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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Slimdada(m): 2:36am On Nov 19, 2019
AS A REAL GEE!!

In two years coming I'm getting married to the love of my life, my white lady in USA
Who I have been talking for over a year now
She has promised to come see me next year during her vacation
I wanted us to get married whilst she would be here but she said she's not ready to get married on the first time we are together
And she would rather want us to do a low key wedding in her home in USA,yes she's the one on my wallpaper
And I love her so much
Even without sending me money ever since we met till date
I still love her lai DAT

So in other
word's

AS A REAL GEE!!

I'm not gonna get married to any Nigeria Lady
This female folks from this country are mischievous and only want to marry for the wrong reasons
Which is claiming ownership or partnership of your achievement and assets immediately they take your name
No wonder Timaya aka papichulo refuses to marry his gf despite living with her,and having 3 children with her

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Tarabye: 2:39am On Nov 19, 2019
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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by futurism: 2:47am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

I love your number 3 and I share same sentiment.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by pussyAvenger: 2:49am On Nov 19, 2019
Kokaine:
hahahahaha.
But see...
Been broke in Nigeria is not a function of ones lack of intelligence, readiness, or hard work. The country is really messed up. There's really limited opportunity even for the hardest workers. I wouldn't want to base the compatibility test on finance. The thing is... What mentality does the person have. Does she realise that life is not a bed of roses and so she shouldn't make crazy demands or show signs of ingratitude for your efforts. Is her head alike with yours, such that you guys can brainstorm to get financially free. Or is she the type that will say you should rent a 300k apartment just because she doesn't want to fall short of the glory before her friends. Once she's able to see the bigger picture, she's okay bro
l may not have the patience to be researching that one....
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 2:58am On Nov 19, 2019
Una go dey alright las las.. People dey marry every Saturday, una dey here dey fear. Weak people

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 2:59am On Nov 19, 2019
nnanyereugo:
Being called upon as the father of the house to kill every snake that enters the house and I hate snakes. I wan relocate go Canada first before I marry cos I won't find snakes crawling into my house there
This is very funny cheesy
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Equity15(m): 3:02am On Nov 19, 2019
staying with one person for the rest of my life. I get tired of people quickly

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 3:04am On Nov 19, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated



Introvert grin
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by explosiveskull(m): 3:13am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.
This your this instead of these confirms you are a pin hole monster.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 3:14am On Nov 19, 2019
feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

It is well. The winters of life. Hang on bro. It well soon pass.

When it get darker, pitch black with all manners of scary noises and there seems to be no ray of light, just start celebrations.

Winter is almost over. I love your fighting spirit.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by khatea: 3:16am On Nov 19, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Expanded kini due to childbirth and no longer feeling it cry Monotonous routines ne and getting fat


Just opt for a C-section

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:18am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.



The fear of marrying the wrong man who would frustrate me
The fear of not being able to live/perform up to par...
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:19am On Nov 19, 2019
Ahdunns:
Lacking communication skills and been clueless on what to say and how to act



This is actually easy. Just like character, communication is built over time. If you find it easy relating with your partner before marriage, the same would be obtainable in marriage.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:20am On Nov 19, 2019
Neurotika:
1). Marrying the wrong person,
2). Losing your personal identity (once you become daddy everything changes)
3). Falling out of love
4). Boredom



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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:20am On Nov 19, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.



Dayummmm, Girl!!
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:24am On Nov 19, 2019
Sirmuel1:
To be honest, Cheating is the only reason I'm still single.

I can't afford to share my own Wife with another Man.

Sadly, most married Women in Nigeria loves cheating.



Don't you think you are being too generic and unfair to the female folks by saying most? I think "some" is more like it.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 3:26am On Nov 19, 2019
Fizzymike1:
Eating same soup till death. If u know u know. For an ideal marriage oh


That same soup can be garnished and tweaked to taste different. I think you need to jettison this mindset before getting married so you won't end up sending someone's daughter to the grave due to your promiscuity.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by dexla(f): 3:26am On Nov 19, 2019
Getting married to the wrong person

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by octavian(m): 3:32am On Nov 19, 2019
purples25:
That he wont love me or care and we live as compatible partners , simply co operating rather than ..... You know

that he will deal with me.... and then we will also have those fights leading to high blood pressure.

That i may not even like him cuz mom wants a specific person and i may not find the character and interest i desire in that type of person she wants.

That my kids might hate me or i wont be good enough ( this is partly due to people always breaking down my confidence from family to public, by always - well not always, treating me like an unstable person and a joke ) , or people come in with all their bossiness and pushy advice and try to tell me how to handle my kids or even start taking over forcefully. Theyve done that to me most times in my life and it pains me a lot, so this fear is real .

