Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quietly looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

Nice write-up op....
But what message are you trying to pass?..I'm not understanding

proudevil:
Nice write-up op....
But what message are you trying to pass?..I'm not understanding

The truth no one tells you before marrying a Lady or a man in their 30's.

Why that is a terrible choice for men and women too.

@Op, for better write up next time, say from your personal opinion. It's not generic!!!

danny56:
@Op, for better write up next time, say from your personal opinion. It's not generic!!!

Ok noted. Will do that next time.

You are just running around a tree believing that you are passing a vital message to people whom the secret of your message was hidden from.

so, as all singles 30 and above are promiscuous huh

danny56:
@Op, for better write up next time, say from your personal opinion. It's not generic!!!

Bless you. I don’t agree with the op one bit. All he wrote up there has nothing to do with age.

Funny thing is that, Op may get married in his 40s, and he may have a single cousin or sister in her 30s, or his future promiscuous daughter may marry in her late 30s, cos I dont understand how one human being can spill a truckload of rubbish.

The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

I'm sorry op, this write up is marred with lies and misinformation.

For better write-ups, dial *234#
You can also dial *230# for better punctuation.

Jeezuzpick:
The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.

Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.

Some nairalanders are mentally challenged.

This your write up will win the most useless write up in NL for the next 5 consecutive yrs.Congratulations.

d truth is dat ppl are now so corrupt and spoilt fro teenage yrs with few or nobody to tell them. sexual promiscuity is just too much...IThe op mentioned 30 as a late age for marriage, but here in hausaland many ppl or most would never marry a lady 25 and above,but even that is not fool proof, cos many of their teenage girls are now getting bad because of numerous senseless and immoral datings n hookup/hawking. what I hate d most is to see ladies who have been sleeping wit rich elderly men to come down and hook up young promising men for marriage. How can dat kind of marriage last and what respect/admiration/blessing can men married to these sluts get?

Quality20:
d truth is dat ppl are now so corrupt and spoilt fro teenage yrs with few or nobody to tell them. sexual promiscuity is just too much...IThe op mentioned 30 as a late age for marriage, but here in hausaland many ppl or most would never marry a lady 25 and above,but even that is not fool proof, cos many of their teenage girls are now getting bad because of numerous senseless and immoral datings n hookup/hawking. what I hate d most is to see ladies who have been sleeping wit rich elderly men to come down and hook up young promising men for marriage. How can dat kind of marriage last and what respect/admiration/blessing can men married to these sluts get?

Women who have been divorced 3 times still marry in Hausaland. I know many examples of women who are advanced in age still getting married albeit as 2nd, 3rd or 4th wives. I still know young ones who are still not 1st wives.
Getting married is one of the easiest things for women in the North, if they want to.

MrMacinterchi1:
You are just running around a tree believing that you are passing a vital message to people whom the secret of your message was hidden from.

so, as all singles 30 and above are promiscuous huh

I used the word MOST (husband, wife, ladies,men), meaning there are exceptions. But it seems your and some few people 's reading comprehension is messed up.

Learn to read Oga.

Fountainofyouth:
Funny thing is that, Op may get married in his 40s, and he may have a single cousin or sister in her 30s, or his future promiscuous daughter may marry in her late 30s, cos I dont understand how one human being can spill a truckload of rubbish.

Hmm commenting based on emotions and trying to use a shaming language doesn't get message accross.

You.read it and felt I insulted you or siblings indirectly. Once I read comments like yours I know you or your sibling might have done or experience the things I stated clearly above.

That is why you see this as load of trash. If that is the case please make sure one of your brother marry that one of your promiscuous female friends at age 30 and above.

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Jeezuzpick:
The OP is assuming everyone sleeps around.
I married in my 30s and I was a virgin.
My wife had a child, but so what? I loved her, and still do, even with kids among whom are now in secondary school!
That's my experience, and it goes to show you how wrong you are, unless you're trying to say marriages between couples over 30 are ALL based on lies and doomed from the start.
There are couples who married in their 20s and are divorced today, so....what exactly are you trying to say here?

You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

respect80:
I'm sorry op, this write up is marred with lies and misinformation.

For better write-ups, dial *234#
You can also dial *230# for better punctuation.

