Psalm2423:

The best advice he can take. So one moniker is on, and the other is off.
What school are you applying to?

I cant break my promise.
uniabuja.

Blackivy27:
I cant break my promise.

uniabuja.

Lol. Okay, so you're in Abuja now?

Psalm2423:

Lol. Okay, so you're in Abuja now?

Yep!

Blackivy27:
Yep!

Crespostakes:
Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper,
but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.

Confession here does not necessarily mean to the person. I have confessed to God and asked for forgiveness. Though I'll still tell her not now.

So when your gf cheats on you, so long as she confesses to God, it's ok, abi?

MrBrownJay1:


So when your gf cheats on you, so long as she confesses to God, it's ok, abi?

No.

Crespostakes:
I cheated on my fiancee and I've been sad and depressed since then. I can't forgive myself. To make matters worse the lady I cheated with is now on my neck disturbing claiming to be in love. Please help me out of this.

Am not a supporter of sex before marriage..yeah...but oga... don't be a sissy na ,....the first question is ....ur sex with the new lady na Skin to skin or with condom....
If with condom...then forget Abt her and tell her off...it's just a fling...
Don't be bothered about her love stories and text...na scope jor..he be like say small money dey ur hand na why she want die there...who suppose dey profess love...na you or she?

If na skin to skin..then u in for a little ish... because she fit come say she is pregnant....

But one thing is u need to man up...you are a man...
You are engaged that's all....na only if u enjoy her..u go still go again go meet her ...and if u go meet her again....den u in for more troubles....
Stay away from her ...and draw more closer to ur fiancee...
Excommunicate yourself from her....don't be a fool man up...the deed is done already...don't be shy of cutting communication with her

Starz825:

Am not a supporter of sex before marriage..yeah...but oga... don't be a sissy na ,....the first question is ....ur sex with the new lady na Skin to skin or with condom....
If with condom...then forget Abt her and tell her off...it's just a fling...
Don't be bothered about her love stories and text...na scope jor..he be like say small money dey ur hand na why she want die there...who suppose dey profess love...na you or she?

If na skin to skin..then u in for a little ish... because she fit come say she is pregnant....

But one thing is u need to man up...you are a man...
You are engaged that's all....na only if u enjoy her..u go still go again go meet her ...and if u go meet her again....den u in for more troubles....
Stay away from her ...and draw more closer to ur fiancee...
Excommunicate yourself from her....don't be a fool man up...the deed is done already...don't be shy of cutting communication with her

condom. And she has since been blocked.

Crespostakes:
The lady just sent me a long text message telling me how she loves and I shouldn't break her heart. She has been sending me messages since it happened. I am trying not to be rude.

Tell that LADY to leave you alone..... Tell you where only into her for one time sex and thats all...

KingWarri:


Tell that LADY to leave you alone..... Tell you where only into her for one time sex and thats all...

she is still refusing to back down. I have told my fiancee, let's say my relationship is about to crash

Crespostakes:
she is still refusing to back down. I have told my fiancee, let's say my relationship is about to crash

Hmmmm...... It won't crash.... If Your fiancee is mature she would trust you more.... For telling the truth.... Now you 've Let her in she will be the one to Chase that lady

deor03:


There is always a first time, this is one of many to come

you were right

Crespostakes:
Telling her is of no use it will only destroy the trusts she has for me. I am moving out of this location in few weeks non of these will matter

Her trust in you is ill-founded, especially if you make no effort to understand why you cheated in the first place.

Crespostakes:
you were right

That's the process...