| Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by motionarena: 7:08pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.
She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.
The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.
I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.
When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.
And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.
I beginning to look stupid. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
all these boys self..una go commit suicide ontop girl matter
can you act like you dont care for once 41 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by stanliwiser: 7:13pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
motionarena:
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.
She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.
The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.
I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.
When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.
And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.
I beginning to look stupid. Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities. Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more. Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT. You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment. To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you. MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU SHE IS DOING YOU A FAVOUR. I HAVE DEALT WITH HER TYPE  AND I LOVE THEM, IF YOU'RE NOT LIKE ME THEN TELL HER YOU WANNA QUIT AND IF SHE AS WHY, TELL HER YOU WANNA FOCUS ON YOUR FUTURE CAREER 70 Likes 4 Shares |
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by donbachi(m): 7:16pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Take a bow and leave....if u want to live. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Officialgarri: 7:17pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Reminds me of one female Nairalander who thought she could spice her relationship up by making her BF get jealous always while she was actually faithful. Well, dude dumped her. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by laughitall(m): 7:19pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
You think say u dey wise. ...
You are a MUMU MAN ... loool
Dump her Asss asap 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Cutehector(m): 7:19pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Nigga please act like you dont give a hoot! 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Solowande(m): 7:25pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Is she the only girl in your neighborhood? If she is acting strange to you, then shift base. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by sylvez(m): 7:33pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
You are actually stupid my guy... I was once this stupid... I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now.... When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!! To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough... We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend. We never broke up!!! All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go.... She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow. I loved her but see my life now motionarena:
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.
She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.
The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.
I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.
When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.
And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.
I beginning to look stupid. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by tayebest(m): 7:37pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Result of dating a minor 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by tayebest(m): 7:40pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by sylvez(m): 7:44pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
See the way you are proffering solution like say na exam hall you dey. Your solution is so theoretical. Bro, in practice, i mean in real life scenario...once a girl is into you because of what she is benefiting and not because she loves you, she will keep pressing your mumu button...you want her to show some commitment? she will show you more than commitment since that's what you need...she'll practically do anything to make sure that the benefits she gets from you does not stop. But when a lady is into you because she loves, but starts giving you the kinda attitude op mentioned just know that she's no longer interested in you. You should know that most ladies don't marry who they love but who is ready to marry them. The solution to op's problem is to understand that he's no longer or was not in relationship with the said girl....so, Mr op, goan look for another beautiful lady that will love you....all na by luck. stanliwiser:
Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities.
Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more.
Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her
Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT.
You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment.
To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you.
MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU TO STOP. 7 Likes |
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Korllami007: 7:46pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!
To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...
We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.
We never broke up!!!
All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....
She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.
I loved her but see my life now
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by stanliwiser: 7:49pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
See the way you are proffering solution like say na exam hall you dey.
Your solution is so theoretical.
Bro, in practice, i mean in real life scenario...once a girl is into you because of what she is benefiting and not because she loves you, she will keep pressing your mumu button...you want her to show some commitment? she will show you more than commitment since that's what you need...she'll practically do anything to make sure that the benefits she gets from you does not stop.
But when a lady is into you because she loves, but starts giving you the kinda attitude op mentioned just know that she's no longer interested in you.
You should know that most ladies don't marry who they love but who is ready to marry them.
The solution to op's problem is to understand that he's no longer or was not in relationship with the said girl....so, Mr op, goan look for another beautiful lady that will love you....all na by luck.
You are right with other ladies. But for this one that keep undercover lovers, leave them to me. Simple rule: Love them as they love you.Else you will have heart attack. I speak from many experience. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by murphyibiam15(m): 8:00pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
motionarena:
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.
She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.
The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.
I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.
When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.
And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.
I beginning to look stupid. you're an assistant boyfriend 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by themaestro08(m): 8:01pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
motionarena:
There is this girl am dating, and we love eachother or so i think.
She is fund of doing something that pisses me off.
She at times uploads her WhatsApp status with random guys but that is not the worrying part.
The strange thing is the caption that follow the status.
She will give d guys pics captions like
"My love, i will always love you"
And stuffs like that.
I have seen her do this for 3 guys on three different occasions.
When i query her and ask her why she will do such, she will say they are just ex-school friend's that the guy in particular has helped her in the past and she is just appreciating them.
