ikevictor:
It’s better in preaching.

70% of Lagos girls prefer you give them money and get a doggy than that your discussion for potential!

I am a living witness!

Infact more than 4 I met have told me explicitly to keep my career and life advice, just bleep them and give them money!

So sorry, una don cast!!

That's the kinds you go for, or maybe you attract them

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

Speaking from experience i guess. you need to examine yourself for going after ladies that have nothing to offer, because there are plenty men that are proud of their ladies because they have a lot to offer. So the problem is you. Stop following empty skull slay girls

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

In as much as there's point here, we can't deny most guys don't engage ladies with intellectual discussion, even if a lady brings up a reasonable discussion, most guys will sexualize it, turn the discussion into sex talk or start thinking how to get to her pants. This is what you will find in most guys head.

Infact most guys are threatened when a lady has good intellect.

Don't blame the ladies, also blame yourselves, blame the society too.

pocohantas:
This thread is an example of one of the things wrong with U33 , majority of them.

Always whining about women. Anywhere you touch them, na woman and toto matter full am.

Same old story.....Nairaland has become home to women bashers

Ladycewhy:
sure pretty, i will be there, take kia, lol

I trust u Cynthiii, see ya, mwaah

Dulcinea:



Pure lies. Mister man, you attract your kind. It seems you're dumb that's why dumb women come your way. 90%? You've date all the girls in naija abi?

Women of potentials are everywhere but your egoistic attitude and view of the womenfolk will push them far from you. Think before you speak.

Feminist sometimes its best to understand that people have opinions, yes most of them are dumb. But you can't keep attacking everything head on with emotions all over the place. You can actually respond with love and show us how that is just rediculous and not true. If you are the president, you will lunch an invasion to a whole country if they say something you don't like. I can come here be bitter too, respond to u and call u names and we all end up enemies. Without the problem being solved. How can you show you are better when you sound exacly like that guy you are responding too? Mean this in the best way possible. If you are offended I apologize

tejiri4:


Smartness is not about bagging first class did mark Zuckerberg earn a first class. Funny post

You still didn't answer my question bro, moreover I have other kinds I mentioned above, so deal with those ok. It isn't funny in anyway.

True sex and nagging

ursullalinda:
Wonder what I'm doing in this good for nothing thread....Op if your mum, sisters, wife and daughters have nothing to offer......Pls treat is a family issue.....don't disgrace yourself in a public forum

As in eh, like men are not the new beggers and sex addicts in relationships.

They cheat, they cause you heart ache and still ask for money No wonder the increasing rate of jobless men. They want to take the feminine roles....Goodluck to them.

I support this thread 100%

victorian:
Thank God I'm not in any relationship with any guy from nairaland.

80percent of guys here wailing every second what has women has to offer to a man is just sex!

Really? What do u guys want? A woman to be crediting your account every day.

Awon Ole!
Don't go and hustle work and be a man. Be waiting for woman to come feed u guys. Bloody gold diggers!
Smhhhh!

That's why I love igbo guys, u won't hear an igbo guy spew this rubbish!

They are not waiting for their women to come and credit their accounts.

Awon Ole jati jati! You guys are so shameless! God forbid!

*spits*

read the post again madam. It's actually in support of the women.

ursullalinda:
Sorry OP I didn't bother reading thought is the usual alpha male and their ranting....u don't have to preach to pple on how to handle their spouse ....as u make ur bed ......so u will lie on it......for those quoting me.....calm down life is too short

dnt go defensive.....attack d issue on ground.......

OdefaGirl:



That's the kinds you go for, or maybe you attract them

Nairaland is the home of super Nigerian ladies who offer more than sex, they will make you overnight billionaires, guys una don hear am Oya make una start to shoot shot oh, them value added offers full here

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not re.

Calm down bro, trust me they're not all useless. They're still some nice ones out there. Na them i dey find 4 marriage. I feel ur pains though.

franchasng:
Nairaland is the home of super Nigerian ladies who offer more than sex, they will make you overnight billionaires, guys una don hear am Oya make una start to shoot shot oh, them value added offers full here

Am out of stock babe....

If u say una wan engage ur Nigerian babe in some kinda intellectual discourse,just try it for like 2 or 3times before u know it u guys don breakup,after that u go start to hear, the guy is just too boring rubbish,
Gbam

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

I'm waiting to see how you will advice your daughter when she comes into womanhood....

franchasng:
She will never be, never!!!


I have dated rich working class Nigerian ladies and even ladies from rich family, I can tell you none of them have given me a dime, even when I form broke, shishi they won't. They are stingy and wicked.


I once formed broke to see the reaction of a female friend I once helped, I complained to this lady that I needed cash to clear a car I bought to resell, that I am even planning on borrowing loan, she never said a thing nor helped but if I tell u what I have done for this ingrate you will know that you Nigerian ladies are wicked my sister!!!


