thesicilian:
You have a wife that still wants to have sex with you even when she's angry with you. Lucky you!

brodalikeme:
You're right for demanding that you guys resolve your misunderstanding before sex. Continuing to have sex when all is not well is only piling up issues for the day it will all boomerang and sex will not contain it anymore. But denying her sex is not the best, if she go commit now, the whole world will say you pushed her/ However as a guy, you must find away to settle your issues and not allow it to linger for a long time till your wife initiate her sex moves. From what you are saying and her actions, you guys care less about each others feelings, that is a negative emergency! Try and fix this fundamental defect before one satan sent guy/lady come into the picture

Fyi0:

Now all the foolish pussywhipped males on this thread won't tell this one she's wrong for denying hobby sex.
But the man is wrong for denying his wife sex.
Nonsense!
No one has the right to use sex as an instrument of manipulation.
I shake my head in disgust at the mentality of many men on this forum - sex starved, ever-yielding picks!

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

pocohantas:


Honestly babe. The fabu in Romance/Family section is too much.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I find it hard to comment these days in those sections.
Just keeping myself busy in the forum looking for trouble in the name of Tacha in that dead BBN thread

AwkaetitiBabe:
Some people get turned on by disagreements sha . You guys can actually iron out the differences while having d sex actually. Be creative.

pocohantas:


Lmao. I dey see your handwork.
I no know who disturb pass between you and bedbug.

Born2Breed:
Oga bros na wah for you oh.....you nor sabi say Body language na the best tool of communication.

She don apologize na.....make she shout first.

Word of advice dont turn back a woman that has been turned on, na fire oh, you need to quench am or else..... Lolz, I feel you.

quirus:

Ashawo!!!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Some people get turned on by disagreements sha . You guys can actually iron out the differences while having d sex actually. Be creative.

byna:


The point is, she offends you and doesn't e en care how you feel. She waits for her hormones to come up and she shows up for sex while am dying for an apology or ironing out.

How da hell am I suppose to substitute remorse with sex??

byna:


The malice is coded o. Am not sure the kids know sef. They might just notice daddy doesn't come to watch TV at the sitting room but stays to watch in his room. My wife is just stubborn!
She wants to be treated as a queen. Don't dare scold her

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

Colb461:
U just made me remember the mad man i saw today on the street that call a fellow man that name without any reasonable reason hope u are nt that mad man because if u are u need brain check ASAP...

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

Vyolet:

How does this even sound to you?
What if he kills her in the process of handling her roughly?
Will you be there to serve the time with him?
Easy on these type of advice.

brodalikeme:
You're right for demanding that you guys resolve your misunderstanding before sex. Continuing to have sex when all is not well is only piling up issues for the day it will all boomerang and sex will not contain it anymore. But denying her sex is not the best, if she go commit now, the whole world will say you pushed her/ However as a guy, you must find away to settle your issues and not allow it to linger for a long time till your wife initiate her sex moves. From what you are saying and her actions, you guys care less about each others feelings, that is a negative emergency! Try and fix this fundamental defect before one satan sent guy/lady come into the picture

bukatyne:


Very true.

Since that is the only time the wife wants to communicate.

From there, he can insist they trash their issues with sexual mind games.

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

armyofone:
Op, high risk road at something flimsy! Forget this one!
Never be violent because it doesn't make you a man.

byna:


God bless you bro. Afterall sex is not a big deal after all these years. I prefer make up sex after reconciling not before.

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

byna:


The point is, she offends you and doesn't e en care how you feel. She waits for her hormones to come up and she shows up for sex while am dying for an apology or ironing out.

How da hell am I suppose to substitute remorse with sex??

byna:

God bless you sir.

All you said is very true of my wife.

Imagine I initiate morning devotions. If I don't the. She prays privately.

I initiate almost evergthing.

She is VERY stubborn.

She has told me and I've seen.

She is too Strong willed.

I take it to God in Prayers.

Let His will be done.

Tinyemeka:


LOL.

Samuel L. Jackson fan.

P.S. Not all such women come from a male-dominated abusive relationship or home. The one I know of, comes from a home dominated by the mum. There, the father is the subordinate.