Ok I am happy you read it though. So that when you marry one of those ladies (not all), who you and your friends knew her slutty life in her prime years (16 - 30yrs) . Then she now uses you or your folks as a retirement plan claiming she is virtuous and holy. Probably you will meet her at church (Shiloh service). Few years down the line when eyes done clear, you will comeback to this message and reread it again.

Best of luck.

Fisher007:


Hmm commenting based on emotions and trying to use a shaming language doesn't get message accross.

You.read it and felt I insulted you or siblings indirectly. Once I read comments like yours I know you or your sibling might have done or experience the things I stated clearly above.

That is why you see this as load of trash. If that is the case please make sure one of your brother marry that one of your promiscuous female friends at age 30 and above.

.

The fact that you, a grown ass man with a thinking faculty, can assume that, females above 30 were once automatically promiscuous speaks volumes at your level of education, reason why I said those things to you, so it hurts right? Good, the fact that ladies of age 30 are promiscuous where you are doesnt mean all of them are like that, next time, do not generalise,

And FYI, my brother married a 31 year old virgin, so get sense, even if it's a little.

I see sm girls attacking op now, they might come for him at night. Awon aye o...
The truth can be bitter most times.though the op was nt totally correct sha

Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.

My dear are you sure this is dumb as fvck? Seriously ask yourself that question. It.seems you think i generalised all ladies. I said MOST.

Well am sure you have lots of female friends who you knew in their early age ba? Which ones would you proudly introduce to your male siblings to marry after age 30?

Are you sure most didn't exhibit any or all of what I mentioned above?

If so then am wrong. But be truthful and sincere to yourself when you answer those questions above

When I opened the thread, I was mad at op. But seeing the comments I feel sorry for him.

Hubsolar:


Some nairalanders are mentally challenged.

Some nairalanders are in Blissful ignorance. That is why the forum is here to put them out of it.

Op, at least try to have respect for your readers. First, you are not passing any message with your write-up, Nollywood must have filled your head with this stuff.

Next time, you back your points with study, e.g "According to a study at the Oxford University, men/women over the age of 30..............". It provides more credibility.

Secondly, take a few minutes to proofread your content before publishing. It can't be hard. From the first paragraph, I was already spotting some unforgivable grammatical errors. Let's be guided.

JONNYSPUTE:
This your write up will win the most useless write up in NL for the next 5 consecutive yrs.Congratulations.

I always like your type my brother, it.reminds me of my white knighting days.

But time will tell. I just pray the shinny amor drops in your early days before the age of 55yrs. If not, you are in for a long while on the plantation.

Thank you for the award of useless write up. You will surely comeback to reread this when the shinny knigts fall. You will laugh at your own comment and be like damn, I was so blissful in abject ignorance.

Fisher007:


Some nairalanders are in Blissful ignorance. That is why the forum is here to put them out of it.

Ironic you should say this

Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

You are so stupid it's unbelievable, a man, being a virgin, should not marry a non virgin woman but a virgin woman should marry a promiscuous, empty headed man who has diicked his destiny away right? Your stupid brain thinks pussy makes a marriage work abi? How old are you sef?

Fisher007:


I always like your type my brother, it.reminds me of my white knighting days.

But time will tell. I just pray the shinny amor drops in your early days before the age of 55yrs. If not, you are in for a long while on the plantation.

Thank you for the award of useless write up. You will surely comeback to reread this when the shinny knigts fall. You will laugh at your own comment and be like damn, I was so blissful in abject ignorance.

.. The joke is on you bro .I'm already married with two kids.Once again. Congrats on your award.

I'm copying this and archiving it somewhere.

Am I permitted Fisher007?

Fisher007:


Some nairalanders are in Blissful ignorance. That is why the forum is here to put them out of it.

God have mercy, see who is calling someone blissful ignorance, dead

AlwaysConfused:
Op, at least try to have respect for your readers. First, you are not passing any message with your write-up, Nollywood must have filled your head with this stuff.

Next time, you back your points with study, e.g "According to a study at the Oxford University, men/women over the age of 30..............". It provides more credibility.

Secondly, take a few minutes to proofread your content before publishing. It can't be hard. From the first paragraph, I was already spotting some unforgivable grammatical errors. Let's be guided.

Ok I have to proofread and make corrections.

I will add the surveys and claim to my point then.

Thanks for the advice.