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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by thorpido(m): 11:27pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
baby124:She had become close to Op,liked him and fallen in love.She was single,so she had no reason not to go ahead with him. Nevertheless,she had her hunches but didn't have proof.That was what held her back. 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by baby124: 11:29pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
thorpido:We have come full circle to what I was saying. She knew! 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
baby124: Lol The babe was mad her plan failed. She wasn't patience nor smart. What right has a girlfriend to reach out to a wife if she dont want to put asunder as the man is dragging leg? Even an ex wife, she absolutely have no fking right. The guy promised her heaven and earth but was as slow as snail in execution. This guy will change mouth again if the babe tell him they should start all over. What a confused child. If u don't want stories that touch....., there is CD everywhere and very cheap. Abeg, the story get as e be sef. Sometimes castration should be allowed. 11 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by FreemanTJ: 11:44pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
baby124: She has never had unprotected sex with anyone and she doesn't lie, she has never given me a reason to be suspicious, she was that honest. We both did test and she still insisted on protection. She didnt want a child out of wedlock considering her background. I am a very smart man and trust me there was no way she could have known. We had no pictures of our wedding pictures on social media from any of my family members. This wasn't her first time using my laptop and I saw the message from her office insisting she sends a mail which she had to type in Msword on my laptop. Yes, she had the hunch, but the gmail gave me out. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by baby124: 11:54pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
sassysure:Lmao. Don’t mind the OP. He has been given snake in a monkey shadow style, so he’s confused as usual. Men are so gullible though. Smh. Only a useless player will try to justify this mad behavior. 9 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by baby124: 11:55pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:Hahahaha hahahahaha! Hmmm!!!! You are a joker! How long have you known this girl? What a joke. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by ireneidiva(f): 12:08am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:That girlfriend is a nutcase. Opening an account and forcing your wife to put her pictures online. She should be arrested for that. Just look at the insult you brought to your wife. God forbid! 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by djon78(m): 12:25am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by spiritedtete: 4:08am On Nov 12, 2019 |
It is better to be single than to be in an unhappy marriage... I laugh at people who says they work things out... There are so many faces to marriage. But when you are not happy and not considering staying in it because of the child/children. Then it is over. It won't end well if you continue to endure. And most especially when you now fantasize about another partner to be.. @ OP I can totally relate with your story objectively... I know when you don't love someone.. you don't absolutely. The only mistake you made was not to have open up to that other lady perhaps after the third sex. Let me tell you... You are a man.. don't allow society to make decisions for you.. you can decide to marry two wives if your second partner agree. That is why you are not suppose to hide anything. Damn all consequences and stand by your words. Please stop being sissy... Also move on from here forget about the second lady she is a very jealous lover.. they can be very irrational most times. Obviously the lady you got married to isn't your wife. Make things right and get your life going in peace. 11 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Omojudy: 4:36am On Nov 12, 2019 |
All these talk wey una dey talk. One guy did me like this when I was in between marriages, supported me, wanted to know all my people etc. 3months I had no clue as the wife and family where based elsewhere. Later I come Dey suspect one lady with him, that made me go detective. I visited in his absence and searched the whole house. Guy was married with 5kids to wifey and the name I suspected was a gf with one kid for him. Well, I trashed his self contained office allocated apartment, flooded it and took everything of value in it which wasn’t much by the way. I remember I had gotten him a gas cooker as he wasn’t cooking or maybe using stove when I met him, took down to bathroom slippers and small bag of rice. Lol. Then I contacted his wife and gf and accused them of giving him chance to break other girls heart. The wife later became my friend that he had to warn her to avoid me. The gf first said thanks to me then probably called him then called me back to change mouth, so I asked her what was her wifely position since the other lady has older and more kids for him. Omo guy was not even remorse, he asked me if I would have left if I was already pregnant with child for him. So Omo guy used to carry me to functions, I met his superiors etc. I could only wonder how they looked at me while I had no idea. I don come give una forward gist wey my blog people never even reach yet. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by mrjojo: 6:34am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:What an Irony!! I'm sure u are joking!!. Listen Mr, I will be succinct and blunt Firstly, you are not as "smart" as you think you are. Your "wife" was your friend before the sex and the whole complications, so you know her, her situation about her been desperate for marriage. You took advantage of this and for someone who claims to be "smart" you couldn't use protection nor get a plan B after the act. I pretty sure the s.ex wasn't even a one-time event, but u didn't stop until she got pregnant. All of a sudden you don't like her and she is not your type. What exactly were you expecting having unprotected se.x? an Iphone? They say to marry your friend, and you actually are. Except she never was one, as the deceitful person you always are, it was the se.x you were interested in all along. Because I can't explain how you will leave her all by herself during pregnancy, the emotional trauma you made her pass through. In fact you wickedness will make the devil himself shiver, How do you leave a heavily pregnant lady all herself with no one even you both are in the same state? yet she didn't report you to anyone nor did she raise a fuzz, Most men don't do a quarter of this before a family meeting is summoned, She didn't even forcefull pack her stuffs and relocate your bachelor's pad, don't forget she has the right to, after all she is your wife now. But all I see is a peaceful, calm lady that does everything to please you. Infact you don't deserve the both of them. if you have an atom of smartness in you, then you will go on your knees and apologize to your innocent wife for all the stress and trouble you've caused her and move her and your child into your apartment with immediate effect. And also thank your ex-gf for not making things harder than they are, by her making sure you make good with your family. Stay with your wife for atleast a year before you conclude she is unlovable and divorcing, at least she was once your friend. And I guess you said you are "smart" because you play chess. 