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pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Report to the school security immediately! It's obvious ur boyfriend and the rapist were in on it. Act fast before they spread the video to the world.. Next time be conscious and sober when u go to parties

Na wetin make you go do sex tape ? wetin dey worry una sef ? Never videotape or record any kind of intimacy with anyone , even your husband or wife , never !!!

Damn it
It was actually a bet and you fall for it
What you will do now is to pull a threat for breach of privacy and possibly cyber bullying. Don't panic just be bold and act as if the video is already leaked that will give you the boldness to tske the bull by the horn. Once they see your confidence and determination to pursue the case they will shield their sword. Your guy and the guy that slept with you know each other.

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

two wrongs don't make a right. "dreaded cult guy" may fvck you before helping you and maybe just maybe you'll have to keep fvcking him as payment until you graduate.

Drug him sis & handle his phone, ogo ve a fling with an Muslim army guy who will like u enough to teach him d bitter lesson of his life, that's if he will survive it. Use bottom power, u re a woman, use ur Powers.

Message me ,let handle it fast. I will send an email to you now.

Pharaoh4rin:
I don't watch law movie series. I used to be in & out of sh!t so I had to get a personal lawyer but b4 then, a pro bono was at my service.
A pro bono is a legal work done by a reputable law firm without asking for payment. They do that as service to humanity such AIT (advert for sick people), hospital (tuberculosis, HIV). Be confident and go and ask. You'll be surprised

Calm down, you are shouting. I know what pro bono means. You are telling me to be confident and go ask. You seem like a show off. You could have easily dropped the meaning here but Mr Wizdom just couldn’t help the show off.
I learn every second. If I don’t know something I find out, but in this case you were just trying to show off .

By the way, if you have watched suits or read any of John Grisham’s, you would see pro bono a lot.

ShenTeh:
Did Bubu rape you?

Ah, Bros are you not feeling it?

Most of us are bleeding oh...

24kmagic:
Insha Allah, he'll release that video and your story will be all over nairaland, thereby replacing that of the Babcock b!tch.

Thank God you mentioned the name of your sch.


Useless b!tch.

All of Una hoes, one by one your sex tape will be all over the blogosphere.

Stupid, useless, prostitutes.

Useless misogynistic bastard. Your bloody hypocrite and you deserve no sympathy from anybody in this life.
Someone is suffering from emotional blackmail and you are anticipating the untimely release of the nude so that you can self-service off. Idiot

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Pls let us know when season two of this beautiful series will come out

@pamelaayomide

Go and tag segalink on twitter with this story of yours.

Pharaoh4rin:
I don't watch law movie series. I used to be in & out of sh!t so I had to get a personal lawyer but b4 then, a pro bono was at my service.
A pro bono is a legal work done bi y a reputable law firm without asking for payment. They do that as service to humanity such AIT (advert for sick people), hospital (tuberculosis, HIV). Be confident and go and ask. You'll be surprised

Hey I am so sorry. I read your post again and I I realized I misunderstood the last statement. I thought you were telling me to use my brain in a subtle way. I am sorry. I apologize once again.

Quelme:
It was a consensual sex between them but at the end everything went south and here she is with rape nonsense. Nonsense one sided story.... I pity those guys support her rape narrative....

They always shout rape to gather support and pity, don't mind her

All these small girls that want to explore life. Now see yourself... If the guy loves you very much, he will not release it.

And the cult guy might want to have s3x with u as payment. I'll advise you to stay away from them. Go to the school security immediately and tell them your bf connived with someone to rape you and film the act and now trying to blackmail you. You'll be surprised the length this case can go, but one thing is sure - leaking the clip will be the last thing on his mind after the authorities become aware of the case. But I don't completely buy your rape narrative. Where were your friends who you went with to the party when you we're being raped? And since the guy who took you to the party is also d person that raped you(not an unknown person), why aren't you pressing charges against him for rape?

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

Get him arrested unexceptedly. The police will charge him for blackmail and through that we retrieved the video from him. He will only let go if he agrees to sign an undertaken with us.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Aunty next time if you ain't ready for relationship no dey talk yes abeg funaabites are fond of that shit una too loose abeg...shey na ur first time of cheating be that abi na because he get the clips na y u dey concerned �..shift abeg...una type full everywhere....make the guy no post am tho...the only solution is get the video by all means and delete lobatan
And next no date till una ready drop una hoe loose lifestyle abeg na hna dey do una sef...

pamelaayomide:
I don't have the clip,it is with him.

Go to the police and explain everything to them. Let them invite your boyfriend for questioning. He will become scared and won't release the tape anymore. Tell the police the truth.

Kaycee54321:
Will this work for BuBu?

Mah Nigga

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

ur parents sends u to sch, u went ahead having a boyfriend, u even started attending parties, getting drunk, and getting numerous dick, not jus that but got to a point of knowing cult members, sister u deserve it all..carry ur cross, when u got expelled, it will serve as a warning to others

pamelaayomide:
Can you talk to your girlfriend this way.
No one is above mistake, get it.

THERE ARE THREE OPTIONS ON THE TABLE. PLEASE PM ME.

THIS CAN BE DEALT WITH.

OP, MESSAGE ME PRIVATELY. THERE ARE THREE SMART WAYS TO DEAL WITH THIS. PM ME

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

It's only when you People are in trouble that's when you remember the police or some cult members.

pamelaayomide:
I want to say thank you to those good people that DM me via email to help.
I need it and will be willing to give out info on how best to stop this misogynist.
He is involved in this blackmail and now is threatening me.
I thank you guys.

And pls I need love and support not the blame game I am reading here.

And stop calling me a slut,I am not one.
I was raped and been blackmail, this is too much for me pls.
To you guys don't see we ladies as cheap gold diggers.
We are humans too.
Is just that the society see us as sex object which we are not.
I am not a slut nor a drunkard.
Reason with me on my travail and trial

I HOPE YOU HAVE LEARNT YOUR LESSONS. HAVING SAID THAT, I WILL TRY TO HELP YOU OUT OF THIS TRAVAIL. MESSAGE ME PRIVATELY, LET'S START FROM THERE.

I will advice you get a woman right activist involved because it's a case non consensual sex and blackmail. They can offer free legal services

As a member of this forum and a legal practitioner, the writer is free to contact me on 08030985688..T.E omotoso Esq...If the story is genuine, there are ways one could stop him from releasing the clip.Stay blessed.

I finished from the same school years back and a student Union activist. Let's talk. You can reach me on ourcampusinfo@gmail.com

Officialgarri:
I kept checking each page to look for anyone who will make this kind of comment.
You are the only one with sense on this thread asides me

According to the story she said 'it was rape but made it look like it wasn't '.
If she was screaming or struggling we would know it was rape, but she apparently gave her consent
but calls it rape cos the tape is out somewhere


She later then went ahead to state that "she cheated on him" .

If one must lie, you must be ready to lie to the very end

my friend, when a person is inebriated/under the influence/drunk, for the most part, they can't scream or struggle because alcohol renders normal human beings bereft of proper thought process, or use of their limbs. That is why, it is said that a person is UNDER THE INFLUENCE. It is assumed you are not in control and whatever you do, cannot be held against you the same way it would, if you were sober.

The things some of you say on Buhari's internet is a cause for concern. You just come here to parade shocking ignorance with your full chest, these comments are the sorts of things that can render you jobless in certain climes

Anyway, let me assume you made this statement under the incluence

pamelaayomide:
I don't have the clip,it is with him.

Let him leak it....

Shame on him, last last everyone go move on a week at most, I just pray your family won't go overboard

where una dey find these kind boyfriends sef