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I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:08pm On Aug 17, 2019
I will make it as short as possible. I’ve been dating this girl for some months now. She came to my house last week Sunday, we kept gisting and all that. At a time I went inside to get a drink for us (Baileys). I poured in two glass cups, dropped the bottle inside, came to the parlour and gave her a glass. That’s when the problem started.

Like play like play this girl insisted I taste from the drink I poured her before drinking. I laughed about it and waved it off, we kept talking. After sometime I noticed she hadn’t touched her drink. I asked her why she’s not drinking, she rather kept insisting that I must taste from her drink before she would drink, probably because she wasn’t there when I poured in the drinks. This is someone I call my girlfriend o. At this point I got infuriated. The more I urged her to drink the more she kept seriously refusing.

You need to see how this girl always frantically and suspiciously searches for her pant with all seriousness whenever we finish lovemaking only to find it at some place she kept it.

I kicked her out of my house. I can’t be with such suspicious human being

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Durhleepee(f): 6:11pm On Aug 17, 2019
Lol. Are you a yahoo boy?

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Jayslicky: 6:13pm On Aug 17, 2019
Maybe you're a yahoo boy, she won't want to be used.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:14pm On Aug 17, 2019
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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by sinaj(f): 6:15pm On Aug 17, 2019
Why will you urge her to drink without tasting it when you not Kanayo O. Kanayo

She did well by choosing her instinct over you jarey!

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:16pm On Aug 17, 2019
Durhleepee:
Lol. Are you a yahoo boy?
Jayslicky:
Maybe you're a yahoo boy, she wouldn't want to be used.
Nobe human being de date yahoo boy?

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:16pm On Aug 17, 2019
Yes you over-reacted.

For a relationship to work out, trust is key. I wonder how she even started dating you without that element of trust.


Trust is the biggest element of seduction.

You should have poured the drink in front of her.

Don't lose a good girl because of something minor. Call her and make up with her.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:18pm On Aug 17, 2019
sinaj:
Why will you urge her to drink without tasting it when you not Kanayo O. Kanayo

She did well by choosing her instinct over you jarey!
So you can do same to your boyfriend? You mean you don’t trust your bf to the extent of accepting drinks from him?

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:20pm On Aug 17, 2019
xxxtedyxxx:
Yes you over-reacted.

For a relationship to work out, trust is key. I wonder how she even started dating you without that element of trust.


Trust is the biggest element of seduction.

You should have poured the drink in front of her.

Don't lose a good girl because of something minor. Call her and make up with her.
She’s the one with trust issues. Not me. My mind is as clean as a two year old’s.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by MJBOLT: 6:23pm On Aug 17, 2019
the fact your GF suspiciously searches for her pants in your house means that you are a potential ritualist.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Durhleepee(f): 6:23pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

Nobe human being de date yahoo boy?
Lol, you've confirmed my suspicion. Your babe issa smart one, she wants to chop but doesn't want to be chopped. grin

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by DanDeeBoss: 6:25pm On Aug 17, 2019
MJBOLT:
the fact your GF suspiciously searches for her pants in your house means that you are a potential ritualist.
gringrin

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Cocotrendz(m): 6:26pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

She’s the one with trust issues. Not me. My mind is as clean as a two year old’s.
You overreacted. It's not like she doesn't trust you. Things happen these days, rape here, rape there..... Girls being used for ritual purposes and all that stuff. She was scared. Apologize to her and next time, please pour the drink in front of her.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:34pm On Aug 17, 2019
Cocotrendz:

You overreacted. It's not like she doesn't trust you. Things happen these days, rape here, rape there..... Girls being used for ritual purposes and all that stuff. She was scared. Apologize to her and next time, please pour the drink in front of her.
Hmmm is this how a relationship should be? Talk true bros
Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Headlesschicken(m): 6:35pm On Aug 17, 2019
undecided Dumb Motherphucka.... SMH..

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:35pm On Aug 17, 2019
Durhleepee:


Lol, you've confirmed my suspicion.
Your babe issa smart one, she wants to chop but doesn't want to be chopped. grin
What confirmation? I neva said I’m a yahoo boy o
Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Horlaidex(m): 6:41pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

Did your girlfriend’s name start with V?
Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:43pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

You need to see how this girl always seriously and suspiciously searches for her pant whenever we finish lovemaking only to find it at some place she kept it.

I kicked her out of my house. I can’t be with such suspicious human being


CASTED COUNTRY.


WOMEN NOWADAYS ATTEMPT TO WASH OFF BLOOD-STAINED SANITARY PADS BEFORE DUMPING IT IN THE BIN.

I'VE SEEN PATIENTS INSIST ON LEAVING THE HOSPITAL WITH THE COTTON WOOLS USED IN CLEANING THEIR BLOOD OR URINE.

AND WE SAY WE'RE MODERN PEOPLE.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by victorian(f): 6:47pm On Aug 17, 2019
Horlaidex:


Did your girlfriend’s name start with V?






