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Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by paix(m): 10:47am On Nov 29, 2019
SteveOfu:
y?
I don't know how.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lavylilly: 10:52am On Nov 29, 2019
There are lots of negative minded people in this forum especially Romancelander. You don't find a soul mate or go into Marriage with such negativity. There is nothing like a perfect man or woman for marriage. You will get old waiting for that. You pick few important things about a person, then keep working out the rest. Even in marriage, you keep working it out because that's where the main work out is. Keep an open mind people and stop attacking yourselves.

If you are not here to get matched, then just read comments and make a meaningful contribution or just don't make any comment.

Then, girls beware too, I noticed Married men are here too.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kwinesther: 1:57pm On Nov 29, 2019
Most times I only read comments here and and laugh... But I want to share my experience with one I met here months ago. We started chatting on whatsapp for better communication, we were still getting to know each other but I noticed he is so authoritative and controlling, he also has this voice of a tout that is so disturbing...
The first and only video call we had I noticed he's so ugly with a very bad head shape ( not spoiling him, its just the plain truth) which is not too obvious in pictures. I don't spoil or body shame people but this is someone that claims he must marry a beautiful woman with other attributes and a single father for that matter...

So I felt I should know more about him, read his posts and comments here, damn he's so abusive especially to poor people, bitter, curses people alot for no genuine reason and derails ladies (especially single mothers) alot on this forum even till now. I started withdrawing myself from him, he wanted us to meet but gave him an ingenuine excuse and stopped talking to him totally.

I realised most guys that has guts, derails and abuse people (especially women) on this faceless forum are those ones that can't even dare talk to you (its not pride) one on one but claims to be kings and know it all here...too bad.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kwinesther: 1:59pm On Nov 29, 2019
lavylilly:
Very judgmental. Many of them are very bitter and misogynist
True
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by SteveOfu(op): 2:06pm On Nov 29, 2019
k
paix:
I don't know how.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by pocohantas(f): 2:48pm On Nov 29, 2019
Kwinesther:
Most times I only read comments here and and laugh... But I want to share my experience with one I met here months ago. We started chatting on whatsapp for better communication, we were still getting to know each other but I noticed he is so authoritative and controlling, he also has this voice of a tout that is so disturbing...
The first and only video call we had I noticed he's so ugly with a very bad head shape ( not spoiling him, its just the plain truth) which is not too obvious in pictures. I don't spoil or body shame people but this is someone that claims he must marry a beautiful woman with other attributes and a single father for that matter...

So I felt I should know more about him, read his posts and comments here, damn he's so abusive especially to poor people, bitter, curses people alot for no genuine reason and derails ladies (especially single mothers) alot on this forum even till now. I started withdrawing myself from him, he wanted us to meet but gave him an ingenuine excuse and stopped talking to him totally.

I realised most guys that has guts, derails and abuse people (especially women) on this faceless forum are those ones that can't even dare talk to you (its not pride) one on one but claims to be kings and know it all here...too bad.
Hahahahahahahahaha!

That is why he wants fine wife na. To dilute his own gene.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kwinesther: 7:44pm On Nov 29, 2019
pocohantas:
Hahahahahahahahaha!

That is why he wants fine wife na. To dilute his own gene.
Lol, it isn't a bad thing to dilute his gene but to me I think those kind of people should be the most reserved, less abusive and their shakara should be reduced to the barest minimum but no they are just exactly the opposite.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by OLUWABIG(m): 9:59pm On Nov 29, 2019
most nairaland girls are adults
Non is in the pre -Twenties

Anyways I need new friends and you can get me on whatsApp
On
Zero Eight One Three Three Nine Six Four Two Three Four
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 8:12am On Nov 30, 2019
vanida6:
Lolx NL guys no get secret ooh onces den get wat dey want dey will just come here exposed everytin grin

nah my fear be dat
u mean like releasing yur sex tape. grin grin.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
I love my boyfriend so much and am not ready to trade him for anything not even a nairalander
boyfriend? U be mumu. Dat iz y dey will continu fucking u. As girlfriend u be, while dey get a wife. angry angry
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Zeinymira(f): 8:48am On Nov 30, 2019
I have met great men from here. Sensible people sef.
But we didn't date
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 8:58am On Nov 30, 2019
lavylilly:
[s] There are lots of negative minded people in this forum especially Romancelander. You don't find a soul mate or go into Marriage with such negativity. There is nothing like a perfect man or woman for marriage. You will get old waiting for that. You pick few important things about a person, then keep working out the rest. Even in marriage, you keep working it out because that's where the main work out is. Keep an open mind people and stop attacking yourselves.

If you are not here to get matched, then just read comments and make a meaningful contribution or just don't make any comment.

