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NeedAdvice00:
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can you ladies advise me too?

I wouldn't have fallen flat for her tactics, she gave me this kind of impression that made her different from any female in the world, that was our first two meetings, including the first time she came to my house. We even held hands while walking on the street. Then, she just changed suddenly. The last time was a big mess. She just came to my house to make me sad.

NeedAdvice00:
1) Yes, I did. She knew how I feel, she just did not care.
2) No, she said she's not ready. I am suspecting she just wanted to use me to heal her break-up wound because she wanted to come to my place yesterday but I said No. And that's because of the heartbreak she costed me the last time.
3) She's not avoiding my house. She has been here twice. She was even the one that said she wanted to come the first time.
4) She broke up over two weeks ago. No, I'm not sure.
5) Like a queen, which I'm really regretting now, after reading the comments here.

Attached chart. Check previous ones in my previous posts.

..pls can u do urself a favour.... Pls leave her
I know it won't be easy ..don't allow emotions deceive u....relship should be a mutual sth.
U r d one forcing urself on her... U will still meet someone Berra...is a matter of tym
Chill, when she comes don't accept her,,d best u can do is to be her friend .....
Don't be afraid of being alone,, I av been there
Time will heal ur wounds
Cheers

Try talking to her about the sudden change of attitude

mascot87:
You better stop disturbing yourself with that girl and focus your energy on something else or you will look back years from now and ask yourself "why am I so dumb"
Let her be

I was so dumb bro. It ended bad

AfroKnight:
Needadvice00 listen to him. No let one babe give you stress.

Wished I had listened

Enwhen:
You have alot of work to do if you truly love her...


Break up , it's a very hard situation to manage, Since she told u she broke up some weeks back , all u have to do is to comfort her with different things and places that will make her not to think it reason her ex, because from what u said , she may still be thinking about the break up and her ex, and since her ex is working hard to get her back , for the fact that u love her , U MUST DO EVERYTHING, POSSIBLE TO MAKE HER FORGET ABOUT HER EX ... Let her have alot of fun , take her to places , don't allow her to be alone most times , because that's what she want , so that she can think about the break up. U were boring to her when she visited that's y she left u like that. Try to Always be with her , to make things easy for her, talk to her , help her with many things she wish to do. Try to know what she like doing give it her ...don't allow a dull moment with her, givegtryher more lives to live, do it for atleast three weeks , even if na jazz the guy use , she will forget about him, then u starts to proove your real love to her ...be fast in doing this , so that she doesn't make up her mind to go back to him or run from u both.

@bolded. The advice ruined me. I was trying that but it backfired.

Phenomenal16:
..pls can u do urself a favour.... Pls leave her
I know it won't be easy ..don't allow emotions deceive u....relship should be a mutual sth.
U r d one forcing urself on her... U will still meet someone Berra...is a matter of tym
Chill, when she comes don't accept her,,d best u can do is to be her friend .....
Don't be afraid of being alone,, I av been there
Time will heal ur wounds
Cheers

I wish I listened

NeedAdvice00:
I wish I listened

..lol
Is well

NeedAdvice00:
@bolded. The advice ruined me. I was trying that but it backfired.

How ?

OP. NeedAdvice00 Was she raised by a single mother? and

How old is she?

Shandelzy:
Try talking to her about the sudden change of attitude

Your comments come only but Once in a year.

NeedAdvice00:
I was so dumb bro. It ended bad

You care to tell the whole story??
And again,, have you moved on by now??

BluntCrazeMan:
You care to tell the whole story??
And again,, have you moved on by now??

Yes, I have moved on. She texted me last month but I didn't respond. We broke up since 2020

TOMSY:
OP. NeedAdvice00 Was she raised by a single mother? and

How old is she?

Yes, she was raised by a single mother. She's 20

Shandelzy:
Try talking to her about the sudden change of attitude

how much exactly?