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ubunja:
Typing...

Nice one ubunja.

ubunja:
even gays are out here having sex with women. Those gays are shifty crooks

Yeah !! bi sexual you mean. Bro xup ! on a lighter mood naa to run from ur articles it kills d fun of survival of the fittest .. some of us jus want to rack our brains in the exam hall even when expo dey 4 pocket! weldone apparently you are back

ubunja:
PUSSYHOE
Olorunnim
yettymuse
vincentjk
JONNYSPUTE
Omar09
youngreezy
twhy111

.. Splendid post bro. Saving the whiteknights is not an easy job.

Ariza:
One thing I have noticed about you praise singers is you hardly read or comprehend the write up. All you do is look for counter opinions and start your lunatic displays . You don't contribute intelligently but you are very vast in conspiracy and controversy. Grow some sense!

Lilwetd!ck aka Defen.deralert, is that you? How are your mum and dad? Hope you have been cured of your Ubunja Derangement Syndrome. I saw you with this same moniker on another Ubunja's thread trying to insinuate that he only has prick (pen!s) to his name. It is well.

Ubunja , my Manchi.

Thanks man.

Duggedised12:
So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

You are not sensible. A man and woman can form a strong relationship without getting married. Ubunja did it. The basis on which you think he is qualified to be a hypocrite is an illogical and laughable one. You also presume a lot about Ubunja's treatment of his baby mama. You are trying hard to imply that he cruelly took advantage of his baby mama and that his baby mama was an unfortunate prey. Have a good night sleep and shove your deception and mental gymnastics up your drilled ass.

I've seen a couple comments on this thread from women who in their quest to sound reasonable have become very unreasonable. May the good lord be with yall

ubunja:
PUSSYHOE
Olorunnim
yettymuse
vincentjk
JONNYSPUTE
Omar09
youngreezy
twhy111

And it finally dropped. What an educative post and I must say I can relate with this miseducation. Girls that choose me are easy to deal with for me, no stress, you're not going the extra mile to please them and you can always be blunt with them.

It's always sweet when it a girl who loves you more, that takes away the pressure of making it works away from you to some extent.

ubunja:
PUSSYHOE
Olorunnim
yettymuse
vincentjk
JONNYSPUTE
Omar09
youngreezy
twhy111

Ubunja you've done well, thanks I really appreciate it.

ubunja:
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Ubunja!!!! You are really good bro. You should write a book.

[b]Ubunja you are the boss. Saw you "typing...." just ignore these ladies. We need to be free from their manipulation.

Martinez39:
You are not sensible. A man and woman can form a strong relationship without getting married. Ubunja did it. The basis on which you think he is qualified to be a hypocrite is an illogical and laughable one. You also presume a lot about Ubunja's treatment of his baby mama. You are trying hard to imply that he cruelly took advantage of his baby mama and that his baby mama was an unfortunate prey. Have a good night sleep and shove your deception and mental gymnastics up your drilled ass.

sensibility is perception and largely depends on your IQ,in a society like Nigeria, i would say i am not surprised that you find no sense in it, i mean a dark continent filled with black people still battling with Malaria which i think you have by the way,it is expected that you will act like a typical black man inferior to his white counter part.I would post this same answer on quora and get a different response why? IQ which the average black man lacks hence a patriarch society like Nigeria is still backwards, you black men just cant do anything right can you?


Back to the topic;
A strong relationship without respect and regard? So on what basis is that relationship strong?strong friendships i know are based on loyalty ,integrity ,honesty and mutual respect would you point out how the op has any of these for his so called "decent babymama" ?.

Both the op and the lady both have issues. The lady is a helpless prey who is probably still having "the first love syndrome" add a mixture of low self esteem and what you have is a good woman who doesn't know she deserves more hence she settles to being a babymama and a doormat to a man who doesn't know what he wants nor have a sense of responsibility.While the op is indecisive man with a pinch of narcissism who feels the has another human under this control so he will happily gloat about it and not even give the necessary worth to the person.

I also think the lady is probably like me who hates my children to have different fathers , born here born there ,i always hated it, maybe that is why she is trying so she can have all her children for one baby papa. Its more bearable to be a babymama to one man than to be for several men hence this lady is trying to minimise the wagging tongues so she does not end up like the woman Jesus met at the well with five husbands but this time with five baby papas.Or maybe she feels as a "second hand" no man will find her worthy of being a wife so its better she stays put after all as they say "the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know" .

