Martinez39:
Lol. He might have gone to the village to get a damsel. Many in the village look upon one from the city with mild awe. Some nasty men lie to their prospective in-laws that they are doing well in the city and then elope with the naive girl. There used to be a joke sometime ago about a man who, on being asked what he did for a living, told his in-laws he deals in Oil and Gas insinuating that he works in an oil company. When he took his bride to the city, she discovered that her husband sells kerosene and gas cylinders by the road side. It might be what is happening. There are many more reasons I could give.

logik29:
Nice write-up bro.

But there are times you don't get the greenlight but when you shoot your shot,she becomes the one that love most.

ubunja:
No Choosing Signals, No Approach.

THE COLD APPROACH.
We all have that mental image of an Alpha. That man who's able to go up and seduce any woman he desires without waiting for permission. He's supposed to be able to approach any female of any class, at any place, anytime, without fear. He has balls. After all he is Alpha.

Randomly approaching women on the street is called the COLD APPROACH.
The term is taken from something called Cold Calling, ".. A sales practice in which
individuals are contacted who have not previously expressed interest in a product or service. Cold calling is commonly used in telemarketing, and only produces maybe a 2% success rate for the most skilled professional.
Consumers tend to dislike cold calling... " (Source: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/c/coldcalling.asp)

If contacting random people who haven't expressed any interest in something you are selling seems like a mountain of work without any guarantee of success, IT IS a mountain of work without any guarantee of success. The same mountain of work without any guarantee of success that you take upon yourself when you randomly hit on girls on the street who haven't expressed any interest in you.

It's a numbers game.

Approach many women and a few of them will respond positively. There is even a theory: Ask 100 girls for sex and 1 will say yes. While the other 99 will reject you.

People who love the Cold Approach say it "toughens" you up and gets you used to female rejection. Admittedly, Approaching many girls and getting 1 to accept you may make you seem and appear brave and bring you pussy here and there.
But the real question is: Why approach many girls to get 1 girl who'll accept you when you can watch and study the body language of many girls THEN SIMPLY APPROACH THAT 1 GIRL LIKELY TO SAY YES?

Isn't it more sensible? More pleasant?

This writeup will defend and promote such an approach.

THE HOT APPROACH.
Let women show interest in you first before you approach them. That's the Hot Approach.

Don't approach 100 women to get only 1 to say Yes. Study 100 women and identify that 1 woman most likely to say Yes then approach only her.

That way there's less stress, less pain and less guesswork.

WOMEN CHOOSE, YOU APPROACH.
To be happy in life, a woman must love you more than you love her. Just as women themselves know, for them to be happy a man must love them more than they love the man.

Because in any relationship the one who loves LESS is the happiest, the most important and the Prize.

If you want to be happy as a man let women show they like you FIRST before approaching them. Why? Because every woman has a Sexual Imprint which determines what type of men turns her on, which is shaped primarily by her parents (in Virgins) and by her first sexual experience (in non Virgins). You can't guess a woman's Sexual Imprint and you risk going against it when you randomly approach women without checking for signs of interest also known as Green Lights, which are known internationally as Choosing Signals.

A woman who shows interest in you first is telling you that you are what turns her on. In one go she has solved the Sexual Imprint dilemma for you.

IN SUPPORT OF LETTING WOMEN CHOOSE.
Here are 3 radically different sources vouching for the Hot Approach. For letting women show interest in you first before you approach them.

Source 1: Robert Briffault & Briffault's law.

Robert Briffault, (French, 1874 – 1948) is known for what is called Briffault's law whose first sentence is:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family... "

In every species, humans included, all relationships happen with the approval, permission and go-ahead from, the female. Not the male. Even the male peacock, colorful as he is, only displays his feathers and the female CHOOSES him or rejects him.

Why did our forefathers fight with sticks infront of girls? To impress the girls so the girls would CHOOSE them. Being chosen has always been the name of the game for the males. Wait to be chosen before seducing any woman.

