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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:03am On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
I'm serious. He isn't a student but lives in student lodge. He is a bouncer in one hotel according to what I heard
n e wanted to bounce all of u at once cheesy cheesy.hahahahahahhahah
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:08am On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
she knows you might want to sleep with her before she leaves. That I confirmed my earlier statement
oh no pinkie,don't conclude like dat about someone... Not everyone is like dat
Have u seen where a guy will wana sleep with a girl wen d house is filled with visiting relatives?
She saying she wanted to leave immediately, I ask her to stay a while, I brought a chair outside for us to side down
N beside its only #30 tp to her house,d time she came was 7:10pm

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Pinkie2018(f): 10:24am On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
oh no pinkie,don't conclude like dat about someone... Not everyone is like dat
Have u seen where a guy will wana sleep with a girl wen d house is filled with visiting relatives?
She saying she wanted to leave immediately, I ask her to stay a while, I brought a chair outside for us to side down
N beside its only #30 tp to her house,d time she came was 7:10pm
ok but i think if you want to give, give, dont do it with a reason

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Pinkie2018(f): 10:25am On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
n e wanted to bounce all of u at once cheesy cheesy.hahahahahahhahah
lol i guess so
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Nowplay: 10:26am On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
guy u b fowl o.most Nigerian girls is to take dem out for junk foods n barbeque, n cinemas.some wen manage buy smtin for d guy na boxer or polo,y dem even like dat tin sef n dey do it mostly on his bdays

My guy what are you saying,we’re talking about how a foreigner women give u ideas and support....
Your here talking about junk food and polo...hahaha..
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Pinkie2018(f): 10:27am On Nov 24, 2019
[quote author=elonize post=84316579][/quote] like i said not all girls; stop generizing
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:30am On Nov 24, 2019
Leme start with guys first.some guys own is just to change girls up n down in d name of I haven't seen good one,but dey have seen d good one but its now a habit of changing,so they kip changing as to dem its a game.
The other guys will bleep u,n engage u in intelligent discussions to see ur way of thinking, n also check for good character, if she's OK,they take her serious,if not,they won't take her serious
Then we have this useless set of guys,although they not useless sha,cos dem still dey use their prick take dey work cheesy.I call them useless cos they only extort from girls,na girls dey feed dem.
Then leme come to the girls. First category the pepper dem gang.these ones their own NATO dey bleep u n down,ntin dey them head,rather talking of Instagram,zee world n co.u just name dem.these once are pay as u bleep n they even arrange their friend for other guys telling her "this guy dey pay". I have heard a girl say this
The other once is dat dey support financially, but d guy c her as gullible n chop her up.he doesn't appreciate her efforts
Last ones.this sets of girls are supportive financially, n emotionally, but u c dis tin called bad character ,chaii e too dey dem body,in fact their stubborn attitudes go frustrate ur live.
Finally. This word u attract what u r.this statement is not always true. Someone with hot temper fit meet a person dat is calm.
All dose girls wen dey pose yanch for social media.what are they attracting,nobi sex.na dem dey cos am.but not all dat pose yanch,are empty ,some have intellect. But most are empty.
Having sex doesn't mean the girl cannot engage in meaningful talks....its not an excuse
Ladies note only guys dat wish u well will engage u in these kind of talks

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:31am On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
like i said not all girls; stop generizing
did I generalize?.if I did,den its a mistake...I don't generalize,cos everybody's not d same.na mistake

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:34am On Nov 24, 2019
Nowplay:

My guy what are you saying,we’re talking about how a foreigner women give u ideas and support....
Your here talking about junk food and polo...hahaha..
hahahahahahahaha,no foreign women for u dia ,na Nigerian lady u go dey with
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 10:36am On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
ok but i think if you want to give, give, dont do it with a reason
pinkie I go flog ur bum bum with cane o,shu
I gave her d cash,I didn't do it for a reason to lash her.Jesu Ivie o cheesy cheesy

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Pinkie2018(f): 10:38am On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
pinkie I go flog ur bum bum with cane o,shu
I gave her d cash,I didn't do it for a reason to lash her.Jesu Ivie o cheesy cheesy
lol

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Pinkie2018(f): 10:40am On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
did I generalize?.if I did,den its a mistake...I don't generalize,cos everybody's not d same.na mistake
lol its ok.
Most things said here we dont actually mean them. This is social media for petes sake
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by olasunky15(m): 10:55am On Nov 24, 2019
Nigeria girls are not interested in all that bro
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 11:06am On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
lol
lol,did u get my msg?
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Brightgem(f): 11:38am On Nov 24, 2019
smeag0l:
That's cos a lot of these men have tried, in the past, to hold intellectual conversations with nigerian ladies only for these ladies to tell them that they're boring and behave like their dad, pastor or teacher.
lolz! Well, Once it happens. Next them.

