Zita55:
Oga, it's good that God delivered you from shackles of darkness but not all girls are like that..

pascalexmond:

I agree with u but from my discoveries lately, it is one out of every 1000 9ja babes that might be different.
My sister,I pity this our generation.No wife material again oo..They re scarce.

We guys need to shine our eyes properly so that we don't die untimely

D situation is outrageous.

pascalexmond:

I agree with u but from my discoveries lately, it is one out of every 1000 9ja babes that might be different.
My sister,I pity this our generation.No wife material again oo..They re scarce.

We guys need to shine our eyes properly so that we don't die untimely

D situation is outrageous.

Zita55:
Oga, it's good that God delivered you from shackles of darkness but not all girls are like that..

AwkaetitiBabe:
Mtcheeeeeeew, it's now that Christmas is around the corner you decided to be wise eh? Lol

Martinez39:
Don't listen to Zita55. All girls are like that. The one who you think is descent is also like that. Good to see that you've realised that romantic relationship is a scam. Save your money and use it for better things.

pascalexmond:
Sincerely,I ve been blind to what relationship is all about all these years b'cos I was not a regular visitor to d romance section of nairaland.

Since,I started visiting nairaland to learn from d experiences of so many persons and d various pieces of advice & criticisms provided,it has had so much impact on my emotional life.

First,applying most of d strategies I learned here gave me d needed courage to put an end to a toxic relationship which almost made me financially handicapped all in d name of loving a girl who was just after my pocket.

Infact,she became a monster when d money stopped flowing in just few days.

Since then I had been taking my time,cautiously to get a girl to fill that vacuum but unfortunately it seems most of them ve d same modus operandi of gold digging and this I acknowledge timely b'cos of my past experience and strategies provided on this forum.

Lately,I see all women as extortionist.Every babe to me now is a suspect of ripping me off and that ideology has helped me expose them,enable me to save a lot of money that would ve been expended on useless outings,gluttony,flamboyance,hotel bills and all sorts of rubbish.

Infact,d few times I ve had d urge for sex,I just masturbate to give myself relief and peace as I was never in a relationship for sex but for love and companionship but unfortunately these babes just toil with ur emotions out of greed.

What makes me so delighted is d extra money I now ve in my account as I know how much I would ve spent in d last few weeks.

Whenever it is time,if possible, I will get a reserved and responsible girl as a wife.Let d slay queens and gold diggers park well.

I was so stupid.

I want to advice guys who are still under d spell of these unfortunate girls in d name of love to summon d courage in putting them to d test for just a day or two.D moment d funds stops flowing,they will disappear.

Two or three days after meeting them,they start making all sorts of demands,from replacement of phones to house rent and wardrobe allowance.

These are things I took to be normal b'4 as a way of having a girl to my self but it was a fundamental error.

Guys,pls,wise up.

pascalexmond:

Bro,we don't even know who to trust amongst them again o.

Relationship in 9ja now has been commercialized.

It is transactional

Martinez39:
Don't listen to Zita55. All girls are like that. The one who you think is descent is also like that. Good to see that you've realised that romantic relationship is a scam. Save your money and use it for better things.

Guest007:
I come here to kill brain cells

Kevsmart88:
I understand you're trying to stress a point about our nigerian gurls but truth be told we still have responsible,well mannered ladies among us...Jus because few eggs are spoilt in ur crate doesn't mean U dispose of them all...And I've said it countless times,guys pls do not expect sexual gratification for ur magnanimity...If U wanna be nice to a woman,pls be without expecting anything in return except u spell it out from the onset...My 2 cents

ednut1:
I cannot remember the last time a gal asked me for hair card or phone money. I don't give hungry gals audience. Date girls with sense. Once they see you are a mumu they take advantage of you.

ednut1:
I cannot remember the last time a gal asked me for hair card or phone money. I don't give hungry gals audience. Date girls with sense. Once they see you are a mumu they take advantage of you.

Alaniyiokorausa:
are you really the one on your dp.

Guest007:


Erm... No... It's my cousin

Zita55:
Oga, it's good that God delivered you from shackles of darkness but not all girls are like that..

pascalexmond:

I agree with u but from my discoveries lately, it is one out of every 1000 9ja babes that might be different.
My sister,I pity this our generation.No wife material again oo..They re scarce.

We guys need to shine our eyes properly so that we don't die untimely

D situation is outrageous.

Raalsalghul:


Before I used to think that that "Nigerian girls are golddiggers" talk was highly exagerrated.

Recent experiences have thought me otherwise.

Even the ones you are casual friends with are scheming to rip you off with no value added from them to the friendship.

Truth is that, I have no qualms dishing out cash to a Nigerian lady, but the request must be genuine and she must be deserving of it.

I've now begin to accept the fact that I might not get married especially as I'm still in this climate.

However, the whole thing has made me begin to appreciate my sisters and mum more. At least when shit hits the fan, I know they've got my back.

Same reason why I don't blame/judge guys that resort to prostitutes/runs girls.

Naija ladies matter don tire person.

Spits!