Source 2. Anton LaVey.
Jesus said be "Wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16)
By this Christ reveals to us that, generally, evil tends to be more worldly-wise than goodness. Evil men have "streetsmarts" that good men don't have.
And when He says, "For the children of this World are in their generation wiser than the children of Light" (Luke 16:8 ) He's stressing the same point. Evil is smarter than Goodness when it comes to the ways of this world.

Now let's talk about the wisdom of serpents and The cleverness of the Children of the World.

One of the foremost evil figures of our generation was Anton LaVey (American, 1930 - 1997).

You may have heard of a church called The Church of Satan, LaVey started it. You may have heard of something called the Satanic Bible, LaVey wrote it. You may have seen the symbol of a pentagram with a goat's head that has become synonymous with Satanism and Goth culture, although LaVey didn't design it, he's the one who made it trend. To top his service to Satan, LaVey wrote a book that has become the modus operandi for witches in their work of sexually manipulating men called The Satanic Witch.

But LaVey's most interesting work, in so far as this writeup is concerned, is a list of 11 commandments he created in the 1960s called The 11 Satanic Rules Of The Earth that Satanists live by: (https://www.learnreligions.com/satanic-rules-of-the-earth-95969) (or see picture below).

Now among those rules is a very curious rule set at the heart of the list at number 5 that solidifies and crystallizes the theme of this writeup: Satanic Rule number 5: "DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES UNLESS YOU ARE GIVEN THE MATING SIGNAL".

Here is a man whose work and ideas have started international movements and groups and inspired even pòrn stàrs to name themselves after him (adult actresses Scarlet LaVey, Lylith LaVey and Audrey LaVey), yet even he acknowledges and respects how the world of sex works. Namely that WOMEN HAVE TO CHOOSE YOU BEFORE YOU CAN APPROACH.

And women choose you by giving you Mating Signals also known as Choosing Signals also known as Green Lights. Without a Green Light given, even Satanists are commanded NOT to approach a woman sexually.

Source 3: How prostitutes choose Pîmps

In the hierarchy of the Mating Game, Nice Guys sit at the bottom of the pyramid. They are the bottom feeders eating everyone's left overs. Next up, are The Bad Boys. Above them are The Players. And right on top of the pyramid, on top of the food chain, above everyone else, sit The Pîmps. The Kings of the Game. The equivalent of the Lion king of the Jungle.

While at the bottom Nice Guys work to make money that they hand over to their women; at the top sit Pîmps who do the exact opposite: Women work to make the money that they handover to their Pîmp! Just like the Lion the King of the Jungle that lets the Lioness hunt but is himself first to eat.

The Pîmp and the Lion are one. They are kings.

Pîmps understand female nature like no other man on the face of the earth. They know what makes women tick at the most basic level. Even Players don't come close. It takes uncommon cunning and an unprecedented insight into female nature to convince a woman to sell her body and hand over all the money to you. When it's Gospel truth that women love money more than life itself.

What Pîmps do is a marvel.

Yet even Pîmps respect and acknowledge the truth presented in this writeup. Do you know how a Pîmp gets a Prostitute? You imagine it's like what those ignorant Social Workers and the Police say on TV? That prostitutes are forced to work under a Pîmp? That is not true.

Here is an excerpt from a Pîmp interview about how a pîmp really gets a prostitute:

"... a woman gets to choose any pîmp she wants. It's called choosing or re-choosing. If the woman finds a better pîmp than the one she has, she presents him with a wad of cash she's managed to withhold from the first pîmp, sort of like a dowry."

Source: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/127/transcript


"... a girl interested in finding a pîmp meets a pîmp interested in recruiting a girl. The process has a name -- "choosing" -- which indicates its volitional character. The pîmp places himself in a position to be discovered. His success comes from looking and acting like what he is."

Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1981/09/13/myths-about-the-hooker-love-vendor-relationshiop/d96bd862-2426-46eb-a090-d0edfd92054d/?utm_term=.d09720967dd0


You read that right. A prostitute sees a Pîmp that she likes and chooses him by giving him MONEY!!!! How about that for a Green Light! The man who has the utmost control over women, women Choose him and bring themselves to him, bringing him money. He doesn't chase them. He waits to be chosen.

History has only one Pîmp who attained legendary status; American pîmp Iceberg Slim (1918 –1992) whose moniker inspired those of Ice Cube and Ice T, and Nigeria's own Iceberg Slim.

Slim was considered the most cold hearted of all of the pîmps (hence the "Iceberg" moniker). He owned more than 400 prostitutes in his career. Here in his 1967 autobiography "Pîmp: Story of my Life", he narrates how he got his first proper prostitute just after leaving prison where he had learned the art of pîmping from the best of the best:

In chapter 4: "A degree in Pîmping" he narrates:

.....The sissy barkeep sat a fresh bottle of coke on the log before me. I yanked my eyebrows
into a question mark.
He lisped, “The runty black bitch in the middle of the bar sent you a taste.”
Without taking my eyes off his thin yellow face, I said, “Sugar, run her down to me. Is the bitch qualified? Is she a whôré? Does she have a man?”
The corners of his mouth see-sawed. He slugged his soggy, dirty bar rag against my reflection on the bat top. He almost whispered, “The bitch ain’t nothing but a young skunk from Saint Louis. She ain’t nothing but a jazzy jive Whôré. I’m more Whôré than
she is. She ain’t got no man. She’s a come freak She’s Georgied three bullshit pi.mps since she got here a month ago. If your game is strong you could play a hog outta her ass. She ain’t but eighteen.”
I eased a bone from my pocket, put it on the bar for the fresh coke. I frantically remembered those love-vendor rundowns in the joint. I said, “Tell the bitch no dice. I’ll take care of the little things, and if she is
qualified maybe I’ll let her take care of the big things. Give the bitch a drink
on me.... "

Fresh from jail, Slim is dressed like a Pîmp in a club when a young prostitute sends him a drink. He hadn't even SEEN the whôré when he started questioning the bartender about her. The girl saw him FIRST and made showed interest first. That's the game. Wait for the women to show interest first. Even Pîmps do it. Who are you not to??

THE TRUTH IN SUMMARY.
Women always choose. The Animal Kingdom knows it. Satanists know it. Pîmps know it. It's about time you knew it too. Don't let your Ego tell you otherwise.

women choose. That's how the Game goes. No matter how powerful you are. No matter how good you're with women. The rule applies to all men: Women have to choose you. Being Powerful and being Good with women makes it easier to be chosen. But still, you've to be chosen.

The reason why getting girls has been torturous for you is because you've been doing it all wrong. You've been forcing yourself on women. Women who had zero interest in you. That's why rejection has been a bîtch.

The few women you randomly approached with success emboldened you on the wrong path. A path that has ended with you now afraid to approach women on the street. That's why you sweat and tremble at the idea of talking to a pretty girl on the street.

signals. SIGNALS. SIGNALS
Women are very PICKY. 9 times out of 10 you're not what she's looking for. But even though picky not all women like the same thing and even the same woman doesn't like the same thing everytime. One day a rich woman will want to taste a broke dick. One day a white woman will wanna taste a black dick. One day a teenage girl will wanna taste a grown man's dick. One day a grown woman will wanna taste a teenage boy's dick. You cannot read the mind of women, even the Devil cannot read minds, but the women whose mind is on you will give you SIGNALS.

Your job is to look for these signals in the women you meet. Your eye must be ever be on alert. Be it in Church or Club. At the grocery shop or hospital. At a Wedding or Funeral. On the street or in the bus. Among beautiful women or among ugly women. Among young women among older women. You are to be in perpetual search mode.

