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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by blazepascal(m): 2:07pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
thesicilian:i swear u ve said it all |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Pegzzyg(f): 2:09pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Op, I am happy you said "misunderstanding between the both of you" what you did in the 'other room' is totally wrong! In my opinion, you could have done the do and communicate your grievances while both of you are relaxing thereafter, while stating categorically that this pattern will not repeat itself again that anytime you have a misunderstanding you'll talk about it henceforth than you people having make-up sex. Please, talk to your Wife when you get home, you Guyz should resolve this as soon as possible, its good you both have an active sex life after 3 kids, some people struggle to keep that vibe as years goes bye in their marriages self! Trust me, a Lady can stay months or even years depending on the circumstance without having 'Sex' I can't confidently say that about a Guy! You didn't chastise her well, trust a woman's opinion and don't see it from a Guy's perspective as I can see most Guys here are commenting based on a Guy's perspective except @brodalikeme, your comment was very insightful. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Bukws: 2:17pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
brodalikeme:this is the best answer you can get, issues of your family should be settled within yourself. No competition, no winner, one person should admit that he or she is at fault and in resolving the issue , mansion each others mistakes and remedies. stop looking at faults but how to resolve it when it comes. 3 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by koyeni(m): 2:36pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Sincerely, the comments coming in from most guys/men here is appalling. It's wrong to keep malice. Partners must learn to settle but using sex is just something wrong. If the table were turned, would a woman happily accept to have sex with her husband after the man hurts her? Won't she feel that she's just been used and she's just a mere intimacy gadget? It involves a man now and you are saying she'd get it outside.. Nawa for the men in this generation ooo 3 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by koyeni(m): 2:58pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Fyi0:Ur head dy there |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Munzy14(m): 3:02pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna:Relationship / marriage comes with its own manual created from understanding between parties involved. From your post, it seems it's a routine.... You can create a way out of it. most ladies communicates with body language. She coming to u is first submission / I am sorry... you should read through that. After sex, u take advantage of the bonding and settle your issues right from inner mind. After sex comes this deep mutual understanding you can capitalize on to iron out issues. By now you should know u and your wife have pride individually. lastly, try to read up on zodiacs it will help you understand yourselves the more. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:10pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:I find it hard to comment these days in those sections. Just keeping myself busy in the forum looking for trouble in the name of Tacha in that dead BBN thread |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Most people giving advice and saying you lucky she even asked for sex,are not been realistic. Question you need ask yourself at Op 1. If the table was to be turned around will she give in to your sex advance.Lets say you tried initiating sex considering what is on ground. 2.Your marriage is still young,very young i will say.You need set the rules now or else it will be a problem tomorrow. The only difference between a married couple and a pick up girl is communication.If i can't communicate to you when we in disagreement then you are just a random girl to me.Mind you this is marriage and not Boyfriend and girlfriend. What you did was brilliant,that will send a strong message to her that u aren't just after what is in between her legs,for that you are a real man. Once more marriage isn't as easy as it sounds Op,only you know what is good enough for your family and that you are trying to work towards.But be it known any women who claims she loves the husband but isn't respectful to him will soon pack up and will leave one day no matter the number of years.Respect her and let her respect you.Ensure to solve your shit through dialogue,not the other way round.when the other part is feeling been used. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by pocohantas(f): 4:20pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Lmao. I dey see your handwork. I no know who disturb pass between you and bedbug. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by bukatyne(f): 4:21pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Very true. Since that is the only time the wife wants to communicate. From there, he can insist they trash their issues with sexual mind games. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:22pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:Na me disturb pass |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by seangy4konji: 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
She is emotionally blackmailing you with the sex instead of apologizing when at fault. You must not reject her advances. Some broke boys are lurking around the corner to Bleep your wife and collect the money you give her to even buy codeine and Bleep her in a marathon madingo way... While knacking ur woman. Discuss matter. Thank God she even comes to you stark naked to give you..my own lock up after offending me and would be the one to beg again after Thomas rise after drinking Goldberg. I go turn mumu again.. Enjoy your wife ..keep knack her steady...life is to short to discuss issue while dick is erect. Must come down first. Every other thing can wait till next year. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by mechanics(m): 4:41pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Born2Breed: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Colb461: 4:45pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
