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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 9:12am On Nov 22, 2019
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Fisher007:



We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

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You should be arrested for assaulting our senses with your stvpidity. angry angry

How Lmao

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fisher007: 9:14am On Nov 22, 2019
MrHistorian:
I'm copying this and archiving it somewhere.

Am I permitted Fisher007?

Yes Sir, you are free to do that wink

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 9:14am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


Aunty lets be logical and not emotional. You want to tell me you didn't have female or male friends that exhibited any or most of the above point in that write up. Haba shocked undecided

Be truthful to yourself at times. For me I had friends who did and would not lie. But that won't make me biased when valued points are stated.

Simple.

Then speak for your friends and people around you, stop generalising.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fisher007: 9:17am On Nov 22, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. The joke is on you bro .I'm already married with two kids.Once again. Congrats on your award.

That even makes it worst for you. But who am I to help you. When it hits you aaa. I hope you won't come and rants like older men here do on nairaland.

Well we will gladly comment, accept and welcome you back sha grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fisher007: 9:18am On Nov 22, 2019
SBL28:


Then speak for your friends and people around you, stop generalising.

Ok Madam righteous and virtuous . Thanks my attention for you too is over.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:19am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


That even makes it worst for you. But who am I to help you. When it hits you aaa. I hope you won't come and rants like older men here do on nairaland.

Well we will gladly comment, accept and welcome you back sha grin
..I don't talk much,I act.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by trilobite: 9:20am On Nov 22, 2019
I used to be like the op. Equating sexual experience to marital happiness, till I spent time with a couple that is not happily married and realized there are more important partner qualities than how many sexual partners your partner had.

Retired oloshos can Bond and love their husbands provided he can teach them to love again. Unhappy marriages are built on pretence, with either man or woman not willing to move on from past hurt.

Oloshos or players who can heal from their psychological scars can make awesome partners in my opinion.

In any case (experienced or inexperienced) the best quality is an ability to love, and a capacity for love. That is what will take you till your later years, when sex is no longer important.
The focus on sex has led and will continue to lead people to their Doom, learn to remove it from your marital equation.

OP, do like me, go on a psychological experiment and spend time with couples not happy in their marriages. The lessons will help your maturity.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by MrCork: 9:27am On Nov 22, 2019
Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.


angry
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by MrCork: 9:28am On Nov 22, 2019
Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.


^^^^ old cargo is UPSET!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by MrCork: 9:30am On Nov 22, 2019
Hisduchess:

The guy is dumb as fvck. Making an assumption look like the truth.age has nothing to do with promiscuity,it's more about decision. op needs some little money so as to buy brain cos he has none.


...Hisduchess...u berrra start looking yor age by drinking *fresh cow milk*!! ( old cargo Hisduchess ) grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by SpencerM(m): 9:34am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


The fact that you, a grown ass man with a thinking faculty, can assume that, females above 30 were once automatically promiscuous speaks volumes at your level of education, reason why I said those things to you, so it hurts right? Good, the fact that ladies of age 30 are promiscuous where you are doesnt mean all of them are like that, next time, do not generalise,

And FYI, my brother married a 31 year old virgin, so get sense, even if it's a little.

Something just made me laugh here

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 22, 2019
MrCork:



^^^^ old cargo is UPSET!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I don't want to laugh! Hisduchess, I'm sorry babe... grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by sainttwist1(m): 9:56am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


I am aware Oga. But at times you have to cut the disney world fantasies and bring brothers and sisters to the deep reality. The true deep ones no one wants to talk about.
most of the comments i think are from the age bracket you mentioned....what you are saying in most cases is the truth but according to the popular saying "the truth is bitter".......and try not to be aggressive to your reader, please

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Sleevia: 10:04am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


The truth hurts. Welcome to the rage mode, you will pass it over time and learn to accept the truth.

It has nothing to do with over population. Dont deviate from the subject matter. Embrace the truth and reality. Simple.

How old are you? Are you still in school or out of school?

Nobody who knows the reality of life will wake up and put that nonsense you have there.

Your reasoning is as small as pea.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Sleevia: 10:07am On Nov 22, 2019
sainttwist1:
most of the comments i think are from the age bracket you mentioned....what you are saying in most cases is the truth but according to the popular saying "the truth is bitter".......and try not to be aggressive to your reader, please
I have met a guy on this forum who is 23 and if I mention him here, he will laugh at the OP. Going through the 23 year Olds post on nairaland, you will think he is 45.


Life is more than these things you guys are disturbing your brain with.

We are at time when if care is not taken, you might be homeless in next 72 hours but you are not bothered about that, except for what others chose to make off their own life?

The kind of people I share a country with though.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by revolt(m): 10:10am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed lipsrsealed grin
so you really believe that was a guy that typed that. Mtchweee... dont u know these feminists are trying to mke the world believe single mothers are bae.... lool

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by revolt(m): 10:11am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


The fact that you, a grown ass man with a thinking faculty, can assume that, females above 30 were once automatically promiscuous speaks volumes at your level of education, reason why I said those things to you, so it hurts right? Good, the fact that ladies of age 30 are promiscuous where you are doesnt mean all of them are like that, next time, do not generalise,

And FYI, my brother married a 31 year old virgin, so get sense, even if it's a little.
you went into her p..zzy to check she was a virgin right? Looooollll

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by revolt(m): 10:19am On Nov 22, 2019
MrHistorian:

You married a single mother (not a widow) as a virgin??

