GeneralShepherd:


I am the devil? Really? If God expelled you for every sin you've commited you would have long been dead and in hell.

He that is without sin should cast the first stone

stop quoting God in this context if you don't know how to prove a point, you speak about what God would do in this case yet you forget that there are times God has to punish and times to refrain from such, why then did he drive away the market sellers from the temple, yet didn't so so to the woman who committed adultery, please don't ever use Gods expulsion to qualify that of a man cos God's expulsion is more severe than that of a university.

The mistake has already being made..I just pray she does not commit suicide....it is shameful.....she needs every support she can get now.......

timidapsin:
Rubbish school..
Hypocrisy everywhere..
They claim to be a Christian school..
Even Jesus didn't expel the prostitute he had encounter with.

Mumu forming sophisticated, you want BU to loose students because of stupid actions of some grown adult. I hope one day you will send ur sons and daughters to a school sex videos are leaked.

ursullalinda:
Ah.....expelling a girl because of sex is wrong.....that is a school not a church.....I'm just feeling for her parents

its normal,no institution would want to b associated with such,even dat girl in bet9ja that had sex with Gordoni would have been sacked from d London police force,if the police had enough evidence that she had sex on live TV,its called work ethics though I feel for her,I pray she doesn't commit suicide,I pray d church should come to her aid,parents sibling too have a very big role to play on this matter,she should be closely monitored and pampered if not she may become insane and mentally unstable and end it all with sniper I feel for her,any teenager could have been a victim we learn everyday I hope teenagers on Twitter that tweet everything including pregnancy learns from this what a pitty

Venerable612:


Some things are not excusable in the African society; and public display of sex before marriage is considered one of them.

It doesn’t mean it has to always be that way - but it is what it is.

I want to believe the Schools decision is as a result of the social media outcry - and to serve as deterrent to present/future students not to indulge in a public display of sex.

If you ask me - nothing wrong with this decision. An institution is free to determine the standards they expect of the students they give their degrees to. It’s all about reputation.

don't mind the people questioning the decision of the school authority, everyone is concerned about how the girl will feel, saying it happened outside the school, yet that singular act is denting the image of the school.

GeneralShepherd:
1. This was consensual sex

2. The act did not happen on campus

3. The act happened when Babcock Uni was on holiday.

4. The university claims to be saddled with the responsibility of making Nigeria great right? By inference sexual purity is the prerequisite for greatness right? Developed countries have a large number of sexually active youth. They all have very low birth rates as well as low rate of HIV prevalence (sex education and access to health care) and are all great by every human development index.

5. I have also read Babcocks rules and regulation and nowhere did it address having sex off-campus. It does mention that association with members of the opposite sex ON-CAMPUS is highly prohibited.

6. I will like to see what rules she must have broken that warranted her expulsion. This why no one takes Nigerian education seriously.

7. The university should be investigating whoever leaked this video for violation of privacy but this is Nigeria where hypocrisy reigns supreme.


NB. I AM A CHRISTIAN AND BELIEVE SEX SHOULD BE WITHIN A LOVING MARITAL RELATIONSHIP BUT EVEN I HAVE HAD MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS.

May God forgive our imperfections and I hope God will see this girl through this trying time

what if the two students in question leaked the video or one of them, maybe d guy... And which school in Nigeria won't expel for this act... D school expelled them cause they brought Shame on d name of d sch.

dazzlingd:


... U no dey fvk abi? Hypocrites everywhere

you sound so deluded, having sex is one thing, making a video of it is another, you think she won't be sacked if she was working in one of the reputable organizations in Nigeria for making a sex video outside the work place, you think that organization would choose to retain you over their public image, grow up man.

dazzlingd:


Yes uncle, I have school tomorrow... My teachers will be waiting because I'm the principal!

u probably in a hotel right now with bottles of beer and your rooster in the mouth of a maiden while another chick is rubbing your pot belly...go to sleep, let them pat your bald head for u. You probably won't last 2 minutes before you start snoring away your sorrows ...yet you come here to display your hypocrisy

Hello nairaland. As you can see. This principal is a pervert. A pornographer , an apologist for decadent morals. God only knows how much he is polluting children.