I think by now we all know the definition of hypocrisy now lets apply it to the op who throws the word "hoe" with reckless abandone . This women he calls hoes might not necessarily be promiscous but they have one thing the OP knows the can't manipulate "self awareness" in pidgin they call it "tear eye". You see this kind of women will probably not stay in any net for too long without taking a walk. Let's not also forget the DMs and arms of these so called hoes is where the op crawls and sleeps,talk about eating what you condemn.

I once heard and even read on this forum how bad girls usually end up with the best husbands while so called decent girls end up with not so good, in as much as i dont want to hop on the band wagon of generalisation,we can all agree that one decent lady out there just met the wrong man who has not placed her on the pedestal she deserves cos i hear men every day say "a good woman is hard to find these days" but guess what being a good woman does not guarantee you will be respected and appropriated value as the op has just clearly proved it.


I am not here for any back and forth, but the op just opened my eyes to another parental obligation i have towards my daughters. This piece should even be used as an educative material to young girls so they know their worth cos if it quacks like a duck looks like a duck, then it is a duck and there is no inbetweens when it come to respect ,he either respects you or he doesn't.

One thing tho, the op thinks he is a trophy,lol i don't want this kind of trophy that brings me reproach (the baby mama tag) in whatever ways he is compensating for this reproach, I sure dont envy the ops babymama she can enjoy her so called trophy, I DONT WANT HER SITUATION.

ubunja:
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juniho71 Itohanmiwa SamzackD tiptoe1 Kayoderebel clapper04

am indeed honored to be mentioned here.

Wow, This is one dAm eye opener, i have witnessed this alot..

i remembered your topic on a player with a pussy, you talked about these hoes chosing a man they beleive to be a father figure.

and now i realized these hoes when they get tired of hoeing around even to the utermost part of the earth and wana settle down tend to CHOSE (probably a nice guy) And so tend to give respect and show love and submissivness.

or am i at a MR GRINCH MODE ?
what do you think bro

cc Ubunja.

tintingz:
Even though this is a popular title known for Lions but....

1. Lion is not the king of the jungle, they don't stay in jungles.

2. Comparing "all" animal traits to humans is ridiculous, animals strictly follow how they are engineered and they vary, humans bypass some. A hunter(worker) In human society can be a leader and be valued.

3. Using your animal analogy, in the ant colony who's the leader?

Cc. Ubunja

bro, you're trying so hard to make sense in an extra odinarily complete non-sense. You end up confusing yourself.

so who exactly is the jungle king

skywalker240:
bro, you're trying so hard to make sense in an extra odinarily complete non-sense. You end up confusing yourself.

so who exactly is the jungle king

Tarzan is the king of the jungle.


On a serious note, no animal is the king of the jungle, that title was given to Lions because of how they "behave" like kings(not that they are the most dangerous in the animal kingdom). I.e they are Pride protector, tax collector(they eat first before the lioness).

But there are animals more dangerous than Lions, tigers are more stronger and faster than Lions and even larger, they have good advantage of defeating a lion.

And lastly, Lions don't stay in jungles.

tintingz:
On a serious note, no animal is the king of the jungle, that title was given to Lions because of how they "behave" like kings(not that they are the most dangerous in the animal kingdom). I.e they are Pride protector, tax collector(they eat first before the lioness) .

But there are animals more dangerous that Lions, tigers are more stronger and faster than Lions and even larger, they have good advantage of defeating a lion.
And lastly, Lions don't stay in jungles.

yeah D FICTIONAL Tarzan right? Tell me more

how do u address Sunny Ade?

Is he naturally a king? No

while the Tiger or even a Bear might be stronger, they lack D courage and fearless Heart of D Lion (kings are couragous and fearless) Dats Y they are viewed as kings

Lions dnt live in jungles, so is D pride located AT ur backyard?
D forest and the animal eco system is generally reffered as d jungle

Now see y i said ure jst on a much ado

skywalker240:
yeah D FICTIONAL Tarzan right? Tell me more

how do u address Sunny Ade?

Is he naturally a king? No

He's from a royal family.

while the Tiger or even a Bear might be stronger, they lack D courage and fearless Heart of D Lion (kings are couragous and fearless) Dats Y they are viewed as kings

And who told you tiger and bear are not fearless?

I've stated why Lions are called king of the jungle.

Lions dnt live in jungles, so is D pride located AT ur backyard?
D forest and the animal eco system is generally reffered as d jungle

Now see y i said ure jst on a much ado

Jungle are mostly depicted as rainforest with tall trees.

