@op you are doomed...

You slept with a pregnant woman that the child inside her ain't yours.....



You are doomed

But why do people like taking risks..

Babe that just came to Abuja without u even knowing her past decided to have sex with her without condom. So if she was HIV positive, you would have collected the diseases just like that.. the way we intentionally and foolishly spread diseases without knowing ehn

Na wow oooh!


Woman matter....I'm kinda enjoying the women perspective on this issue very interesting view points.

Greenbullet:
DNA test.

Can a DNA test be taken on a fetus?
If no, the guy has to wait 9 months, that's emotional torture. I feel for him.


How much would such a test cost, cos I heard DNA test on it's own is expensive.


People dey suffer for relationship o, I don't blame guys that prefer olosho las las

thorpido:
Scan results read +2 weeks so it will give you 6 weeks and not the 4 weeks you are calculating.

According to the OP he gave her an after sex tablet which she injested.

Somebody is about to take responsible of a bastard child

Bro don't be foolish. She was pregnant before your first sex with her hence her reaction to the drugs. I would advice you leave her alone if she can't tell you the truth.

Sin is the root of all problems.

I this long mail, you can see lies, corruptly bribing officials, deceit and manipulation.

More than ten percent of children moving around belong to another father apart from the ones they call theirs. It is said to be even more than that.

A man raised up three children to adulthood only to know afterwards that none of them were biologically his.

It is a world of sin and deceit.

The biggest deceit of all is for anyone to think that he does not need salvation.

Romans 6:23 must be embraced by all:

For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Accept Jesus into your life today. Just invite him in by confessing your sins and by inviting Him to come into your heart.

The right thing to do is to do the right thing always.

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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

Pregnancy is usually given as + or - 2 weeks.
Be sure you know what you are dealling with.
Attach the result so we could have a look.

Oga that preg is not yours

donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.

this scenario is the exact reason why many first borns (30% or so) of newly wed couples are fathered by boyfriends/former lovers. Imagine if she did d thing just few days before visiting and he didn't give her any drug for prevention... She gets pregnant and u will be boasting that ur fiancee is pregnant and u want to marry fast. I pity many people who also say their fiancee must get pregnant before they marry.....

You are expecting her to tell you the truths abi

She won't tell you anything

How can she say that you are not the Father of the child when she knows that you are financially able than the dude that impregnated her

I still don't understand why some people still dive in raw with someone that they don't know their health status

A condom could have saved you from this wahala

Skin to skin wahala.

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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

na sex go ruins live of many guys.
1.
dating through USS scan may not be accurate.
2. she has a child with her.
solution-let her deliver the child, go for paternity test and decide after the test

If when you had sex a month ago she conceived, a scan result will read 6 weeks. It is most likely yours big man.

If anyone should take a pregnancy seriously, it is the woman. It is her body and her life, she will suffer for it.

Since she has decided not to take herself serious, tell her not sure if the pregnancy is for you. If she should go ahead to have the child, you will insist on her paternity test.

Let her make her choice.

My brother just tell her you are going for DNA you will see the truth, but let me tell you something, my woman was pregnant of recent and I know when exactly I bleep her but scan show one month ahead so Nigeria ultra scan are dumb of fake result, just take things easy on here

Be Wise bro !
That girl is taking advantage of your softness and calmness. She knows the truth, ask her for Abortion or DNA test, watch her reaction if she says NO. That child is NOT yours bro...

I have been in this situation before!

Jackipapa:
The right thing to do is to do the right thing always.

exactly

Scan results read earlier o, i didn't understand too until i got married. the calculation is different from our normal calender calculation. I'm not saying you're the father but there's a possibility that you are. Kuku do dna to find out and next time use condom on someone who's not your wife!

My guy you're not responsible for the pregnancy, insist on her telling you who is responsible, don't apply any form of force on her....if she refused, try and contact her people and explain all you said plus the hospital reports you have......but if you really love her and you're willing to carry the case go ahead.

Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.

Local man Slump and Collapse Cause local man have seen Enough..while Musa Don Resign Totally from Gatekeeping...Musa Said Gatekeeping is meant for the Blind

emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him?

Oya tell him for us

Pregnancy is calculated from the last day of ovulation. Scan results are usually +/- 2weeks. Use this to do your calculation since you didn't state hey last day of ovulation.

On the other hand what must have made her not to take the drug initially? This puzzle will naturally fuel suspicion that she knew she was already pregnant for someone else but want you to father the child, as you are more capable. There's not much you can do than to wait and do a DNA test when baby is born. Till then you have to take kia of expectant lady. You just have to bear the consequences of your actions for now.

thorpido:
Scan results read +2 weeks so it will give you 6 weeks and not the 4 weeks you are calculating.

I was thinking same but a four weeks pregnancy doesn't appear on scan. Except an IVF pregnancy because the Embryo was fertilized and cultured before implanting.only an IVF pregnancy gives 6 weeks scan result after four weeks of implantation.


Confused

Your first born gonna be bastard..you swallow the shit,you gonna father another man's sperm,you accept the lie you are gonna be a foster father..your woman give no damn about you..is your home ,your life..i am less concerned.Good luck

yettymuse:
With all the contraceptive, bleeding and drama this pregnancy has gone through, a D&C is advisable has that child may be born with a deformity.

Who get the belle no concern me!

That's exactly what is on my mind.

A lot of them are on the prowl now looking for guys like the op. She be...

Bros you have been JARUMAAD... ����

Lightangel65:


I hate when ladies know another lady is ovbiously wrong and still support them. That attitude stinks

my bro, its cos they do it too

why are men of this generation weak and senseless laidis
1) you had raw sex with a girl you just met in August? without haven't fully known her medical and sexual history....e bi like say HIV no dey again o.
2) after the sex, she at first refused using the drugs, den after using it she released blood and your doc friend told you she was preg already. shouldn't that have told you she never wanted to take the drug so she can pin a preg on you?
3) you seem old, but sorry to say you're an old idiot. you had sex with a girl less Dan 4wks and she's preg for 6wks and you're asking what to do?? even if your sperm fertilises her egg same day of sex, she'd be 4wk preg not 6wks.
4) you're an embarrassment to men worldwide, you're dick should be used for money rituals.