LadySarah:
Tales by moonlight. Btw Nl family section has gotten its groove back.Who else noticed? Stories upon stories

dem don learn from joro

[quote author=ifyalways post=83943261]The type of women you attract .
One is unnecessarily vindictive and dramatic and the other stuck on you.

There are chances you can still work out things with your wife/baby momma. Can you both take a weekend out, leave the baby for the grannies and try to work/talk things out ?

Na grannies bring the pikin come this world? why contribute to their suffering??

I actually got a young girl pregnant too even when I wasn't ready for marriage! I know that temptation; sometimes you feel as if you were trapped by the lady who didn't let you enjoy your bachelorhood enough! The OP isn't a bad person, he just forgot self-control somewhere perhaps thinking the girl may not get pregnant or will 'know what to do' if shit happens! That was how I was trapped!!!

Omojudy:
All these talk wey una dey talk.
One guy did me like this when I was in between marriages, supported me, wanted to know all my people etc. 3months I had no clue as the wife and family where based elsewhere. Later I come Dey suspect one lady with him, that made me go detective.
I visited in his absence and searched the whole house. Guy was married with 5kids to wifey and the name I suspected was a gf with one kid for him.
Well, I trashed his self contained office allocated apartment, flooded it and took everything of value in it which wasn’t much by the way. I remember I had gotten him a gas cooker as he wasn’t cooking or maybe using stove when I met him, took down to bathroom slippers and small bag of rice. Lol.
Then I contacted his wife and gf and accused them of giving him chance to break other girls heart.
The wife later became my friend that he had to warn her to avoid me. The gf first said thanks to me then probably called him then called me back to change mouth, so I asked her what was her wifely position since the other lady has older and more kids for him.
Omo guy was not even remorse, he asked me if I would have left if I was already pregnant with child for him.
So Omo guy used to carry me to functions, I met his superiors etc. I could only wonder how they looked at me while I had no idea.
I don come give una forward gist wey my blog people never even reach yet.

If you accuse them of being bad they will say " everyone is like that na." "All men are like that." "I'm even better as I'm truthful about this or that".

Then they lie more to cover up

Even some usually ridiculous posters surprised me as well.

Things are getting better .

sassysure:


The guy must be regretting coming here
He thought we will condemn his wife, pity him and the girlfriend more

midnighter:


She is wrong. She violated his wifes privacy just to seek petty revenge for his deceit. Is it the wifes fault that he slept with her?

She had no right to call her and start bossing her about, telling her what to do with her wedding pictures and posting them everywhere without her permission.

She loved a liar and is using it to bully somebody who had nothing to do with it. Too bad

She should have classily kept it moving if she noticed the guy was bad or kept her quarrel with the man since he deserved it. thats what so many people do

Or she just let the wife know the kind of demon she is married to.

As the gf was being lies to the wife was also being lies to.

Op has deliberately painted the girlfriend bad. To make himself look good.

How are we sure she forced the wife to put up the pictures?

Where we there?

Was the op there during the conversation?

The wife might have kept the pictures off social media because he told her too.




Like i said to the gf babe is very nice. What she did is a tip of the iceberg to what some people can do to get their pound of flesh.

SmellingAnus:
very reasonable comment... The first comment I read that also passed some blames to the wife...

Let me put it as it is.... The wife manipulated him into marriage... Finito... But op too being a sissy was blackmailed into marriage... Op also has a very selfish lying nature which he seems not to see as a big deal and I pity for more girls that will fall into his hand...

The OP has said what he wanted to say.

I was not there with them so I can't tell if he is lying or not.

He said the girl threatened to kill herself if he did not marry her how true.

Like many men, OP might be a man who want children with many women.

Is the Pastors daughter a virgin, hasn't she done abortion before?

Except it was a one night affair. OP might have been the one who promised that lady marriage.

Maybe the Pastor's daughter is older than the OP, maybe she is fat and OP lost interest. Why did he just in only his Father and Mother.