Lion stays in savanna, grassland not jungle, it's unusual for them, lion stays in open place.

tintingz:
He's from a royal family.

And who told you tiger and bear are not fearless?

I've stated why Lions are called king of the jungle.

Jungle are mostly depicted as rainforest with tall trees.

Lion stays in savanna, grassland not jungle, it's unusual for them, lion stays in open place.

I meant was he the best afro juju music singer? Before he was crowned king of juju music? Was he much better than I.K DIARO back then? Or is he much better than Haruna ishola or Pasuma wonder today? He was crowned king because of his unique and rare style. (u admitted earlier lion has a style @ bolded, now u see wat am tryna say)

Tigers and Bears might be fearless, but when food shortage is realy on D low, a pack of Lion can still hunt and kill D weak ones among them. (you get the drift)

its a known and established fact that the Animal EcoSystem is generally reffered to as the jungle, and that includes rain forest and savanna grassland.

so whats your point exactly?

ubunja:
How To Get A Girl To Put You On A Pedestal.

PROLOGUE.
You have seen it before in your hood. A pretty girl has all the men hitting on her and trying to impress her with money and things. She ignores them. Or plays them. Because she's got her eye on some insignificant nonentity of a Guy. As hard to get as the girl is for other men, this nobody of a Guy gets her attention easy. He makes her laugh easy. He impresses her easy. Much to the anger and confusion of all the other men who know they are better by far than the Guy.

Now, what does the Guy have that all the other men don't have that has cast a spell on the girl?

nothing.

The guy is simply chosen.

MOYO MUTI UNOMERA PAUNODA.
In the Zimbabwean Shona language we have a saying: "Moyo muti unomera paunoda" - The heart is like a tree that grows where it chooses.

We can't predict where a plant will grow. A plant will grow in the most favorable places like river banks and rain forests. But it will also grow in the least favorable places like deserts and cracks on a pavement and against all odds thrive.

Same with love.

Love is emotions and emotions are Unpredictable. Like the Unpredictable growth of plants.
Love flourishes in the most favorable places but it will also flourish in the least favorable places. "Moyo muti unomera paunoda" - The heart is like a tree that grows where it chooses. In other words, "The heart wants what the heart wants". And whom the heart wants is the Prize.

GET A GIRL TO RESPECT YOU.
So much has been said about how women no longer respect men. How women no longer submit and put men in their rightful place as the Head.

Women were born to follow. Men were born to lead. But, remember followers choose the leader. Not the other way round. We vote for our leaders. Our leaders don't vote for us.

It's the same with women and respect.

If your girl doesn't respect you there's precious little you can do to make her respect you. You played the game backwards. You were supposed to find a girl who respected you already then make her your girl. But instead you found a girl, made her your GF then tried to make her respect you. It doesn't work that way.

You don't make a girl respect you. That's impossible. Girls respect whoever they think is worthy of respect. What you do is You find a girl who respects you already and make her your girl. This way there's no struggle to earn anything because everything is already given. Just like how God loved us before we were born and there's nothing we did to earn His love. God loves us because He CHOSE us. That is true love. A girl must love you because she chose you. Not because you did anything to earn her love. Love must not be earned.

Same with respect.

If a girl already thinks you're respectable then you're a thousand steps ahead of every other guy trying to earn her respect because in love NOTHING must be earned.

Men do many things backwards... A man will meet a Scantily Dressed girl, fall in love then try to make her wear long dresses. It won't work. She'll tell you it was the miniskirts and minidresses that made you love her, why must she now change. What you must do is find a decently dressed girl if you want a decently dressed wife. Anyways, it will be far easier to make a decent girl dress sexy than to make a ho dress decently. You can't turn a ho into a housewife but you can turn a housewife into a ho. Remember every girl is looking for a guy she can be bad for.

MY STORY.
I found my babymama a virgin at about 23.

She was strict and many guys had tried their luck with her and failed. But when she met me she practically handed herself to me. Winning her heart was so effortless. And she's still the easiest girl I ever fvcked. And I fvcked her so much that within months she gave me a baby.

One day a friend visited us and was shocked to see my GF kneel down to serve me food. (God is my Witness) When we were alone my friend said I must be hitting my GF that's why she served me food kneeling. I was offended. Because I never asked anyone to kneel for me. And I explained this to him but I could see he was not convinced.

