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lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

men follow what women fancy, or what majority of women fancy.



My sister be honest to yourself, how many Nigerian lady will prefer to stay at home with her boyfriend playing computer game, solving assignments, watching CNN, BBC, etc without showing her man clearly that she is bored


How many Nigerian ladies would agree to have a date at a garden where she won't order drinks, fried rice, shawarma, goat head, pizza, cold stone, etc


How many Nigerian ladies are interested in extracting the wisdom God gave them


They are more interested on how to dress or walk or talk or move to get a rich guy that will be squandering money on them; me I love it oh, in fact, I am a fan of it but let's be honest, Nigerian ladies are interested in men for the below reasons:

1.) Money
2.) Gifts(phones, laptops, cars, houses, etc)
3.) House rent
4.) School fees
5.) Upkeep money
6.) Free vacation



Remove the above things, 99.99% of Nigerian ladies will never date or marry any man, they are ready to die single and be using candle, cucumber, finger, Biro, carrot, broom, etc to be dicking themselves whenever they are Hot


How many Nigerian ladies can swear that they have given their boyfriend a huge sum of money that changed his life, like money he used to buy a car, rent a house, travel abroad, start or expand his business, pay his school fees


How many Nigerian ladies can swear they have helped their boyfriend secure visa to travel abroad or helped their boyfriend get citizenship of a western nation


But there are millions of Nigerian guys doing these things and many more everyday even as we speak!!!


Dear Nigerian ladies please change oh, make una change for good, the world is changing, internet is making guys wiser and opening their eyes to their previous mistakes, their mumu don de do oh

Many don't even have any thing intellectual to offer apart from weavon, relationship and telemundo talk... You can't have a decent convo with many

Try to have a good and productive discussion that doesn't required u giving her money that moment, they will be like this guy is just so annoying, too serious and is killing the vibes in this relationship.hahahahahaha

ursullalinda:
Wonder what I'm doing in this good for nothing thread....Op if your mum, sisters, wife and daughters have nothing to offer......Pls treat is a family issue.....don't disgrace yourself in a public forum

Madam you didn't read the post, you just jumped into conclusion. That's one problem with you Nigerian girls.

Some of us have sense but guys won't see that, I want to be my bf's peace, help him in whatever way he so desires. I have tried talking to him about side hustles such as business (trust me when I say I have business ideas), I help him look for other things that can fetch him money, one time like that I even dedicated a whole day to help him look for sites he could write for and earn extra cash, I told him about it, asked him to find out about them but he never got back to me. I'll want to tell him things he can do but he's always busy. Goes to work early and comes back late, barely even chats with me. Anyways she God will help us. Hope the sensible ones like us never get taken for granted.

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

You think if you had met a Nigerian miner who's well financially, she wouldn't b a backbone financially and morally?

It’s better in preaching.

70% of Lagos girls prefer you give them money and get a doggy than that your discussion for potential!

I am a living witness!

Infact more than 4 I met have told me explicitly to keep my career and life advice, just bleep them and give them money!

So sorry, una don cast!!

Fountainofyouth:



You will burn in Hades for mentioning Southy here, "she's your backbone financially" bla bla bla, you lazy ass nuisance, pretty sure your sisters and female cousins are Nigerians, rubbish.

Behave mature cant u pass ur point without insulting sth. BE absolutely guided

anslem04:




Need i remind you of a saying which as becum an actual fact; " you can't give what you don't av''.
In r/ships, is not until you start giving her aptitude test b4 yu knw she is intelligent/smart or industrious ... from mere gist you can detect if she is intelligent. another fact about intellect beings is dey can't resist sharing n learning , so even if d guy refuse to bring up topic that as do with his dreams & aspiration d babe will ask
most naija babe have nothing upstair aside been materialistic, its so easy to knw dem, cos they will never ask d guy abt is dreams & goal ,all they knw hw 2 ask is, hello av u sent it !
Bottomline an intellectual babe won't even wait 4 her man to run an aptitude test on her b4 she start showcasin her potentials

That's true. It's also the men's fault for encouraging these girls to be mediocre, because too many men are also mediocre.

I find too many men not able to hold intellectual conversations as well, very few. Na wetin you chop, what are you doing, what's fun to you them go dey ask. Eeesssh! As not as I'm not a teenager, basic conversations piss me off.

