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I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 5:25pm On May 23
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

Cc
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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by dialajenni(f): 5:26pm On May 23
Just take your Bible or Quran and read...

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by HarunaWest(m): 5:26pm On May 23
Advise her to get married then

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by spinna: 5:30pm On May 23
dm me her number..people are differently wired

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Ipromote: 5:30pm On May 23
Tell her to get married.

I hope she overcome it though. Addictions like these are hard to beat. I feel her. cry

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by SamuelLoch(m): 5:32pm On May 23
If your friend were a guy, u would have said you chop off your thing, but that's not the case.
I think it's all about emotions. If she can learn to do the opposite of what she has discovered to be the reason why she craves to get down, I think she can improve on her self-control.

Maybe she's worried about settling down too...
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by DanseMacabre(m): 5:32pm On May 23
grin

I can help your friend.

I studied delibidinisation at undergraduate level and am currently pursuing my PhD in Dekonjification Approaches.

Gimme her number. undecided

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Allsingles(m): 5:32pm On May 23
She can overcome it if she is determined and that is by avoiding pornographic pictures and websites.

Be committed with God, surrender her life to God and accept that she has sinned against God and willing to come back to him.

Stay away to those guys on speed dial whenever she want sex because those guys too is a problem to her since they can't resist her whenever she ask for sex.

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Speak2klein: 5:33pm On May 23
God's word is a cleanser and transforms you and you simply read and ask the Holy Spirit to teach you. That's all she needs.

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 5:36pm On May 23
spinna:
dm me her number..people are differently wired

What do you want to do with it?
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by lonesome501(m): 5:37pm On May 23
whatz all these rantz all about,,jst seal it up or better still u can stitch it ..female eunuch does'nt need sex
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Norahsthought(f): 5:37pm On May 23
DanseMacabre:
grin

I can help your friend.

I studied delibidinisation at undergraduate level and am currently pursuing my PhD in Dekonjification Approaches.

Gimme her number. undecided


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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by mofeoluwadassah: 5:37pm On May 23
sad
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by illicit(m): 5:39pm On May 23
This is hard.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by DanseMacabre(m): 5:40pm On May 23
Norahsthought:



0906782933. There you go smiley

Where you carry one digit put
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by ABLESOFT2(m): 5:41pm On May 23
All Is Well..Nowadays We Only Here Bout "Sex" Here And There..Just Tell Her To Give Her Full Time To God And I Assure Her Dat All Will Be Okay Soon

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by DanDeeBoss: 5:43pm On May 23
She's addicted.....I doubt it can be stopped unless she's determined and ready to avoid anything sex, which is difficult....

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Abfinest007(m): 5:45pm On May 23
She should get busy all the time, in that case she won't think about sex
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by James4bright(m): 5:47pm On May 23
Tell her to reach out to me. I have something special to tell her.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by johnkey: 5:48pm On May 23
Send me her number I have the real help here
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Oluromantic(m): 5:49pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

I've not been in d situation before but whenever the urge comes, let her blend fresh pepper and pour it with hot oil in her genitals. It will kill the urge like werey
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Mikocake(m): 5:50pm On May 23
Eziokwu

Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by rosy1992(f): 5:50pm On May 23
Tell her to build up her spiritual life. She should not stay alone or do things that would trigger the urge. She should also transfer her energy to things that are productive.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Gaggii: 5:51pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you

If her parents can get the dog that are her placenta....then I will help her
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Victornezzar: 5:52pm On May 23
Another troll

You guys don't know that OP is a boy

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Oluromantic(m): 5:56pm On May 23
Norahsthought:



0906782933. There you go smiley
Ok I have anti-konji juju. I will give her
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by spinna: 5:58pm On May 23
Norahsthought:


What do you want to do with it?

Just to talk..get to know her..some find that trait attractive
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by Sirjendon(m): 6:06pm On May 23
Show me ur friend and I wi tell u who you are..........
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by varnaija(f): 6:09pm On May 23
Norahsthought:
First of all, let me begin by saying this is the story of my friend and not me. I know you people will still jump to conclusions but that's up to you.

So early this week, my female friend came to visit and we had a really serious but somewhat awkward conversation. She simply said to me that she thinks she's addicted to sex and she needed help. Unfortunately, she's not in any serious relationship and she's doing well for herself but she thinks this lack of self-control could destroy her. She said she has tried everything, including trying to stay celibate but it just never worked. She asked as a lady what can she do? Bear in mind that it's much easier for ladies to get sex because, of course guys can barely say no. She has a couple of guys on speed dial.

So advice, please. If you're a lady and you were in a similar situation in the past, what did you do? And yes please reply as anon. Thank you
Why stop when she likes it. Do as much, you only live once. Just practice safe sex.
Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by amrichy: 6:54pm On May 23
To put an end to any addiction (no matter what it is), follow the following steps:
* Make a comprehensive list of all the negative/undesirable/painful impacts your addiction is having on your life (or that it could potentially have on your life sooner or later in the future)
* Juxtapose the momentary pleasure/satisfaction you gain from such addiction with the pain (the list above) that results from it. I hope you'll see clearly now that the gain is certainly not worth the pain
* Make up your mind decisively and with firm determination to put an end to the addiction. Constantly remind yourself from hour to hour of the need to stop the addiction
* Now, don't try to end the addiction abruptly, rather you should progressively reduce the frequency at which you engage in the addictive behaviour. For instance, if you normally drink daily, reduce it to once in 3 days (this is much easier than to stop drinking altogether). When you do this for a while (say about 1month), you will become accustomed to this new frequency of drinking and this implies that your addiction has reduced. Afterwards, you may then further reduce the frequency to around once in 5 days until you again get used to this new frequency. Continue this progressive reduction in the frequency at which you engage in the addiction until you can finally and conveniently withdraw from the addiction altogether
* If you believe in prayer, you can as well strengthen your determination and effort with prayer
This gradual withrawal strategy will work for any kind of addiction: masturbation, alcoholism, eating disorder, addiction to games, addiction to nairaland (and other social media), and other negative deep-rooted habits that you may want to get rid off.
To get rid of a long-established habit or addiction suddenly and once-and-for-all, it's going to take a great deal of determination, will-power and self-discipline. Most people will find this to be extremely difficult!
Use the gradual withrawal strategy and you will see results within a few months

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Re: I Am Addicted To Sex, How Do I Stop? by columbus007(m): 7:34pm On May 23
Op you well so?to-to Dey eat fried rice?if na preeq be d good then so be it what’s your own sad

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