Two years after breaking up I met my babymama and I wanted to check something on her phone but there was a password (she never used to put passwords). I asked for the password and she replied "it's your name". I didn't believe it but typed it anyways. And the phone unlocked!!!. I was surprised.

A few months ago this year, I went to see her because I missed my daughter and she (my babymama) said, "Whatever you're doing, when you get tired of it, I will be waiting for you". I didn't reply. Then she told me our daughter was grown and she needed a brother. Guess what? I will give her another baby soonest!

We have an inside joke where I tell her she can't move on cause I cast a spell on her. She laughs hard at it.

Why am I telling you all this??

I'm telling you this Because I did NOTHING to get this girl to fall so deep in love with me. I didn't campaign. I didn't spend a cent. I didn't buy her anything. Not even. What happened is one simple thing that was beyond even my control: I FITTED THE DESCRIPTION OF THE TYPE OF GUY SHE WANTED. Simple.

Whatever this girl saw in me she liked it. I didn't put any effort to make her like me. She just liked me. I was her type. Was she my type? No. She was from the wrong tribe. And was too reserved for my liking. BUT I WAS HER TYPE. That was what mattered. And I ran with that. I didn't even know she was a virgin. She kept it a secret until the moment I took out my dick.

The moral of the story is this:
If a girl loves you first you are the Prize. If a woman likes you first you are the Trophy. And there's very little you can do wrong in her eyes. She'll always excuse your behavior. Someone who likes you without you doing anything to impress them, is someone who'll find it hard to stop liking you when you do something to disappoint them. If your actions didn't create the love, your actions can't destroy the love. Because it's never about your actions, but about YOU.

UNDERSTANDING WHAT IT MEANS TO BE THE PRIZE OR TROPHY.
Any guy can be the Prize or the Trophy to a girl. But there's a very particular way of going about it. You have to play the game right.

There are three things that make a trophy a trophy:

1. A Trophy Is Perfect As Is.

This is the most important thing. The less you do yet the more you impress a girl, a girl you impress the most by doing the least to the point that you impress her TOTALLY by doing TOTALLY NOTHING is the girl with whom you have a realistic chance of being the Prize.

The only girl you should give a chance
is that girl so breathtaken, so infatuated with you that she thinks you are the Prize, for simply breathing. And nothing more. The way a trophy is seen perfect AS IS. So also a girl must see you perfect AS IS. That way there's no spending, pretending, lying and campaigning to earn her affection.

In love NOTHING must be earned.

2. A Trophy Doesn't Choose Who Wins It.

Take for example a football trophy. It doesn't choose what quality of teams get to compete for it. Or what quality of team will take it home. The only way the trophy can get itself won by a decent level team is to be a trophy of a decent football league.
A minor league trophy will be won by minor league teams unless it becomes a major league trophy then it will be won by a major league team.

As a trophy you attract your level. If you don't like the level of women you're attracting then improve and elevate to a higher level. Then higher level women you'll attract.

3. A Trophy Loves No One.

A trophy or a prize may be dreamed of and fantasized about by many, but itself it fantasizes and dreams of no one. A trophy doesn't compete for anyone. It is competed for. A trophy doesn't love anyone. It is loved.

In love, the one who loves less is the trophy.

In all my dealings with women, the breakups that have hurt the most and made me cry the longest were with those women I myself chose, pursued and won. I was too invested. I begged the most and accommodated the greatest. I was the trophy holder. And when the trophy left - as all trophies do when a better competitor appears - I was left devastated.

Look back at all your Exes and you'll see a pattern: The girls you were hurt the most to breakup with were the ones you chased and pursued the hardest. While the girls who brought themselves to you, it was easy not only to get them but also to breakup with them, because YOU were the prize.

UNDERSTAND YOU ARE THE PREY.
The greatest reason guys don't become trophies is guys have made themselves the Hunters.

A hunter can never be a trophy.

Do you know something called Trophy Hunting? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trophy_hunting) It is the hunting of animals for sport . And the ANIMALS that are hunted and shot are the trophies. Not the hunters. The Prey is the Trophy.

The Lion is king of the Jungle but who hunts? The Female lion. The hunter is not the King. The hunter is the chaser and the chaser has no value.

WHO'S THE TROPHY?
It's always easy to see who's the trophy and who's the hunter in any couple.

Who is more "needy"? On the streets, In photos who is always grabbing the other? Who always has their hand or arm around the other person? That's the hunter. The hunter has no value.

Look at any pictures of rich men or male celebs and stars and you'll see the WOMAN is always the one grabbing the man. Because the woman is the hunter and the man is the trophy.