I hope the children he teaches are safe. Hopefully the authorities will pick up on this post and check your phone for possible sex videos with your students.

We know your type. To prevent accusations due to association. This will be my last post to you.

Hopefully you will be caught soon and disgraced as is fair in this case.

Goodbye.

Cc. children abuse societies
Cc. Nigeria police

Is mutual sex off campus a crime?

Sacrificing the future of the girl, to launder the image of the school, is very barbaric.

They could still have protected the school by confirming that the incidence happened off campus,not by expelling her!

I would call on lawyers to please take over her case.

dazzlingd:


That's an institution that's supposed to be enlightened and rational In decision making not dancing to the gallery and being sentimental. It's not a traditional court or religious court...no wonder they are qualified as glorified secondary school yet seeking international recognition.

A good lawyer will beat them hands down

you think so? you think the law is an episode of zee world or telemundo, or you think the girl alone has the right to sue, what about the schools public image that was dented, you think they can't sue for that too, I laugh at u

lalasticlala:
Babcock University has finally reacted to the sex video of Ex students that went viral after it was leaked online.

The parents of the girl ought to sue the school, at least so that she can get transcript for transfer to another school. But shame will prevent them from standing by their girl.

dazzlingd:


Stealing is a crime...
Is consensual sex a crime??

Consensual sex isn't a crime..but defamation of the sch is an offense to the sch

Jordan97:
Amongst the so many evidences against the girl and the guy, these are my conclusions.

1. The moral standard of our country and the world at larger keeps going down.

2. Seemingly religious people might not be religious at all.. Seeing this lady, one can conclude hastily that she is religious.. God alone can tell

3. Konji can make you do silly things.. Why did the guy convince the girl to do the video? And why did the girl agree? Konji.

4. Don't be quick to condemn anyone.. You could be a hypocrite anyway..

5. They never used protection.. STD could be calling

6. Both the girl and guy will FOREVER have the mark/effect of what they did.. They might heal, but they will NEVER be the same again.

7. If you want to be religious, be serious with it.. Learn not to compromise your standards, or God's standards..Also learn not to Judge Irreligious people..
If you don't want to be Irreligious.. . Learn not to JUDGE religious ones. You have no right to Do so..

8. I believe in Jesus, and if the girl confesses to Christ and repents.. God will show her mercy.

9. Don't blame the girl or the boy or the school.. If you love them, pray for them.

10. God is love

God bless you

Eddygourdo:


Hello nairaland. As you can see. This principal is a pervert. A pornographer , an apologist for decadent morals. God only knows how much he is polluting children.

I hope the children he teaches are safe. Hopefully the authorities will pick up on this post and check your phone for possible sex videos with your students.

We know your type. To prevent accusations due to association. This will be my last post to you.

Hopefully you will be caught soon and disgraced as is fair in this case.

Goodbye.

Cc. children abuse societies
Cc. Nigeria police

. Easy man with the beer, perhaps u are going senile already...enjoy your time with your maidens, ensure to pay them well, not easy servicing a vulture looking man like u

magnificient7:
It is unbelievable to see post of people bashing the school for expelling the girl. It speaks of the height and depth of moral decadence in the society.

Every institute, every organisation, every company stand for something. They have values, principles and culture which represent or advocates.


Yes,the girl is an adult. She is free to do whatsoever she want to do. But Babcock simply don't want to be identified with such act. Whether you like it or not, sex tape is highly frown upon especially in a society such as naija.

"We are free to make our decisions, but the consequences are beyond us".

Most people here won't want to marry the girl, but you want castigate BU
Most peeps won't even want their sibling to do anything with her, yet u dey yan nonsense
If u get company,u won't want to employ her...
Even as house help, u won't, make she no spoil Ur pikin, but u dey here dey talk with both side of the mouth.

you've said it all my brother, its a pity people's standards have been reduced to nothing, hence their comments, if they can't answer the questions you just asked them, then they are of all people most miserable.

Sunnyobums:

you think so? you think the law is an episode of zee world or telemundo, or you think the girl alone has the right to sue, what about the schools public image that was dented, you think they can't sue for that too, I laugh at u

Crap.

