EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

Same reason why I try to avoid exchanging numbers with female colleagues lol...I no want liabilities biko

Mrshape:

Lol you want to kill you boyfriend?
Someone that goes to work in the money and return late at night and don't have time for him self you are given him more work because you want more money, madam is it bad if you do the writing and he collects the money

Lol, I don't want to kill him na, I am not as good as he is when it comes to writing o . I don't want more money bro, I only want him to progress because these companies will use you till you're useless and I don't want that for him in na.

victorian:







I'm not attacking the Op, the Op said the right thing.

But comments coming up from Some guys here, is so appalling and I wonder why would any right thinking lady wish to even date these kind of guys?

They will suck her dry and empty her bank account all in the name of, what is a woman offering in a relationship. I see these comments every time on nairaland, what's a woman offering and it's becoming annoying.
Some men are no longer men, they are not ready to work. Even when they are working, they want zero responsibilities. All they just want is to keep fucvking different girls, day in, day out. Tasking the girls for food and money.

Haba! What kind of useless life is that?

Anyways such guys know they can't brainwash me with such trash!

Healthy brilliant conversation they can't even hold.

I know how many guys I have blocked cos all they know how to chat bout is how's your night? have u eaten? What did u eat? Oh wow! U are enjoying o! That's untop ordinary rice and chicken o. Then next will be are u at work?
For crying out loud, on Monday afternoon, wherelse do u expect me to be?
At home, sleeping? Jeez! And they call it brilliant conversation Really?

I cut off straight! Mo Raye oshi!

I didn't come to this life to come, slave and feed a full grown man as if he's a baby in diapers. God forbid!

Madam calm down. You obviously met some sweetboys who are interested in your va.j.j not necessarily a relationship. With the general notion(which is not totally correct) that most of you have nothing to offer other than sex.
My ex is a sweet girl always talking about jobs and business opportunities during our NYSC. but after service, the entitlement mentality most you have f'ck all that up.

Sweetcollins:
Just like the guy above rightly said, so many so called slay girls don't even know what is Honda or Toyota , so how can you ask for her help in choice making....sometimes I pity them. They are just there!!
Many I said, NOT ALL I no wan dodge stones

Without checking your phone, do you know what a carabiner is? Can you explain how Twitter algorithm works? Do you know how to plan an exit from your business? I’m waiting for an answer

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

You killed it bro

AstroG:




You where never in stock self

Really..... I don't owe you details of my life, you know that right?

feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.

too much sense d worry u bro..

franchasng:
ladies do it too, has it stopped guys from helping their girlfriends


Let's be honest, majority of Nigerian ladies are selfish, stingy, greedy and covetous in nature, only very insignificant few are exception.


Nigerian women are mostly good to their children and parents; those are the people that enjoy their selfless love and care, but to men, they are brutal and offer nothing aside sex in return for money, favor, job, help, marriage, etc

Hm Okay o, your opinion

golddust6000:
sorry, I have similar situation with my friends and guys on naira land. So I can categorically say most Nigerian girls are not worthy to date.

Don't "categorically" say MOST Nigerian or any country for that matter's girls are not worthy to date.
Are u dating for fun or for a potential partner, take ur time, shine ur eyes, set ur standards, don't settle for less.

Organs:



Most guys that talk like you are actually Broloshos as well. It takes an ashawo broda to recognize an ashawo sister. In conclusion, bros, you, AstroG dey follow only ashawo.

Bros,u no lie,ah dy carry ashawo.
Cus ASHAWO IS BETTER THAN GIRLFRIEND


Ashawo na just see,get paid and comot,but girlfriend,make ah no go dat side

lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls

lavylilly I'm the kind of guy described above but you need to see how uninterested Nigerian ladies can be when it comes to discussing values, potentials, science (i love science too much) and innovative businesses. A number of female friends I've had don't actually like me for this (lol, this is actually the problem they have with me). No matter how hard we find it to admit, it still remains true that Nigeria is a largely vacuous society and the (majority of the) female folks are especially docile and anti-intellectual in a way that has become normal (or even traditional). I still come across a few that are enlightened though but they are really very rare, and I know that my own will come - hence none of these ones that see these traits (above) as my weakness can cause me to deter one bit.

UndauntedYOCA:

He doesn't enjoy his work at all because it's very stressful, he works as a banker and it's not fun, he writes as well but he barely even has time to write but we must never be too busy to progress.

I agree wholeheartedly but what you can do is set a timetable for him for writing or long term goals for him to achieve. He can write like 3 pages a weekend, a few hours of this should do. Before he knows it he has written chapters upon chapters and book will be ready for publishing or sale online.