Then, girls beware too, I noticed Married men are here too [/s] .
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by DonroxyII: 9:54am On Nov 30, 2019
vanida6:
Lolx NL guys no get secret ooh onces den get wat dey want dey will just come here exposed everytin grin

nah my fear be dat
Then you should do the needful by exposing everything before he exposed everything !! grin

Nonetheless, You don't jump on a bad train and expect a good ride .... watch who you roll with and don't be scared of things go awry ... Just stand tall , Shake your head and roll ya waist and swerve ... you just drop a scumbag !
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by DonroxyII: 11:33am On Nov 30, 2019
Iretii0511:
Nairaland kind of shield them from the realities of life. Most girls on here only want to meet the financially stable guys (which is in itself relative). Those of us who are on the building phase usually don't cut it for them. I have tried to meet someone from here before but it didn't get past the stage of emails due to that singular reason. I made my choice never to repeat the mistake of trying to meet a Nairalander (lady) after that experience.
Don't use one single experience to generalize... There are alot of beautiful girls here who are not after money and for sure , many of them are actually here looking for real relationships....... while many guys here just want to mark register of Chopping NL Punna !

Nonetheless , There are girls who also want to mark register of chopping NL dcks ...... but on Nairaland, what happens in Greece doesn't stay in Greece and Many Nigerian girls ain't ready for casting !!
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by missimelda01(f): 11:40am On Nov 30, 2019
I've met really amazing guys here.. dated one and I have no regrets.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by OLUWABIG(m): 11:49am On Nov 30, 2019
Kwinesther:
True
Am not am different
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by MissOffpoint(f): 12:12pm On Nov 30, 2019
I guess I am not ready for anything, both online and offline.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lyndaway(f): 12:15pm On Nov 30, 2019
Miniso:
boyfriend? U be mumu. Dat iz y dey will continu fucking u. As girlfriend u be, while dey get a wife. angry angry
Thank you na my cross lemme carry it
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by CsRockefeller(m): 12:34pm On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
Thank you na my cross lemme carry it
smiley
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
Thank you na my cross lemme carry it
U lie, i won't... Becuz i wan 2 marry u!! angry
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lyndaway(f): 1:54pm On Nov 30, 2019
Miniso:
U lie, i won't... Becuz i wan 2 marry u!! angry
leave me alone for my boyfriend please
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kwinesther: 1:54pm On Nov 30, 2019
OLUWABIG:
Am not am different
Cool.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
leave me alone for my boyfriend please
Try me out first. If u won't fall in love angry.. Pm iz a click away.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 30, 2019
lavylilly:
There are lots of negative minded people in this forum especially Romancelander. You don't find a soul mate or go into Marriage with such negativity. There is nothing like a perfect man or woman for marriage. You will get old waiting for that. You pick few important things about a person, then keep working out the rest. Even in marriage, you keep working it out because that's where the main work out is. Keep an open mind people and stop attacking yourselves.

If you are not here to get matched, then just read comments and make a meaningful contribution or just don't make any comment.

Then, girls beware too, I noticed Married men are here too.
nice assets

Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Nov 30, 2019
Kwinesther:
The first and only video call we had I noticed he's so ugly with a very bad head shape ( not spoiling him, its just the plain truth) which is not too obvious in pictures. .
ohh my days grin grin grin grin thanks for making my morning a pleasurable one...hahahahaha

Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2019
SBL28:
I have received mails from a few, added two on whatsapp. For one of them, I actually thought I was adding a girl because his profile said female on NL, I stopped responding after few days though. The other one too was not just 'it' for me.

Word of advice to NL guys that are still abbreviating in 2019, stoooooop. Maybe that is why those girls are not responding. It says a million and one things about you.
There's nothing wrong in abbreviation.. If u can't understand park ur face elsewhere. I do abreviate and i mingle with girls higher than u in everything undecided
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by viceddy95(m): 3:21pm On Nov 30, 2019
[quote author=Zita55 post=84372379][/quote]If I ask for your number now ,to see if things can move to the next level, will you agree,,,,if yes kindly plss give it to me....
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Herdsmen: 3:48pm On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
Thank you na my cross lemme carry it
Love you Mama.. stay focus.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:45pm On Nov 30, 2019
Ariza:
Linus! grin
Ho Ho.... cheesy
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lyndaway(f): 7:33pm On Nov 30, 2019
Miniso:
Try me out first. If u won't fall in love angry.. Pm iz a click away.
don't be to sure about that
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kenttylord(m): 7:47pm On Nov 30, 2019
Who says something is stopping me, the major problem is that na 4ur pocket naira ladies are only interested in and not for ur looks or mouth.

but since you have indirectly express it in one way or the other..

Hope you ain't married cos am still single and searching.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Nov 30, 2019
lyndaway:
don't be to sure about that
lets try. Pm yur whatsapp. As long as yur n lagos. cheesy grin
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