What has the school's image got to do with off campus mutual sex?Is it a crime? Is it robbery or murder?

1mrprolific7:
Where's the video. Lemme watch it as well, even if is ten seconds.

Please who have dah #miakhalifaِ video� I want to rewatch .... I need to learn some new skills�
#babcocksextape #babcock #Babcock

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That Meme is the bang

GeneralShepherd:
1. This was consensual sex

2. The act did not happen on campus

3. The act happened when Babcock Uni was on holiday.

4. The university claims to be saddled with the responsibility of making Nigeria great right? By inference sexual purity is the prerequisite for greatness right? Developed countries have a large number of sexually active youth. They all have very low birth rates as well as low rate of HIV prevalence (sex education and access to health care) and are all great by every human development index.

5. I have also read Babcocks rules and regulation and nowhere did it address having sex off-campus. It does mention that association with members of the opposite sex ON-CAMPUS is highly prohibited.

6. I will like to see what rules she must have broken that warranted her expulsion. This why no one takes Nigerian education seriously.

7. The university should be investigating whoever leaked this video for violation of privacy but this is Nigeria where hypocrisy reigns supreme.


NB. I AM A CHRISTIAN AND BELIEVE SEX SHOULD BE WITHIN A LOVING MARITAL RELATIONSHIP BUT EVEN I HAVE HAD MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS.

May God forgive our imperfections and I hope God will see this girl through this trying time

if u really are a Christian you would know that the life u had with your multiple sexual partner was a sinful and wrong lifestyle which u ought to have dropped in the past when u became born again...
But alas it seems u don't understand a thing about the need for purity in the body of Christ.....
Oga pray for this Lady to learn from her mistake and to understand that sin is a killer of destiny and that this error in her life will draw her closer to God.....

Babcook has done nothing wrong....our society should not be so morally decayed to the extent that our youth record themselves in perverse actions ....I'm surprised that a Christian will advocate against the disciplinary actions of a school who are trying to keep their record of morality clean......Selah

GeneralShepherd:


You cant make up rules as you go, because that by definition is lack of standards. The school had no rules that covered sex OFF-CAMPUS and therefore based their decisions on emotions not substance.

Also the school as a Christian Uni are not upholding their duty as a member of the body of Christ. Our duty is to win sinners over not cast them away

what dis Jesus do to people buying and selling in d temple??

It's on Twitter... I watched it there

1mrprolific7:
Where's the video. Lemme watch it as well, even if is ten seconds.

Please who have dah #miakhalifaِ video� I want to rewatch .... I need to learn some new skills�
#babcocksextape #babcock #Babcock

Venerable612:


I cannot comment on the rules aspect of your comment because I am not privy to those information.

But this decision is perfectly fine... for 2 reasons.

1. Punishments can be punitive, especially in an educational institution. Will you make this argument if for example a Male student of Babcock was found performing gay sex in a shrine in Okija during Christmas break?

2. Religion does not eschew reprimands. Christ sent out those selling and buying in the temple. He could easily have drawn them nearer, but he sent them out.

Again, Babcock is not a church. It might be created by a religious institution - but it is obviously serving a different purpose other than propagating the gospel. It is an institution of learning and as such, cannot be placed on the same religious standard as its church.

If we take your stroke of argument to the most logical conclusion, then they shouldn’t punish ANY student that violates the school’s rules. They should not have expelled the bf who was alleged to indulge in drugs. They are just meant to draw them nearer and admonish them as Christians; and how absurd.

I think

The boyfriend was expelled for commuting various crimes on campus! Big difference

Judolisco:
what dis Jesus do to people buying and selling in d temple??

What did Jesus do when the Pharisees brought him a prostitute that was about to be stoned to death?

Judolisco:
what if the two students in question leaked the video or one of them, maybe d guy... And which school in Nigeria won't expel for this act... D school expelled them cause they brought Shame on d name of d sch.

The boy should then be prosecuted for revenge porn that is if such laws exist in Nigeria

Eddygourdo:


Hello nairaland. As you can see. This principal is a pervert. A pornographer , an apologist for decadent morals. God only knows how much he is polluting children.

I hope the children he teaches are safe. Hopefully the authorities will pick up on this post and check your phone for possible sex videos with your students.

