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Fear of no peace or violent home

nnanyereugo:
Being called upon as the father of the house to kill every snake that enters the house

So who dem suppose call? Your neighbor, abi?

If ur neighbor begin service ur wife now, you go run come here begin dey rant blah, blah

Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.

Same phobia. Some pretty ladies are evil and monsters.

Wow

Buhari economy

savage!!! Nothing do you

01Alpha:
The fear of been trapped with one wife...

Running out of spice and all the mushyness and living like mere roommates

Getting married to the wrong person

Getting broke along the line
Not attracted to my partner overtime.

I'm afraid that my man might change after marriage for instance, he might not value me as he used to.

Wives not cooperating with each other...

School fees

Most people don't want to be responsible for any meaniful thing in life.

marrying the wrong person..

Having babies.
The whole process is Scary and Traumatising. I've seen photos and videos and I don't think I want to go through it. I feel like if I do go through with it, I'm probably going to hate that child
It is like the major reason I sabotage all my relationships, whenever we start getting serious like this, i stop talking to them. I abandon them in the relationship and move on with my life.

marrying the wrong person and divorce.

Fear of chopping one pussycat forever

Cheating

Nagging and Arguments. These two pisses me off

Probably no fears cos I know exactly what I want and how to identify it and get it.

Dulcinea:
I'm afraid that my man might change after marriage for instance, he might not value me as he used to.

smile......not all men

Fear of ending up with a womb-less woman,perhaps one who has rolled with series of yahoo yahoo boys in the past...that's why it's now recommendable to give her *stomach* first before doing altar things.

marrying wrong person.

Divorce, not giving birth, God pls don't let me suffer these two things pls

Lack of money and resources


That's why I have to be financially OK! Before going into that trap called marriage

The fear of us getting tired of each other

Help!

That she will pretend to be and I find out much later that she is not.....May God bless me with a good woman amen. Make she no get peace when she see me. Make she leave whoever and whatever come gum body....

To end up marrying a proud disrespectfull hoe..

Not been in love with her actually. But being with her because of time, age and circumstances.

2. Financial capacity to break out of the middle class cycle if she is not the type to plan with me and sacrifice when needed.

I met a girl I really think I could work with because we think alike financially. But we have different religions and its a major blockade.

3. Why will she want to be with me? Is it because I'm working and appear capable of taking responsibilities? Why do people get married? Especially when love is obviously not the reason.
Especially when someone introduced both of you together because they know you are single, earning a salary and growing older.(32)
Especially when your elder sister has convinced you that if you don't get married now, you may end up like so so and so uncle who is 50years old and his first child is 8.
Especially when your parents are worried on a steady basis
Especially when you know you are lonely but spent a good percentage of your growing years trying to steady your boat.
Especially when time and opportunity didn't really allow you socialise as a young guy but you suddenly raised your head up from the struggle to realise age has approached.
Especially like I said... You are not really in love.
Especially when your dream is to marry a girl who understands life and can bring ideas to the table, if possible, her brothers and parents can influence contracts and other growth strategy.
Especially when you realise that in the real world, those kind of girls are few. And if you have to wait for them, you will wait longer.
Especially when the people you found compatibility with are different from you in tribe and religion and things don't work
Especially when you are confused about who you want in a wife. The career type, or the home maker.
The life of a Nigerian man is no joke bro

I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!