctor not gynae.
CHEERS

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

gabazin080:
My wife and I don't like condom and we are both very sexually active. to avoid stories that touch we did family planning but it failed in May and my twin girls are just a year old then, so we decided that we can't keep the pregnancy.

After clearing that mess she went back to the hospital to complain and was given another injection and some drugs that she should come back for the injection every 6 months.

Now she is pregnant again after just 4 months. family planning has failed again, what can we do to prevent another pregnancy because we are not going to keep this also and we planned not to have kids again till maybe after 10 years.


Please help with any local or natural method of family planning.

Fountainofyouth:



Your brain is full of fufu, they can have RAW sex as much as they like cos it is legal, he said he needs advice on other family planning not condemnation, typing long epistle filled with nonsense....

Op she should freeze her eggs or tie her womb, or they should clip it shut for her through IUCD or something.....

Righteousness89:


@ Bolden..

You Conciously Commit Murder and u You say it like it's Nothing... you Have A Dead Conscience .

I Pray For you, may GOD have Mercy on you and your wife ! The cry of those innocent kids you two murder can make GOD to deal with you guys Ruthlessly..

It's sooo unfortunate that Human Heart has been Seared to do Wickedness with no feelings..

May GOD Have Mercy on the Wicked inhabitants of this Wicked World!

Lastly ,let Me Warn you and Your wife..

I Speak as a man with the Spirit of GOD!

If you guys try to take off this baby again.... You guys will pay the Price.. if u doubt me, go ahead....


If you don't know what to do with babies then you use a Protection before having sex or you give the babies to those that need them..

Preshy561:

You are a very selfish man. You didn't consider the same would have happened to your wife when she was taking injections and aborting babies.

Undergo vasectomy, it's very safe and reliable.