You see a man smart enough as OP claimed he is, can never be manipulated.

He is a sex addict who want to father children with different women.

A woman you gave orgasm still have sex with you protected?

Maybe I might be wrong in my assumption.

FreemanTJ:


I actually ensure both of them are very okay. I actually gave her my car during the period she was pregnant and she still has it. I'm just unhappy in the marriage and no it wasn't just a church certificate, her parent ensured of that.

I don't believe in a forced marriage, marriage is something you need to consider very well before entering it. You don't get married to someone because pregnancy is involved, it is your personal life and that of your partner, your happiness comes first as couple before that of your parents. I was once in your shoe, I got involved with a lady and she was pregnant, someone advised her to abort it which I kicked against, I went to her parent to claim ownership of the pregnancy and promised to be responsible for her till delivery and take care of the child, the father is a pastor like yours too, he insisted on marriage to cover his shame, I told him that will not be possible because if I am not happy in the marriage I might end up hating the so call baby that made me to marry the mum. He wasn't cool about it, he called my brother and every member of the family got to know, we went their and he still insisted on marrying the daughter, my family asked if I wanted that I said no, because I have someone I wanted to marry. At the end my family said they can't force me, the man said if I was not going to marry the daughter I should forget about the baby which the daughter too supported. That was the end of it all. Your happiness and that of your wife comes first in marriage, not that of your parent, you don't correct a mistake by making another mistake my brother, ask God for forgiveness and grace to love your wife instead of sleeping around after marriage.

FreemanTJ:


She has never had unprotected sex with anyone and she doesn't lie , she has never given me a reason to be suspicious, she was that honest. We both did test and she still insisted on protection. She didnt want a child out of wedlock considering her background. I am a very smart man and trust me there was no way she could have known. We had no pictures of our wedding pictures on social media from any of my family members. This wasn't her first time using my laptop and I saw the message from her office insisting she sends a mail which she had to type in Msword on my laptop. Yes, she had the hunch, but the gmail gave me out.

Really?

Amumaigwe:


What do you think will happen after you successfully divorce your wife and marry your gf and you then meet another lady you appear to have a better connection with? Every married man/woman runs into people that seemingly would have made a better spouse everyday; that includes your wife. Do we all start changing spouses like handkerchiefs? If that lady is really more desirable than your wife, why hadn't another man taken notice of her 'sublime' qualities and married her before you both met?The grass always looks greener on the other side because we don't have the full view (information). I candidly advise you to go back home and reconcile with your wife and learn to love her. Life is too short for all these complexities you are delving into.

Best Comment of the day

Woman are beautiful in love But dangerous in rage and revenge

donstan18:
You got a lady pregnant, you married her.
Next thing, you connected with another lady while playing chess.
What next? You've started discussing orgasms with her after you both went to see a movie.
Now a short black lady has been chasing her in her dreams



TBH, Never in my life have I seen a BOY as so confused, wayward, deceitful, irresponsible and promiscuous as this OP.


Thanks.

original poster Op does not have any single sense, so he is actually proud or too confused to be sharing a story of how he lied to destroy his future and peace of mind. chaii, it must be a fake write-up to test traffic in his proposed dating blog.

Pregnant the gal 2.

Banning u will be too eazi ur trashes are plenty.

BatleFox:




See sickness.

Any woman i show interest in you start calling her up and down like she's your mother. First its Khiaa, than yesterday it became Analqueenluci and now its fumisticqueen cos you heard me hours ago say i asked her out months back . How many of these nice ladies have answered your rants?

How about Redcreme21, I'm sure you saw my interest in her, my attempts to help her out over the frustration of her current situation when you her old friend is perfectly useless to man and beast except it's to accuse her of being disgusting. She doesn't understand, though, that you are speaking from your gay point of view where all women are your rivals for male love and affliction hence they are all disgusting to you.