69 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by yeyeosoronga: 7:05am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124: Yet OP kept denying all. She had her suspicions, and probably had no proof hence couldn't do much about it as he continued to vehemently deny. OP is truly a predator. I hope his daughter will not pay for his sins in the future. I commend his girlfriend for taking the bull by the horn and exposing him for the filth he is. I'm happy his marriage pictures are all over the cyberspace . As per the wife who doesn't want her marriage pictures on social media because she got pregnant before marriage, she's equally hypocritical like her husband. (I understand people wanting their privacy, but hypocritical reasons don't cut it for me). OP is lucky the girlfriend is a nice girl, after investing her emotions, time ,money and even family in a relationship built on lies. Such a man can kill you Perhaps if not that she really loved him, she would have been planning to maim him or even go spiritual on his matter. 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by crackhaus: 7:07am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Omojudy:The funny thing about your comment is that you typed it, submitted it, read it over again to check for errors, and you still did not detect the complete lunacy in your behaviour. 27 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by LordKO(m): 7:11am On Nov 12, 2019 |
You're simply inhumanely disingenuous. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by kaziblake(f): 7:27am On Nov 12, 2019 |
A selfish man who want to eat his cake and have it back that is who you are 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by BoboKush(m): 7:29am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124: Exactly what I thought..... She knew all along 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by farady(m): 7:42am On Nov 12, 2019 |
OP na your type naim curse dey catch and follow. Better give your life to Christ and repent of your bad and selfish ways. Go to your legally married wife and seek forgiveness too. Work dutifully to build your marriage and home. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by MedicH: 8:14am On Nov 12, 2019 |
lol oboy you are finished 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by dexla(f): 8:21am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I hope that gf cursed you well and I really dont understand how your wife allowed you live separately. You deserve to be impotent and wretched. As a single lady myself I really can't stand being played by one useless married man as I want a happy marriage myself and wouldnt want to be the reason someone's home is wrecked. Its really unfortunate that your wife is stuck with an animal for the rest of her life. She's at a risk of being infected with a deadly disease by your promiscuous ways but she chose you and I guess she'll live with that for the rest of her life. You better seek forgiveness from both parties and ensure they tell you they forgive you. Else you're doomed for life. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by thorpido(m): 8:29am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124:Yes men are so gullible and in this story there is a woman who got pregnant for a man who didn't want to marry her and another who has been taken on a ride by the same man.smh Na so men gullible. 11 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Gloriousheart(f): 8:57am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:Nawa. Grow up, man! You can choose to love your wife if you want. True deep lasting Love is a choice not just a feeling. All these long story is because you are looking at life and marriage with fairy tale rose-colored glasses. If this new lady suddenly got pregnant for you before marriage, you will lose feelings for her too. What is it sef. You stay in your marriage or sail. Stop all these neither here nor there character. It's not manly. How can you say you were forced into marriage? You didn't need to marry her if you didn't want. Were you forced to impregnate her or be intimate with her? She was good enough for sex but not marriage. This is the mistake some folks make often. Then they start crying foul. Now you're married, concentrate and see if you can build your marriage. Stop behaving this way. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by bukatyne(f): 9:12am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Gloriousheart: Love is a feeling that develops into commitment proven through actions. There is duty though. 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by GraGra247(m): 9:23am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: You even have gots to put any blame on anybody but yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by seanwilliam(m): 9:44am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I'm the only person here that perfectly understands ur plight... the truth is you don't love your wife and it gonna be the greatest mistake of your life to settle with someone u dont love cos Las Las u go regret it...you love your girlfriend whom you cant afford to let go-this too I understand... now what do you do?? Consider any of the following 1. File for a divorce with ur wife 2. Forget ur girlfriend for now, trust me, she'll come around again , trust Okafor law, most ladies think with hearts and not there brains, 3. Have heart to heart talk with ur wife, spend a week together ( u and ur wife) through this, u might develop likeness for her and retrace ur steps ( I know, maybe she's not ur spec).. but the truth in life is ,we dont always get what we desire and what we desire sometimes might not be the best for us.. 4. In any of the decision u consider above, be 100% ready to shoulder ur pikin responsibility.... ... .. .. In life, there are some avoidable mistakes but we choose to risk it and it later boomerangs..the bitter truth is, not all mistakes can be corrected... if you had used ur brain to reason for u and not ur prick, you wouldn't have found urself in this mess.. ...cheers! 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by lastempero: 9:47am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Go carry ur towel where u bath |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Captiveportal: 9:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by FuckTheMod: 9:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:I can see that you are an irresponsible liar. I pity that unfortunate girl wey you marry 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by FuckTheMod: 9:52am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:Marriage you never wanted? Lol Common! Don't be this stupid... You just don't want to grow up. You want to continue fuckìng around... How irresponsible 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Angelfrost(m): 9:52am On Nov 12, 2019 |
donstan18: God bless you for putting the words as plain as this... This is why I warn good ladies to do serious background checks before committing to a guy, and vice versa. There is no excuse for such duplicity... If you truly loved the other lady, you should have told her everything ab initio... She would probably counsel you on the way forward. Now, you have probably put her in a very precarious position, cos you stupidly think you can have your cake and still eat it. Smh. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by don4real18(m): 9:53am On Nov 12, 2019 |
This is so wrong 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Gabby4006: 9:55am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Omo guy u b ashawo... 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: you're a terrible human being i swear 6 Likes |
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