GeneralShepherd:
1. This was consensual sex

2. The act did not happen on campus

3. The act happened when Babcock Uni was on holiday.

4. The university claims to be saddled with the responsibility of making Nigeria great right? By inference sexual purity is the prerequisite for greatness right? Developed countries have a large number of sexually active youth. They all have very low birth rates as well as low rate of HIV prevalence (sex education and access to health care) and are all great by every human development index.

5. I have also read Babcocks rules and regulation and nowhere did it address having sex off-campus. It does mention that association with members of the opposite sex ON-CAMPUS is highly prohibited.

6. I will like to see what rules she must have broken that warranted her expulsion. This why no one takes Nigerian education seriously.

7. The university should be investigating whoever leaked this video for violation of privacy but this is Nigeria where hypocrisy reigns supreme.


NB. I AM A CHRISTIAN AND BELIEVE SEX SHOULD BE WITHIN A LOVING MARITAL RELATIONSHIP BUT EVEN I HAVE HAD MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS.

May God forgive our imperfections and I hope God will see this girl through this trying time

Babcock prides itself on being a Christian University, grounded on certain norms. Once you sign up to that University, you pledge to ABIDE by those norms and policies. Break it, you get expelled. This is commonsense.

All Universities— theocratic or otherwise— award certificates to individuals who have proven themselves worthy in CHARACTER and in learning. Break what they consider as “Character”, you face the consequences. And these goes for Universities outside Nigeria as well.

This again, is basic. It’s commonsense.

There’s no need to critique a University for doing what they signed up to do. Instead, and fully, the blame should go to the student(s) who fell foul of a simple rule.

If we want to be honest, this explanation is as simple as it comes.

VicM6:
Baba use ur brain 4 once na.... even thou it was a Muslim school, same would av happened..... what were u expecting the school to do...
your grievance is bcus you walk in the dark and not in the light so u will get upset.

what did Jesus do with the prostitute?
Yet you claim to walk in the light.
I never said what she did was right.
But there are better ways to punish her than expelling her.

GeneralShepherd:
1. This was consensual sex

2. The act did not happen on campus

3. The act happened when Babcock Uni was on holiday.

4. The university claims to be saddled with the responsibility of making Nigeria great right? By inference sexual purity is the prerequisite for greatness right? Developed countries have a large number of sexually active youth. They all have very low birth rates as well as low rate of HIV prevalence (sex education and access to health care) and are all great by every human development index.

5. I have also read Babcocks rules and regulation and nowhere did it address having sex off-campus. It does mention that association with members of the opposite sex ON-CAMPUS is highly prohibited.

6. I will like to see what rules she must have broken that warranted her expulsion. This why no one takes Nigerian education seriously.

7. The university should be investigating whoever leaked this video for violation of privacy but this is Nigeria where hypocrisy reigns supreme.


NB. I AM A CHRISTIAN AND BELIEVE SEX SHOULD BE WITHIN A LOVING MARITAL RELATIONSHIP BUT EVEN I HAVE HAD MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS.

May God forgive our imperfections and I hope God will see this girl through this trying time

Babcock prides itself on being a Christian University, grounded on certain norms. Once you sign up to that University, you pledge to ABIDE by those norms and policies. Break it, you get expelled. This is commonsense.

All Universities— theocratic or otherwise— award certificates to individuals who have proven themselves worthy in CHARACTER and in learning. Break what they consider as “Character”, you face the consequences. And these goes for Universities outside Nigeria as well.

This again, is basic. It’s commonsense.

There’s no need to critique a University for doing what they signed up to do. Instead, and fully, the blame should go to the student(s) who fell foul of a simple rule.

If we want to be honest, this explanation is as simple as it comes. Why is there always a pushback, when it comes to holding people accountable, especially in Nigeria?

Chidorx60:
if u really are a Christian you would know that the life u had with your multiple sexual partner was a sinful and wrong lifestyle which u ought to have dropped in the past when u became born again...
But alas it seems u don't understand a thing about the need for purity in the body of Christ.....
Oga pray for this Lady to learn from her mistake and to understand that sin is a killer of destiny and that this error in her life will draw her closer to God.....

Babcook has done nothing wrong....our society should not be so morally decayed to the extent that our youth record themselves in perverse actions ....I'm surprised that a Christian will advocate against the disciplinary actions of a school who are trying to keep their record of morality clean......Selah

Do you honestly believe as a Christian that this young lady deserves to loose three years of her life and probably her future delayed because of poor judgement?

My question is what university law did she break by having sex off-campus while on holiday?

Nigerian society is an extension of our system , we are more concerned about what people do in their private lives than things that affects the society.

She sinned against God, she didn't break any law

The fact that the school expelled them both says alot about the kind of Christianity they practice I always say morality isn't Christianity and vice versa

If the act took place outside the school and all, d school has no right to expell d girl.

Like what d heck! Why expel them for fornicating outside d school? Like is it a secondary school ni

madridsta007:


Babcock prides itself on being a Christian University, grounded on certain norms. Once you sign up to that University, you pledge to ABIDE by those norms and policies. Break it, you get expelled. This is commonsense.