U just made me remember the mad man i saw today on the street that call a fellow man that name without any reasonable reason hope u are nt that mad man because if u are u need brain check ASAP... quirus: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Onyenna(m): 4:51pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: A girl once told me this.... I couldn't comprehend it then..... The fact that you said it means it's actually true..... |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by jclassiq(m): 5:45pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna: I'm sorry you asked for mature advice yet you are getting all these childish senseless talks about how you are lucky to have a wife that initiates sex while you both have an outstanding issue. How do people believe that sex is everything in a marriage? Seriously? This is sad. Dear sir, your wife is unnecessarily proud..and very selfish. Period. But with the amount you give her every month, she cannot but cook for you. If the condition is to change even slightly....trust me your wife will never Cook for you again after you quarrel. You need to teach her to communicate. Too bad you didnt start earlier but better late than never, right? You guys still have your whole life ahead of you so its better you change things up a bit since you aren't comfortable with it. Pls tell me how you guys go to church every Sunday...do morning devotion, possibly read the bible but still keep malice!!!!! That is so unchristian-like!!! The bible says don't let your anger linger till sun-down. Pls take your issue to your spiritual elders if any. All the best. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by bukatyne(f): 6:26pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna: @bold: Do you have any issues treating her like a queen if she reciprocates? |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by bukatyne(f): 6:38pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
luminouz: Hmmmmm |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Colb461: Thank you. Your advice highly appreciated. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by bummyla(m): 7:45pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Welcome to my world! Is your wife from Akwa Ibom? https://www.bummyla.com |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Vyolet(f): 7:57pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
This one I'm reading "handle her roughly and ask her who is your daddy? " Rubbish, too much of bluefilm. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Vyolet(f): 7:58pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
luminouz:How does this even sound to you? What if he kills her in the process of handling her roughly? Will you be there to serve the time with him? Easy on these type of advice. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by luminouz(m): 8:37pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Vyolet: Please read what I wrote again and interprete it without your emotions involved. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by wiseass: 8:44pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
brodalikeme: Before she comes to you for sex try to resolve issues with her verbally, I totally understand the way you feel. but this is what being The Man is all about. Dont keep a straight face instead smile ,draw her close ,talk to her then Fvck some sense into her 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by armyofone(m): 10:50pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
He just doesn't get it... give that nakid cheeks some tap while saying you no dey hear word darling, I'm going to give it to you!!! Whoseeeee your daddyyyyy ? Next morning ask questions after you've made a great breakfast. Everything no supposed be war and winners! bukatyne: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by armyofone(m): 10:58pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Op, high risk road at something flimsy! Forget this one! Never be violent because it doesn't make you a man. luminouz: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by luminouz(m): 11:22pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
armyofone: As usual,you lots keep disturbing my mentions without even understanding his story. I'm getting tired of explaining human nature over and over again to people who have lost their mind sight. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Tinyemeka(m): 5:41am On Nov 16, 2019 |
byna: We seem to operate on the same wavelength. I've even been stuck in same circumstances. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Tinyemeka(m): 5:46am On Nov 16, 2019 |
luminouz: LOL. Samuel L. Jackson fan. P.S. Not all such women come from a male-dominated abusive relationship or home. The one I know of, comes from a home dominated by the mum. There, the father is the subordinate. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by 0ubenji(m): 7:41am On Nov 16, 2019 |
byna:she's just putting u on a leash coz she knows your weak point. That is not a lovin wife but a sex-slave master. She'll commit graver offences and come offer you ur usual weak point coz u lack self control up until this moment. Some women will use food to manipulate, it varies from woman to woman. A loving, matured and respectful wife will first find means to iron out issues b4 initiating sex. For her to rudely offer u sex as always shows that u are a Slave to your hormones and she's working with that. Manipulative Women don't often complement your weaknesses, they exploit it. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by 0ubenji(m): 7:45am On Nov 16, 2019 |
byna:you'll be telling a white lie if u say u ain't seen traces of all these b4 u walked her down the aisle 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by luminouz(m): 8:22am On Nov 16, 2019 |
Tinyemeka: I must confess you got me @ Samuel L Jackson. I admire the mudafvcker. You are also right about your submissions but in that case,OP's wife would be the aggressor or physically violent(sadist) but she is laid back and a receiver,so a masochist. |
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