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I Need Mature Advice, Please. My Bf Had An Affair!! / My Friend Need Help.mature Advice .no Insult Plsss / Should I Break Up With Her Because Of This Thing She Did? Mature Advice Only (2) (3) (4)
Mature Advice Needed by vybzkartel: 9:00pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
I have this married woman friend. She was actually my mate In school way back. We saw each other again via social media and we have become great friends. She is marrlls Me everything 15. She sends me airtime Please advise. Truth of the matter is, because of the attention she gives me, I am becoming fond of her and it is not good. Thanks |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by healthserve(m): 9:09pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Love/lust grows from time shared. If you don't want to nurture the lustful desires, miss your SIM. |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by vybzkartel: 9:11pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
healthserve: Miss SIM how? |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by healthserve(m): 9:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
vybzkartel: Throw the sim and contacts she knows away. Its a slow path towards what you won't have any longterm benefits. Let's be reasonable here, if a woman tells you about sex with her husband and other details which ought to be private between her and her husband, you think if you replace the husband, you won't get worse treatment? Or would get what you seek thru/in her. I'm waking you up from that sleep buddy, its not worth it. Any feelings you feel you have now is simply developed from illicit time shared with another man's heifer. Let her lose and regain control of yourself bro |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by phintohlar(f): 9:17pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
I go advice you make you no try anything with dat woman on, na beg i dey beg you. Before her husband go notice con put magun (thunderbolt) for her body o |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by psucc(m): 9:21pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Op if you are sincere, simply miss the sim as sugggested or better still remind her that she is married and so should devoted time for her husband and home. By saying this, she will "hate" you with passion and will delete your number from her memory. But never cross her path o! afterwards Because she will deal with you |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Edyice: 9:21pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
She wants bestie ... Bestie come with most things Chat mate , sex mate and more you should be happy she picked you Play along mate ! Just don't kiss and tell |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by officialfestus(m): 9:31pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
na wash abeg...she dey test u |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Mood11: 10:36pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
The shittt wey dog want chop no dey let am hear the sound of hunters gun. That's all I can say to you bro. |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 19, 2019 |
You're probably not gonna like my advise but I'll give it anyway. It baffles me how "married women" still keep close make friends. I kick against such a sh!t even when she's still a girlfriend not to talk of when she's married. OP, are you the man that you should be? The upright man who should be seen avoiding what's wrong and pursuing what's right? Or you are the type who are non challant concerning what's rifht or wrong and allow their desires enslave them and they follow their desires even if it's leading them to a destination of doom? I want to assume you are an upright man who would like to do the right thing. On this note, I'm asking you to the right thing concerning this matter which is to cut off that relationship you have with that married woman. The way you're so close with such a woman is simply wrong. Ask yourself, would like another man to come so close to your own wife? How are you gonna feel if you find out? So put yourself together and break from whatever desires may be holding you back and tell that woman that you are cutting off ties with her, you cannot continue on that oath with her and ask her to face her marriage. If she cannot cope with her marriage, it is far better for her to just divorce and make herself happy than for something inappropriate to happen between you and she'll end up in sorrow or misery because of that. know it O fellow man, that you are indirectly hurting your fellow man (her husband) by enjoying the company of his wife and engaging in some inappropriate things with her. Know it O fellow man, that you are endangering yourself by continuing on that path for no one knows what the husband could do if he finds out what's going on between both of you. know it O fellow man, that this sh!t could get worse and you will both lose control and you will sleep with a married woman! That's one of the worst things you can do as a man. Stealing from someone else's pot, breaking her home, breaking your own relationship with your fiancee, causing yourself and herself to carry this heavy feeling of guilt everywhere e.t.c.. So beware! if she doesn't like her husband and cannot continue, she should divorce him. No shame in it! |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by ninetiethcrown7(m): 10:16am On Nov 19, 2019 |
vybzkartel: You for start with that number 15. It’s real bro. It’s just a matter of when you will be ploughing. |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Ebrusi(m): 11:28am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Guy commot body, if her husband was to catch her in the process of talking to you, the man might conclude that you are already sleeping with his wife, mean while nothing of such has happened, so prevent the incoming danger before it, destroys your reputation and dignity. |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Cuccitini(m): 11:38am On Nov 19, 2019 |
op as a real man u need to know hw to compose ursef with her around nd both of u are matured enough to know what u guyz want. if u know wan do waka comot nd if u are interested OYO is ur name |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by themaestro08(m): 11:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
vybzkartel:she obviously loves you but you should be sensible and know she is a married woman. For your own good stay away from her. |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by ednut1(m): 11:52am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Sadly this is the situation of many marriages. Many marry due to societal pressure. The husband does not give her face or attention anymore |
Re: Mature Advice Needed by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 19, 2019 |
vybzkartel: From what I can tell, she doesn't have this conversation with her husband, so most likely using you to pass time or couple with some issues. |
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