AstroG:





Classical rubbish

Obviously one of the empty brains. Thanks for identifying yourself .

MJBOLT:

lillyval is back

Cyber bullying agent spotted

Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!

confused female

They also offer pocket wrecking spending! life derailing advice!

victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

Scam alert.
Na them.

That love you have for him die a natural death when all of that stop coming.
Not wishing you and your partner bad tho.

its true. a lady friend of mine whom i invited over to my place, asked me how much will i give her if she visits me? i wanted asking her if she was now a prostitute but i refused so i told her 2500 or 3k, d next thing this bitch would tell me is dat d money is too small dat she needs 5k.

Classyuniquebae:



Obviously one of the empty brains. Thanks for identifying yourself .

Na Dem,classic leeches all over Nigeria seeking for innocent man to devour.




NDI ARA

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

That is a Cristiano style

MJBOLT:

lillyval is back

Noticed it too ,but not when am still on NL. Cus ah still got ah past ordeals

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
Naija girls have proven to be a source of misery to men.
instead of them to help and stick with u they will rather tie u down and heap their burden on your head as they now see relationship as a means of occupation.
these hoes called women have nothing to offer in a man's life.
they cannot even keep up with intellectual discussions, bringing up creative ideas, innovative matters. they only know how to trend nonsense on Twitter Instagram uploading pictures on Facebook.
useless creatures.
I have already given up on them, best thing is to go pay for a service of a lady, engage on a contract with her and after she delivers a child to me I pay her off.
girls are not really worth the headache.
useless liabilities.

stupid broke nonentity like you. Fools attract fools. I hope your mother and sisters are also liability. You feel the little money you have given a lady can make her a liability. I hope you don't ever marry a Nigerian girl because if you do, you will only be chewing your words. Idiot

Ytea:
It's a good topic, but the points are weak. As a sane woman too, I don't think a woman should be propelled or compelled to show what she's made of, even in the coming over to clean and cook, this content and what she has to offer should show.

I think saying a woman can't offer anything apart from sex in a relationship is wrong, but I don't think the man should be the one to kind of force it out or give her opportunities to show it. As a boss chick, any Lady ought to know how to work that out.

Madam, speak for yourself..
Some of you are very good..
Some are complete disaster!!

victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

A minute silence for my Fellow Igbo Guy thats dating this thing

Pinkie2018:
stupid broke nonentity like you. Fools attract fools. I hope your mother and sisters are also liability. You feel the little money you have given a lady can make her a liability. I hope you don't ever marry a Nigerian girl because if you do, you will only be chewing your words. Idiot

I can see say my post don pain u enter bone.
chai.
useless creatures before u money shamed me just get that into your thick skull that I'm a financially settled individual and not a lazy and ugly slowpoke like u looking for a man to heap your burdens on

LUGBE:
If you believe the above that means your mother don't have any other thing to offer

Keep comparing women of last generation and ladies of Social Media ages who get intimidated by others people's achievement online and therefore become excessively greedy!!!

Sparro:

Can you see how you have showcased yourself? Is your stupidity not a foreign bred?

Hmmmm seems it's similar to yours.....remind what the doctor called urs plss

Lol if you know the kind of dumb chats I have to ghost or block because the guy cant even comprehend simple writing or make interesting conversation

Some guys are so stupid and infuriating to talk to, you cant have any meaningful conversation apart from "am eating", "am just closing from d office".

Abeg all of you EmptyCoconutHead s trying to cast women are freakin mad! You are part of the problem!

Incandescent:


Broke ass nigga. Get a job please

his looking for a give that will be helping him financially yet he calls himself a man. Hypocrite

victorian:
Thank God I'm not in any relationship with any guy from nairaland.

80percent of guys here wailing every second what has women has to offer to a man is just sex!

Really? What do u guys want? A woman to be crediting your account every day.

Awon Ole!
Don't go and hustle work and be a man. Be waiting for woman to come feed u guys. Bloody gold diggers!
Smhhhh!

That's why I love igbo guys, u won't hear an igbo guy spew this rubbish!

They are not waiting for their women to come and credit their accounts.

Awon Ole jati jati! You guys are so shameless! God forbid!

*spits*

it's amazing how modern day premarital sex has become as common and socially acceptable as in oyinbo culture.

it's like arguing ,which footballer is better, Messi or Ronaldo?you know the lady isn't into you,yet you want to impress her.in the long run,u have spoilt her with money. so many scenario like this... people done talk much about this matter...