₦airaland Forum

HowDareU:
Look at this otuepke Calling me miserable. I guess you are a pained, Husband-seeking-madam still searching. Pride will destroy you soon. Nonsense!

fsgbeats:
Can you buy husband?

DCmonster:
Liar! You can't work these long weekly. it not possible for you to work such hours weekly it's not feasible. Except if you are a medical practitioner. All I see is a lying bitch trying to console herself for the pain of being single at her menopausal age.

whirlwind7:
I was giving up after I read the first few comments...then I saw yours. You have a balanced view of the situation.
To think that the bulk of guys on NL are mostly in their late teens to mid 30s....and they still reason this way!

Crazyblue:
The irony of this comment is on another level.

Asking if a wealthy woman is married ( the only true definition of success for a woman)

Then continue to advertise a service to help spy on MARRIED couples

For the whooping sum of 3k

oh, To hell with the paid advert section that's for broke people.

TonyeBarcanista:
How do Nigerians comprehend?

In life there are different areas humans seek to be fulfilled in order to be really happy.

These are:

Career
Material
Financial
Relationship and Marital - having responsible and loving partner
Having kids - Having well-behaved kids
Etc!

Wheeeew

Crownjew:
Are you married? Just a quick question though

SBL28:
I hope you all know that someone is definitely shining 'miss independent's Congo on the downlow. No be by force to marry, it doesn't mean she's spending her nights alone.

jakandeola:
I think u have a Brian do use it. most of us marry born so when we died our seed remain. wat is money. I got a millions today, it finish tomorrow.if she died d money scata who will remember her.I think is best she try to marry

victorian:
Because u think and feel so?

Mr man, go and seat down.

You think getting married to a Nigerian man is the ultimate in life?

Nigerian men and their families, that will not give the wife breathing space.
The man himself nko? Carrying babes here and there as if he's still single. Infecting with the wife with gonorrhea and stds times without number
Bills he's not even willing to pay, expecting the wife to shoulder most of the family bills.
Go to churches and see how married women full there remain! They out numbers the singles.
And you feel marriage is what 95percent of women want?

Lol.. You make laugh!

Oh jeez!

jaxxy:
Obviously there’s some allusion to the fact.. it also why she’s interested in gal child development.

cao:
And I work in the gaming/tech industry, baby. I know what I'm saying.

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

Mindfulness:
No, there isn't. I have been listening to Oprah for many years now and the only reason she ever mentioned for not having children was her career. She didn't want to juggle both responsibilities as she thought she couldn't do her job in the way she did even though she could easily afford child care. Just take her word, she knows best what her motives were and being the honest person she is, there is no reason not to believe her.

And believe it or not many married women wish they would live her life instead of theirs. Just go to family section and see how happy all married women are.

fabienjoe:
Many on this lane sometimes realise, rather too late that they need a child to call theirs. In most cases, the ship had sailed...they then start trying to get pregnant with other people's eggs as their own eggs are no longer viable...Many women seeking IVF in old age were never infertile, it's just that they left it too late with mindsets like this one..If you see far enough into the future and conclude you'll never need a family or a child, good luck to you..Enjoy your life...

fabienjoe:
Many on this lane sometimes realise, rather too late that they need a child to call theirs. In most cases, the ship had sailed...they then start trying to get pregnant with other people's eggs as their own eggs are no longer viable...Many women seeking IVF in old age were never infertile, it's just that they left it too late with mindsets like this one..If you see far enough into the future and conclude you'll never need a family or a child, good luck to you..Enjoy your life...

Mindfulness:
Yes o
And I envy every woman who is married to a dumbo like you.

Kennedyiheme:
madam oprah is married

pryme:
I thought free advertising was for broke people

HowDareU:
You see, thank God for Nairaland. At least it helps project your insecurities. You Mindfulness is unhappy. Just say it please. Your brain is entangled with so much feminist sh*t. Dirty sh*t sh*t for toilet bitch wey no dey wash hand. You reek of unintelligence!

Mindfulness:
We were talking about having kids but she is not married either. She has been together with her partner since 1986. Not everyone needs marriage and kids. I don't understand why it is so hard for people to understand and accept it.

partnerbizn4:
lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

partnerbizn4:
lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

Mindfulness:
Is it by force to enjoy your happiness quietly? Why does it hurt your feelings?
You are in position to define the main purpose in every woman's life. Who do you think you are?

SBL28:
I hope you all know that someone is definitely shining 'miss independent's Congo on the downlow. No be by force to marry, it doesn't mean she's spending her nights alone.

izzou:
There are millions who got married in their 20s or even 30s without children till date

Should we still say the ship sailed too?

Mindfulness:
Every one is different. Some people prefer egusi, others prefer pepper soup.

Some people like Mercedes, others want Tesla.

Some people like rap, others like gospel music.

Therefore, not everyone finds fulfillment in raising a family.

Many times people find misery there.

Some people love their jobs, other people wish they would never have to work again.

Some people are materialistically oriented, others prefer to do charity work as their life's purpose

so don't think you know what people want and how they feel even if you struggle to comprehend the complexities of life.