What men should know is, once majority of them raise their standards too and they expect and demand better of these women, women will sit up too.
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by olasunky15(m): 11:43am On Nov 24, 2019
RonaldoVido:
Just about 10% of women have the mental abilities to offer emotional support to a man in a relationship. And these women have some manly qualities in them. They are the good home cleaners, good cooks, good gardeners among women.

They are also working class women generally combining homekeeping, and white collar jobs seamlessly. This class of women will push their husbands to success, where ever he comes short.

But 90% of Nigerian women fall on the opposite divide, these ones will drain your strength if you mistakenly enter relationship with them, they lack capacitive reasoning, lack problem solving skills, will ask about everything, or destroy everything on their way from breaking a drinking glass, to throwing a soup pot on the floor, to mishandling things.

Then comes the beggarly behavior, or crying when she is hungry. Recharge card, she begs, make hair, she begs, nagging, she is there. They don't believe they can do anything by themselves, even cleaning the house is a very big problem. These types kill their husbands before their time.
Na dem
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by LaGersona: 12:08pm On Nov 24, 2019
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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by LaGersona: 12:11pm On Nov 24, 2019
elonize:
she no want get sense wink winkhahahahhaha,buy sense for her na.
Some sha,anything educational is not sweet

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It's so annoying. I don advice tire.
This is a Lady I'm planning to spent the rest of my life with.
I noticed I can't fully provide her needs and told her she will manage one of my growing business (importation).
Just send list of items to sell or sell my already available products and take the profit.
Note: all expenses will be provided by me
Na motigbo or okay all these years.
No contribution on how to grow or make impact.
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by LaGersona: 12:19pm On Nov 24, 2019
[quote author=LaGersona post=84319773]

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It's so annoying. I don advice tire.
This is a Lady I'm planning to spent the rest of my life with.
I noticed I can't fully provide her needs and told her she will manage one of my growing business (importation).
Just send list of items to sell or sell my already available products and take the profit.
Note: all expenses will be provided by me
Na motigbo or okay all these years.
No contribution on how to grow or make impact.

I go bring topic on intelligent conversation expecting feedback or even ask her if she get anything to say.
Her response na always "hmm" "okay" "motigbo" "olorun ase"...
Na sex and romance be the only option as no improvement.
Make I dey hustle alone and she dey collect 0.1% benefits (not only monetary) and I get romance as reward.
When she get sense she go improve on herself
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by emmaodet: 2:09pm On Nov 24, 2019
franchasng:
She will never be, never!!!


I have dated rich working class Nigerian ladies and even ladies from rich family, I can tell you none of them have given me a dime, even when I form broke, shishi they won't. They are stingy and wicked.


I once formed broke to see the reaction of a female friend I once helped, I complained to this lady that I needed cash to clear a car I bought to resell, that I am even planning on borrowing loan, she never said a thing nor helped but if I tell u what I have done for this ingrate you will know that you Nigerian ladies are wicked my sister!!!


You see that Buhari's daughter, trust me, if you go figure out, she haven't given that her husband a dime.


You see that Osinbajo daughter called Kiki, if u go figure out, she haven't helped any of her boyfriends, never!!!

Nigerian women will rather die than help their boyfriends. Their mentality is always that if they help him, he will dump them.

Bro all na the same. I dated a custom lady officer for about 4 year and despite giving her gifts, money, cards etc for she and her daughter, she never deem it fit to spend a dime on me despite earning 120k per month.
I kuku ma cut the yeye relationship off, no time for nonsense.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by emmaodet: 2:12pm On Nov 24, 2019
franchasng:
And your boyfriend might be here with anonymous moniker whining and complaining too, it is only a guy's friends that can tell u how the guy feel about u.