We know your type. To prevent accusations due to association. This will be my last post to you.

Hopefully you will be caught soon and disgraced as is fair in this case.

Goodbye.

Cc. children abuse societies
Cc. Nigeria police

acusing the principal of sex doesn't make what d girl did right,no sane company will see this on TV and still retain u no matter d country.its called image right,if u want to have sex,have sex and don't put it on live TV cuz some teenagers might come across it and decide to go on a rape rampage, it's only xvideos companies that will be looking for her cus of the way she swallowed d whole sperm and nothing dropped on d floor she go make money last last but for d wrong reasons,I feel for her though

CsRockefeller:
Many people here are brazenly stupid.

Gosh!!

Not just stupid, unintelligent and highly foolish.

That's why we are were we are today because we have stupid leaders but more stupid followers.

What crime did Tiger Woods commit for having sex outside his work and loosing his sponsorship?

Fools!!

are u surprised by the comments people are making here, sex sells now, you needed to see how boys and girls were dropping their phone numbers on Facebook with abeg for the video when one guy commented that he has the video, everyone wanted the video just to satisfy their carnal desires, didn't they also subscribe to watch live sex on bb9ja, don't be surprised at their comments, morality has indeed gone to the dogs.

timidapsin:
Rubbish school..
Hypocrisy everywhere..
They claim to be a Christian school..
Even Jesus didn't expel the prostitute he had encounter with.

Baba use ur brain 4 once na.... even thou it was a Muslim school, same would av happened..... what were u expecting the school to do...
your grievance is bcus you walk in the dark and not in the light so u will get upset.

If lecturers can no longer eat the forbidden fruit..... The utmost joy of fellow students...........

Venerable612:


I cannot comment on the rules aspect of your comment because I am not privy to those information.

But this decision is perfectly fine... for 2 reasons.

1. Punishments can be punitive, especially in an educational institution. Will you make this argument if for example a Male student of Babcock was found performing gay sex in a shrine in Okija during Christmas break?

2. Religion does not eschew reprimands. Christ sent out those selling and buying in the temple. He could easily have drawn them nearer, but he sent them out.

Again, Babcock is not a church. It might be created by a religious institution - but it is obviously serving a different purpose other than propagating the gospel. It is an institution of learning and as such, cannot be placed on the same religious standard as its church.

If we take your stroke of argument to the most logical conclusion, then they shouldn’t punish ANY student that violates the school’s rules. They should not have expelled the bf who was alleged to indulge in drugs. They are just meant to draw them nearer and admonish them as Christians; and how absurd.

I think

There are very grave consequences for using hard drugs on campus example psychosis and this can endanger the lives of other students on campus.

What danger does this girl pose to other students by having premarital sex ? Did she cone short of God's glory? Yes! Should her future be destroyed cos of it absolutely not

I don't understand people saying she did not commit d offense within d school environment... During matriculation u will swear an oath and sign the moment you sign the oath, you are an ambassador of the school, if the girl made a new discovery or inventory or won a competition outside backcock, the School will be very proud of her... Now she brought shame to the name of the school and every body is crying foul... U are not in New York abeg na 9ja u dey

maybe "Babcock" is more than just a name

Sunnyobums:

are u surprised by the comments people are making here, sex sells now, you needed to see how boys and girls were dropping their phone numbers on Facebook with abeg for the video when one guy commented that he has the video, everyone wanted the video just to satisfy their carnal desires, didn't they also subscribe to watch live sex on bb9ja, don't be surprised at their comments, morality has indeed gone to the dogs.

even president Clinton would have been relived as d president of United states if Lewinsky had d sex video but thank God for the FBI that did d needful and quickly deleted all traces,imagine if dat video had gone viral America as a country would have been in mockery not to talk of one teenager in a university,just ignore them they know nothing

GoodGovernance:


Crap.

What has the school's image got to do with off campus mutual sex?Is it a crime? Is it robbery or murder?

that shows you know nothing about how an organization works, there is something called organizational values and image which the public gets to see and that's what brings goodwill to the organization, an organization can lose a lot of things if that image is dented, cos an organization's image is the organization itself