WHAT DO YOU SEARCH FOR?
What exactly are Green Lights? Let's talk about that in another Miseducation.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

ubunja:
No Choosing Signals, No Approach.

THE COLD APPROACH.
We all have that mental image of an Alpha. That man who's able to go up and seduce any woman he desires without waiting for permission. He's supposed to be able to approach any female of any class, at any place, anytime, without fear. He has balls. After all he is Alpha.

Randomly approaching women on the street is called the COLD APPROACH.
The term is taken from something called Cold Calling, ".. A sales practice in which individuals are contacted who have not previously expressed interest in a product or service. Cold calling is commonly used in telemarketing, and only produces maybe a 2% success rate for the most skilled professional.
Consumers tend to dislike cold calling... " (Source: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/c/coldcalling.asp)

If contacting random people who haven't expressed any interest in something you are selling seems like a mountain of work without any guarantee of success, IT IS a mountain of work without any guarantee of success. The same mountain of work without any guarantee of success that you take upon yourself when you randomly hit on girls on the street who haven't expressed any interest in you.

It's a numbers game.

Approach many women and a few of them will respond positively. There is even a theory: Ask 100 girls for sex and 1 will say yes. While the other 99 will reject you.

People who love the Cold Approach say it "toughens" you up and gets you used to female rejection. Admittedly, Approaching many girls and getting 1 to accept you may make you seem and appear brave and bring you pussy here and there.
But the real question is: Why approach many girls to get 1 girl who'll accept you when you can watch and study the body language of many girls THEN SIMPLY APPROACH THAT 1 GIRL LIKELY TO SAY YES?

Isn't it more sensible? More pleasant?

This writeup will defend and promote such an approach.

THE HOT APPROACH.
Let women show interest in you first before you approach them. That's the Hot Approach.

Don't approach 100 women to get only 1 to say Yes. Study 100 women and identify that 1 woman most likely to say Yes then approach only her.

That way there's less stress, less pain and less guesswork.

WOMEN CHOOSE, YOU APPROACH.
To be happy in life, a woman must love you more than you love her. Just as women themselves know, for them to be happy a man must love them more than they love the man.

Because in any relationship the one who loves LESS is the happiest, the most important and the Prize.

If you want to be happy as a man let women show they like you FIRST before approaching them. Why? Because every woman has a Sexual Imprint which determines what type of men turns her on, which is shaped primarily by her parents (in Virgins) and by her first sexual experience (in non Virgins). You can't guess a woman's Sexual Imprint and you risk going against it when you randomly approach women without checking for signs of interest also known as Green Lights, which are known internationally as Choosing Signals.

A woman who shows interest in you first is telling you that you are what turns her on. In one go she has solved the Sexual Imprint dilemma for you.

IN SUPPORT OF LETTING WOMEN CHOOSE.
Here are 3 radically different sources vouching for the Hot Approach. For letting women show interest in you first before you approach them.

Source 1: Robert Briffault & Briffault's law.

Robert Briffault, (French, 1874 – 1948) is known for what is called Briffault's law whose first sentence is:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family... "

In every species, humans included, all relationships happen with the approval, permission and go-ahead from, the female. Not the male. Even the male peacock, colorful as he is, only displays his feathers and the female CHOOSES him or rejects him.

Why did our forefathers fight with sticks infront of girls? To impress the girls so the girls would CHOOSE them. Being chosen has always been the name of the game for the males. Wait to be chosen before seducing any woman.

Source 2. Anton LaVey.
Jesus said be "Wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16)
By this Christ reveals to us that, generally, evil tends to be more worldly-wise than goodness. Evil men have "streetsmarts" that good men don't have.
And when He says, "For the children of this World are in their generation wiser than the children of Light" (Luke 16:8 ) He's stressing the same point. Evil is smarter than Goodness when it comes to the ways of this world.

Now let's talk about the wisdom of serpents and The cleverness of the Children of the World.

