I888:
how does he not know how to handle a problem? See, the OP may have not stated this but I am sure that for him to have reacted this way, he had experienced something similar previously.

I can tell you for a fact that there are some of us who are extremely kind and generous but if a girl abuse whatever privilege we give or take us for granted, I can assure we would not even care if she died.

midnighter:


This has nothing to do with being nice or generous.

If he had confronted her and reported her to their family members in the first place he wouldn't be wasting his time visiting her in hospital.

The woman has been whining him with stupid behaviours since he caught her with that guy and he just allowed her continue until the whole thing ended with him and her father in the police station. Is it not the biggest pile of rubbish you have ever heard of

No serious person behaves like that. He was just being dramatic to entertain himself and you people giving him morale, simple!

midnighter:


This has nothing to do with being nice or generous.

If he had confronted her and reported her to their family members in the first place he wouldn't be wasting his time visiting her in hospital.

The woman has been whining him with stupid behaviours since he caught her with that guy and he just allowed her continue until the whole thing ended with him and her father in the police station. Is it not the biggest pile of rubbish you have ever heard of

How can the stupid girl show up at your sisters house without informing you after clubbing all night with a strange man and you have nothing to say about it

He couldn't even answer the sister who has been buying clothes for her since, as her baby in-law. Very soon he will bring a new girl without even explaining WTF happened to this one. So his sister should keep buying clothes every time you change girls with any explanation right

No serious person behaves like that. He was just being dramatic to entertain himself and you people giving him morale, simple!

rs172:






Kii yourseff

I888:

If you read previous post, the OP hinted that the girl had commented on this thread and I saw her following the thread even after 2 days of making an initial post.

Her words were that the OP didn't do something and that is what resulted to the outcome to which OP stated that the only thing he remembers not doing is not FORKING the bittch

I888:
The issue is the kind of energy you are expending on this issue. Why are you taking it a bit personal? You are not the girl, you are not the guy. Dude has made it clear that is not willing to give any emotional extension to this issue and you do not seem to be happy about because you want him. He has chosen to be cold towards her.

midnighter:


Exactly what I've been trying to tell you people!

The girl said he did something and instead of him to go and find out what it is he's here discussing with hundreds of people who don't even know them!

How can you say you "don't remember" whether you did something or not How can you know if you have offended somebody unless the person tells you?

Of course he would say he doesn't remember, human beings naturally like to paint themselves in a good light and forget their shortcomings.

I888:
He did something? so she can not tell him but expect him to read minds and for same reason chose to go fork another dick.

Clap for yourself.

healthserve:


Very funny thought line.

healthserve:


Very funny thought line.

I888:
He did something? so she can not tell him but expect him to read minds and for same reason chose to go fork another dick.

Clap for yourself.

I888:
she is trying too hard to make the OP feel guilty. The OP kind are rare kind... the cold no nonsense kind of guy. Trust me, the biiitch dey fear the guy right now... as in, she didn't see this coming. na just guilt dey kill her where she dey.

midnighter:


Yes, we know she is a terrible person. That's why he should have gotten it out of her and freed himself instead of all this charade about suicide and hospital.

Tell me, what exactly is he doing in that hospital? With the woman who cheated on him

I888:
They sent for him and that is why he went there. Can't you see that the guy does not even care if she had died?

midnighter:

[s]
It was a rhetorical question. I mean what is the essence of his being there? Why are they all there in the first place?

She wouldn't have tried all that if all if this was out in the open. Because he didn't air the issue on time is why she had the guts to spoil his name everywhere

He would rather act out some Zee World melodrama with poison and police station than get her issue and let her go [/s]

midnighter:

[s]
Yes, we know she is a terrible person. That's why he should have gotten it out of her and freed himself instead of all this charade about suicide and hospital.

Tell me, what exactly is he doing in that hospital? With the woman who cheated on him[/s]

midnighter:

[s]
Excuse me, you quoted me with a challenge to my statement and I countered you. If you didn't want me to tell you what I think then why did you call me?

I'm not expending energy at all, I'm just an expressive writer. Just because I don't agree with you you want to make it personally about me so that I will feel bad about having an opinion.

You can't embarrass me into not saying what I think, OP messed up, kpom kwem! Nobody acts like that, he is not serious![/s]

midnighter:


It was a rhetorical question. I mean what is the essence of his being there? Why are they all there in the first place?

She wouldn't have tried all that if all if this was out in the open. Because he didn't air the issue on time is why she had the guts to spoil his name everywhere

He would rather act out some Zee World melodrama with poison and police station than get her issue and let her go

EmptyCoconutHead:
shut up. you talk too much.

midnighter:

[s]
This has nothing to do with being nice or generous.

If he had confronted her and reported her to their family members in the first place he wouldn't be wasting his time visiting her in hospital.

The woman has been whining him with stupid behaviours since he caught her with that guy and he just allowed her continue until the whole thing ended with him and her father in the police station. Is it not the biggest pile of rubbish you have ever heard of

How can the stupid girl show up at your sisters house without informing you after clubbing all night with a strange man and you have nothing to say about it

He couldn't even answer the sister who has been buying clothes for her since, as her baby in-law. Very soon he will bring a new girl without even explaining WTF happened to this one. So your sister should keep buying clothes every time you change girls without any explanation right

No serious person behaves like that. He was just being dramatic to entertain himself and you people giving him morale, simple! [/s]

EmptyCoconutHead:
shut up. you talk too much.

I888:
she is even more emotional than the guy who should be. Should we conclude she is privy to what happened as in a friend to the girl in question or something?

Her reaction is surprising me to be honest. I am suspecting she is linked one way or the other.

midnighter:

[s]
On the contrary, I cannot and will not ever crush on somebody who does not know how to handle a problem.

Such is too important a quality for my potential spouse to lack. [/s]

midnighter:

[s]
Lol! Shoved our beliefs down his throat like she shoved some noxious substance down her throat and nearly landed him in prison abi

Wtf is wrong with you people! Birds of the same feather that I will be telling somebody I love you John after cheating on the same John with no explanation...rubbish. That's the kind of story they like around here

Advise somebody maturely you people won't...just keep encouraging the wrong thing until he gets himself into more trouble [/s]

midnighter:


This has nothing to do with being nice or generous.

If he had confronted her and reported her to their family members in the first place he wouldn't be wasting his time visiting her in hospital.

The woman has been whining him with stupid behaviours since he caught her with that guy and he just allowed her continue until the whole thing ended with him and her father in the police station. Is it not the biggest pile of rubbish you have ever heard of

How can the stupid girl show up at your sisters house without informing you after clubbing all night with a strange man and you have nothing to say about it

He couldn't even answer the sister who has been buying clothes for her since, as her baby in-law. Very soon he will bring a new girl without even explaining WTF happened to this one. So your sister should keep buying clothes every time you change girls without any explanation right

No serious person behaves like that. He was just being dramatic to entertain himself and you people giving him morale, simple!

pryme:


I get your point of view, but the way try to put your message across needs some refining. You should work on your temperament,

midnighter:


Thank you for your advice, in fact I'm smiling replying these and don't have an issue with my temperament but as you can see, some of the people in this thread are quite irritating to talk to.

Daviddson:
So in all of this, who's really the lady - Dimples303 that I earlier suspected and later recanted or Olanre or Depressed..? And now, Dimples has deactivated unceremoniously. This is like a maze, really. Who's the person among these 3?

Healthserve, Wirinet, Midnighter, does any of you have an idea?

midnighter:


Thank you for your advice, in fact I'm smiling replying these and don't have an issue with my temperament but as you can see, some of the people in this thread are quite irritating to talk to.