You see that Buhari's daughter, trust me, if you go figure out, she haven't given that her husband a dime.


You see that Osinbajo daughter called Kiki, if u go figure out, she haven't helped any of her boyfriends, never!!!

Nigerian women will rather die than help their boyfriends. Their mentality is always that if they help him, he will dump them.

Lol. Cos Nigeria women now knows some formats like IGM.
But this one you are dating a miner, don't tell me you are a gold digger.....

UndauntedYOCA:
Some of us have sense but guys won't see that, I want to be my bf's peace, help him in whatever way he so desires. I have tried talking to him about side hustles such as business (trust me when I say I have business ideas), I help him look for other things that can fetch him money, one time like that I even dedicated a whole day to help him look for sites he could write for and earn extra cash, I told him about it, asked him to find out about them but he never got back to me. I'll want to tell him things he can do but he's always busy. Goes to work early and comes back late, barely even chats with me. Anyways she God will help us. Hope the sensible ones like us never get taken for granted.

Apparently he is either enjoying his job so much that he thinks that you ideas won't bring in as much as his salary is giving him monthly or he's just really really busy.

Very korrect...

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.



In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

(c) Precious Pearls

You wrote well but spoil
You spoiled everything with the bold.
Aside from professional prostitute and friends with benefit with clearly defined roles,
it is almost impossible for a woman to offer only value in a relationship even if she plans to.
Those that believe such have not sat down to think about it.

It is an anti-women propaganda that a lot of women have sadly agreed with.

It’s always when I’m in traffic that these topics trend.

Chai! I for talk my mind full ground.

Kendollar696:



I'm waiting to see how you will advice your daughter when she comes into womanhood....

You dey mind the animal??

miss poster as far as I'm concerned Nigeria ladies don't have anything to offer in a relationship other than sex u can speak for ur self don't speak for others dating a Nigerian ladies is a waste of time and resources

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.



In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

(c) Precious Pearls

You wrote well but spoiled it with the bold. I know you are trying to sound balance but
we live in a perfect world and any sane person would expect some behavioral deviation from
any group you look at.

Aside from professional prostitutes and friends with benefit with clearly defined roles,
it is very difficult for a woman to offer only one value in a relationship even if she plans to.
Those that believe such have not sat down to think about it.

It is anti-women propaganda that a lot of women have sadly agreed with.

anslem04:




Need i remind you of a saying which as becum an actual fact; " you can't give what you don't av''.
In r/ships, is not until you start giving her aptitude test b4 yu knw she is intelligent/smart or industrious ... from mere gist you can detect if she is intelligent. another fact about intellect beings is dey can't resist sharing n learning , so even if d guy refuse to bring up topic that as do with his dreams & aspiration d babe will ask
most naija babe have nothing upstair aside been materialistic, its so easy to knw dem, cos they will never ask d guy abt is dreams & goal ,all they knw hw 2 ask is, hello av u sent it !
Bottomline an intellectual babe won't even wait 4 her man to run an aptitude test on her b4 she start showcasin her potentials

Ha ha ha ha ha

Goalnaldo:
read the post again madam. It's actually in support of the women.

I'm not attacking the Op, the Op said the right thing.

But comments coming up from Some guys here, is so appalling and I wonder why would any right thinking lady wish to even date these kind of guys?

They will suck her dry and empty her bank account all in the name of, what is a woman offering in a relationship. I see these comments every time on nairaland, what's a woman offering and it's becoming annoying.
Some men are no longer men, they are not ready to work. Even when they are working, they want zero responsibilities. All they just want is to keep fucvking different girls, day in, day out. Tasking the girls for food and money.

Haba! What kind of useless life is that?

Anyways such guys know they can't brainwash me with such trash!

Healthy brilliant conversation they can't even hold.

I know how many guys I have blocked cos all they know how to chat bout is how's your night? have u eaten? What did u eat? Oh wow! U are enjoying o! That's untop ordinary rice and chicken o. Then next will be are u at work?
For crying out loud, on Monday afternoon, wherelse do u expect me to be?
At home, sleeping? Jeez! And they call it brilliant conversation Really?

I cut off straight! Mo Raye oshi!

I didn't come to this life to come, slave and feed a full grown man as if he's a baby in diapers. God forbid!

mamatwiny:


Lol. Cos Nigeria women now knows some formats like IGM.
But this one you are dating a miner, don't tell me you are a gold digger.....

Nigerian guys are happy spending, all they need is for Nigerian ladies to appreciate them, and also accept that all they bring to relationship is orifices and sex, and we all will be happy without all these back and forth arguments

Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits*

Hear! Hear!!
What then do you offer, that is bring to the table since she brings all the money

Generallll:
You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them all.

What do you have to offer in a relationship?

Don't tell me money because even some men give money to prostitutes
that they don't care about.

You can't expect more when you give little to nothing.