One of the foremost evil figures of our generation was Anton LaVey (American, 1930 - 1997).

You may have heard of a church called The Church of Satan, LaVey started it. You may have heard of something called the Satanic Bible, LaVey wrote it. You may have seen the symbol of a pentagram with a goat's head that has become synonymous with Satanism and Goth culture, although LaVey didn't design it, he's the one who made it trend. To top his service to Satan, LaVey wrote a book that has become the modus operandi for witches in their work of sexually manipulating men called The Satanic Witch.

But LaVey's most interesting work, in so far as this writeup is concerned, is a list of 11 commandments he created in the 1960s called The 11 Satanic Rules Of The Earth that Satanists live by: (https://www.learnreligions.com/satanic-rules-of-the-earth-95969) (or see picture below).

Now among those rules is a very curious rule set at the heart of the list at number 5 that solidifies and crystallizes the theme of this writeup: Satanic Rule number 5: "DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES UNLESS YOU ARE GIVEN THE MATING SIGNAL".

Here is a man whose work and ideas have started international movements and groups and inspired even pòrn stàrs to name themselves after him (adult actresses Scarlet LaVey, Lylith LaVey and Audrey LaVey), yet even he acknowledges and respects how the world of sex works. Namely that WOMEN HAVE TO CHOOSE YOU BEFORE YOU CAN APPROACH.

And women choose you by giving you Mating Signals also known as Choosing Signals also known as Green Lights. Without a Green Light given, even Satanists are commanded NOT to approach a woman sexually.

Source 3: How prostitutes choose Pîmps

In the hierarchy of the Mating Game, Nice Guys sit at the bottom of the pyramid. They are the bottom feeders eating everyone's left overs. Next up, are The Bad Boys. Above them are The Players. And right on top of the pyramid, on top of the food chain, above everyone else, sit The Pîmps. The Kings of the Game. The equivalent of the Lion king of the Jungle.

While at the bottom Nice Guys work to make money that they hand over to their women; at the top sit Pîmps who do the exact opposite: Women work to make the money that they handover to their Pîmp! Just like the Lion the King of the Jungle that lets the Lioness hunt but is himself first to eat.

The Pîmp and the Lion are one. They are kings.

Pîmps understand female nature like no other man on the face of the earth. They know what makes women tick at the most basic level. Even Players don't come close. It takes uncommon cunning and an unprecedented insight into female nature to convince a woman to sell her body and hand over all the money to you. When it's Gospel truth that women love money more than life itself.

What Pîmps do is a marvel.

Yet even Pîmps respect and acknowledge the truth presented in this writeup. Do you know how a Pîmp gets a Prostitute? You imagine it's like what those ignorant Social Workers and the Police say on TV? That prostitutes are forced to work under a Pîmp? That is not true.

Here is an excerpt from a Pîmp interview about how a pîmp really gets a prostitute:

"... a woman gets to choose any pîmp she wants. It's called choosing or re-choosing. If the woman finds a better pîmp than the one she has, she presents him with a wad of cash she's managed to withhold from the first pîmp, sort of like a dowry."

Source: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/127/transcript


"... a girl interested in finding a pîmp meets a pîmp interested in recruiting a girl. The process has a name -- "choosing" -- which indicates its volitional character. The pîmp places himself in a position to be discovered. His success comes from looking and acting like what he is."

Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/opinions/1981/09/13/myths-about-the-hooker-love-vendor-relationshiop/d96bd862-2426-46eb-a090-d0edfd92054d/?utm_term=.d09720967dd0


You read that right. A prostitute sees a Pîmp that she likes and chooses him by giving him MONEY!!!! How about that for a Green Light! The man who has the utmost control over women, women Choose him and bring themselves to him, bringing him money. He doesn't chase them. He waits to be chosen.