Having an impatient intolerant brash traditional man that cares nothing for living life with class or treating his family well.

First thing, I'm married and let me try to explain some of your fears to you, "that he won't love you or care" , it happens but never go into marriage thinking LOVE will be the only fuel to sustain it. FRIENDSHIP is the key, you and your to be husband must be friends, someone who really understand you and is always ready to listen to you, if not having the right answers can always point you in the direction and pray with you.

A man most often times is the reflection of his parents relationship, be careful enough to study your man's parents marriage, if he has any. See, men have egos and as cocky as we get we love respect especially from our wife, please you must learn to both tolerate each other. There'll always be crazy gifts almost leading to HBP but, one of you must be bigger person ( learn to easily let go and move on) it's hard but it will save you a lot .

See, when you're bonded with your friend you'll know to a certain level his behaviour. Mind you, never go into marriage thinking, you can know everything about your spouse, but when you get in some will be unleashed, that's where you must maturely handle. NEVER MARRY ANY MAN TIED TO HIS MOM'S APRON, na the mama go run Una home

Never let anyone put you down in the public space, your family might have their opinion but your opinion matters alot. Living in Nigeria is enough challenge, don't let anyone add salt to your injury, family never puts anyone down they support,care and defend each other. It's time you call them to other, give them a piece of your mind and move on, if your to be husband sees the way your people treats you he might capitalise on it to inflict more pain on you, please stand up to them now. By the way, don't be scared no one can take away your kids from you.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by kenodrill: 3:35am On Nov 19, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.







You sound like a very cruel person.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 3:38am On Nov 19, 2019
Jewessgratitude:


Wrong!
Being able to manage anger and tolerate your spouse's excesses doesn't make you a Sissy but a strong man. Rather you become a sissy when you reacts and whine at the slightest opportunity.

As for the woman, she too needs it. I'm currently undergoing a series on anger management in church and somehow ive been able to build my tolerance level to some extent so by the time I go into marriage, I'll be near perfect.

Instead of sitting there and laying out dos and donts, build yourself to be a better person at managing your home.


You should be weary of the disease of un-met expectations and perfectionist syndrome. It never goes well in a relationship. Be open to change , and do things not for a reward, but because that's who you have grown to become.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by joepepsy(m): 3:40am On Nov 19, 2019
This wan na witch ooo,guys beware o grin grin
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by uchman46(m): 3:44am On Nov 19, 2019
01Alpha:
The fear of been trapped with one wife...
Make it multiple now bros
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by NovusHomo(m): 3:54am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.


The Mother-in-Law.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Incandescent(m): 3:54am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

With this mindset, no bother marrying my brother. You'd just kill yourself for nothing. No be by gra gra o. You never jam

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Charly68: 4:00am On Nov 19, 2019
Before going into it ,don't deceive yourself ,open your eyes and brain very well,let your insight and hindsight work well,look beyond beauty,check manners,check industriousness, gauge the temperance and maturity of your partner,find out if he or she is real or make belief . Know where the fellow is coming from,because a bad parent may have negative influence on the son or daughter. When you are satisfied then enter action with boldness and leave the rest for God to sort out. Marriage is a divine medicine for a balanced life . No one is designed to live alone

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by saintneo(m): 4:02am On Nov 19, 2019
Fisher007:


As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.


What do you mean by abduction?

Abduction = Kidnapping

Or you meant to write Adoption.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by joepepsy(m): 4:04am On Nov 19, 2019
marriage is a scam.
ikwedim:
In this social media age, marriage na scam. Thank God I have a baby. If he like let him remain with his mum or if he like let him return back to his father's house. All I know I have a Son n life goes on

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 4:04am On Nov 19, 2019
kenodrill:








You sound like a very cruel person.
No mind her. Na dem dey soft pass
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by dasparrow: 4:11am On Nov 19, 2019
Marriage is for people who can't live without sex and need to fvck and wallow in their spouse's smelly genital secretions like pigs wallow in mud.

I am allergic to other people's genital secretions so a sex demanding relationship like marriage is not for me.

Sex is an act that disgusts me and since it is required in marriage, I will pass. Thank God I don't live in shithole Nigeria where everyone is trying to force marriage down another's throat. I live in a society where marriage is a choice and not a societal obligation.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by saintneo(m): 4:18am On Nov 19, 2019
Goldenheart:
grin

Wives not cooperating with each other...
polygamist here!

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