All Universities— theocratic or otherwise— award certificates to individuals who have proven themselves worthy in CHARACTER and in learning. Break what they consider as “Character”, you face the consequences. And these goes for Universities outside Nigeria as well.

This again, is basic. It’s commonsense.

There’s no need to critique a University for doing what they signed up to do. Instead, and fully, the blame should go to the student(s) who fell foul of a simple rule.

If we want to be honest, this explanation is as simple as it comes. Why is there always a pushback, when it comes to holding people accountable, especially in Nigeria?

If there was actually a rule forbidding sex outside campus , I will not argue as she agreed to those rules when she signed up but there are no rules that stated that sexual purity off campus is a prerequisite for graduation

osazsky:
even president Clinton would have been relived as d president of United states if Lewinsky had d sex video but thank God for the FBI that did d needful and quickly deleted all traces,imagine if dat video had gone viral America as a country would have been in mockery not to talk of one teenager in a university,just ignore them they know nothing

true, it's just sad to see the youths these days think through their anus.

GeneralShepherd:


What did Jesus do when the Pharisees brought him a prostitute that was about to be stoned to death?

which school in Nigeria will overlook what she has done... You are in Nigeria not America.. We have d African culture and some things are not just right....

Sunnyobums:

are u surprised by the comments people are making here, sex sells now, you needed to see how boys and girls were dropping their phone numbers on Facebook with abeg for the video when one guy commented that he has the video, everyone wanted the video just to satisfy their carnal desires, didn't they also subscribe to watch live sex on bb9ja, don't be surprised at their comments, morality has indeed gone to the dogs.

It's a pity. Even the Whites aren't this naive and stupid. They know when to draw their boundaries.

Chidorx60:
if u really are a Christian you would know that the life u had with your multiple sexual partner was a sinful and wrong lifestyle which u ought to have dropped in the past when u became born again...
But alas it seems u don't understand a thing about the need for purity in the body of Christ.....
Oga pray for this Lady to learn from her mistake and to understand that sin is a killer of destiny and that this error in her life will draw her closer to God.....

Babcook has done nothing wrong....our society should not be so morally decayed to the extent that our youth record themselves in perverse actions ....I'm surprised that a Christian will advocate against the disciplinary actions of a school who are trying to keep their record of morality clean......Selah

How do you know I don't understand purity? Do you know me? Do you know what my lifestyle is now? Did you know that I was once an atheist?
You don't know much about me so why jump to conclusions

Jesse25:

Your a devil in disguise not a Christian how can you support such shameful act .....the school did the right thing by expelling her and also to protect their image.

hypocrite ... Swear by you balls that you are a virgin and also swear by your eye balls that you have not had an intercourse this year.

Judolisco:
which school in Nigeria will overlook what she has done... You are in Nigeria not America.. We have d African culture and some things are not just right....

She was outside the bounds of the university laws at the time the event occurred. The Uni has no jurisdiction

GeneralShepherd:


If there was actually a rule forbidding sex outside campus , I will not argue as she agreed to those rules when she signed up but there are no rules that stated that sexual purity off campus is a prerequisite for graduation

If she goes outside the University, during holiday period and engages in cultism, should the University also allow her/the guy in because it’s holiday period?

In CHARACTER and learning Oga. You sign up for that when you get into any higher institution. Your certificate reads, “considered worthy in character and learning..”

You young people should learn how to call white, white and black, black. It doesn’t kill.

GeneralShepherd:


What did Jesus do when the Pharisees brought him a prostitute that was about to be stoned to death?

did u see d woman committing d act on national TV,or just some set of agrived people wanting to kill her ,two thieves died with jesus christ,one made heaven d other went to hell,y did jesus not forgive d other one,that A did it and got away with it doesn't mean that if B does it he will get away with it,these things happens everyday on campus and people got away with it this girl was d other thief that died with christ but didn't make heaven we know d VC ,lecturer do worst than this,the bottomline is dat don't get caught or video urself

CsRockefeller:


It's a pity. Even the Whites aren't this naive and stupid. They know when to draw their boundaries.

most of them were even quoting God just to buttress their point, so shameful.

If this is truly the mentality of the youths of this Country, then, it is finished.

Ha! I'm astonished.

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmmmm, the event never happened in the school premises nor within school period, I think the sch should have just subjected the girl(since she was a student as at the time of event) to some counseling measures, no need to expel such student.
Our schools should understand the role of counseling in moulding life, every mosquito should not be terminated with Raid or Baygon

The school made their decisions, if u feels otherwise, go and sue them. Internet lawyer.

GeneralShepherd:



The boy should then be prosecuted for revenge porn that is if such laws exist in Nigeria

even in countries that they have dis laws.. If the president of United States or France had their sex tape leaked they will resign... They are under oath to be good ambassadors to their school

Sunnyobums:

most of them were even quoting God just to buttress their point, so shameful.

Day after day, I see reasons why I should leave this country. It's sinking deep everyday in all facets.

Xisnin:

She can never win the case!
At least she is not returning to that school ever!

This isn't some hypothetical scenario for you to judge,
many have tried and failed.