History has only one Pîmp who attained legendary status; American pîmp Iceberg Slim (1918 –1992) whose moniker inspired those of Ice Cube and Ice T, and Nigeria's own Iceberg Slim.

Slim was considered the most cold hearted of all of the pîmps (hence the "Iceberg" moniker). He owned more than 400 prostitutes in his career. Here in his 1967 autobiography "Pîmp: Story of my Life", he narrates how he got his first proper prostitute just after leaving prison where he had learned the art of pîmping from the best of the best:

In chapter 4: "A degree in Pîmping" he narrates:

.....The sissy barkeep sat a fresh bottle of coke on the log before me. I yanked my eyebrows
into a question mark.
He lisped, “The runty black bitch in the middle of the bar sent you a taste.”
Without taking my eyes off his thin yellow face, I said, “Sugar, run her down to me. Is the bitch qualified? Is she a whôré? Does she have a man?”
The corners of his mouth see-sawed. He slugged his soggy, dirty bar rag against my reflection on the bat top. He almost whispered, “The bitch ain’t nothing but a young skunk from Saint Louis. She ain’t nothing but a jazzy jive Whôré. I’m more Whôré than
she is. She ain’t got no man. She’s a come freak She’s Georgied three bullshit pi.mps since she got here a month ago. If your game is strong you could play a hog outta her ass. She ain’t but eighteen.”
I eased a bone from my pocket, put it on the bar for the fresh coke. I frantically remembered those love-vendor rundowns in the joint. I said, “Tell the bitch no dice. I’ll take care of the little things, and if she is
qualified maybe I’ll let her take care of the big things. Give the bitch a drink on me.... "

Fresh from jail, Slim is dressed like a Pîmp in a club when a young prostitute sends him a drink. He hadn't even SEEN the whôré when he started questioning the bartender about her. The girl saw him FIRST and made showed interest first. That's the game. Wait for the women to show interest first. Even Pîmps do it. Who are you not to??

THE TRUTH IN SUMMARY.
Women always choose. The Animal Kingdom knows it. Satanists know it. Pîmps know it. It's about time you knew it too. Don't let your Ego tell you otherwise.

women choose. That's how the Game goes. No matter how powerful you are. No matter how good you're with women. The rule applies to all men: Women have to choose you. Being Powerful and being Good with women makes it easier to be chosen. But still, you've to be chosen.

The reason why getting girls has been torturous for you is because you've been doing it all wrong. You've been forcing yourself on women. Women who had zero interest in you. That's why rejection has been a bîtch.

The few women you randomly approached with success emboldened you on the wrong path. A path that has ended with you now afraid to approach women on the street. That's why you sweat and tremble at the idea of talking to a pretty girl on the street.

signals. SIGNALS. SIGNALS
Women are very PICKY. 9 times out of 10 you're not what she's looking for. But even though picky not all women like the same thing and even the same woman doesn't like the same thing everytime. One day a rich woman will want to taste a broke dick. One day a white woman will wanna taste a black dick. One day a teenage girl will wanna taste a grown man's dick. One day a grown woman will wanna taste a teenage boy's dick. You cannot read the mind of women, even the Devil cannot read minds, but the women whose mind is on you will give you SIGNALS.

Your job is to look for these signals in the women you meet. Your eye must be ever be on alert. Be it in Church or Club. At the grocery shop or hospital. At a Wedding or Funeral. On the street or in the bus. Among beautiful women or among ugly women. Among young women among older women. You are to be in perpetual search mode.

WHAT DO YOU SEARCH FOR?
What exactly are Green Lights? Let's talk about that in another Miseducation.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

MrPENIS:
Awaiting yr miseducation on " how to know a gal greenLight" much love

Ogaonos:
all dis ur theory na zero it doesn't knw like DT in Nigeria unless u cute like j cole.for a Nigeria lady to shw green light b4 u approach u got to be either a bread soft guy.or tall fair soft cute Nd young.or u get mulla (no thank to yahoo Bois).

ubunja:
plenty. What makes a pussy wet is a man's good body. Not a pretty face. Women don't masturbate to pretty faces but to good bodies. Hit the gym. Get that six pack and those abs.