Whereas pictures of ordinary couples have the MAN grabbing the woman, because the man is the hunter and the woman is the trophy.

WOMEN ARE THE PREDATORS.
The easiest way to get that girl who will worship and put you on a pedestal is for you to understand Women are the Hunters. Not men.

Girls are the Predators and boys are the Prey. God brought Eve to Adam. Eve was the hunter. Adam the prey.

Also Women have the pussy and the Womb. Lovemaking and babymaking are their jurisdiction. Weak as they are it is they who ultimately decide who gets to have sex and who gets to be born.

As a man understand and allow for that.

THE PREY IS THE PRIZE.
Seek and you shall find. And that which you'll find is the Prize. Not you. You are not the Prize. People go looking for treasure. Treasure doesn't go looking for people. We compete for a trophy, the trophy doesn't compete for us.

Whatever you seek/search for/look for, is the Prize. Whether that's a job, a place, an item or a person. It's the Prize. It's more important than you. And you can lose it to a better person than you.

Once you search, once you hunt, once you seek, the other person becomes the Prey. And the Prey is the Prize.

Remember the Prey can live without the Predator but the Predator needs the Prey to survive. The lion needs the gazelle and the kudus or it perishes. The gazelle and the kudus just need grass. So what's valuable? The prey or the predator? The Prey. The Prey is the Prize.

LET GIRLS CHOOSE.
We all have a "type". Or a "kind". Of a person who always catches our eye. We know what turns us on when we see it. That image of what turns us on is what we fantasize about and even masturbate to. Especially women. Women daydream a lot about love.

As a man, your security and longevity with a girl depends on how closely you fit the "type" and kind" of the guy she fantasizes about. The closer you align to her desire, the nearer you are to what she daydreams about, the smoother things will be for you because the more satisfied she'll be with you and the less inclined she'll be to cheat.

But you can't read minds and you don't know what a girl's fantasy is. You can't read hearts and you've no clue as to her desire. So how do you achieve the impossible and match a girl's fantasy and desire?

It's simple: YOU WAIT TO BE CHOSEN.

Wait for the girl whose fantasy matches what you are. Wait for the woman who desires a man like you. Wait for her to choose you. This way you are chosen AS YOU ARE. Without any need to do anything to impress anyone.

VIDEO.
The Pastor in the video below knows and understands the game. He knows women must choose. Watch and see how things must be done. See how much easier it is for men when women do the choosing:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbuquJHtTuY

That's how things must be done.

The attention and affection of a woman must never be earned, bought, paid for, fought for or struggled for. It must come freely WITHOUT you doing anything but breathing.

VIDEO ANALYSIS.
Now, on the video above, WHO IS THE PRIZE? The women who did the choosing or the men who waited to be chosen? Its the men of course. The men are the Prize because they are the women's fantasy. By choosing, the women got their fantasy. But by choosing they lost their power. The women lost their power because they are the ones who are in love. Not the men.

When you love someone, that person automatically has power over you. Because when you love someone you can lie, steal, pay, toil, slave, kill or kill yourself for that person. That's the power they hold over you.

In love, you are either the Hunter who identifies, pursues and acquires your Fantasy, or you're the Fantasy identified, pursued and acquired by the Hunter. The Hunter chases and possesses the fantasy ("she's the girl of my dreams and I finally won her heart" / "he's the guy of my dreams and I finally won his heart" ). But the Hunter who gets the fantasy has LESS power because he/she is the one infatuated, in lust and in love. Not the fantasy.

The fantasy, the person you call your dream guy or dream girl, while you can't live without them, they can live without you because you are not their dream anything.

The guys in the video above, they have more power because they are chosen. The women have less power because they chose. In quarrels the women will always be reminded, "You chose me. I didn't choose you!" - The most disempowering words you can say to anyone.
But the power each man holds over his woman comes at a cost to the man: By being someone else's fantasy you deny yourself your own fantasy. Each side of the equation has its good and bad.

THE CHOSEN IS THE PRIZE.
You have power over anyone to whom you're a fantasy. And you can only be a fantasy if you're chosen.

But how do you know a woman is choosing you? Green Lights of course. No Green lights no approach.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

I wish you were in Lagos, I would have taken you out on all expenses paid outing.