OMG!!!
so u believe that's a man typing that? Wake up.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:19am On Nov 22, 2019
revolt:
you went into her p..zzy to check she was a virgin right? Looooollll

So my brother will lie to me right? Or he cannot differentiate between virgins and non virgin abi? What is wrong with you? What happened to your thinking faculty? Tell me...

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



You are so stupid it's unbelievable, a man, being a virgin, should not marry a non virgin woman but a virgin woman should marry a promiscuous, empty headed man who has diicked his destiny away right? Your stupid brain thinks pussy makes a marriage work abi? How old are you sef?

Are you even above 30 , abi u jus carry matter for head on behalf of ur aunties grin grin cool dwn jor

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:24am On Nov 22, 2019
anslem04:


Are you even above 30 , abi u jus carry matter for head on behalf of ur aunties grin grin cool dwn jor


I wont grin

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


So my brother will lie to me right? Or he cannot differentiate between virgins and non virgin abi? What is wrong with you? What happened to your thinking faculty? Tell me...

If father/mothers could lie to there child ,so what could possibly stop ur brother from lie-in to you ...he could av lied to boost her pride b4 you n other amebo that want to knw what does not concern dem. the way u brag about her now.is what he wanted. except ur broda no b human being then we can rule out possibility of lies.ok

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:35am On Nov 22, 2019
anslem04:


If father/mothers could lie to there child ,so what could possibly stop ur brother from lie-in to you ...he could av lied to boost her pride b4 you n other amebo that want to knw what does not concern dem. the way u brag about her now.is what he wanted. except ur broda no b human being then we can rule out possibility of lies.ok


You all like assuming things here and it's pathetic really, why are y'all hell bent on having the impression that my brother lied to me? Why? Are y'all mentality so warped that it is difficult to accept the fact that there are virgin ladies in their 30s out there? Who damaged you like this? SMH!!!

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by sainttwist1(m): 10:37am On Nov 22, 2019
Sleevia:
I have met a guy on this forum who is 23 and if I mention him here, he will laugh at the OP. Going through the 23 year Olds post on nairaland, you will think he is 45.


Life is more than these things you guys are disturbing your brain with.

We are at time when if care is not taken, you might be homeless in next 72 hours but you are not bothered about that, except for what others chose to make off their own life?

The kind of people I share a country with though.
because life is complicated does not mean we should not talk about some things

We cant base everything we do around money etc.....What about our morals?...….the op is just trying to discuss what is happening in the society that we all refuse to talk about......and we are all entitled to our own opinions....
And you are in a country with more than 170million people

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Jgoldie: 11:06am On Nov 22, 2019
Even if you marry a girl of 18yrs

She will go through the hoe phase right under your nose and resent you that you trapped her in marriage when she was young....

Marry someone you love regardless of their age.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Firstorderwizard(m): 11:13am On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:


You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed lipsrsealed grin

Seriously I pity that dude. The wife caged her with p**sy. When a hoe meets a virgin, sense flies out of the window.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by willarrie(m): 11:14am On Nov 22, 2019
Hasty generalization is an informal fallacy of faulty generalization by reaching an inductive generalization based on insufficient evidence—essentially making a rushed conclusion without considering all of the variables.
Oga....Change your circle.
Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Firstorderwizard(m): 11:15am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



And what is wrong with that?

Na them

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 22, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



You all like assuming things here and it's pathetic really, why are y'all hell bent on having the impression that my brother lied to me? Why? Are y'all mentality so warped that it is difficult to accept the fact that there are virgin ladies in their 30s out there? Who damaged you like this? SMH!!!



That humans can lie is not an assumption, neither does it mean we are pathetic ... its just d truth synonymous to a fact. if virginity is by oral test infact my grandma is a virgin.
your broda could be sayin d truth or could also av lied bottomline is believe 100% was yu confirmed or verified ursef. every nigerian dad by mouth av best results, i was d best in my class bullshit buh they hide there result inside vault with padlocks, fingerprint, dna resistance & eye scan. be rational in reasoning, any human can lie.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Sleevia: 11:17am On Nov 22, 2019
sainttwist1:
because life is complicated does not mean we should not talk about some things

We cant base everything we do around money etc.....What about our morals?...….the op is just trying to discuss what is happening in the society that we all refuse to talk about......and we are all entitled to our own opinions....
And you are in a country with more than 170million people


Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:24am On Nov 22, 2019
anslem04:




That humans can lie is not an assumption, neither does it mean we are pathetic ... its just d truth synonymous to a fact. if virginity is by oral test infact my grandma is a virgin.
your broda could be sayin d truth or could also av lied bottomline is believe 100% was yu confirmed or verified ursef. every nigerian dad by mouth av best results, i was d best in my class bullshit buh they hide there result inside vault with padlocks, fingerprint, dna resistance & eye scan. be rational in reasoning, any human can lie.


Why are you trying so hard to force your opinion on the fact that he may or may not lie? Whoever said humans don't lie? The fact that humans lie doesn't mean they can't say the truth, I made a previous comment using my bro as a clear instance, so why are you trying to make me doubt that? My bro didn't lie to me means HE DID NOT LIE TO ME, QED.

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Re: Dark Truth About Couples Above 30's Getting Married. by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:27am On Nov 22, 2019
Firstorderwizard:


Seriously I pity that dude. The wife caged her with p**sy. When a hoe meets a virgin, sense flies out of the window.


Exactly, when a hoe e.g men hoe - meets a virgin, sense flies out the window.

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