Listen carefully, Mr. BlueAir, if you like keep following me all over this website like a lovesick dog to see what I'm up to..... If you like keep mentioning the names all the lovely ladies i relate with.... if you like keep sending me a thousand emails a day professing your disgusting love and threatening hell and brimstone if i don't consent..... If you like keep mentioning and attacking me in all the comments on this website till the new year.... If you like shed blood for tears... Whatever you like you do but my answer and stand will never change....

I'M NOT GAY AND NEVER WILL BE!

I love women, never men. I love a woman's curvy soft body and attention not the bonny structure that is your ass. Only dogs love bones, try a dog and leave me the hell out of your love life, comprehende?


@Ladies, sorry for the unnecessary mentions please, its not my fault, though. A Lunatic gay man has a heavy crush on me is all.


cc: donstan18
cc; Ishilove

Jasen1:
If you get anger issues don't bother reading jare

I'm telling you.

wake up and grow up

Brother, things like this often happen. I think your GF has conscience for doing what she did. Some can close there eye and allow you get divorce just to marry her.
I think you should make restitution here. If you are still I sterested in building your family. Call your wife and apologize to her and make amends. Just find a way to make your love grow with her.
Then, plead with your GF to forgive you. Her case will heal with time because she choose a path of Honor. Her healing will come very fast if she see that you have reconcile with your wife.

But if you decide to go the other way, you might hurt your self for Life
My advise though

generationz:


Or she just let the wife know the kind of demon she is married to.

As the gf was being lies to the wife was also being lies to.

Op has deliberately painted the girlfriend bad. To make himself look good.

How are we sure she forced the wife to put up the pictures?

Where we there?

Was the op there during the conversation?

The wife might have kept the pictures off social media because he told her too.

Like i said to the gf babe is very nice. What she did is a tip of the iceberg to what some people can do to get their pound of flesh.

All that is speculation. You might as well assume the whole OP is a total lie if you're going to discount parts of the story just because they don't suit you

How can you ask if we were there? You could say that about any post on the whole of nairaland.

Just because she didn't do what others may do it doesn't exonerate her from her actions. If she was nice she would have just carried her bag like other girls do and remove her leg from the situation

op let me tell you the truth " youre not a real man". The second lady is your nemesis. Are you aware your conduct his criminal. Are you also aware, that your gf is vindicative. Do you know the meaning of vindicative? are you aware you're gf publishing that picture is cyberbullying? Are you aware your gf is manipulative: threatening suicide over notting, and telling you that her uncle bla bla. Are you aware that, "marriage is built on principles not emotions of i like her bla bla". Feeling fades. Op you did not do well at all. That your wife would be more loyal to you to the death, if your old and down with stroke, than the witch of a gf. A person you hide her shame would be more loyal than a person who has notting to lose.

ojun50:
So wetin be the koko of wetin you write now

good question.

if ur wife hack u to death in the middle of the night now or poison u dem go blame the girl abi?
op jst do the needful... face it as it is now or u regret later..
i belief ur wife thought u will change ur stances on her as time goes on...
leave that fake agreement that is not written and signed in a document.
what if she deny the agreement or is there anyone else that knows about the agreement?

baby124:

Is this a joke? She blame the wife when the wife does not even know she exists? What the wife does with her family and, how she chooses to expose her family on social media is solely the wife’s business. She is a lunatic to even bring the wife into this. She should have faced OP squarely and insulted him! Not his wife! She was trying to destroy the marriage! If OP’s wife was like her, the marriage would have ended and that is what she was counting on.

She definitely knew OP was married! Collecting his laptop to work with was to gather more evidence. She has been scheming all this since she knew. She purposely did not have unprotected sex with OP because she knew he was a questionable guy and probably most of his gist did not gel well.

I do t believe in all that revelation nonsense. FBI de play where I de. If you are married I will catch you and play you well when I was single.

FBI dey play where you dey = You are very intelligent and vigilant to unravel mysteries. I love people like that.


You don't believe in dreams and revelations. What an interesting character!!!