Men can be dying and be forming hero in front of their woman, lol cheesy



You think all the guys here are single and stingy, some may have bought cars for their girlfriends and still here whining cheesy

Don't mind her, see how she is even boasting about eating the Guy's money without her contributing.
Very wack mentality.
Whether they like it or not - The Era of men spending alone is Overr........
Men are pushing back now and it will only get louder because the average man on tge street is already Stretched to the Limit

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Laurene: 2:14pm On Nov 24, 2019
Jewessgratitude:

That is for those who give them the sex na.
what do you give then
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Laurene: 2:30pm On Nov 24, 2019
victorian:








Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.
when is he gonna pay your dowry?
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Goalnaldo(m): 4:14pm On Nov 24, 2019
Dizzyrascal:
wow! I don't even know what to say...u seem like a really cool dude....but am a bit lost here can you help me explain what the first rule is all about
No greenlight no approach!!
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 5:05pm On Nov 24, 2019
LaGersona:


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It's so annoying. I don advice tire.
This is a Lady I'm planning to spent the rest of my life with.
I noticed I can't fully provide her needs and told her she will manage one of my growing business (importation).
Just send list of items to sell or sell my already available products and take the profit.
Note: all expenses will be provided by me
Na motigbo or okay all these years.
No contribution on how to grow or make impact.
sometimes it hurts ..mostly if she's d one u r planning to marry....I once told a girl of how my money comes,so she should know how to make demands,for where..e no concern her..na me leave her o,so am not taking her serious again as she has ntin to offer.
My advice guy,leave did girl,she will kill u with thinking cos if una 1buy maggi,na u
Pepper na u,salt self na u...
Leave d girl if u know u don't wanna die bfor ur time
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by LaGersona: 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2019
[quote author=elonize post=84326851]sometimes it hurts ..mostly if she's d one u r planning to marry....I once told a girl of how my money comes,so she should know how to make demands,for where..e no concern her..na me leave her o,so am not taking her serious again as she has ntin to offer.
My advice guy,leave did girl,she will kill u with thinking cos if una 1buy maggi,na u
Pepper na u,salt self na u...
Leave d girl if u know u don't wanna die bfor ur time.

This girl was like a stronghold to me when my situation was completely out of hand.
She supported financially (few times - before I sensed she got tired) when I had no dime and stood by me but during that period, I do advice her of savings and investment but she blew all finances with unnecessary spending and lending.
Even during the period, I propose we end the relationship but she refused and still now. She's precious but has her flaws and vis a vis. She even had to disagree with her mum just to stay with me.
The main issue is lack on communication, sharing of ideas, and improving one another. No advice you would give this girl but still same result.
Imagine she told me she got a job after I told her to start up with my business and get the profit.
After the end of the month, she came to me and told me she was broke.
I asked her what her salary was and she told me 7k.
I was so angry but wetin I go do even after the advice na still the same.
If she had spent that period investing her time in the trade. I'm pretty sure would get at least *4 of the 7k before that peiod.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Dizzyrascal(m): 5:31pm On Nov 24, 2019
Goalnaldo:
No greenlight no approach!!
hahaha...I now understand better. Dats exactly how it should be anyway
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by elonize(m): 7:55pm On Nov 24, 2019
[quote author=LaGersona post=84327508][/quote]mehn this ur woman ehn,na coconut head o,sorry to say did but I only mean dis for her not taking advice,dats all...
She falls into d third category of my post...she supports financially wen u r down but d attitudes is d problem... Well bro I have not found a solution to dis type of problem.
She's a good person in d aspect of supporting,...
But una b lovers now..who 1dey give who advice wen its needed concerning finance cos if d guy don't have d knowledge of dat,d girl shud have d knowledge... Think very well,pray and ask ur pastor concerning dis girl if der is a future between both of u...nogo make mistake,abeg

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by uncjay(m): 10:09pm On Nov 24, 2019
Pinkie2018:
lols it's relationship not class room. Get your perspective right

I guess your perspective is beclouded, to think all we do is get serious all the time. And your mention doesn't relate with the op comment. so what's your point?
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Yellowmoon1400(f): 10:27pm On Nov 24, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
uyai iban abadie?
I'll add u on WhatsApp and we'll talk!
take care
idioke... For wetin??
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 10:31pm On Nov 24, 2019
Yellowmoon1400:
idioke... For wetin??
for chiking na. or abi wetin guy and lady suppose reason for what'sapp chat?
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Yellowmoon1400(f): 10:37pm On Nov 24, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
for chiking na. or abi wetin guy and lady suppose reason for what'sapp chat?
your head is empty na y na only choking you know��

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