And mind u this same girl i think loves me has never uploaded a pic of me on her own status to appreciate me.
I beginning to look stupid. I get you bro. Remember to "trust people actions and not their words". She clearly knows what she is doing and she is happy that she is getting away with it. Am not sure she truly loves you(even if she does it must be negligible). you need to man up and have an honest discussion with her regarding exs and male friends, state clearly what and what acceptable. Make sure the outcome is something you are comfortable with. But if she object, then toss her out and walk away because thats a toxic relationship. and I can guarantee that you will be better off without her. |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
upload other ladies pics on ur whatsap dp and do likewise.no go give urself heart attack for woman matter 6 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!
To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...
We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.
We never broke up!!!
All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....
She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.
I loved her but see my life now
hope u didnt fail that exam cos of what she did oo.if na woman make me fail exam i will never forgive myself. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
stanliwiser:
Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities.
Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more.
Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her
Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT.
You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment.
To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you.
MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU TO STOP.
I HAVE DEALT WITH HER TYPE AND I LOVE THEM, IF YOU'RE NOT LIKE ME THEN TELL HER YOU WANNA QUIT AND IF SHE AS WHY, TELL HER YOU WANNA FOCUS ON YOUR FUTURE CAREER say it again let op hear u well biko  5 Likes 
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Officialgarri:
Reminds me of one female Nairalander who thought she could spice her relationship up by making her BF get jealous always while she was actually faithful.
Well, dude dumped her. 
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Jasen1(m): 8:11pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
stanliwiser:
Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities.
Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more.
Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her
Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT.
You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment.
To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you.
MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU TO STOP.
I HAVE DEALT WITH HER TYPE AND I LOVE THEM, IF YOU'RE NOT LIKE ME THEN TELL HER YOU WANNA QUIT AND IF SHE AS WHY, TELL HER YOU WANNA FOCUS ON YOUR FUTURE CAREER Op if you read this comment finish and you still no get sense then you go deh senseless forever Thanks 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by murphyibiam15(m): 8:12pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!
To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...
We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.
We never broke up!!!
All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....
She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.
I loved her but see my life now
lol, same thing happened to my roommate back then in school, the babe was supposed to come visit him on the same Saturday of her trad, my guy only saw the pics on Facebook, damn!! we cried on his behalf..my guy was a player himself so him no send 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by bestabigaelever(f): 8:12pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Action speak louder than voice
I know many guys like you and mind you, she know who is dealing with
She won't try that with a sharp guy, I didn't say you are not sharp o 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by sylvez(m): 8:31pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
I'm not crying but I can't stop the tears... murphyibiam15:
lol, same thing happened to my roommate back then in school, the babe was supposed to come visit him on the same Saturday of her trad, my guy only saw the pics on Facebook, damn!! we cried on his behalf..my guy was a player himself so him no send 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by sylvez(m): 8:33pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
Exam na next Tuesday...
I go pass Sha!!!
[1quote author=lefulefu post=83911978]hope u didnt fail that exam cos of what she did oo.if na woman make me fail exam i will never forgive myself.[/quote] 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by stanliwiser: 8:34pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
themaestro08:
I get you bro. Remember to "trust people actions and not their words". She clearly knows what she is doing and she is happy that she is getting away with it.
Am not sure she truly loves you(even if she does it must be negligible). you need to man up and have an honest discussion with her regarding exs and male friends, state clearly what and what acceptable. Make sure the outcome is something you are comfortable with. But if she object, then toss her out and walk away because thats a toxic relationship. and I can guarantee that you will be better off without her. Mistake 101, if you try this, she will sweet talk you and tell you that you're paranoid. Don't try this at home. It will even make you look less of a man, Girls of this nature are well prepared against confrontation of this manner. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by murphyibiam15(m): 8:35pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
I'm not crying but I can't stop the tears...
is not worth it dear, I hope it wasn't mbbs exam anyway 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by Techcrunchng(m): 8:37pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
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| Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by stanliwiser: 8:39pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!
To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...
We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.
We never broke up!!!
All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....
She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.
I loved her but see my life now
You mean she was so good that she made those illusions seem real right? Something tell me you saw the handwriting on the wall but you still hope everything will be fine until it became too late. |