You are dramatic, I can deduce you are the troublesome type I don't know why but I like people like that.


Anyways, nice to meet you

OP, why not stay with the mother of your child? Let the other Lady move on with her life....

I read the entire thread. If this story is true, OP Freehuman, you're scum! Human excreta. Maggot!!! You'll pay for what you did to those women especially your loving and trusting girlfriend.

As for Baby124, sassysure, ifyalways and all the other women bashing the girlfriend, I'm truly ashamed. Women like you are the reason I steer clear of women even though I'm female myself. I don't know what to say but I truly hope life will teach you women, if not for your own sake, at least for the sake of your daughters.

I'll just leave this little tidbit. You do not pull one woman down to uplift the other. Learn to put yourself in people's shoes and for God's sake, support your gender.Patriarchy is fine on its own. It doesn't need your help. Denigrating your gender to win the approval of the men folk doesn't make you one of 'the boys'.

It only makes you look stupid.

Freehuman, you're human scum. Bottom feeder. You will reap what you sow.

You never wanted her and you slept with her and got her pregnant.....



GOD is watching you from a distance

Cutehector:
The woman is not a small girl , why not narrate to her all that transpired? If she wants to go further with you then it's solely her decision. I really dont like people who make others feel stupid

I feel yo bro, iswear that I really feel yo.
He really needs a resetting slap on his mandibular.

Mtcheeew

generationz:


I'm telling you.

rubbish post,very annoying

You don buy market. Have, how come your wife was good enough for sex but not good enough to wife. You suddenly can't stand this same woman you slept with for so long till she got pregnant.

Dude you are a selfish human.

baby124:

The idea not to live together to her own understanding and what you made your wife believe is because of distance! You never even gave that relationship a chance because you felt *trapped*. I know you did not want that pregnancy or to get married at this time which is the grudge you are carrying against your wife! I advise you to forgive yourself, forgive her and try to make it work. Stop fighting everyone because you are the one that did the gbenshing and put the baby there. So, obviously, you liked her a lot at some point.

One thing that struck me is your girlfriends statement that the child looked like you. Which you then noticed!!! Were you at any point disputing paternity and, was that one of the stories you told madam girlfriend to get in her pants? You are a funny guy. You can bond and fall in love over chess but can’t love your own wife because she tied you down.

Your wife must be an angel to even rate you after all your bullshit behavior. Just look at the lunatic behavior your so called girlfriend displayed after finding out you were married? Compare that with your wife after all you have done to her You sure your girlfriend is really an angel? LOL

Thank you, you have said it all
The wife should move on cos the next time he sees someone eating the kind of food he likes this man will start another drama

baby124:
She knows you have a wife. She has done her research but she wants you to deny it. You are man enough to see your wife, be intimate with her unprotected, attracted to her and impregnate her. Work on your marriage and stop looking for the coward way out. What a cheap excuse all over this thread. Shame on you OP.

Exactly my dear,she just wanted him to admit it

Sincerely I am ashamed of most of the people in Nairaland, Someone asked for an advice why not give him an advise to the best of your knowledge, Jesus was called good master and he replied the people that none is good except God.You and I are not perfect,and I bet you there is no one fit all size solution or advise you can give here.what may be work for Mr A may not be good for Mr B.Op should not be discouraged here by all the insults,he should take out some time to pray to God Almighty and when in a calm mood under prayer, faith and grace,the right decision to take will drop in,and when it drops let him not seek justification from man but to follow the leading and his heart and also brace up to face whatever consequence, But as much as He has involved God,all things are possible.Who knows the way he will come out from this may even be an inspiration to others like me.

LadySarah:
Tales by moonlight.
Btw Nl family section has gotten its groove back.Who else noticed?
Stories upon stories

As in eh...my sister I taya

All these fake stories being posted anyhow on this section ... family section and romance section are now competing for section with the most fake stories


I pity people who’re taking the threads/topics/and the posters seriously