Lol




Anyways op, next time pour the drink Infront of her, not inside your room.

Be transparent for God sakes, terrible things are happening these days, through people we seemingly trust. I don't blame her.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:47pm On Aug 17, 2019
I no fit laugh oo. The babe no trust you one bit. I don't think she sees you as her bf, you for sip small from it.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by fcdgrand(m): 6:53pm On Aug 17, 2019
guy as long as your mind is free from any evil intention, don't take that girl back!

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:54pm On Aug 17, 2019
Horlaidex:


Did your girlfriend’s name start with V?
No! Why?
Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 6:55pm On Aug 17, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:



CASTED COUNTRY.


WOMEN NOWADAYS ATTEMPT TO WASH OFF BLOOD-STAINED SANITARY PADS BEFORE DUMPING IT IN THE BIN.

I'VE SEEN PATIENTS INSIST ON LEAVING THE HOSPITAL WITH THE COTTON WOOLS USED IN CLEANING THEIR BLOOD OR URINE.

AND WE SAY WE'RE MODERN PEOPLE.
Nigerians still got a long way to go.
Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:


You need to see how this girl always seriously and suspiciously searches for her pant whenever we finish lovemaking only to find it at some place she kept it.

I kicked her out of my house. I can’t be with such suspicious human being
Your ways are not pure and it's evident in your narrative, while the girl on the other hand is stupid. How do you continue dating someone you can't trust with your life? It's either she was dating you for what you had to offer and not for love. In a place of love, there's trust, and trust comes in getting to know the person you're dealing with is upright. No one is perfect, but there are things I shouldn't see in a relationship.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by GuestLog: 6:56pm On Aug 17, 2019
You don't have a girlfriend yet. This your visitor is not your girlfriend yet and it's your fault. She must have her reasons for suspecting you, either your lifestyle, friends or something you must've said and I blame you for however she sees you.

You have to apologize to that girl and know that she did the right thing. Who knows, she or a close acquaintance may have been a victim of rape or abuse in the past. You need to be sensitive and stop thinking too much about yourself.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Horlaidex(m): 7:01pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

No! Why?

I dated a girl like that,
The first day she came visiting, I brought a sealed yoghurt from the fridge, broke the seal in front of her and poured for both of us, served it with fried meat. She insisted she won’t drink if I don’t drink from her cup first and same thing with the meat.

She didn’t wear pant the second time she visited with an excuse that she don’t wear pant when visiting a guy lol cos of those pant/Benz level. Na so I weak

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by godofuck231: 7:05pm On Aug 17, 2019
Why pour her a drink behind her, she's not your girl she's a close friend, no woman walks into a relationship with closed eyes, even if it's a sexual relationship she has to weigh the odds especially now thatost girls are walking corpses due to g boys using their destinies for money making rituals, if the drink wasn't spiked the beat and most assuring thing to do is to taste it, and let her feel safe, the confidence builds till she can close her eyes and jump from a building into ur arms and trust you to save her

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by ericsmith: 7:11pm On Aug 17, 2019
valicious1:

Hmmm is this how a relationship should be? Talk true bros


IF she does not trust you ... its ur mode of acting, besides its not even good to pour people drink behind there back. stop questioning are trust rather do things that will embrass her to wana trust you.

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by MJBOLT: 7:12pm On Aug 17, 2019
Horlaidex:


I dated a girl like that,
The first day she came visiting, I brought a sealed yoghurt from the fridge, broke the seal in front of her and poured for both of us, served it with fried meat. She insisted she won’t drink if I don’t drink from her cup first and same thing with the meat.

She didn’t wear pant the second time she visited with an excuse that she don’t wear pant when visiting a guy lol cos of those pant/Benz level. Na so I weak

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by BlueAir: 7:29pm On Aug 17, 2019
On a sane clime , she wasrude to have asked u to drink out before her...shows shes not to be credited much in the relationship. ..since the world is 70% crazy u could have tasted it to prove urself right and her wrong..then warn her not to insult u and the relationship again or its over...


Im not against u kicking her out since u gat feelings and credit for the relationship either. .u are still within ur right.i just pointed out what u could do first next time

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by Okoroawusa: 7:48pm On Aug 17, 2019
I don't believe this story but you sha want us to discuss something...

Oya...we are discussing it

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Re: I Kicked out My Girl Because Of This Reason. Did I Overreact? by valicious1(m): 8:01pm On Aug 17, 2019
Horlaidex:


I dated a girl like that,
The first day she came visiting, I brought a sealed yoghurt from the fridge, broke the seal in front of her and poured for both of us, served it with fried meat. She insisted she won’t drink if I don’t drink from her cup first and same thing with the meat.

She didn’t wear pant the second time she visited with an excuse that she don’t wear pant when visiting a guy lol cos of those pant/Benz level. Na so I weak
Can you imagine. Seems that’s what is in vogue for them nowadays.

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