Ariza:
If only mothers would pay more attention on their wards psychological needs like they do their physical needs. A mother will focus more on teaching the female child body anatomy but the male child mental anatomy. When a mother talks to her female child, You hear things like, don't let a man touch you, you will get pregnant, don't play with boys because you will become like boys, sit well so your pants won't show and boys will laugh at you. Learn to cook so that you will get husband, Learn to wash so that you will have a husband, don't talk anyhow no man will marry you etc.Right from the beginning this girl child's life has been mudded to revolve around , boys, Men and what men think. She's has been caged to live her life for men's validation and she can't be blamed for not knowing Self worth, Self value, Self esteem and Self Love because she wasn't taught.


On the other hand, When a mother lectures her son. You hear things like: Be strong, Don't cry, Work hard so you can buy a house for me and your father, Marry a beautiful wife, Be rich, You can be anything when you have money. You must be brave, strong willed and disciplined, Never let anyone pull you down. All these just to build up her son's mental health. And you expect the child to grow into a Man of integrity?A man who is chaste and prides his body? A man who values and respect his body so much that he wouldn't do the next available hole? No way! He was never taught. Most men were trained to act like dogs, only the self disciplined one acts otherwise.

most men were trained to act like dogs?

bitch WTF?

ubunja:
well if her looks are not up to standards you've to upgrade. And you upgrade by upgrading yourself. Dress better talk better walk better. Hit the gym. You'll be chosen by higher class of women.

Self-improvement is key in the game of choosing.
The Animal Kingdom totally runs on the Females choosing the males. Thats why among animals the males are more beautiful than the females.

Hmmmm, i got u boss.

This is an amazing write up from Ubunja as usual...

It's raining already and folks are getting wet you know

skywalker240:
I meant was he the best afro juju music singer? Before he was crowned king of juju music? Was he much better than I.K DIARO back then? Or is he much better than Haruna ishola or Pasuma wonder today? He was crowned king because of his unique and rare style. (u admitted earlier lion has a style @ bolded, now u see wat am tryna say)

People call themselves kings, queens.

Lion wasn't crown king because of his uniqueness, they are call king because they "behave" like kings in the pride just like queen ant behave like queen in the colony(workers, soldiers).

Tigers and Bears might be fearless, but when food shortage is realy on D low, a pack of Lion can still hunt and kill D weak ones among them. (you get the drift)

How's this an argument?

its a known and established fact that the Animal EcoSystem is generally reffered to as the jungle, and that includes rain forest and savanna grassland.

so whats your point exactly?

Savannah is a jungle? Ok.

The ocean is also a jungle. Ok.

Duggedised12:
So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

so you didn't have enough sense to digest the part where he said she's from the wrong tribe.
There are tribes I cannot marry from here in my place no matter how much we love each other

Ariza:
Ermm Bros, I'm not Op's babymama , how did I play victim?

Good point, now if you had written this thread and used your story as a case study, then same judgement and measures would have been used in vindicating you. Simply put, the case study is about a man using woman's loyalty and love against her and not the other way round. Wouldn't it a bit off point or out of context to dive into "a woman do it too" rebuttal in this case?.

You are right about being taken advantage of. Men take advantage of women and vice versa, But then that doesn't justify the action. That everyone does it doesn't make it right.Finally it is very insane of any being be it man or woman to remain in a toxic relationship.

are you really this dull? So you are telling me that you didn't see where he said she's from the wrong tribe?
Are you not African, don't you know that there are tribes you can't marry from?

lilbest4:
are you really this dull? So you are telling me that you didn't see where he said she's from the wrong tribe?
Are you not African, don't you know that there are tribes you can't marry from?

The day you talk to your mama like this will be the day you will have yours questions answered. Till then, remain a mad dog barking at nothing.

tintingz:
People call themselves kings, queens.

Lion wasn't crown king because of his uniqueness, they are call king because they "behave" like kings in the pride just like queen ant behave like queen in the colony(workers, soldiers).

How's this an argument?

Savannah is a jungle? Ok.

The ocean is also a jungle. Ok.

i give up
Belive what you wanna belive
nice arguing with you.

stay blessed

lilbest4:
so you didn't have enough sense to digest the part where he said she's from the wrong tribe.
There are tribes I cannot marry from here in my place no matter how much we love each other

but you can get her pregnant? Does that sound like someone with sense? . Why will you even date a lady from a tribe you dont like and put her in a family way if not wickedness ? ,why bring kids into dysfunctional homes with your stupidity ? Mr senseful how does that even make sense to you ? Oh i forgot a fool is wise in his own eyes so says the good old bible.