Also be clean.

Goalnaldo:
Few weeks ago I was reminscing about a girl I met recently, then out of the blues this thoughts came. NO GREEN LIGHTS NO ASKING OUT!

smiliyB:
Am I the only one not interested in this six pack stuff ...like I prefer a kind man with good heart.

smiliyB:
then you will wait tire... Not all ladies are good with that green whatever

smiliyB:
then you will wait tire... Not all ladies are good with that green whatever

Goalnaldo:
if you are beautiful and rich, I can give you a chance

ubunja:
it's not that women have to be good at it. Green Lights simply mean "a lady giving hints she's interested". Now these hints are conscious as well as subconscious. Some hints a lady is giving knowingly others without even knowing she's giving.

Eg when a girl likes a guy and they're passing each other she looks down as if shy. Now a lady can do that by intent, but usually it's a subconscious thing like how as people when we see a person pick their nose, we also pick our own and check it out to make sure everything is okay in there. Subconscious stuff. Same with a lot of green lights. No training needed.

smiliyB:
Hmmmm your write ups are kinda interesting, I won't lie. The last article for women is the bomb your fellow guys just dey para anyhow ...No wonder those ladies I(we) think they're gold digging when I was growing up later married the dope men while the "good girls" some are not even married or marry anyhow guys. Abeg make una lemme ooo Local woman is tired

Youngzedd:
Good day brother ubunja, what's your take on the below.

The rules are good to talk about, but obeying them sometimes is where the issue arises.

Where it gets tougher are on the things you bypassed or moved on with before you get to know about the rules.

The big question is, should I apply the rules which will get someone's heart broken or apply them in current situations and let the past remain in the past?


Whisper: I once put up with a girlfriend's Sh1t before knowing the rules.

WHAT DO YOU SEARCH FOR? What exactly are green lights? Let's find out in another miseducation

Adeniyi33:


Sir ubunja , what's are the greenlights before you approach a strange girl, and what are the greenlight before making a move to girl when both of you are together in a room. Thanks!

doczero:
Nice write up Ubunja. It also implies that you can be unchosen also at any time the woman decides. How do you make sure that you are not easily unchosen at will.

Good work ubunja pls advice me there was these Girl in my street that always give me greenlight we use to make eye contact so I decide to approach so when i approached we started gisting to the extends that she start to laught so i requested for her phone number and she denied me by saying she doesn't have a phone while I can see a phone on her arms so I end the conversion and told her goodbye
till that they I don't talk to her while she kept looking at me idont know if she is forming HARD TO GET
should I approach her again or move on thanks

Good work ubunja pls advice me there was these Girl in my street that always give me greenlight we use to make eye contact so I decide to approach so when i approached we started gisting to the extends that she start to laught so i requested for her phone number and she denied me by saying she doesn't have a phone while I can see a phone on her arms so I end the conversion and told her goodbye
till that they I don't talk to her while she kept looking at me idont know if she is forming HARD TO GET
should I approach her again or move on thanks

Adeniyi33:
I read in one of your posts that we should always start with 'friend with benefits' with girl. Please if someone do that, is he not risking of being put in the friendzone by the girl? Pls How can someone start from initial meeting to intimacy by passing friendship route. Kindly illuminate this.

There is a girl in our compound that like me and want me to be her boyfriend which I don't want to (i know by this the way she talk and act around me). On day I tried to make a sezxual move but she resisted. I sense she don't want to bleep with me, maybe she would if I ask for relationship. Can I lie that I want a relationship to get what I want and how should I handle this situation?

Uncle ubunja , kindly share wisdom on this.

It seems you don't answer WhatsApp message. Do you have mail or any other means if someone one to ask private question like this. Thanks!