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

Nice one

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

Hehe women have no interest in inteligent conversation. Thy r like give me, give me.me, me, me, me. (Selfish)
Well I will agree that gf and mostly the devil-Diabolo(feminist) are useless. But a pregnant woman is at her most vulnerable point so need all the support she can get and I mean ALL. Since she can't do most of things she want at ease anymore. She is basically sick and will get to push all whole human being out of her. I say way power to the woman on this one. That is such service to humanity.
When a woman gives birth, she nature the child and watch over that child so that harm won't come to him or her, raising a child is no child's play. Try waking up every night at 2am to a cry of a baby and leaving ur sleep. At this point the woman needs a provider for her and the offspring, the best care and attention, not to mention help. This task is not easy. Not to mention some modern women do have a job and support the family and advise the husband on the best descion of investment. Its like having your own private Lawyar.
So a woman dose brings quiet alot to table. I will still advice people thou, stay away from the devil

xty50:
If women are so useless like this in your lives (for the ines that think we are of no use except for sex) then don't date nor marry. people that think like this i just pity the woman they would eventually end up with.

on a normal level

we are not saying all women but most women in Nigeria

Well you are speaking for your self.

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feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

Guy U Sabi Nigeria women die
I swear
Sometimes I just feel like contracting Baby Mama to have kids for me and let me just be myself and enjoy my life in peace.

Most Nigerian girls see guys as ATM.......Always Transfer Money....not Automated Teller Machine.

As long as your money is greasing their palms, you are their lover..Yeye

officialJP:
i agree with you but i believe other countries girls are better, that's while I've decided to marry from foreign land

byes that's why I specifically mentioned "naija girls"
I've had so many benefits gained from dating Caucasian, Americans etc.

UndauntedYOCA:
Some of us have sense but guys won't see that, I want to be my bf's peace, help him in whatever way he so desires. I have tried talking to him about side hustles such as business (trust me when I say I have business ideas), I help him look for other things that can fetch him money, one time like that I even dedicated a whole day to help him look for sites he could write for and earn extra cash, I told him about it, asked him to find out about them but he never got back to me. I'll want to tell him things he can do but he's always busy. Goes to work early and comes back late, barely even chats with me. Anyways she God will help us. Hope the sensible ones like us never get taken for granted.

why don't you implement those your business ideas? Does it have to be the guy who goes early to work and returns late?

makeherscream:
on a normal level

we are not saying all women but most women in Nigeria

you've gone round those women? Do these women sleep with themselves?

Generallll:
You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them all.

Oga, not all Nigerian ladies are guilty of this.
You can only attract your kind of person. You can go about having random sex and expect an intelligent woman. Stop drilling holes and be focused and watch the kind of woman you will attract.

Una still dey discuss dis topik

U just registered an account today just to talk trash.

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

says a male gold digger,which format you use for her?lol

officialJP:
i agree with you but i believe other countries girls are better, that's while I've decided to marry from foreign land

They re the best

Speak for yourself

Who ever that raise this stupid question should go back to his mother. ..her importance in his life especially when he was a baby to toddler.. before he knows right from left.. Stupidity!!!

The thing is you will barely meet a lady smart enough to fully intellectually stimulate you.

The highest you can get is to meet the one that write K a lot during chats, loves pizza, sharwarma and cold stone ice creams, and gives average sex and manage her like that.

Anything above this, and you need to set aptitude test for your potential girlfriends or go deep into upper echelons of the MNCs to scout for a girlfriend.

We have more pressing matters than this over flogged topic.

You can't get a cat and expect it to bark

What categories of our girls are we discussing about? Is it the runs girls that knows how to f*ck, collect money and look expensive, or the wives who work their a*ses out to make things better or the girls full of ambitions that are smart workers here and there, those ones that have been trending on Nairaland over the week for bagging 1st class....?? What category are we discussing? These people saying Naija girls are zombies, I want to ask you a question that requires a sincere answer, all the women in your life, both mum, aunties, sisters, girlfriends and wives, are they what you described here-- zombies?

Well
Intellectual discussion with some guys is a fruitless course most especially if the guy in question sees u as a sex object to satisfy his 40 secs yearning for sexual pleasure. And whereas in most cases girls who involve intellectual discussion with guys if u look well actually has something for the guy.They seem happy to discuss their interests with their partner even if the other may not be knowledgeable to it.