The court does not believe in forcing private businesses to accept patrons who break their rules.
Even in clear case of discrimination, this one isn't even close, the best the victim
can get is some compensation for their legal troubles.

Technically, it is publicity that makes someone a criminal.
If no one knows, then the culprits will retain their integrity.

Maybe because our legal system is flawed. You know in saner climes, she would probably win because I still cannot see what school rule she disobeyed here looking at the circumstances. What happens to all d millions being spent so far by the parents so far to get her to that level. I am not trying to exonorate the girl for her stupidity but at the same time expelling her was too harsh on her. She is an adult and there are better ways to punish her since the act didn't happen within the school's jurisdiction.

What I know is that I enjoyed the video ,the guy come in her mouth ... The girl enjoyed it ...what next ..d girl should just go on to do porn cos she sabi

Sunnyobums:

most of them were even quoting God just to buttress their point, so shameful.

the thing weak me,theses our generation en,our young parents have failed and this is bad,in d 80s while still young if we see girl way one brother sleep with nobody will want to be her friend we even dey call her witch, but d way girls upload sex on TV now beats my imagination ,imagine d other foolish mother fighting a security man for preventing her daughter into d sch premises cuz of eye latches, when she knew d rules before enrolling her child into d sch,these set of parents have failed in totality,that eye latches girl at 13 has already had a party and I am very sure of this

madridsta007:


If she goes outside the University, during holiday period and engages in cultism, should the University also allow her/the guy in because it’s holiday period?

In CHARACTER and learning Oga. You sign up for that when you get into any higher institution. Your certificate reads, “considered worthy in character and learning..”

You young people should leave how to call white, white and black, black. It doesn’t kill.

Our generation have the internet, we have science and Technology, we have all the tools required to catapult ourselves to the next level but like the Israelites, we refuse to make head way and begin to roam about with our foolishness and stupidity.

Our parents generation gave us what we are enjoying today, what will we give our children?

JamesHanu:
So she got expelled for having sex outside school during vacation or was it because of the video? Mad o

The school was tagged and you know people when anything about the church is mentioned.

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madridsta007:


If she goes outside the University, during holiday period and engages in cultism, should the University also allow her/the guy in because it’s holiday period?

In CHARACTER and learning Oga. You sign up for that when you get into any higher institution. Your certificate reads, “considered worthy in character and learning..”

You young people should leave how to call white, white and black, black. It doesn’t kill.

Cultism causes bodily harm to another human. If she raped the boy, different issue. It was consensual sex as moral reprehensible as it might be , it is not a crime

Rumxy:


Maybe because our legal system is flawed. You know in saner climes, she would probably win because I still cannot see what school rule she disobeyed here looking at the circumstances. What happens to all d millions being spent so far by the parents so far to get her to that level. I am not trying to exonorate the girl for her stupidity but at the same time expelling her was too harsh on her. She is an adult and there are better ways to punish her since the act didn't happen within the school's jurisdiction.

so as a bini man if I go to osun state I am no longer bini,the girl represents the sch irrespective of where she is at a particular time

GeneralShepherd:


She was outside the bounds of the university laws at the time the event occurred. The Uni has no jurisdiction

u don't understand bro.... Lemme explain when you get admitted into higher institution, u will do what is called matriculation, u will be given a matric number, you will swear an oath to be a good ambassador of the school wherever you find yourself... If the girl won a noble prize outside the school she would still be addressed as a 300l backcock student sir and the school will be proud of her, the act she was involved in is nothing to be proud of in an African society.

GeneralShepherd:
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Cultism causes bodily harm to another human. If she raped the boy, different issue. It was consensual sex as moral reprehensible as it might be , it is not a crime

y not upload ur sex video online and see if u are given promotion in ur place of work since u know d law and u know how to sue

Rumxy:


Maybe because our legal system is flawed. You know in saner climes, she would probably win because I still cannot see what school rule she disobeyed here looking at the circumstances. What happens to all d millions being spent so far by the parents so far to get her to that level. I am not trying to exonorate the girl for her stupidity but at the same time expelling her was too harsh on her. She is an adult and there are better ways to punish her since the act didn't happen within the school's jurisdiction.

Do u really know what you are saying?

A student in one of the Ivy League Universities in the US made a professional porn to raise funds for her tuition, students stumbled on it, it went viral and they expelled her, she never returned or sued the University.

Do u guys talk because you want to say something or because you have something to say?

osazsky:
did u see d woman committing d act on national TV,or just some set of agrived people wanting to kill her ,two thieves died with jesus christ,one made heaven d other went to hell,y did jesus not forgive d other one,that A did it and got away with it doesn't mean that if B does it he will get away with it,these things happens everyday on campus and people got away with it this girl was d other thief that died with christ but didn't make heaven we know d VC ,lecturer do worst than this,the bottomline is dat don't get caught or video urself

Jesus forgive one because He repented and ask for forgiveness. Are you saying the girl did not repent? Was it a repeated offense? Getting caught on video or not should not be the moral compass a university will base it's action of practically destroying this girls future on.

osazsky:
so as a bini man if I go to osun state I am no longer bini,the girl represents the sch irrespective of where she is at a particular time

na wetin I dey try explain bdat oh